It’s not proper for omegas to mess around with alphas before finding their bondmate. But Harry doesn’t give a damn what’s proper and fully intends on getting as much experience as he can before even trying to find one. As far as he’s concerned, the right alpha won’t care, and he’ll have some fun on the way.
And who better to start with than Louis Tomlinson, the alpha with the worst reputation on campus?
ohno letting us know very casually on the yakai that after he and jun drunkenly crashed sho’s recording in his hotel room, they went back to his room and jun started crying and then ohno started crying and they were hugging each other
*breaks something I had to fix a few minutes ago* *goes to get my superglue that is there solely because they break so much stuff*
*eats my entire kitchen* "Can we go out to dinner now?"
"You know your friendship is good when there are rumors that you're gay."
"Make sure you get the trophies in the background so they know I'm accomplished."
"I don't think dinosaurs would have dress codes, see the fingertip rule doesn't apply to them because they have short arms right? I can't wear a skirt but dinosaurs could just wear no pants at all."
I don’t have the full story and I refuse to pry further because that just spreads possible misinformation but from what I understand
A player has potentially (I say potentially because the name is not going around, but that doesn’t make it any less severe) been outed as queer by a partner
This. Is. So. Fucked.
Period. End of sentence.
Like I don’t care if you think “well they were on x dating app, they had to see this as a possibility”
Sharing any sort of information from any sexual partner on social media is disgusting, disrespectful, and wrong. I don’t care if they’re it’s a regular person, a pro-athlete, or the fuckin Queen of England. Posting anything online that you have not been given explicit consent, by every party involved, to post is wrong and straight up illegal.
This is not me defending whatever player this is. This is me defending the fucking personal privacy of another human being.
If you think anything to the contrary or think that this was okay on even a microscopic level you can fuck right off
Hey, do you know of any fics with trans Remus or Sirius, or just any trans characters in general. Preferably more happy ones, I just got putted to my parents as trans and I'm feeling kinda shitty right now. It's fine if you don't know of any
Oh jeez, it really sucks that you got outed…outing anyone else is just such a shitty thing to do. I hope things get better for you– you’re awesome and strong and I know you can do this, even though it’s hard and it doesn’t feel good right now.
Notes: There are actually so. many. FANTASTIC trans!Remus fics that I’ve had to break them up into “Definitely read” (my faves) and “Also check out” but honestly all of them are fabulous & worth reading. I’ve tried to make this a fairly comprehensive list of trans!Remus wolfstar fics, but I’ve done my best to mark angsty fics & list warnings so that you can decide whether or not to read them.
All fics feature transmale!Remus unless noted specifically that the fic contains transfemale!Remus.
Updated 27 July 2017 to fix the links tumblr apparently broke.
*TransFigured by picascribit– 26k, E, mwpp era. ““We thought you might be a werewolf,” said Sirius. “What?” Remus almost laughed at the absurdity….“I know. All I meant was, we thought you might be, and we still wanted to be friends. Whatever you’re not telling us — how much worse can it be?“” Fantastic fic but beware of angst, esp. in the beginning. TW: suicide attempt, transphobia, bullying, dysphoria. [Sequel: TransLate– 5k, M, mwpp era. Accidental pregnancy.]
*I’ll paint a mural of your smile by david8– 33k, T, non-magic/coffee shop AU. “…it doesn’t take Sirius long to sense something different about Remus…And soon, even Remus understands that not everything is as it should be with the seemingly happy, extroverted and flirtatious rich guy…” Also with bipolar, non-binary Sirius. Some angst related to mental illness.
*I just didn’t know it yet. by genderisasocialconstruct– 1k, G, MWPP era & post-Hogwarts. “Sirius comes to realise that the time waiting for his soulmate was well worth the wait.” Soulmate AU. Super super cute. Fluff.
*Queer As Day by philiatran– WIP~ 24k, T, non-magic/university AU. “Sirius Black…has two things. 1. A penchant for photography. and 2. A tumblr blog dedicated to picture after picture of Remus Lupin.” Everyone is queer and it is fabulous. Some angst regarding friendships, as well as several clearly-marked triggers, esp. TW: dysphoria, transphobia, past suicide attempt, depression. [fic missing from Ao3]
Long Distance by irrationalmoony & LadyAmina– WIP~ 21k, E, non-magic/university AU. “James, Sirius, Remus, and Peter have been inseparable since…their first day at Hogwarts boarding school. So when Remus relocates to France for further schooling…they’re not going to let the distance stop them…” Texting fic, also with genderfluid!Sirius. Fluff.
*Succession of Halos by LadyFaceElena– 7k, G, non-magic AU. “When Remus gets talked into seeing his favourite author–Astronomy Professor S. Black–hold a stargazing lecture, he…does not expect the ripped jeans and rolling-stones t-shirt wearing, motor-bike riding Sirius Black….” Also has genderfluid!Sirius.
Forbidden by LadyFaceElena– 12k, G, non-magic/university AU. “...Lily and Marlene decide to make a video in response to Israel’s banned book about a Jewish and Arab romance…Artist Sirius Black reluctantly agrees to participate…having no idea he’s on the path to finding love…” Also has genderfluid!Sirius. Contains discussions of family issues & oppression but not overly angsty.
*All Hail the Outlaws by LadyFaceElena– 29k, E, non-magic/university AU. “One of Remus Lupin’s three jobs happens to be working maintenance for their flat building…James Potter and Sirius Black move in across the hall…the pair set out to make their neighbours new best friends, and everyone’s life is turned upside down, but in the best way possible.” Some mentions of transphobia & misgendering but mostly fluff.
Boys by oliverdalstonbrowning– 3k, G, mwpp era. “Remus doubts himself and Sirius plays Space Oddity.” So much fluff. Remus has some dysphoria in this but really it’s just so fluffy.
The Hands and the Heart by oliverdalstonbrowning–3k, T, mwpp era. “Dysphoria is the hardest struggle Remus has ever faced, but Sirius is determined to show him the hands and the heart of his situation. [TW: Gender Dysphoria, self-harm, brief alcohol mention.]” Definitely angsty but oh-so-sweet.
No Understanding no Sound from Above by kyuuketsukirui– 2k, M, multiple eras. “Remus has a secret that has nothing to do with the full moon.” Closeted transfemale!Remus. Beautiful writing but very sad– lots of internal and external angst due to canon timeline, no happy ending.
ennui by elliotasterion– WIP~ 12k, M, magic AU set after PoA. “Sirius is cleared of all charges after the events of Prisoner of Azkaban, but Peter escapes anyway. Remus and Sirius have to find a way to come together all over again, while keeping Harry out of trouble. (Not a raising-Harry fic.)” Feels very real, quite well-written. Some angst, mostly related to Sirius’s mental health issues & canon events but also a couple transphobic remarks.
*Semi-Automatic by destielspancake– WIP~ 68k, T, non-magic/texting AU. Remus and Sirius start texting because of a wrong number. Lots of fun & jokes but also angst– do heed the warnings, esp. TW: dysphoria, self-harm, and references to past suicide attempts and rape.
secrets were made to be known by atlaspeaks– 3k, M, mwpp era. “Remus has always had secrets. He’s gotten used to having them - and even more so, used to having them found out.” Lovely & fluffy apart from brief section in which Remus is outed without his consent.
A little while ago I drew a vaguely 1920s/30s aviatrix based somewhat loosely on @captainmadshade. I didn’t take too much time on the drawing and when she decided to make it her avatar and I had to see it several times a day I realized I didn’t care for it particularly and wanted to try to draw something better.
So, this is her as a Prussian aviatrix who is also the star of a fictitious pulp comic that I made up around this drawing. Well, all pulp comics are fictitious, but this one is fictitious in the sense that there is no written, drawn, or published comic bearing this name.
The name die schwarze Baronesse (the Black Baroness) is not an intentional reference to the Red Baron… that’s just an embarrassing coincidence.
I might clean this up a little bit and do some digital nonsense with it at a later time.
I want to recommend a couple of apps that I use for medication management and to report things that I often forget back to my doctors:
Medisafe: This is a really nice app for a huge variety of things, though the basic thing that it does it medication and appointment reminders. Here’s a quick list of what Medisafe helps with:
Medication reminders and tracking, as well as the ability to send status reports by email from the app
Medication refill reminders
Measurements of a variety of stats (i.e., Blood Glucose level, Pain level, Temperature, Mood, Cholesterol, and more), which can be sent to whoever may need to see it by email from the app
Coupons for each medication
Mango Health: This is another nice app for medication management as well as habit reminders. It keeps track of streaks and gives incentives to fulfill healthy habits (such as staying hydrated) and taking your medication on time. It helps with:
Medication reminders and tracking
Tracking how much of a medication you have left
Tracking healthy habits
Incentivizing healthy habits and taking medication
Access to extensive information about each medication
NOTE: One of the habits that this app suggests tracking is weighing yourself daily. If this is an issue for you, it’s probably not a good app.
eMoods: This app is made specifically for bipolar disorder, though it could probably be used for disorders with similar symptoms (I’m not sure because I have bipolar disorder). It offers:
Tracking level of depression, elevation, irritability, and anxiety
Tracking whether or not psychotic symptoms are present
Tracking whether or not you saw a therapist/psychiatrist on a given day
It comes preset to track menstrual cycles, but if you’re like me and Don’t Do That, you can turn it off in the app’s settings