i don't really understand but ok

Ok ok hear me out:

Smol Link with his tol boyfriend Sidon


Smol Zelda with her tol girlfriend Urbosa

You know what will never stop confusing me?

There are actually people out there who look at Teen Wolf and think Stiles and Derek don’t like each other at all. Not even that they just don’t ship them, but legitimately think they hate each other and only put up with each other for Scott’s sake.

And just…

…So I mean just… how.

Based on this post by @vikturi-katsforov

Ok now, I’m sorry I swear I didn’t know what was I doing, or maybe yes, just for to do something but study. Aaaaand that post inspired me really hard… lol

anonymous asked:

hi i just had a quick question, whats splitting? ive heard the term many many times but im still kinda confused as to what it means, can you explain? thanks!

Splitting is also referred to as black-and-white thinking and all-or-nothing thinking.

I’m gonna try an example here. Imagine someone close to you. You love them, idealize them, They Haven’t Done Anything Bad In Their Lives. But then they suddenly do something which triggers your splitting, and then they are All Bad and you hate them and you can never forgive them for what they’ve done. And then later, you might split back to idealizing them.

The smallest, “dumbest” things can trigger your splitting, but it can also be caused by bigger, more intense things.



ok but imagine asexual mckirk

bones is biromantic asexual and he married jocelyn because he really did love her but she couldn’t understand that he didn’t want to have sex so they adopted jo to have something in common but they just couldn’t work so he left to go to starfleet

jim’s homoromantic ace and he’s been told he’s broken or that he just hasn’t found the right partner for all of his life, so he sleeps with guys and girls alike to try to fix himself and one night bones gets drunk and tells jim that he got divorced because he’s ace and finally jim understands that he’s not broken, he doesn’t need sex to be happy

asexual mckirk cuddling after away missions and kissing all the time and it makes jim giggle when they kiss a lot so bones kisses him as much as possible and jim starts tickling bones to make him giggle as payback

asexual mckirk being so cute that people can’t even be in the same room as them because they’re so cute

asexual mckirk doing Eskimo kisses to say goodbye on the turbolift

asexual mckirk

anonymous asked:

guuurl you talking about murphy ;)

u know what…ur right i absolutely am lmao like i completely understand why people hate him (raven fans especially) and that he was a total asshole in the first season but the fact that people were celebrating him getting hit when they think octavia hitting bellamy is the worst thing to ever happen on the show is just….really annoying imo

don’t rb but like I really don’t have an opinion abt the butch/femme discourse and who can and can’t use them? on one side I understand lesbians’ need to have lesbian specific terms but on the other I also understand mga wlw wanting to use them wrt their sapphic identity cause while yeah we’re different we also have shared experiences
Honestly I just think nonwomen and het women should stay the fuck away from them

anonymous asked:

OK i'm really, really worried about Michael Sheen's career. He hasn't filmed anything since mid November and he is no longer involved w/ "The Price of Admission" (a pity, it seemed such a good role and a lead). No news on Green River Killer and he has nothing slated for now. Do u think he is not getting any offers or just turning things down bc wants a break? He should hire a new agent IMHO, how someone so talented can't find work? He should do theater then, but he is too lazy for that.

Me: OK but I rlly don’t understand why society shames fanfic writers n ppl in tumblr fandoms into feeling that they can’t show their faces or disclose their real names-


Emma Swan has gone from a lost girl who didn’t think she mattered and didn’t think she ever would, to a woman who defiantly yells “I am not nothing, I was never nothing!” and “that’s not enough for me!”

She was a girl who could only stand by, powerless, as everyone she loved or wanted to love either abandoned her, or was taken away. Then she was a woman who avoided love and other emotional entanglements in order to prevent that from happening, because it was the only way she knew to prevent it from happening.

Now she’s a woman who’s absolutely determined to keep the people she loves, who love her. She knows she is loved. She knows she can love. She knows that she can DO something, she can fight, she has other ways to avoid heartbreak than to wall herself off from any and all attachment. She found and saved Henry, and her parents, and friends, and the man she loves. And that knowledge is so important for her self-worth and confidence and everything. She’s not alone anymore, and she’s not powerless anymore. She knows what she wants and she knows she’s worthy and deserving of it and she’s finally able and willing and ready to fight for it.

She’s come such a long way.


Hello everyone! As you can probably guess from the title of this post I am going on a semi-hiatus. The next two weeks are going to be very busy for me as it is the end of the semester and I have a lot of final papers to write and exams to study for. So I’m taking a little break from the blog. 

I will still continue to post submissions in the queue as I can (it is empty right now, sadly) but I will not be taking any new submissions. I want to keep the ask open so I can continue to answer questions people have or just chat about some of the wonderful HCs, but please don’t submit anything. If I see a lot of people are ignoring that, I will have to close the ask.

Thank you for understanding and I hope everyone has an amazing day.

Originally posted by ifoundasavior

Ok but real talk why did Betty buy that damn black wig for???? Like I thought she was trying to be like (Queen) Polly, but Polly doesn’t look anything like that, like was Betty just cracked when that happen, like why was she being so extra I don’t get it. And plus that wig must have cost a lot, I mean that was a good quality wig, like why waste your money on a wig you never going to use again? Is she going to use it again? Like Betty girl…….

ok i don’t know if i’m the only one who thinks that but when steve kissed sharon there was a huge difference between sam’s and bucky’s face. i mean, sam was really like “yeeeah” but bucky was like “it’s ok steve, i understand” and i’m pretty sure i could see it in his eyes and i think this is beautiful

when I came out as aro/ace to one of my friends she got really upset and wouldn’t talk to me for like two days because she had, and I quote, “wanted to come to my wedding”