i don't know if i ship them romantically but they're still so cute

Anti...
  • THAT person/friend: *walks in* Oh hey, what's up? What're you doing?
  • Me: Uhh, browsing Klance. What does it look like? *thou should leave, peasant.*
  • THAT friend: Oh ew! So you're an anti?!? Freak!
  • Me: *you.. have my attention now...* W-what?!? No! Why would you think I'm an anti??
  • THAT friend: Well everyone knows that the Klance fandom is filled with antis. Klance is overrated anyway. But you wouldn't understand. You're an idiotic anti!!
  • Me: HEY!! Klance may be overrated, but that doesn't stop me from shipping it. I really love this ship, but that doesn't mean I'll attack others for not thinking the same!! Shipping is for fun and it's not supposed to be used as a means of threatening others.
  • THAT friend: But you don't like Sheith!!! You said so yourself!!
  • Me: Actually, I see Keith and Shiro as having a more brotherly relationship. Broganes. Besides, I HAVE in fact liked or reblogged (or both) cute Sheith stuff before.
  • THAT friend: Well, you're TOTALLY against Sh//aladin right? That's anti.
  • Me: Not EVERY relationship is a romantic one. I just see Shiro as more of a father or even idol figure to the paladins. It's still a close bond, but nothing really romantic... To be honest, I personally ship Shiro more with Allura or Matt. Shatt and Shallura are both good for the soul.
  • THAT friend: Kallura though? What do you have against THAT, HUH?
  • Me: I don't really see the chemistry there..? I mean I get that in all versions of Voltron before, Kallura was practically canon, but, in Legendary Defender I don't really see it. As I said, they're more just 'good friends' to me. That doesn't mean I have anything against the ship, it's just that I personally happen to dislike it. That doesn't mean anything though. Those who ship it can continue shipping it no problem! If it makes them happy, why would I want to take that away from them? Who am I to do that?
  • THAT friend: Well of course you're going to hate on any ship with PIDGE in it right? Because that's "pedophilia?"
  • Me: Well, no. Pidge don't need no man, nor woman. I just see her as that type of character. Her love is more of a family love. Close bonds with friends that fit into the 'you're like a brother to me' category. Lauren said herself that all ships are valid. Jut because someone ships someone else with Pidge with someone doesn't mean I'll hate on them for not having the same view point as me.
  • THAT friend: AND HUNK? Is his ass too PURE for your freaky anti shipping?
  • Me: (I'm not an anti shut upppp!!!) Well no, I more ship Hunk with Shay to be honest. I love Hunk, but he's more of a Mom Friend figure to the Voltron paladins and crew. He's sweet but I still see more of a close friendship.
  • THAT friend: Well what about Klance? Couldn't THAT be considered simply a 'close friendship?'
  • Me: Well.. yeah to be honest, it COULD. I found Klance before I found Voltron, so I guess that's just my own stupid bias. But even if I'd watched Voltron first, I would've shipped Klance, I'm sure of that. No matter what anyone says, it IS true that they even each out nicely. Just because someone else doesn't ship it doesn't mean I'll make an attempt to chop their head off, even though Klance is my OTP. If it even becomes canon, that's just an added bonus. The creators ARE leaning in that general direction right now, but heck, that could change, right? It's just my opinion and it's not gonna change, but I'm not going to hurt someone else for dissing it, even though I don't agree.
  • THAT friend: *scoff* Whatever, freak anti.
  • Me: *sigh* Listen, I don't know where you got this anti thing from, but just because some Klance shippers are anti doesn't mean ALL of them are. All ships and fandoms in general have antis, and though none of us like it, it's just a thing we'll have to deal with. All we can do is be nice and try not to bite each others' heads off, but DON'T make the mistake that everyone in a certain category must be this or that. It's not right and you have to accept that. Believe me, if I had ANY control over this discourse, I'd try to do everything in my power to at least make it better. Unfortunately, I'm just one person over the internet, so I can't do much accept sitting back, watching, and putting in my shitty opinion here and there.
  • THAT friend: ... You had to get deep, didn't you?
  • Me: Huehuehue, fuk u 2.
Mikayuu ~~ My feelings

Personally, I always felt that if Kagami canons Mikayuu it will do more good than harm because they’re such a beautiful and romantic ship and IF Kagami destroys it, it will be like destroying more than half his fandoms not to mention his efforts/development into writing Mikayuu up to this stage (and I like to believe that he is better than this) where he won’t destroy such a beautiful story for these two, thus disappointing his fans and I hope he understands this.

Honestly, I can live with Mika and Yuu ending up platonically (implied ending would be better though), but what I am NOT fine with is Kagami queer-baiting them at the end i.e. a forced heteronormative ending, a ending where Kagami just treated Mikayuu nothing but fanservice throughout the whole way, an ending where they will be paired away from each other. If he does that, I seriously will NOT forgive him on my end. I think we also have the right to hate him if he queerbaits Mikayuu because that’s like the final straw… Mikayuu is not a ship to be make fun off or tossed it all away to have it end as queer-bait, queer-baiting shouldn’t even exist, it’s despicable seeing if you don’t have plans to canon *said pairing* then don’t bring our hopes up, it’s awful, and what it will lead to all in the end is disappointment, and fans losing interest in your future works… Mikayuu deserves to be happy, they’ve been through so much and although we live in an unaccepting society, but it’s because we live in an unaccepting society, let them get their happiness in FICTIONAL world at least!

I would be so happy if Kagami have Yuu and Mika cannoned in the manga, where they actually adopt kids in and raise them, where they build their own house and live together (just the two of them) and raise them (like in the PS Vita game). Like if Kagami have the guts to push them further where they confess their love for each other then kudos to him, but if he’s too chicken to push them further (and canon them romantically), then it can just be ambiguous/implied (on their relationship), and I’ll still love them just the same because that’s all I ever ask for, i.e. them NOT being paired away from each other!

And imagine that at the end of all the war, the Shinoa squad all have their own lives, but they’ll still live within driving distance where they will sometimes all gather together at Yuu’s & Mika’s house and have bbq or something, where the adopted kids is running around playing etc. It’ll be like one BIG happy family, this way, Mika and Yuu still get their ‘implied/happy’ ending where they’re still together without being queer-baited. And Shinoa will probably be her usual teasing queen and tease Yuu about raising those kids or something (that’ll be cute). Honestly Kagami, there is a lot of ways you can end this where we (at least I) will accept you as a genuine author. All that I am asking for is DON’T destroy Mikayuu, have this pairing remain strong/true to the end. If you give me anything more than this (positively), then I’ll be grateful, if not, then I can live with that kind of ending, because THAT’S ALL I EVER ASKED FOR IS YOU NOT QUEER-BAIT MIKAYUU *for all said reasons*.

P.S. I’ll probably going to stay away from the Mikayuu tag for a while since I always felt uncomfortable reading about ‘queer-baiting’, which urge me to do up this post on my end… To this day, I don’t exactly know what queer-coding really is, but from what I’ve read it’s probably better than queer-baiting… eitherway, if anyone actually think queer-baiting is acceptable then I beg you to just sit back and think about what you just thought because queer-baiting should really be banned. It’s awful no matter if you ship Mikayuu or not. But that’s all I have to say.

Lastly, I just want to shout-out that, if Ons turns out to be queerbaiting, I’ll still love Mikayuu but I will NEVER ever read Kagami’s work ever again! <- I seriously hope that he knows what he’s doing and won’t disappoint in the end...

Supernatural writers denying Destiel
  • Writers: *writes incredibly hot Angel into the script, Dean Winchester is obviously in awe* Eh, we'll probably keep him on for a few episodes
  • Writers: *makes Castiel question his loyalty to heaven and his brothers/sisters because of Dean's influence* maybe we'll keep him on longer...but of course having nothing to do with romantic relations to Dean
  • Writers: *Constantly showing Destiel insinuated scenes over the fourth and fifth season* time for the sixth season, first we'll give Dean a strong heterosexual relationship then have Cas break all of Dean's trust later on
  • Writers: *after all of the leviathan troubles leading to Dean and Cas getting trapped in purgatory* let's make Dean risk everything to search for Cas in purgatory, using terms such as 'I need you' and 'I prayed to you every night' to get him to come home with him, but no homo though
  • Writers: *has Cas put under mind control where only Dean's pleas can break through it, while equally showing how much Cas and Dean love each other throughout the season* hmm, certainly we have to have Dean deny everything to Sam to make him retain his obvious heterosexual vibe. It wasn't like he practically told Cas he loved him in there or anything
  • Writers: *throughout season nine gives a lot more Destiel scenes including the fan fiction time gap, Cas giving up his army for one man, metatron confirming he did everything for Dean and only Dean, Dean regretting having kicked Cas out of the bunker* wow the homo vibe it getting heavy, better go ahead and include Cas having sex with some random woman, better yet let's do the same with Dean so we can show that their love is only platonic
  • Writers: *makes Cas and Sam go through so much trouble to help cure Demon!Dean then remove the mark of Cain, showing Cas' obvious loyalty to Dean, not to mention love* why does everyone ship Destiel? We can't have this, better make Dean beat the crap outta Cas
  • Writers: *shows Dean's obvious regret in having hurt Cas, not to mention Cas refusing to fight back when Dean attacked him* why are they still shipping it? I thought we made it clear enough nothing's going on between them
  • Writers: *shows multiple Destiel scenes at the beginning of season eleven. Dean cradling Cas' face, dean's concern for Cas' healing from the spell, Dean wrapping Cas up in a blanket, cute DeanCas phone convos* maybe we should make Dean and Cas get in a fight then continue to exclude Cas for the next few episodes including the mid season finale, in which Dean kisses a woman proclaimed to be the villain and who was merely a child episodes ago not to mention Cas' aunt
  • Shippers: *continue to ship Destiel despite the writer's poor efforts to cover it up*
  • Writers: what is wrong with them? *makes Dean and Cas confess their feelings for each other* you see, they're obviously not in love!
  • Writers: *make Dean and Cas start dating* we discretely said no homo
  • Writers: *make Dean and Cas kiss on screen* how many times do we have to say Destiel isn't a thing?
  • Writers: *writes in or suggests that Dean and Cas did the nasty* NO HOMO! NO HOMO! NO HOMO!
  • Writers: *makes Dean or Cas propose to one or the other* look, Dean is obviously straight, he did this girl way back in the beginning of season ten that he stated meant nothing to him...and Cas is too *frantically flips through old scripts to find something against him*
  • Writers: *in the middle of writing Dean and Cas' wedding* Destiel never was and never will be a thing, just putting that out there. There's no homo in this show
  • Me: *deep sigh, rolls eyes while sobbing grossly at all the destiel love*

anonymous asked:

i like layhan but i can only see them as best friends not sorry!!! they don't look romantic together like hunhan. they don't even interact that much and don't look anywhere as good as hunhan. i'm not being mean, i think layhan are good friends but it makes me feel uncomfortable for anyone to ship them romantically because they're just a brotp. hunhan will always be the better otp, while layhan is just brotp

deary, please, I’ve said this so many times before, but I guess I’m going to have to say it again: no ships are real! Unless it’s stated otherwise by sm or exo themselves. You know what makes me uncomfortable? When people take otps too seriously. You do not know anything about the boys’ private lives. None of us do. Hell, we might think that Luhan is closest to either Sehun, Lay or Xiumin, but he might in fact in be closest to Suho! Sehun is also close to Kai and Tao, is he not? Or so we think. But we actually know nothing about what goes on behind the camera. Some of the members might already be in relationships with girls!
I like layhan, but I definitely know they’re not going to go skipping off into the sunset hand in hand as a married couple. I ship them because I like the type of interactions they have, not how many they have! To me, they look cute side by side, I like the way they look together. And I like having little fantasies about them, as I’m sure many of us with otps like doing. It’s one of those things that makes our days a little bit better. I fully respect you like hunhan, I respect anyone who likes entirely different ships even though, I may not like them as much. It all comes down to taste and opinion. What I do not respect are those who criticize others for seeing things differently and dissing what makes them happy. My lovely, You should be a little more mature about ships and I hope to god you don’t send this type of message to anyone else who has a different ship. Show some respect to others, because there are so many amazing people here that really do not care if you don’t see eye to eye when it comes to ships. And do you know why they don’t? Because they know that despite these differences, we still support exo as a group. That should be reason enough to show some dignity to other fans as well as exo themselves.