i don't have any good ideas right now :

Hi, I’m really sorry to bother but I’m extremely worried about Bri (voltron-and-chill67). The anti-shipper that has been harassing her just posted this a little while ago. Is there a way we can contact Tumblr staff about their suicidal thoughts?

There is. I’m sure you’re familiar with the report function, and you can report a Tumblr user as a danger to themselves. This will alert the staff and resources can be sent their way.

But beyond just doing that, and don’t get me wrong I’m not singling you out here because you haven’t done anything wrong, you know what we can do? Not tell people to kill themselves. Not trivialize it when they say they’ve tried or will try. Or how about we just don’t take fandom and made up characters SO FUCKING SERIOUSLY? Look, I don’t give a single fuck what your thoughts on otayuri are. I don’t care if you’re an anti or one of the biggest shippers on this website. This, what’s happening? This is toxic. I almost lost a friend last night to this toxicity. I almost relapsed myself because of it. In fact, several of our mutual friends were in a similar headspace as me. In other words, much as I love her and was beyond worried about her, and as glad as I am that she’s okay, Brianna wasn’t the only one that could have been a victim here.

Because of one asshole who thought that trivializing suicide because of two made up characters was a good idea.

I’ve been lucky enough not to get antis on my blog, and I’m sure that after posting this, I’ll be getting some, but my point still stands. Otayuri, or any other ship for that matter, is not worth someone’s life.

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Things my heart used to know. Things it yearns to remember.

i Really Want the satisfaction of writing ventfic and getting emotionally invested in something i’m making bc right now it’s too stressful to consume new content and, oddly, writing feels more soothing, mostly bc there’s no suspense and bc, when i can’t really enjoy the actual process of doing anything, something that has a concrete result is more satisfying than just consuming things

but i have. no ideas.

coldbrood  asked:

hey, do you have any advice for vegans who don't have access to a kitchen (so no refrigerator or oven/stove)? this can make food expensive 'cause it goes bad faster and it makes one inclined to buy prepared food more. for some people there is the microwave at the grocery store. but not everyone. i kind of want to think on this and put some stuff together, but don't know if i have that much right now. any ideas? or know of any posts?

When I first went vegan, I actually didn’t have access to a refrigerator, but I did have a stove. I would mostly just buy a bunch of dry goods or things that would last a long time unrefrigerated like pasta, bread, peanut butter, soy/nut milks, oats, rice, canned vegetables, dried fruits, etc., and I would also occasionally buy or dumpster dive fresh produce that I would use the same day I got it, unless it was something like potatoes and certain other things that could stay out for longer. I’ve found that the amount of food you would typically have that needs to be refrigerated is drastically reduced on a plant-based diet.

I also once lived in a place that had a fridge, but no stove. But we did have a microwave. It’s probably a lot easier to live without a stove than without a fridge, because your food doesn’t necessarily need to be hot to be edible. During this time, I remember eating mostly raw produce and sandwiches, as well as the occasional microwaved noodles and oatmeal. Oh, and I also tried to make one of those “microwaved brownie-in-a-mug” things, which ended up messy but actually quite tasty!

I have also been on-the-streets homeless before, which meant no access to fridge, stove, or microwave unless I went to a grocery store or convenience store that had a microwave, or a friend’s house with a stove and/or fridge. I carried a lot of dry goods that didn’t need preparation in my backpack, like granola, nuts, dried fruits, crackers, and peanut butter, as well as microwavable cups of noodles or soup for the times I had access to a microwave, which was almost daily. I would also buy or dumpster dive fresh produce and perishables that I would eat immediately. 

My advice is that if you’re not homeless, at least try to get a microwave. I got a huge one at the Habitat for Humanity Re-Store for $10, and most thrift stores will have them for super cheap as well. There are a ton of recipes for microwave meals out there, and if they’re not vegan they can easily be veganized. 

(Also, sorry for taking so long to answer this! I’ve been super distracted lately.)

anonymous asked:

you seem to be taking questions tonight, and I don't know who else to ask. I've been trying to write for months. and months. and months. and it's just not happening. and I don't know why. I guess the closest descriptor of it is writer's block, but it feels so much more pervasive and insidious. I just don't have ideas. and I don't mean good ideas. I mean I don't have ANY ideas. words refuse to happen. I feel like Ariel but it's my writing voice that's been stolen. any thoughts? advice?

Aw sweet pea, that doesn’t sound like fun at all, I’m sorry that this is happening right now. 

My question for you is, are you Well? 
My hunch is that you’re right, and that the funk you are in is something heavier than simple writers’ block. Now, I don’t know you personally, so I’m afraid that I can’t do much to help you figure out what specifically might have you down.

In my case, writing is one of the canaries in the coal mine that has been me & depression. I love writing, but it’s one of the more noticeable things on the chopping block when the Big Sad comes after the things that I usually enjoy doing. I definitely switch over to more passive activities, like reading or getting acquainted with Netflix’s ‘are you still watching’ screen, where I can lie down quietly and be told stories instead of trying to yank stories out of my own brain. 

Back when I was a younger bean, I remember that a friend of mine told me about their struggles in our english class. They were super smart, good at analyzing meaning, the whole deal– but when the timer would start for a 40 minute essay, they’d read the prompt, look at the blank page, read the prompt again… and then stare. Every half formed thought just turned to mush in their head, and they were stressed out and going through far too much at the time, and every new blank page was overwhelming, because nothing that they could think of to say seemed worth writing down. 

Sometimes, things happen that make it harder to write that have very little to do with actual writing. I know that people joke and say things about how you have to suffer for your art, but there’s a world of difference between productively channeling bittersweet feelings into your work, and feeling like you are drowning in mud and can’t move an inch. 

So: Are you okay? Do you feel good? Are you safe? Is there something going on right now that is overwhelming you? 
If your voice is gone, where did it go? Is it resting? Was it stolen from you?

I think if you can figure out why your voice went away, you’ll be on the right track to finding a way to get it back. 

I hope you find it. 

-Evvy

“Okay, so I am going to be honest with everyone. The mun has come to the realization that they are not doing too well, mentally, and they have no idea why. They don’t think there is any real, good reason for this, everything is doing relatively fine besides having a lot to get done, but that isn’t the problem. In the mornings and throughout the first half of the day, they are fine, but during the second half of the day their, uh… “metal energy” just depletes and they just feel down. Their mind, when left to wander on it’s own, just keeps going over some thoughts that just bring them down more. Its not….” Arial sighs. “Neither one of us are good at this sort of thing, but what I’m trying to say is that they just…. are not feeling their best right now. It’s nothing super serious, they are just not used to it…..” She sighs again. “They really want to get back to being active again, and they will be trying to get back to things its just, difficult for them to do some things right now, even school work that they think should be quick and easy for them.”

“They are doing alright, they are just feeling a bit down and out of it and don’t have any idea why. They will be fine, maybe throw a couple bad puns their way for me? They love those a lot, and it will probably help them just a little bit.”

“Well, I guess that’s all for now, hopefully we will see all of you guys again soon!”

icantforesee  asked:

hiii okay first off thank you for the magic!au's they sound really good, so I have another request, and you don't have to do this right now, I mean you can take all week I don't mind, you probably have other stuff to do as well, but I love the idea of Harry being a really good baker or cook so I was wondering if you knew any harry!baker / harry!cook au's (larry fics ofcourse :P) thanks so much, you're a babe.

WHAT? DO YOU MEAN I HAVE SOMETHING ELSE TO DO THAN MAKING FIC REC ABOUT 2 BOYBANDERS IN LOVE?? (I don’t know what you are talking about).

So. It’s gonna be fun, I know it :

Baker-Chef!Harry AU.

- Relief next to me , by @haydolce : AU. What happens when a baker and a graphic designer meet via a very specific Craigslist post? Fate, friendship, food, and maybe more. (333k)

- shine by @lourrynavy​ ; Louis is an actor who needs to get away from the real world. He does the only thing that he can and runs away, finding himself in a small town where he happens upon Harry. What Louis doesn’t expect is to somehow fall in love and end up having to face what he was running from all along. (40k)

Tis the Season for…Love?       by teaandtumblr : Then he approached the display cabinet. And the foreboding slammed into him. Because every product had letters next to it. Letters. GF, DF, V, O, VGN. What. The. Fuck? Lifting his eyes to the chalkboard menu spread across the back wall Louis felt physically ill. ‘Gluten-free’, ‘organic’, ‘vegan’, ‘paleo’, ‘dair-…’ Wait, what the fuck was a paleo? He had entered some hipster-trash establishment and it was more than time to get out.  OR Louis is a single dad and Harry works at the newly opened bakery down the street.(145k)

- Learning to Eat  by @mbpgku : Celebrity chef Louis Tomlinson has a problem. He’s opening his first restaurant in 9 weeks, and he has yet to hire a pastry chef- apparently people think he’s ‘standoffish’ and ‘rude’ and ‘quick to temper’. Whatever. He ends up saddled with an annoying, happy-go lucky rookie who also happens to be obnoxiously good looking. His tv presenter and pop star best friends only add to the drama, and for fucks sake would everyone please stop quoting Julia Child?! Kitchen AU where Harry helps Louis re-learn how to eat.  (METAPHORICALLY) (38k)

- i’ll bring the bread because boy, you’re the jam , by @mytinylou​ : Just when he’s about to stop clicking the next button and claim defeat, maybe put some posters up around town, he’s met with a picture of white cardstock lying on a table, words written in black Sharpie with careful, deliberate strokes.  “Hiiii,” it reads, “if you’re reading this, you’ve found my camera!  I’d love it if you could contact me so I can get it back.  It’d be the nice thing to do.”Or the AU where Harry loses his camera.  Louis finds it.  They fall for each other via email. (8k)

- Float Down Like Autumn Leaves (Stay Now) , by @getmesometacos  : The AU in which Louis has a 6 year old daughter with a costume emergency that puts her school’s annual Halloween party at risk, Halloween decorated cupcakes are hard to find and tall men look absolutely ridiculously cute in giant vegetables costumes. Co-starring Harry, who makes really good food for the kids. Featuring Niall, who works in a bakery but has a part time job as a babysitter. And as much as he doesn’t believe in love at first (or second) sight, Louis is really infatuated and really wouldn’t mind seeing Harry again.(16k)

- Could It Be Magic? by halleluzayn : And just like typical Zayn is, he says, “They do look quite good together.” Because despite being unofficially named the sexiest man in the universe by Louis and Niall and agreed by Josh, Zayn has a pretty low self-esteem when it comes to people that he genuinely likes. He thinks he’ll never be a good match for them because apparently they deserve much better with Louis replying with but you are better! (Or the one where Harry comes back from America, the Horan’s pretty much own the whole town, Niall loves the “Bubble Man”, Liam is a cheating bastard and Zayn and Louis should really ask first before they make assumptions.) (18k)

- we’re still going, eight in the morning , by @nooelgallagher​  and @yoursongonmyheart: Harry washes his hands quickly before grabbing his phone. His screen lights up to 3 notifications.DJTommo is now following you!@DJTommo mentioned you in a tweet!Direct Message from @DJTommo!Harry yelps, throwing his phone to Niall who just barely catches it.Niall looks down at the phone, seeing first the tweet, then the DM. He tosses the phone back to Harry, who nearly drops it. “What are ya doing, mate! Answer him!”Harry thinks for a moment about what he wants to say. This is his chance to actually talk to Louis Tomlinson. Louis Tomlinson messaged him directly. He can say anything he wants. He begins typing, his fingers shaky.Niall comes over to stand next to Harry and peers down, looking to see what he wrote. When he does, he lets out a groan….Or, the one where Harry owns a bakery, Louis is a radio DJ, and Niall and Liam roll their eyes at their incessant flirting. (31k)

- all the lights are full of colour, by @infinitelymint : So, fast-forwarding eight years from the day Harry met Louis, he is now a twenty-seven year old owner of one of the most up-and-coming eating establishments on the London restaurant scene, father of two wonderful boys and… separated from his husband. Now, that last part definitely was never a part of the original plan.  Or, Harry and Louis are separated, but for the sake of their two sons, they choose to spend Christmas together. It may just lead to a Christmas miracle. (26k)

- Every Good Boy Deserves Cookies , by @stunning-stylinson​ : “Y-yeah?” Louis asks breathlessly, “And then?“Harry giggles and moves his bum back to meet Louis. “Add the vanilla and crack the eggs, beating it all in with salt,” Harry says.Or where Harry is a chef who teaches a class and Louis swears it’s only Harry’s bossiness that turns him on, not the recipe for cookies and Harry likes being praised. (8.5k)

- leave it to the breeze  , by @hattalove :  Louis couldn’t be prouder of his bake, but there’s something—there’s something. Something about Harry Styles and the earnest way he measures, pours, mixes, scrapes. Something about the tip of his tongue poking out of his mouth as he knocks the air out of his batter. or a great british bake off au in which louis cares about winning and winning only, harry is made of sunshine and rainbow sprinkles, and niall sticks his nose into other people’s business. also featuring liam as louis’s best friend-slash-concerned mother, and zayn as a macaron connoisseur. (81k)

Update : (last update on April 11th 2017)(under the cut)

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anonymous asked:

You reblogged a picture of stiles and Derek and Parrish and a double penetration joke. I don't know if you understand, Sterrish is my ot3 forever. How much would I have to beg for some Derek/Stiles/Parrish smut? Pleeaaase?

Oh man I totally would except I’m kind of have a block writing any good sexytimes right now?? Have these hot recs instead: 

  • Oh, Can’t You See? by pterawaters (E, 23k) Derek never imagined himself joining the Sheriff’s Department, but after living with Kyle Parrish for long enough, the idea starts to grow on him. Stiles isn’t exactly sure what he wants out of life, but he knows that it isn’t a college degree or being away from the people he loves. The solution he comes up with will hopefully bring him back home. Too bad it doesn’t do anything for his dead-in-the-water love life.
  • Own Me by BurnItAllClean (E, 13k) This was everything he never knew he needed, and fuck did he need it so bad. Stiles ached for someone to hold him down and take control for a while, to care enough to peel back all of his layers. Someone to leave him raw and vulnerable and begging before putting him back together again. Maybe this was just a one night stand, and he would never see these two men again, but for tonight, just one night, Stiles was going to let go and let them own him.
The signs as things my classmates & teachers have said #3
  • Aries: So if we just kill everyone in China and India then we won't have such a problem with the population anymore!
  • Taurus: Yes, and Romeo and Juliet was written by Sherlock Holmes
  • Gemini: He is a famous trumpet
  • Cancer: But we're not going to stick explosives up his ass!
  • Leo: *points at person playing piano* SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!
  • Virgo: I have a pretty good reason to be bi, I mean have you seen girls?!
  • Scorpio: I don't know until I turn the page!!!
  • Sagittarius: Can Kanye please stop thinking that he is something?
  • Capricorn: Have you got any idea how itchy my nipple is right now? It's unbelievable how itchy it is
  • Aquarius: jesus krishna, she knows nothing.
  • Pisces: my boobs are as soft as butter.
The Only Logical Explanation
  • Leia: Now Luke, just because Han and I have a baby now doesn't mean we don't love you any less.
  • Luke: *hrump*
  • Leia: Okay. Maybe we should involve you more. Maybe you have an idea of what we could name the baby?
  • Luke: You should name him Ben after Old Ben. That's a good name right, that's a good name?
  • *Leia and Han share an awkward glance*
  • Han: Luke, I didn't even like the guy and your sister never met him. Why would we name-
  • *Luke starts to tear up*
  • Leia: Ben is a great name. Right, Han? RIGHT, HAN?
  • Han: *sighs* okay.
  • Luke: Yes!

sevendeanlysins  asked:

I'd never heard of it, very sadly. I've been trying to find good fanfics for it all day now lol. I don't know if you read any, but would you have any recs for Charvelle fics? I feel like I've been living under a rock that's denied me of all cuteness.

You better appreciate this. I spent a lot of time on it. I haven’t read all of these.


Ginger and Honey, by SerendipitousDreams

Handcuffs and Grade A’s, by mynightmarestays

Jo and Charlie at Disney by officialcharvelle

Red Penny by kalymnos

And All is Right by stilestlinski

Sore Labor’s bath by sarapunzel

Call Me… Maybe? by wincechesters

Partners, or Why Hitchhiking is a Good Idea by SgtSpill

Royal Treatment by lightsaroundyourvanity

The Most Magical Place On Earth by hufflecas

I Was Drunk. It Was Comic-Con. by presumablynot

Games by WildlingGirl

What Happens at Comic Con by RavenclawDoll

Waiting… by acharmingbnb

Written Souls by mynightmarestays

Indomitable by ilostmyshoe

All Nighter by centreoftheselights

Anchors and Computer Chips by mynightmarestays

the adventures of the hawk and her fox by nezstorm

Giggles by ilostmyshoe

Charlie and Jo end up next to each other in orchestra by celestialblasphemy

A Redhead Dies And Goes To Heaven…, by SamanthaPin

Why Chuck isn’t allowed to watch TV before bed. by siojo

A Dream Deferred by LyonessofAvalon

stuck in an elevator by novachester

That’s all i could find. :’(

fatimamousaworld  asked:

hello there,let me just first tell you how much i love ur account!! you make me wanna get into the field everyday a little more ! i'm a senior civil Engineering student and now is considering architecture for my hopefully masters degree. the two fields are so different and i don't know if it;ll be a good idea to jump directly into architecture though i really want to :/ i kinda don't know what to expect. do you have any recommendations ? how do i know its the right thing for me?

Thanks! I hope you understand that its impossible for me to tell you which is the right thing to do. I don’t think the two fields are that different and if anything they are collaborators towards a common goal. If you can have both degrees (B.Engineering + M.Architecture) you can probably get licensed on both disciplines which will make you a double threat! If you choose to pursue only one of the careers you will have an invaluable insight into the other one. Anyway it seems to be a win-win situation.

You can see previous responses on the same subject here.

Image by Florian Schommer

  • me outside: I'm fine.
  • me inside: okay but who honestly gave jeon wonwoo the permission to slay us all with this new ashy blonde hair thingamabob hair thing and the fact that we are all feeling so attacked right now and the fact that he doesn't even have any idea we're feeling so attacked right now this is too much but his hair looks too good buT ITS TOO MUCH WHAT IS THE MEANING OF LIFE ANYMORE I DON'T FEEL FINE AT ALL wonwoo obviously feels fine and looks fine too bUT NO THIS IS ILLEGAL I REPEAT THIS IS ILLEGAL DID I EVER MENTION THIS.IS.ILLEGAL.

Z: “So come Sept 1st these nails will be scrapping across your back.”

V: “Oh. My. God…I can’t wait!”

V: “Babe, the very moment I can, I’m just going to take my hands and cup the beautiful back side of yours and make it all mine.”

Z: “Oh you are huh?…I’m looking forward to it.”

V: “Mmm hmmm.”

Z: “See this is why we work, ya’ know? We’re always on the same page, haha!”

V: “Oh shit! Baby I think that pap can read lips, we gotta calm down.”

Z: “Freakin’ paparazzi.”

V: “It’s okay Z, we can finish this conversation in private.”

Z: “Good, now let’s try not to look any more suspicious!”

Z: “This looks innocent, right?”

V: “Yep, completely platonic.”

Z: “Boy, they don’t have any idea.”

V: “We got them all fooled Baby.”

😏

So Aubrey has twitter, right? Can you imagine his tweets?

8:00 Starting my day off with nutritious breakfast.

9:30 Snack time!

10:45 More snacks!

11:20 Car’s got to have fuel.

13:30 Time for lunch.

14:45 Another day, another murder. #hungry

16:00 That’s the life *foodpic*

17:30 Is it dinner time yet?

18:00 We caught the killer!

18:01 Can’t wait for dinner

18:10 Whatever, I’m just gonna have dinner now.

19:43 Any ideas for a good breakfast for tomorrow?

19:45 I’m getting #hungry.

20:05 @drBrennan and Booth, your child is adorable. I gotta get myself one.

21:00 Agent Booth was right, these lava chips are heaven.

22:30 Just decided to have scrambled eggs with toast, oatmeal, and blueberry banana smoothie tomorrow morning. #cannotwait #goodnight

The following day

8:00 That’s the dream *foodpic*

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ratchulous  asked:

FOR THE DRABBLE ASK GAME: number 6, ereri ! ;D (btw i love ur icon js)

omg thank you!!!! sorry this is so late i’m trash and i have no idea what’s going on here i just hope you like it nonetheless

send me a pairing and a number and i’ll write you a drabble

Eren woke up to the sound of someone talking in the other room, a headache that could rival that of his 21st birthday and a vague sensation that something is very off. 

With a groan he tried to sit up, rubbing his eyes in an attempt to elevate the pressure behind his eyes but only managing to make it worse and flopping back unto the bed with another groan and decidedly doing his best imitation of a dying puppy.

Apparently he made too much noise because whoever it was talking outside peered in and quickly whispered a goodbye to whoever they were talking to before they entered the room.

“Look who has finally decided to join the land of the living.” Came the teasing tone that was definitely not either Armin or MIkasa and it quickly sobered him up enough to make him open his eyes and squint at whoever it was standing in the doorway. 

“You’re not Armin.”

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andallitsglory-deactivated20170  asked:

Hi Janelle. I don't know if you're asked this frequently, but I just watched the She Makes Comics documentary & decided to give it a go. I've written both short stories & long pieces in regular prose before, yet never have written a comic script. I've decided to try it out, but don't know how to start. What's stopping me is what pros seem to know, like good transitions & the right angles when characters converse. Do you have any tips for beginners? Thanks so much!

I saw your email to me, but I thought I’d write back publicly because maybe other people have this question too!

The good news is that in general, writers don’t need to include in a script things like how exactly characters should be positioned in a panel. Now, I will say it’s probably a good idea to do some reading of comics and books about comics to better understand what works in terms of layouts and positioning. You don’t need to be an expert and you don’t need to include these things in your script unless they are particularly relevant to your plot, but the best comics writers understand the art side as well. Scott McCloud’s Understanding Comics is a great place to start for learning more about the medium. As far as transitions go, I would look at understanding both how to move between scenes (which is something that is relevant to all storytelling, not just comics) and understanding what is necessary to show and what can happen between the panels of a comic. 

Depending on your artist, your publisher, and your own preferences, your scripts may be exceedingly detailed or very rough. One thing I’ve noticed with prose writers is a tendency to over-write the scripts - a lot of detail included for each panel or a push to get the artist to draw everything just-so. Comics, unlike prose, are a collaboration. The artist should be able to have artistic freedom to a certain extent, with an eye towards everyone bringing in their particular strengths to a project. 

Finally, one of the best things you can do is look online for sample comic scripts from various writers and compare them to the finished product. That way you can compare what established pros have done with what ended up on the page - this is really helpful for understanding formatting and what you need to include to get the best from your artist. This is a great resource for sample scripts. 

I hope that answers your question! Best of luck!