i don't have self esteem anymore

Let’s just say Ichigo is having a crisis in self-esteem after Kazui accidentally said that he “looks more and more like Grandpa Isshin everyday”…

anonymous asked:

Hello! I've been having a very stressful week at work and a little self esteem conflict. Can you please do a BTS reaction of the members finding out that you're older than them (by a few years)? I don't know if that made any sense.. I'm sorry! 😩

You don’t have anything to be sorry for :) I hope you have a chance to relax soon, and just remember, you’re perfect in someone’s eyes. I send my love! <3

BTS’ reaction to you being older than them

Jin: Jin being the oldest of BTS, was happy that he wasn’t the oldest one anymore! As he looked at you with warm eyes, you looked at the ground in embarrassment. He chuckled at you and gently lifted your head up with his fingers.

“Don’t worry jagiya, nothing can ever change how I feel about you. Besides now we can both be teased by Jungkook for being old~”

Originally posted by bwiseoks

Suga: Yoongi raised his eyebrows at you. You looked at him, expecting him to get angry with you for not telling him sooner. He laughed at how ridiculous you were, he didn’t care if you were older than him by a few years, love is love.

“Do you really think age matters to me Jagiya?”

Originally posted by kareverie

J-Hope: Hoseok couldn’t believe you were older than him. You were so much more energetic than him, that sometimes he thought you were a child trapped inside a woman’s body! 

“But you act so much younger than me jagiya!”

Originally posted by hob-e

Rap Monster: He would be very surprised at finding out that he was younger than you. He felt like his dominance was being taken away because you were older, but you assured him that he could keep his dominant and possessive personality over you.

“Jagiya are you sure you’re older than me? Because you look gorgeous for your age”

Originally posted by yourpinkpill

Jimin: Jealousy overtook JImin as soon as he heard you were a few years older than him. That meant you were around Jin’s age! The fact that Jin and his beloved jagiya were better for each other based on age, made him mad.

“Jagiya, just promise me you’ll stay away from Jin Hyung when I’m not there, okay?”

Originally posted by jimintensify

V: Taehyung felt embarrassed because he felt like he had disrespected you in some way because you were older than him. He used formal language when he spoke to you, and you laughed at him, reassuring him that he didn’t need to change his behavior around you.

“Ah jagiya, I wish you would have told me sooner so that I could have started treating you like a queen sooner~”

Originally posted by daeguboy

Jungkook: Jungkook would be a bit flustered because he never would have imagined that the love of his life would be older than him by a few years, but he would be fine with it, as long as you were by his side.

“Jagiya, I love you. And I don’t care if you’re older than me… just call me baby instead of oppa okay?”

Originally posted by jeonggxuk-moved

For Anon, I hope you enjoy it, and I hope you get to relieve some stress soon :) also remember, you’re limited edition and one of a kind~

anonymous asked:

once a long time ago I sent you an innocuous compliment and you freaked out and got all over radicalized tumblr social justice warrior at it so now I don't send anymore compliments this isn't a compliment

i… can’t remember a single time i reacted badly to something well meaning? i am generally very patient. unless it was blatantly racist and not a compliment like ‘wow you look exactly like *some asian celebrity that looks nothing like me*’ which… i’m assuming it was. anyway you sound like a dick and i have enough self esteem to not need compliments from you but good luck with all of that i guess.

by the way, in the future instead of defensively calling someone an sjw maybe you should re-evaluate why something so apparently well-meant would hurt or bother someone. if you really cared to understand, you’d listen. :)

anonymous asked:

Hey Chris. I'm 17 and have been overweight my whole life. I'm 5'8 and 235 but trying to get healthier. I hate myself a lot because of my weight and just have a low self esteem. My sister just told me how someone in one of my classes looked up a picture of a whale on his computer one day and then pointed to me and he showed someone it. I never thought I was terribly big, but that's been making me bawl like crazy and I'm not that type of person. I honestly want to figure out a way I don't (1)

Have to be in that class anymore. Like see if I can take it online. I don’t understand how someone could just be sitting in class and that’s what they think about is how big I am. I don’t know what to do. I usually wouldn’t care if someone would say something about my weight, but this is different 

Ugh I’m so sorry that happened to you :( You’re right, isn’t it ridiculous that that kid was sitting in class with tons of things to do and think about and the thing he landed on was making fun of someone’s size? How sad is that? People don’t give him enough attention, so he had to resort to making fun of someone else and getting half-assed laughs. This entire situation is a reflection of how shitty of a person that guy is. It has nothing to do with you. You are allowed to exist at any size and nobody has the right to make fun of you for that! 

I guess you’ll have to make the decision about staying in the class or not, that’s a personal thing. BUT if I was a friend who knew you personally and was talking to you in person, I would tell you not to let the bullies win. Fuck that guy. Don’t let him affect the way you live your life. There will always be people who will want to tear you down. You’ll never be able to avoid all of them.

Your weight is not your worth. Anyone who reduces you to just your weight or size is a jerk…including yourself. You know you’re more than that. Don’t look in the mirror and hate yourself because all you can see is your physical body size. Don’t do that to yourself. You are smart, you are talented, and you have so much to offer the world.

akathehellcat  asked:

❛ I’m going to run a shower, you can watch but you can’t join. ❜

soft sin  /  @akathehellcat.

TRISH’S HAND IS SLIPPING FROM KRISTEN.     ——   all the bodyguard can do is TILT her head.  tongue runs along her bottom lip.   eyebrow RAISED.   she adjusts in that way where leg crosses OVER knee,  that little kristen tic that would assume she’s suddenly turned ON and she’s trying to IGNORE it.   starstruck and SURPRISED,  as she always is around her ABSOLUTE favorite person.   trish’s hand finally falls AWAY and kristen stands up,  reaches out,  wraps fingers around the top of trish’s shirt.   pulls trish CLOSE.  lips are hovering over lips.  just OVER lips.   fingers pushing away clothes.

  you never said ANYTHING about helping you get IN the shower.  ’

anonymous asked:

How come you don't post OOTDs anymore?

tbh - I don’t have that great of a passion for fashion anymore. I still like cute clothes, but I’m not obsessed with it like I used to be. I value comfort and even when I do get dressed up/do my hair/makeup..I don’t always want to document it. Don’t get me wrong, I think that fatshion can be a wonderful way for people to connect, to boost self esteem, to express oneself, but it’s just not quite what it used to be for me and I think I was doing it for the wrong reasons a lot of the time.

anonymous asked:

Hi!! I just wanted to make a sterek prompt based on something that happened to me yesterday that has me a little bit down...One of the exes of my current boyfriend just started following me on instagram and he doesn't like it, and said that he was going to talk to her, because that was just too much, and he showed me the chat where she said that she was going to get him back and that she wasn't gonna suffer anymore for him... If you don't want to do it I totally understand.. Love ya!

I’m sorry this is a few days late. My family have been ill so it’s been less Sterek and more running baths and all that jazz. This is pretty short but I hope you like it nonetheless! I also hope everything is okay with you and your boyfriend. You’re awesome and deserve nothing but the best, nonnie

It’s not that Stiles thinks Derek will go back to…her. It’s just, well, he has self-esteem issues okay? It’s not a crime. And believe him, he’s not trying to be jealous. He’s not trying to act like a possessive asshole bastard afraid to let his boyfriend out of his sight. But…can you really blame him?

It’s not that Derek is the type to cheat, but Derek had thought it was love. He got his heart broken. Stiles remembers, he’s been Derek’s best friend for years. He was around to pick up the pieces. When they finally got together, Stiles thought she-who-must-not-be-named- shut up, he’s allowed Harry Potter in his life- had long been got over, but lately he’s not so sure. Not with her back in town suddenly wanting Derek back.

At first, it was innocent. Bumping into her in the store while picking up some milk, seeing her at the video store, running into her at the park. Okay, Derek had called it innocent. Stiles had called it stalking. Still, Stiles went with it. He’s a good boyfriend after all. Or at least he tries to be. For Derek he does really fucking try. He may not trust many people, but he trusts Derek.

Thing is, there is only so much a guy can take before he snaps. Instagram, as it turned out, was that breaking point for Stiles.

“She followed me,” he says, trying to keep his cool as he waves his phone in front of Derek’s raised eyebrows. “Derek this isn’t good. She’s trying to intimidate me.”

“Then don’t let her,” Derek says.

Which, wow. Stiles is so lucky to have such a helpful boyfriend.

“Don’t let her?” his eyes widen. “Derek, you do realise what’s happening, right? Right? After a while, I’m going to get clingy. I love you and the thought of losing you-” He closes his eyes, turning away, terrified of the desperation is his voice. “Look, the point is you’re going to get tired of me freaking out and guess who will be waiting to give you a little breather? Her, Derek. She’ll be waiting. And I just can’t- I can’t-

He takes a breath, pushing down the panic attack he can feel coming on. Don’t do this, Stiles. Don’t do this now.

“Hey,” Derek says, taking his hands in his, stilling him. “Stiles, you’re my best friend. Please tell me you realise there is no-one that could ever take me from you.” Something must show on his face because Derek’s own eyes widen in surprise at what he sees there.

“Logically, yeah, it’s a nice thought-” Stiles starts, but for once he doesn’t know how to go on. Can’t quite find the words to say how much that thought really means to him. What it means to him. That Derek’s the first person who’s ever made him feel like he’s first choice. It’s hard to process most days, let alone right now.

“Stiles,” Derek says again, pulling Stiles close to him, wrapping his arms around his waist. “I think about you constantly, okay? I think about you when I’m at work. When I’m shopping. Shit, I think about you when I work out. I dream about you even though you sleep right beside me.” He ducks his head, his cheeks colouring slightly as he finishes, “I don’t even fantasise about anyone else but you.”

“Oh,” Stiles answers, dumbly.

“Yeah, oh,” Derek rolls his eyes, pulling Stiles even closer. “She was my first love but…you were the first person outside my family I ever loved. Even before I met her, Stiles. You were already it. I just didn’t think I ever had a shot.” He smiles, like the fact Stiles is even here surprises him. The idiot. “And if you want to be…you’ll be the last person I ever love.”

Stiles’ heart thuds in his chest. It’s making very unusual sounds. He knows. “That sounds very serial killer of you.”

Derek rolls his eyes, smacking Stiles’ arm. “You know what I mean, jerk face.”

“Oh, I’ll jerk on your face,” Stiles winks, relaxing, causing Derek to groan and bury his face in Stiles’ shoulder.

“I take it all back. Go back to your motherland.”

Stiles snorts. “There’d be no point, dude. You’d just follow me.” He pauses, looking down at his feet. “Wouldn’t you?”

“Yeah,” Derek smiles, tilting his chin back up. “I’d follow you anywhere. Movie style.”

“Movie style,” Stiles repeats, grinning. “I like the sound of that. Makes me feel important.”

Derek shakes his head fondly, kissing Stiles’ cheek. “That’s because you are.

thescottishmcrdragon  asked:

Hey Onision! You've helped my self esteem improve. Before, I was more scared to tell someone to screw themselves if they deserved it. Through your blunt honesty, you've helped me care less about the negative, and insults don't really bother me anymore thanks to you. So big big big thanks! Hope you have an amazing day!

anonymous asked:

I was wondering if you had any advice for an older goth? My mom recently turned 40 and while she is goth at heart she doesn't have time or energy to put in the work for the makeup/nice outfits anymore(she usually just sticks with black pants and a black tank these days)but she used to be a bamf and it was a large part of her self identity/self esteem. I want to give her some encouragement that it is ok, but don't know what to say.

Using the bat signal to get gothiccharmschool for this one!

As I’m sure Auntie Jilli and other Elder Goths will have much better advice and opinions on this than I do, I’ll just say this: Fashion is just a fraction of everything goth is and not all of us “look the part”. We - no matter the age - have times when we don’t have the time, the energy, the opportunity or the money to look the way we have looked before or wish to look. And that’s perfectly okay; Goth at heart is more important than goth on the outside.
If you want to encourage her by finding other people who are or have been in similar situations, I suggest googling for personal blogs, looking for some on Tumblr, and looking for channels on YouTube. I understand Elder Goths sharing their thoughts aren’t the easiest thing to find on the Internet, but I’m sure there are some out there who can help. Good luck!

anonymous asked:

Why don't you have sex? (It's not friday anymore... Sorry, I'm a bit late).

Idk. I used to a lot because I have/had body image issues and issues with my self esteem and confidence so I would fill the void by having sex. Just because I did not find myself attractive but I knew if someone was willing to have sex then they saw me as attractive. Went on a “date” (we had a mutual friend and were never really gonna be anything serious so it was a friend date) and he is gooooorgeous. He sat me down and told me that I have a lot more potential than I know and that if I hold myself to a higher standard, I might be surprised as to what happens.

This was back in february. If you look back through my stuff it seems as if you can see a transformation in my confidence. Yeah I have my moments but I don’t let others dictate how I feel anymore.  Through being happy and confident, I have met some amazing people who probably wouldn’t have given me the time of day before. I treat my friends better and I’m just happier overall. I don’t need sex to fill that void anymore. Its starting to fill itself in piece by piece. Its not that I’m saving myself for marriage or anything. I just think I can do better and I expect a lot more now and not in an arrogant way. I treat myself better and I think the other person should have to earn it instead. 

So little tl;dr is Im happier with myself and am willing to wait to find a person who deserves it and likes me for more than just my appearance. 

Sorry for the long answer haha. I just kinda rambled

anonymous asked:

hi, I'm sorry that this is a silly question, but I was wondering if you have any tips about self esteem? I've just always felt terrible about my self, the way I look, the way I act, everything. and it doesn't help that my friends don't like me anymore and I feel so unwanted and ugly. I'm really sorry, but do you have any advice? thank you so much!

not at all a silly question. i’ve had self esteem issues before, im guessing 98% of humans have, so you’re in good company. there are a few things that help me.

remember that your perspective is everything. not your friends’ perspectives or your family or crush’s perspective. your perspective. try to go a week without complaining. make a list of things you like about yourself. maybe do the 100 days of happy thing. i try to be super positive on this blog and thats not always how i am in real life but its helped me a lot i think in how i deal with things/conduct myself in real life.

you can always find negative things about yourself. everyone can because no one is perfect. but if you focus instead on your strengths, you wont get bogged down in self-pity. it’ll make you a lot freer. freer is a weird word. 

other people form their opinion on you based on incomplete information. you know the most about yourself. if you form your opinion of yourself based on others’ opinions of you, you’re gonna get let down. its so toxic i cant stress that enough.

try exercising. go on a run a couple times a week. maybe join a yoga class. it doesnt matter what. exercise relieves a lot of stress and ya might see results. 

another helpful source of confidence i have is my God. if the Creator of the universe and nature and everything loves me and knows the number of hairs on my head, thinking my teeth are crooked becomes less of an issue idk