i don't know about his feelings right now

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you know, I’m always saying how you shouldn’t move in together too young or too soon, but I actually think that Isak and Even moving in together fits Isak’s narrative quite beautifully? and like, I know i’m trash who could easily come up with at least ten reasons to justify them dropping out of high school to become organic farmers if need be (look at them and tell me their love wouldn’t water the crops), but after the way season 3 ended, this just feels so right? 

who knows if it will feel right tomorrow or next month, but that doesn’t matter because life is now. to me this doesn’t feel rushed, it doesn’t feel like a rash decision. quite the opposite, really. it feels in line with Isak’s realisation of life being now. sure they could wait and see a year or two until they’re older and no longer in the honeymoon phase, but during that time we might all get killed in some cosmic explosion and then the chance to experience how it feels like to wake up next to each other every morning rain or shine will be forever lost.

moving in together with your significant other is a major step. it’s not the same as shared housing. i’ve done both, more than once, and they’re not the same thing. it’s dirty dishes in the sink. it’s compromise. it’s disillusionment. it’s amazing and wonderful and exciting and comfortable, but sometimes it’s also boring and mundane and annoying. and even though it’s not something I would normally recommend a teenager do after just a few months of dating, I’m honestly so happy and so thrilled that Isak made that choice, because to me it’s a sign that his little speech about life being now was not just pretty words. he’s practicing what he preached, and it looks real good on him. he was positively glowing sitting on Even’s lap, so present in the moment, so present with his friends, caressed by the first sunrays of spring about to bloom, and seeing him that way, it just felt so right. life is now. if it feels right, let it.

Can we talk about Dennis in 12x08. When Dee gets out the anthrax and demands a valentine, it’s after a very stressful day, and his new favorite customer just left. Everything is going to hell, Frank, Dee, and Charlie are causing a scene and doing the opposite of what he wants and he’s so calm. He says “I’m so frustrated right now.” Like he’s acknowledging his feelings and anger and is trying to manage it. And not in a calm before the storm way, but he actually handles it really well and I’m so proud of him.

Look at him

anonymous asked:

I wish you would write a fic where: Ransom is a team physician and Holster is a referee. (They first met on the ice during a particularly physical Aces v. Falcs game?)

Prompt Free For All, Accepting until Sept. 1st! This fill brought to you by @omgpieplease‘s amazing Holsom sketchpage and ref!Holster sketches. 

Justin Oluransi, MD, has a complicated relationship with his job. One one level, he loves it. There’s something so pure about the rush of adrenaline when he has to run onto the ice and assess a situation. He loves hockey and he loves helping people, and being the team physician for the Providence Falconers allows him to do both. There’s just one part of his job that he hates: he’s only called in when something terrible happens. Fighting is expected - he’s sewn up more busted lips and tracked down more teeth than he can count - but injuries are always horrible to witness.

As much as Justin loves his job it’s never fun to see a player go down, especially now that he’s gotten to know the Falconers individually. It had been a little easier to watch them go down when he was still terrified to speak to them for fear of embarrassing himself (in his first conversation with Tater all he’d managed to say was hello and goodbye), but now that he counts them as friends instead of colleagues every time he rushes onto the ice there’s a heavy dread sitting in the pit of his stomach.

Justin’s particularly busy whenever the Aces come to town. He’s not sure what it is about the Aces and Falconers, but guys who aren’t at all prone to fighting tend to end up in the worst scrapes of all whenever their paths cross. It’s so bad that he’s kept even closer to the ice than usual, tucked almost on the bench itself instead of back in the halls underneath the stands. It’s only because of this vantage point that he sees him.

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HERE’S WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT JUNHYUNG

- seems chic and cold at first glance but is so far from that irl omg lmao

- witty and open-minded

- on the quieter side but still very well-spoken

- realistic and honest

- very respectful 

- shy af but is also rly sociable ??? (literally friends with/knows everyone)

- gets embarrassed hella easily and starts sweating rEALly quickly HELP HIM LOL

- when you see him fanning himself that’s when you know he’s been pushed past his limits of embarrassment

- IS UNINTENTIONALLY CUTE 25/7

- really awkward around people he’s unfamiliar with

- FRAGILE!! gets hurt easily 

- likes being complimented

- covers his mouth when he laughs and it’s really cute i’m so weak for this

- NOT a sports person and gets tired easily

- sees the good in people and gives genuine compliments

- very down to earth and humble

- a man of few words, but is always sincere

- incredibly hardworking

- cares about and appreciates the members A LOT

- SO NICE SO SOFT HEARTED

- but will also call out shit for good reason when he sees it stay in your lane :)

thighs, thighs and thighs

you thirsty people like these for sum reason. especially you @jinxkook enjoy.


Originally posted by donewithjeon

bless his thighs

it all started with a simple question. 

“y/n. what is your favourite thing about me?” 

 you gave it a few days thought because what didn’t you love about him. but after the first two days you narrowed it down to his physical traits. his arms, veins, abs or thighs. 

his arms were built and you loved how they’d effortlessly lift you up and spin you around. 

 his veins. god, his veins. they made him look like a sex god and it drove you crazy. 

 his abs. you’d be lying if you said you didn’t like running your fingers down the short dips on his stomach. 

 his thighs. they were hard as fuck. and we’re just so muscular you loved thinking about them whenever you could. which was probably once every 15 seconds. 

so after making up your mind up, you walked up to him, put on your flirty smile and leaned into his ear, “your thighs are my favourite thing about you.” 

 in a flash he’d taken a seat on the closer chair and pulled you in between his legs. 

his hands pulled your pyjama shorts down your legs and grabbed your hips to sit you down on his thigh. “ride my thigh baby, i want to see your panties and my sweats to get soaked with your sweet sweet juices.” he encouraged, moving your hips before you took control and began grinding down on his muscular thigh. 

your hands gripped his shoulder in an attempt to balance yourself as you began to grind yourself down on him. your voice produced breathy moans and sweet cries of pleasure that were like music to his ears and you found it hard to concentrate as he whispered dirty words into your ear, which only brought you closer to the edge. 

 “holy fuck, kookie. you have no idea how much i love your thighs.” you moaned, biting down on your lips as you threw your head back when suddenly his thigh clenched beneath you, causing you jerk your hips forwards at the new friction. 

“oh god, please do that aga- oH FUCK.” 

he continued flexing his thigh until eventually it was too much for you to handle and your orgasm washed over you, dripping down from your clit and soaking through your panties and the fabric of his jeans in the process. you came down from your high before resting your head on his shoulder, kissing his material covering his skin lightly before you looked back up at him. 

“so my thighs are your favourite things about me?” 

you nod your head, “yup.” 

“well then i gotta try harder to make this dick your favourite thing.” he says, picking you up and throwing you over his shoulder as he stood up and walked to your bedroom, ready to show you how amazing the jungcock really was.

anonymous asked:

I know it makes sense for narrative reasons for setting up season 3 but I am very sad Marco didn't show any interest in Star after her confession and that he avoided her after song day. I don't like Star hurting so much

I feel your pain. But hey, Star needed basically all of season 2 to properly sort out her feelings, and managed to finally do it in the nick of time, rethinking about his whole relationship with Star isn’t going to be easy for Marco either, even more since right now Jackie is his girlfriend, and we know how focused he gets on the task at hand, from getting a juicepack open to retrieving Star’s dimensional scissors.
Right now I don’t feel like making any prediction about the future of Starco, but…

And something like this is bound to make him think, or at least I hope so!

BTS reaction: Hearing their best friend confess~
  • ~ Kim Seokjin/Jin:
  • You were almost half asleep in the morning when you kept complaining about how you'd never find anyone who liked you or that you were absolute trash.
  • Jin: You are gorgeous what's wrong with you.
  • You: You can find me in a bathroom. Either in the toilet or the trash can.
  • Jin: My god, why do you so firmly believe no one would like you? Ask someone out. You never know.
  • You: Because you're too handsome, sweet, and caring to like anyone like me. I have no chance with you that's why I don't ask.
  • Jin: So.. You like me?
  • You: Oh shit what'd I say?
  • Jin: In short: That you like me.
  • You: Well secrets out, I'm moving to Antarctica.
  • Jin: HoW aM I SuPPoSed To LIKE YOU BACK IF YOU MOVE TO ANTARCTICA?!
  • You: IF YOU LIKED ME YOU'D MAKE IT WORK.
  • Jin: I DO LIKE YOU BUT YOU HAVE NO REASON TO MOVE.
  • You: Why are we arguing? Just give me love already.
  • Jin: -Rolls eyes- That's what I'm trying to do, but you wanted be in Antarctica.
  • Jin: But let's go eat; My cooking so that's it's free.
  • You: I feel special.
  • Jin: You are.
  • ~ Suga/ Min Yoongi:
  • Yoongi had come over to talk about nothing. He just likes your couch to take naps but you always let him since he was your best friend and you- without being weird- liked watching his adorable face go to sleep.
  • You: I really don't know why I even like you.
  • You: But I wish I could cuddle you right now, what is this?
  • Yoongi: You could. You just needa ask.
  • You: Were you awake throughout my short shitty I love you speech??
  • Yoongi: Yeah, I don't actually fall asleep I've heard you a couple times but never wanted to believe it.
  • Yoongi: I guess now I believe it because.. You said it right in front of my face.
  • You: Give me a moment. Go back to sleep you fuckin duck.
  • Yoongi: Wow. K. I see how it is. liking you back has been canceled.
  • You: Wait no, return to the pokeball.
  • Yoongi: Now I'm a Pokemon.
  • You: You're a cute one though.
  • ~ J-Hope/Jung Hoseok:
  • You flat out told him when you had the chance which was during you guys' movie night.
  • You: Hey you.
  • Hobi: Hey you.
  • You: Hey you, I like you.
  • Hobi: I like you too.
  • You: But I mean I like you like go on dates, kiss, and call you da -cough- baby/mine.
  • Hobi:
  • You:
  • Hobi: Were you going to say daddy?
  • You: That's not important. What's important is if you like me back or not.
  • Hobi: Yes I like you back now tell me–
  • You: Gotta blast but hey a date tomorrow, here at my house? Yeah? Cool? Bye now. -Running into the door to your room-
  • You: That never happened.
  • Hobi: -Dying of laughter- AISH YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE LET ME KISS YOUR CHEEKS~!
  • ~ Rap Monster/Kim Namjoon:
  • You were patiently waiting for Blackpinks new music video that was coming out in three hours since you were so concentrated on the time, anything came out of your mouth.
  • Nams: BTS or Blackpink More?
  • You: both.
  • Nams: Who's your bias in BlackPink?
  • You: Lisa
  • Nams: Who is your bias in BTS?
  • You: Rap Monster.
  • Nams: Why?
  • You: Cuz I like him but he don't like me back.
  • Nams: How do you know that?
  • You: We talked about this Taehyung.
  • Nams: Not Taehyung.
  • You: -You turn to look at who you were talking to but then immediately look away with a red face-
  • You: Who's Rap Monster? Never heard of Him.
  • Nams: Ah too bad, he was thinking about asking you but now he's not too sure.
  • You: I know that guy. Tell him I'd say yes.
  • Nams: You're so cute and I don't know what to do about it. Just to take you on a date.
  • ~ Park Jimin/Chimin:
  • Jimin and you were just talking on the couch. Talking about your days, things that happened, told jokes, but you were getting tired. So now you were answering questions half asleep.
  • Jimin: Who do you like at the moment?
  • You: A guy. He's adorable, sweet, handsome and I don't know what do.
  • Jimin: I say confess.
  • You: Maybe I should but he don't like me back.
  • Jimin: What's his name?
  • You: Name starts with a J.
  • Jimin: Jungkook? or Jung Hoseok is what you mean?
  • You: You skipped the guy I like.
  • You: It's Jimin neutron.
  • Jimin: That's not me.
  • You: Yeah it is well the Jimin part is.
  • You: You like me back? Ye or yes?
  • Jimin: Not too many options. I'll pass.
  • You: I see how i-
  • Jimin: I choose both. I like you in every perspective.
  • You: You saved yourself Park Jimin.
  • ~ V/Kim Taehyung:
  • (Just dialogue)
  • You: Taehyung you can't rap.
  • Tae: I can. I know I Can.
  • You: I am the better rapper. Come at me you puppy.
  • Tae: Puppy???
  • You: I can't insult you. You're too cute to be insulted.
  • Tae: INSULT ME.
  • You: NO
  • Tae: JUST DO IT WOMAN.
  • You: I REFUSE TO INSULT YOU. I LIKE YOU, I CAN'T.
  • Tae: You like me?
  • You: Do I? Did I? What'd I say?
  • Tae: That you like me.
  • You: Say it as if you were me.
  • Tae: I refuse to insult you. I LIKE YOU. emphasis on I LIKE YOU-, I can't.
  • Tae: That's what you said.
  • You:
  • Tae:
  • You: Well now you know, so.. Would you like to go on a date with me soon????
  • Tae: Aw so cute so cute. -Squishing your cheeks- of course I'll go on a date with you. I've always wanted to date someone who's an angel.
  • ~ Jeon Jungkook:
  • You were trying to find a way to confess but also embarrass him. So you bought a rose and went to where he was with all the members at the moment.
  • You: Will you, Jeon Jungkook, let me have the honor to date you. -Kneeling-
  • Members: -Snickering-
  • JK: Of all times.. -Nervously laughing and patting your head-
  • JK: Sure but just know I will get you back for this.
  • You: You can try.
  • JK: It's a war.
  • You: Hey. I'm eating you.
  • JK: What??????
  • You: -pulls out the gum called 'Extra'- very minty.
  • JK: Why did I agree to be with you??

anonymous asked:

Hey, Tyrant, I'm so sorry to ask this, considering how much I assume you have in your ask box, but this is something I feel like I really wanted to ask. See, right now, I am probably at my lowest. I've been having these "alarming" thoughts for about a year and lately they've been getting worse. I don't know how this will help me, but do you think you could possibly do an inspirational Papyrus drabble? Not long, but enough to make me, and importantly anyone else feel better, I'd really love that.

Papyrus has been worried about you.

You had slowly been withdrawing from him–not intentionally, but the subtle shift hadn’t gone unnoticed.  The reactions to his antics no longer held the same zeal, and the smiles you shot him didn’t always reach your gaze.  He pretended not to notice, just as he pretended not to notice when the same thing had started happening with Sans, but…

It reached the point when he couldn’t just stand idly by.

“HUMAN!”  His gloved hand clasped your shoulder, and he leaned in, his expression soft despite the boisterous, determined tone to his voice.  “I COULDN’T HELP BUT NOTICE THAT YOU… DON’T SEEM TO BE FEELING OKAY.  AND THAT’S OKAY!  IT’S ALL RIGHT TO NOT ALWAYS FEEL YOUR BEST, BUT… IT’S BEEN GOING ON FOR A WHILE, AND… I DON’T WANT YOU TO TRY TO SHOULDER IT ALONE.  AFTER ALL, JUST LOOK AT MY BICEPS!”

Oh, he’s wearing the MTT-brand basketball biceps.  He flexes them, and the basketballs come dangerously close to popping out of place.  Good thing he’s also using MTT-brand sequin duct tape to secure them.  

“I’VE GOT PLENTY OF STRENGTH TO HELP LIGHTEN YOUR WOES AND CARRY YOUR BURDENS!”  His cheeky smile fades slightly, his expression becoming a bit more serious.  “SO… YOU CAN TALK TO ME.  EVEN IF I DON’T ACTUALLY HAVE AN EAR, I CAN STILL LEND YOU ONE.  WHAT YOU’RE FEELING MATTERS TO ME.  I KNOW YOU’RE STRONG!  YOU MIGHT EVEN BE AS STRONG AS I AM, AND THAT’S SAYING A LOT!   I KNOW YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS– AND I’LL BE BY YOUR SIDE THE ENTIRE TIME!”

He finally plops down on the couch beside you, and places his hand on the side of your head, urging you to lean against him.  You can hear the duct tape shift as your cheek ends up pressed against one of the basketballs.  

“SO DON’T BE AFRAID TO LEAN ON ME, ALL RIGHT?”  

(*Mobile Imagine Masterlist)

Can you guys just imagine Cas getting sick for the first time though? Like he’s weakened and in his human state he manages to catch a cold. He’ll start to get congested and then very seriously ask Dean: “am I dying?” Dean just kind of laughs but then he turns all concerned and herds him into his bedroom and wraps him up in like three quilts. Then he goes to the kitchen and comes back with soup and crackers and Cas will complain about the snot and the sore throat and everything and Dean will just shush him and tell him to get some rest. This goes on for like two weeks since Cas probably has the world’s worst immune system. And Dean will just patiently wait it out with him and bring Cas books and Soup and juice and cough medicine. All the while revelling in the weak “thank you"s Cas will give him. He’ll just smile and tug the comforter up higher, grabbing the empty box of tissues and coming back with a fresh one. One night when Cas has a really bad fever and he’s a little delirious Dean smiles and quietly whispers “I love you, Cas. Feel better soon” in his ear and lightly kisses his forehead despite the germs. He shuts off the light and as soon as he’s about to leave he hears a quiet and congested “I love you too, Dean.” Dean smiles and walks out into the bunker’s hallway without another word. Maybe it was a good thing Cas got sick after all.

klassyfassy  asked:

Don't wait, write a David/Walter fic now! Just a short one? I could really use some light in my life right now... Please!

Hi!

I’m seriously considering writing a David/Walter fic, for they’ve been driving me insane since last Sunday, but I don’t know yet enough Walter to write something without risking to make him appear somewhat out of character…

I’ve been thinking about these two nevertheless, how they would both feel about what’s going on between them, something hot and weird and definitely a bit – no a lot – forceful at first.

I see David, his lips stretched into a mischievous smile, pinning Walter down none too gently, his death grip on Walter’s wrists tightening as he brings his face closer to ask him what he will do now that his precious humans are all dead. I see Walter, assessing the situation with a blank face, taking into account his annulled servitude and the very dominant android who’s crushing him with all his weight, trying to coax a reaction out of him by biting his lips and sucking on them aggressively… and then at some point Walter slowly feels something building inside of him, something he cannot understand logically, and that’s when he starts to squirm under David who laughs, thinking of ways to make Walter scream under him.

Walter might seem kind and innocent, but we all know David is a kinky bastard with a depraved curiosity that knows no bounds… ;)

anonymous asked:

UO: I don't want more music from Louis until he's free. And it hurts to say it, because he's my favorite everything ever, but if he can't be free now, I don't want the bullshit to be connected to his art. I can't believe as a fan I typed that.

I know. It fucking sucks to know that there’s a possibility he’ll get this same shitty promo if he releases something now. It’s really sad that fans have to be feel like this about their fave music 

capricornusgravitas  asked:

What was up with Bum reaching for the door? He wanted Sangwoo to know what was going on? But then he didn't mention it or even mouth that someone was in there when he came out of the stall and saw Sangwoo? I don't know what he was going for :/

I think Bum is just in the habit of doing whatever Sangwoo wants him to do. Even right now, when Bum is not feeling particularly loving toward Sangwoo, he still obeys him.

But he’s also got a lot of reasons to hide what’s going on. Bum still has no idea what kind of thing will make Sangwoo fly off the handle. If he mentions that some guy cornered him and asked about his legs and said he knew Sangwoo killed people, for all Bum knows Sangwoo will blame him for it and nearly kill him again. Even if Sangwoo only knows Bum was locked in a stall with another man, it could make him fly into a jealous rage. He might take it out on Bum. Or he might murder the guy right there in the bathroom. Or follow the guy home and make Bum help kill him. Bum simply has no idea.

Perhaps more importantly, Bum just doesn’t feel loyal toward Sangwoo right now. He’s viscerally repulsed by Sangwoo touching him. He can barely stand to look at Sangwoo or talk to him. He doesn’t feel invested in helping Sangwoo or making Sangwoo proud of him or anything like that. If Seungbae had caught Bum while he was still idealizing Sangwoo, then yes, it’s quite likely he would have called out for help. Part of Bum still considers Sangwoo his savior. Just a few chapters ago he wanted Sangwoo to protect him when they were in the grocery store.

But Seungbae is one lucky motherfucker, and he caught Bum in peak “disloyalty to Sangwoo” mode. Right now he probably thinks Bum is on his side, because he has no understanding of how trauma or abuse or mental illness work. It’ll be interesting to see how that plays out.

One more thing: a lot of people seem to think Sangwoo knew Seungbae was there. I see no reason to believe he did. He MIGHT have, but I don’t think this was clearly signaled to the reader. Sangwoo might never learn Seungbae was in the bathroom.

anonymous asked:

Does it annoy you to see people obsessively shipping Caitriona and Sam? Or constantly suggesting that he's gay and shouldn't have been given the part? Between those and the disturbing sexual remarks, I don't know what went wrong in this fandom. It feels like you can't say anything insightful without getting "Hehehe I always try to look up his kilt ;)))" as a response

Uh Anon, good evening. What a complicated message to receive at this time. It’s 23.50pm here in Italy. Can I be honest? I don’t care anything about what the fandom thinks. I’m not interested in all these ridiculous theories, rumors or speculations. They are just meaningless things that serve to keep busy bored people.

The truth is never complicated, it’s simple. And the most logical solution is always the right one. For more than a year now, there is nothing to speculate on, anything to discuss and nothing to prove. The facts are there, in front of everyone’s eyes . If these people enjoy being masochistic, it’s their business.

The only thing that annoys me is when I read that Sam is a liar. And it makes me smile, because here he is probably one of the few who is still honest.

yellowwallsbluesky  asked:

Hi! I'm a huge fan of your writing, and I wondered if you had any advice about writing in a way that expresses emotion? Something that always takes my breath away in your stories is how real and honest they are. Anyway, thank you for everything you write! You give me a lot of joy

Aww, thank you!

okay partly now I feel awkward because the fact of the matter is I always get terribly confused at people who are like I CRIED WRITING THIS because at the most I just feel the buzz of the words coming right - I might have cried when I killed off Sakel but I don’t remember if I did or not, to be honest. I just remember feeling satisfied at … not his death, but the artistic inevitablity?

So like the short, unsatisfying answer is “well I tell the puppets to dance and they dance”?

The longer, maybe more satisfying answer is that when you’re trying to covey an emotion or a mood, what I tend to focus on when i’m talking about emotions or trying to convey an mood, is the physical details of the scene. You don’t just say “Victor felt very tender toward Yuri. He loved him very much.” or whatever, your’re more successful if you say something like “Victor touched the soft black silk of Yuri’s hair with the tips of his fingers. He wanted Yuri to let him touch the sweet black wings of his eyelashes. He would be as careful as if they really were butterflies, he thought. He settled in to look at Yuri with all of his attention.” 

Or, if someone is anxious or sad, think about the physical sensations of sadness or anxiety. Your heart thumps, your stomach twists up, your focus narrows. “Yuri is so afraid that Victor will refuse him he has to look away. He stares at the pattern of the tatami mats. They’re worn out, and Yuri thinks if only he was a better son - a better skater - they would have enough to replace them.”

I mean partly it’s the old “show not tell” thing but in my experience if you’re super strict about showing not telling you tend to overshoot it? So i tend to talk about the things around it, which i think works better. You don’t often directly think “I love this person” or “I dislike this person” but like the old translating joke, telling someone “the  moon is beautiful tonight” DOES sometimes mean “I love you”.

 Also, word choice, word choice helps a lot if you can (unlike me) avoid using the same word every five seconds. 

eta: it sounds terribly weeaboo but like if you read japanese poetry the entire idea is to express “I saw two ducks and they were together and I’m not together with you” in as little space and as much impact as possible and i really learned a lot of from reading up on it. 

anonymous asked:

hi sinmom! can you help me? i have a crush on a girl in robotics with me, but i've always considered myself straight. it's more of an emotional attraction, i think. after i met her i was terrified. i couldn't stop thinking "i want to cuddle with you/smash my face against yours" and it's so scary? my parents are very homophobic and religious so i don't really feel safe telling them about what i'm feeling. some days it's "bi is me!" and other days it's "heh, you're not bi, idiot" please help!

I know where you’re at right now, I’ve been there, and I’m lending you all my strength. <3 Finding out you might not be straight is a simultaneously wonderful and scary experience, and I wish I could tell you the “questioning” phase goes away eventually, but if it does I have yet to encounter the end of it. 

Coming to terms with any non-straight sexuality can be confusing, but bi-ness in particular I think comes with an added measure of confliction. This is mostly because “same sex attraction” (and I’m using this term very loosely) is something that frequently comes and go in bi people, as well as differ on a person to person basis. Bisexuality is a finnicky mistress, and when you combine that with the popular narrative that bi people are just “confused” or “secretly gay/straight and faking for attention”, it’s easy to fall back into that pit of “maybe im not really bi what the heck is wrong with me”. 

In the end, I think it’s important to remember a few things:

  • You can be bi if you love men and women equally. 
  • You can be bi if you’ve dated 100 men and only one woman.
  • You can be bi if you’ve only ever dated people of one gender.
  • You can be bi if you’ve never dated anyone!
  • If you are attracted to more than one gender, you are bi. Regardless of how sporadic/uneven your attraction may be <3

Also, dont feel pressure to come out of the closet??? Like… figuring out your own sexuality with yourself is hard enough, and under no circumstances are you required to share that with anyone else. Take your time. Breathe. Do some thinking and find some peace. Then it’s up to you who deserves to know that information about you.

echelia  asked:

Do u have any advice for me to get over kim jonghyun's final rank? I seriously need strength right now. My other biases made it but I just don't feel as happy.

I know….it’s been more than 72 hours but I’m still reeling. To be honest, I’m still a little lost. I’ve mostly been trying to think about the pros of him not making the final 11. 

Jonghyun arguably amassed the largest following out of all the Nu’est members on the show, despite his final rank. After his angel edit, he consistently ranked higher than the rest of the Nu’est members and even beat out voting powerhouses Kang Daniel and, most notably, Park Jihoon (how tf does a person who ranked number 1 not make it, mnet, what the fuck??????? he beat winkboy?????). He probably has the largest fanbase now. If he had made it, then the most famous 2 of Nu’est would be unavailable for a year and a half. If Nu’est still chose to promote then with only 3 members, and 3 members that weren’t extraordinarily popular, then Nu’est’s comeback wouldn’t be nearly as successful.

This might sound a little bit gimmicky or a bit of a reach, but I have a sneaking suspicion that Pledis and MNET organized for Jonghyun not to make it, for a multitude of reasons. If JR himself knew, I don’t know, but I think he VERY POSSIBLY could’ve.

1. Wanna One might’ve possibly received extra backlash if half of the Nu’est members who participated made it into the final 11. People love to point fingers and shout unfair, and Wanna One most likely doesn’t want controversy before they even debut (hence the rules prohibiting promoting in separate groups). So just 1 making it would be optimal for MNET.

2. Jonghyun’s number 1 priority has always been to keep Nu’est alive and prevent its disbandment. If he were to make top 11 with Minhyun, he, the member with the largest fanbase, wouldn’t be able to promote with Nu’est for 1.5 years. By then, Nu’est would likely have lost their momentum (knetz and netz in general have short attention spans , 1.5 years is simply too long a time). Even if they were to make comebacks in subunits, their success wouldn’t be guaranteed with the loss of their two most popular members.

3. Unsurprisingly, the internet erupted with anger and betrayal when they found out that nation’s leader hadn’t made it, which pushed people to adamantly and forcibly declare that they would support Nu’est’s comeback with all they had and also push their peers to do so as well. Anger fuels a lot. People’s anger that Jonghyun didn’t make it causes them to bombard Nu’est with support to give their most popular member “justice,” and many will feel as if they are helping to reverse a great wrong by giving Nu’est that extra support.

Nu’est has officially announced a comeback “by the second half of this year”.

I personally think that Jonghyun is such a selfless leader that he would’ve sacrificed his place in the final 11 for the sake of Nu’est. He wants to use his newfound fanbase on the wellbeing of his group, his brothers, so don’t let him down and support Nu’est with all of your might when it comes to it. That’s how I will cope. 

—personal—- 

I’m selfish and I’m really sad that I won’t be able to see him performing in the top 11 where he belongs. We can be sad together, echelia, but make sure to come back here when Nu’est makes its comeback and we can freak out together and celebrate JR, ok? we have that to look forward too. WE GOT THIS OK! MOST OF YOUR FAVES MADE IT! LIFE IS GOOD FOR THEM! nU’EST IS COMING BACK! WEEWOO

anonymous asked:

I'll be honest I don't feel great about Louis' situation and I do think there's pressure and manipulation going on that is having him feel obliged to stick with the same asshats. I don't think he's getting great advice right now nor has his career progressed because his public private life splashed out all over tabloids seems to be their MO. Yes Louis is smart but so are a lot of other artists and they still get manipulated. Simon is a cunning snake, who knows what he could blackmail Louis with.

I hear you.  In general, though, while I am a cynical person (hence me leaving the option that he may be forced or blackmailed into it), I’m also a positive person and i DO have hope that it won’t come to that.  That he’ll find ways to work around it.  

 I also don’t think it’s a case of not getting great advice.  I do think he knows exactly what his situation is.  He’s not naive to that and I don’t think was manipulated into it in the traditional sense.  That’s not me saying he CHOSE this but maybe just differing on the definition of manipulation.  To me that implies heavy mind games and I think this situation was either he had no other option because of whatever contract restrictions or it was the lesser of two evils or something along those lines.

Regardless, I do have faith that he’ll get out of everything and be able to make decent decisions in the future.   I don’t think his shitty situation will last forever.

anonymous asked:

Hi do you think you could serve up a hot scenario (or head canon f that's easier for you) about Dabi? Some tragic angst about how his old flame is a hero now and he sees them in combat? I hope that's clear enough to run with? It's okay if you don't want to do this, I know it's a little unclear. Thank you and I love your blog!!!! ❤️

Not gonna lie, I’m totally kind of feeling Dabi right now :)

Dabi

  • He comes to an abrupt stop and finds himself staring at you for a moment while you’re engaged in battle and a flood of memories courses through his mind of the time when you both were happy and still together. He doesn’t smile or anything when he thinks back about the pleasant and not so pleasant memories, and he doesn’t know how he feels when he sees that you’ve made a name for yourself as a hero. But he faintly remembers when you briefly mentioned to him about being a hero or something but it somehow went over his head and he never really bothered to ask you about it again.
  • When he sees you struggling against the villain that you’re fighting he takes a step forward but hesitates the instant he moves. He doesn’t know if he should help you or not because there was a time where he would have done everything he could to protect you and keep you safe and sound, but now that you both aren’t together anymore he’s not sure what his next course of action should be. He definitely feels an urge to give you a helping hand but he hates the sensation because even after all these years he still has some lingering feelings for an ex-lover that shattered his heart and left him broken.
  • His eyes never leave you as he watches you from a distance where you won’t be able to notice him. He could feel his jaw clenching tightly because he hated how you still had this kind of impact on him. He spent so many days, weeks, and months desperately trying to hate and get over you for what you’ve done to him, for leaving him to pick up the pieces that you left in him and never looking back. But one look at you made him forget about his hatred, but only for a moment’s instance. He turns his back on you and begins to walk away because you’re just a stranger to him now, and besides, a villain helping a hero out is something that’s unheard of.