i don't know why this makes me so uncomfortable

  • me: incest pairings make me deeply uncomfortable for the obvious reasons and reasons i'd rather not discuss
  • some clown for whatever goddamn reason: well you're wrong, actually, and here is my 50 page report detailing how and why you are wrong, for thinking that and feeling this way, and how you are actually the horrible person here, for saying that. just so you know

anonymous asked:

I have a problem, I have a weird discomfort when I see trans! Headcannons of any character. Like, I'd never force them to change their HCs or anything, and if I don't like smth I'll just keep scrolling, but as a trans guy I just makes me sad and uncomfortable and I'm not sure why? and sometimes I feel like people glorify having dysphoria when it feels like actual hell and idk man I just wanted to know if anyone shared my view

i actually have a friend who feels the same way as u! and im sure there are more ppl who do as well :0 if u want i can tag posts w trans hcs so u can blacklist them

  • Me: The ace discourse is the exact same as the bi discourse just with a different target. The way aspec people are having their identities invalidated and being attacked for being "invaders" or "wanting to be oppressed" or being "basically straight" mirrors my experience during the bi discourse. I know how it feels and I want to make sure aspecs don't feel hurt and unwanted like I used to back when my identity was the popular one to "debate" over. Also pretty much every aphobe I've ever seen has been a biphobe as well, yes even the bi aphobes, so I would be uncomfortable with them on a personal level even if basic human decency didn't make me uncomfortable on behalf of aspecs.
  • Aphobes: ok but you're not ace so why do you even care lmao

anonymous asked:

Okie dokie, so I'm trans too and I'll admit genderbends do make me uncomfortable, I really don't think you did anything wrong. Your posts were easily hidden with blacklisting and a post blocker, so no harm done. I really don't get why that person felt the need to yell at you over an ask :/ The least they could've done was nicely explain the issue and ask without all the caps

I understand that. I suppose that person just didn’t know how to communicate. I seriously meant no harm and had no idea. Sorry If I caused you or anyone discomfort. Believe me. I’m not anything that anon called me. That was crossing the line. I apologized but will never receive one from them. It’s the way of the world. As much as I hats to, I may be moving my art elsewhere. My fan base is here, but I keep running into issues with anonymous people saying hurtful things to me, leaving me with no way to counter the attacks. All I want to do is share my craft with you all. I’m not a malicious person out to hurt people. Coming from someone who as been through her own struggles in life, believe me when I say that I love everyone. I don’t see how anyone can hate anyone or say such ugly things about them. I just hope that anon his happy now and will please leave me be. I hope that they will take down their post that is CLEARLY about me. Calling me a disgusting transphobe. If they truly hate me that much, then they need to just unfollow me and forget I exist. This is bringing me back to my days in high school. That was clearly very immature and uncalled for. I’d like to think we are all adults here and can resolve issues without hurtful name calling or being down right rude. Thank you for writing me. Sorry I ranted… I love you all and thank you for your kind words

anonymous asked:

Calling aces "aceys". I don't know why exactly that makes me feel so uncomfortable, but it just does. It feels like they're treating us like children.

Aphobes always seem to patronize aces for some reason. Maybe cause in their mind asexual = doesn’t like sex and doesn’t like sex = childish

when ann gets her outfit, she immediately tries to cover herself up as much as possible and her voice is like, Really Really distressed?? like, for wearing something that’s supposed to represent her inner self, she’s really uncomfortable and i don’t get why they’d do that??? unless they address it later as a Repressed Desire or some shit  .. anyways it’s been bothering me so i attempted a resdesign or something. idk.

Fans need to realize that artists don't owe them anything. If you feel necessary to go to a band members house and harass them you need to know you're wrong. Brendon should feel safe in his home. Sarah should feel safe in her home. To have people constantly coming to their house eliminates their privacy and can make them beyond uncomfortable. It hurts me that Brendon had to move to get fans to understand boundaries. I don't understand why some fans don't get that famous people need privacy as well. Please respect Brendon, Sarah, their friends and family, and give them some space. I hope this is eye opening to those people who went to his house uninvited. I'm sorry on their behalf Brendon. We all love and respect you so much! Keep on keeping on!

anonymous asked:

Just to add to girls liking young or baby bts. I don't know if this counts but something I absolutely despise is when I see a jungkook smut or fic and it has a picture or gif of underage jungkook. Like he's clearly like 16 and looks like a teenager. It makes me so uncomfortable like that's not what I want to be picturing when reading a smut. I want grown jungkook wtf

HE WAS SUCH A FETUS WHEN THEY FIRST STARTED! It’s shocking to see how much he has matured in just a few years.

Baby Fetus Child Person Jungkook:

Originally posted by kths

Grown Ass Man Jungkook:

Originally posted by jeonify

anonymous asked:

Hey i saw you ship l@ncelot? it makes me super uncomf so i was gonna unfollow but i really like your blog and you're really nice and seem cool so i don't wanna do that. would it be too much to ask for you to tag it if/when you post it? so i can blacklist?

djjdksksk yeah. i’m not gonna deny it, everyone’s shitting and hating on me already, so i mean! hashtag yolo amirite lads! antis hate me already anyway

of course i’ll tag it bc i absolutely understand why it makes some ppl uncomfortable!!!! trust me, a lot of….. stuff i see for it makes me uncomfortable, too. miss me w that noncon shit kdkdkdkddk. i probably won’t post much of it anyway because i know how anxious it makes some people !!

i’m pretty strict about tagging ships bc i know not everyone likes the same stuff and i want ppl to be able to avoid what they don’t wanna see!! it’s no trouble at all thank u so much for being understanding and it means a lot that you like my blog!! 💖

  • me: i'm 19 and i can confirm that people my age view 15/16 year olds as children. there is no reason a decent person my age would be with someone that young romantically.
  • ot*yuri shippers: um?? but its only a 3 year age gap?? which is perfectly healthy?? gosh stop hating omg you don't know what you're talking about

‘No one will ever replace what the Dark One took from me.’

- Hook 6x06

The thing is, he’s right. I understand why people are spreading around this quote alongside Hook’s cave confession and other moments that exemplify the finding of new love, but I don’t like framing Emma as a replacement for Milah.

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Invisible Disabilities
  • "Can you not talk so loud?"
  • "I'm sorry, I don't know what to do in this situation."
  • "No, I can't do that. I have to be somewhere else at that time and on that day."
  • "Why aren't you looking up?"
  • "I scratched myself."
  • "Sorry, I just really, really like ________ ."
  • "You have to turn off the lights when you leave the room."
  • "I couldn't sleep."
  • "I need to stay away from caffeine but thanks."
  • "Bedrooms are for sleeping."
  • "Are you okay?"
  • "I can do it! I can do it."
  • "Violins are annoying to me."
  • "Please calm down."
  • "Please don't hug me. It makes me uncomfortable."
  • "Was that suppose to be funny?"
  • "You should try a blanket fort. It's really quite soothing."
  • "Did you move my furniture?"
  • "No that's not how that's done. Let me show you."
  • "Do you do this every day?"
  • "I'm not sure what you mean."
  • "I have no interest in that."
  • "You're wearing a pattern in the carpet."
  • "I just see things differently."
  • "I won't eat that and you can't make me."
  • "Have you ever tried talking with them?"
  • "I can't have that. I'm allergic."
  • "Hm? Sorry. What?"
  • "Take it slowly."
  • "It's going to be okay."
  • "It is okay to hug you?"
  • "Where is it...?"
  • "That was a joke."
  • "Did you hear me?"

Hello! So, whoever sent me this, please let me know which blog! It obviously won’t be posted or anything, I’d just like to see it for myself! I haven’t seen anything like this show up in my feed, so it’s more than likely that I’ve already got that blogger blacklisted. If they’re vagueblogging about me, I’ll be able to tell pretty quick and I promise you, nothing will get back to you or anything! 

I can understand why reading something like that would make you uncomfortable and I’m really sorry you were made to feel that way. Reading that made me uncomfortable, too, you’re not the only one.

EDIT: NEVER MIND I FIGURED IT OUT ON MY OWN!!! 

I thought of what bloggers I knew of and have blacklisted that would say something like that and it took me one try.

To be honest, I don’t care if they’re talking about me or not. That blogger is constantly negative about different things about Gintama and gets vicious and nasty toward people that don’t agree with their opinion. That’s why I stopped reblogging from them and blacklisted them. They always have something negative to say about basically everything and I don’t need that in my life, so I stopped paying any attention to them. I don’t ship Kagura with anyone anyway, so //shrugs// even if that post is specifically about me, I don’t care, because it doesn’t pertain to me and it would just be their assumption. Let them throw their fit or whatever, it’s their blog and I’ve enjoyed Gintama more by having them blacklisted.

Priorities!
  • Junichirou: [looking at his phone] Now that's a silly question.
  • Kunikida: What question?
  • Junichirou: If all of your friends are drowning, who would you save first?
  • Kunikida: I don't think that's silly.
  • Junichirou: Okay. If us, all your coworkers are drowning, who would you save Kunikida-san?
  • Kunikida: I-
  • Dazai: [butts into the convo uninvited] Of course he'd save me!
  • Kunikida: No. I-
  • Edogawa: I'd save myself!
  • Kunikida: Actually I-
  • Junichirou: You got the question wrong, Rampo-san.
  • Edogawa: Then I'd be having ice cream while watching y'all drown.
  • Kunikida: Wai-
  • Dazai: I'd save Atsushi-kun! So he can get me out of painful death situations when no one else will!
  • Atsushi: I don't think that makes me happy at all..
  • Kyouka: Then I'd save Atsushi too. My reasons are different of course.
  • Atsushi:
  • Kunikida: Guys list-
  • Naomi: I'll save my dear brother of course! [gets uncomfortably close to Junichirou]
  • Yosano: I'll save Edogawa. The others know swimming but he is too lazy to swim.
  • Edogawa: Awww.
  • Yosano: That wasn't a compliment.
  • Kunikida: I do-
  • Kenji: I'd save all the food that might be drowning!( ゚▽゚)/
  • Junichirou: [sweatdrops] There's no food. And it's a hypothetical question so no one knows swimming.
  • Yosano: [shrugs] I'd still save him.
  • Kunikida: Why won't anyone lis-
  • Dazai: No one needs to save me! It will be a good opportunity to die!
  • Edogawa: No one will, even if you want them to.
  • Kyouka: I'd save Atsushi.
  • Edogawa: We heard you the first time. And you really don't have to go through the effort.
  • [Everyone too engrossed in the conversation to notice anything else]
  • Atsushi: [notices an awful dark aura coming from a corner]
  • Kunikida: [sulking & murmuring to himself] No one cares about me. No one cares about my opinion. No one cares about me. No one cares abou-
  • Atsushi: ...I think it's too late to realize that, Kunikida-san.

anonymous asked:

i don't understand why people have to reply stuff like "this wasn't gay at all" or "i see you finished having sex" to their tweets. honestly i wanna say "this is why we can't have nice things" or something sarcastic but it's more like, this is why i don't participate in the phandom. things like these (i.e. fetishizing of sg relationships, comments about what is "gay behavior" or w/e) make me so uncomfortable as a closeted person ughhhh. i hope at least dnp aren't bothered by this but ughhhhhhhh.

yo. same. i can’t even believe those are the top replies i actually winced and felt so much secondhand embarrassment. i know that dnp have seen everything and more when it comes to these sort of comments and i fully doubt they’re bothered in any kind of significant way but it’s just … irksome … that dan goes sort of out of his way to write something nice, they’ve both been flouting their normal boundaries and not hiding the fact that dan is with phils family right now,,, and then that’s what they see in return :( lol i guess we just take solace in the fact that there are far far far more numerous messages that are genuinely lovely and not objectifying and invasive like these two, but. i share your discomfort. esp w the added lens/experience of being semi-closeted.

Star Trek: Into Darkness {Sentence Starters}
  • "Do you know what a pain you are? You think the rules don't apply to you."
  • "Is there anything you would not do for your family?"
  • "You don't rob a bank when your getaway car has a flat tire."
  • "You filed a report? Why didn't you tell me?"
  • "You should have let me sleep!"
  • "None of you are safe. Have I got your attention now?"
  • "If we go in there, we'll die! Do you hear me?"
  • "So tell me, why did you allow me to live?"
  • "I have no idea what I'm supposed to do. I only know what I can do."
  • "Did you hear that? I called him 'Perfect-Hair'."
  • "Don't agree with me. It makes me very uncomfortable."
  • "How do you choose not to feel?"
  • "Shall I destroy you? Or will you give me what I want?"
  • "See, I told you it would fit!"
  • "If I get back, we really need to talk about your bedside manner."
  • "Remind me never to piss you off."
  • "No, no, no. Don't drag me into this."
  • "When were you going to tell me that?"
  • "I am expressing multiple attitudes simultaneously. To which are you referring?"
  • "You think your world is safe? It is an illusion."
  • "What will you do when you get them?"
  • "You didn't feel anything. You didn't care."
  • "Look, what the hell are you doing?"
  • "Wait, are you guys... are you guys fighting?"
  • "I'm opening the door. I'm going in."
  • "There's greatness in you, but there's not an ounce of humility."
  • "Are you crazy? Whoever you are."
Professor vs. Student
  • Professor: Please call me Brent
  • Student: *Whispers "Brent" because it's not professor or Dr. Brent.*
  • Professor: e-mail: "txt me a reminder" -Sent from iPhone.
  • Student: e-mail: *Long response about a reminder about why you can't make it, next time you will make it to class, all the proof of reading the material assigned, etc."
  • Professor: *Swears*
  • Student: *Laugh uncomfortably until professor calms down"
  • Professor: I'm always in my office, come see me.
  • Student: *Does not*
  • Professor: Guys, lets not have class today, I don't have a lesson planned and we're on track so let's just not.
  • Student: *Don't know what to do with all this freedom*
  • Professor: This exam is pretty easy, I made sure to try it out myself.
  • Student: *Stresses before, during, and after the exam*
  • Professor: Are you okay?
  • Student: *Can't decide whether it's a trick question or not* YOU CAN'T FOOL ME!!

anonymous asked:

wow...This whole booktuber thing about Shadowhunters is making me very uncomfortable! The show is showing a vulnerable loving Jace trying to save his brother after he escaped his abuser, and booktubers degrading that because he's not sarcastic. Also the Malec story means the world to me, since I'm a gay guy, and I don't see the rush in it? Alec came out, almost like the book, and it was beautiful and I love the slow work towards their date and Alec loving himself. What the hell do they want!?

I know!!! This is exactly why i dont like so many booktubers because they ignore all the good stuff the show is doing and say really hurtful things, like jace is finally being represented as a realistic abuse survivor and also a likeable character who is selfless and vulnerable and emotional but all they care about is the sarcastic toxic apparently funny jace that cc gave them. And the way they complain about the malec storyline is suspicious af… like theyre finally actually included like main characters and not all of the focus is on clace who are currently siblings and those booktubers are suddenly concerned that its rushed?? Clearly theyd rather just not see any of their romance just like in the books smh

Ok but why are Omega-verse fan fiction so rape-ish?? Especially the ones I’ve come across from the Yuri!!! on Ice fandom way too many