i don't even know how to call her anymore

anonymous asked:

how do you feel about people who keep calling jihyo jisoo even tho she legally changed her name to jihyo

mmm… I mean I remember I used to keep tagging my Jihyo posts as Jisoo/Park Jisoo because I thought Jihyo was just a stage name. So I guess there might be people that were like me that didn’t know. But if they do know and they still continue then I guess it’s kinda rude? I mean it’s not like anyone calls Jeongyeon by her old name anymore, we respect her enough to call her by the name that she prefers so we should do that for Jihyo too.

anonymous asked:

How come you don't ship OQ anymore? You used to

I shipped Outlaw Queen in the beginning because I thought Robin would call Regina out. She’s the female equivalent of Prince John (though she’s probably 100x worse) and as a defender of the poor and oppressed I assumed Robin would take none of her crap.

So as you know A&E fell short:

  1. Robin’s character revolves around woobifying Regina
  2. The ship is contrived and forced
  3. Regina continued to be a terrible parent for Henry
  4. She’s become even more abusive and pathetic
  5. Everyone’s been ruined in order for this relationship to work

1. Robin’s character revolves around woobifying Regina:

For a decent redemption storyline Robin “I defend the oppressed from evil tyrants” Hood’s presence should have been used to give Queen Queen a reality check and accept that she’s the cause of her own problems.  

Instead we get this:

Who knew a child abusing, mass murdering rapist was actually just a misunderstood fairy princess?

Can you see her little smile? Regina finally gets a man who’ll whitewash her crimes, who understands that she doesn’t deserve to be called evil just because she ruined innocent lives, do you think she’d fall for him if he told her that he thinks she’s a monster whose just as bad as Prince John?

The only way this relationship (just like every other relationship Regina has) can work is if Robin tells her what she wants to hear. Not only is this extremely unhealthy for Robin but it also encourages Regina to believe that she can do no wrong, so she’ll continue abusing and hurting others whilst denying her past crimes because she got a man whose in complete denial.

2. The ship is contrived and forced 

According to imdb Lana specifically requested for Regina to have a love interest (x), which means that Outlaw Queen was never part of A&E’s original plan. 

Neal was introduced as Gold’s son, Killian came as the new big bad but Robin’s sole purpose was to be Regina’s mollycoddling love interest. A&E wanted to woobify Queen Queen without giving her a proper redemption because she’s too far gone for one of those. So instead they threw in an iconic, childhood hero in the hopes that viewers would just accept that Regina was never evil because Robin Hood said so.

So all this “pixie dust”, “the book made me evil”, “the lion tattoo”, “I love you so much I don’t care that you killed my wife” etc. is all bs and clearly A&E’s desperate attempt to make this ship interesting. 

Outlaw Queen is a failure; it hasn’t been well received, viewers are put off (the S4a finale is proof of that), it’s got a ton of bad reviews, even Ginny came out and criticised it! 

3. Regina continued to be a terrible parent for Henry 

So her 5 day boyfriend dumps her and what is Regina’s reaction?

Regina was always a bad mother, that’s nothing new but Lana talked so much about how Regal Believer is developing and on the same level as Swan Believer but this is the crap we get. 

Not to mention that unlike Operation Cobra which was about Emma & Henry, Operation Mongoose is about Regina & Robin:

Do you think Regina cares that changing the book means she’ll never have Henry? Regal Believer’s new, wonderful dynamic is all about Regina denying her past crimes and blaming an inanimate object. All whilst dismissing the abuse she inflicted on her son. 

 4. She’s become even more abusive and pathetic

There’s something incredibly disturbing about a woman who thinks her life is over because she no longer has a man. Also last I checked heroes don’t get mad that they’re prevented form murdering an innocent woman, the amount of bullying and cruelty Regina threw at Emma for having the audacity to save Marian is beyond pathetic. 

What made it worse was the fact that Emma apologised and victim blamed, so let’s all pretend 4x05 never existed ok?

5. Everyone’s been ruined in order for this relationship to work 

  • Henry’s victim blaming and thinks it’s great that an innocent woman is dying.
  • Snow repays Marian’s loyalty by encouraging her would be murderer to go after her husband.
  • Emma apologises for saving Marian and is also blaming a book for Regina’s crimes despite witnessing herself that the book only records, it doesn’t dictate.
  • Emma’s speech about choosing your own path clearly means nothing:
  • Marian leaves the voice of reason and boards the “woobify Queen Queen” train instead.
  • No one’s sympathising with Marian isntead it’s all about poor Regina and how her life must suck.
a hella long list of random lyric sentence starters (pt. 11)
  • "We were close, never close enough."
  • "I'll come around if you ever want to be in love."
  • "You always had something effortless."
  • "At school you were the biggest deal."
  • "We were young, we were side by side, don't know when we started losing touch."
  • "I know our filthy hands can wash one another’s."
  • "There are roads left in both of our shoes."
  • "If the silence takes you then I hope it takes me, too."
  • "Brown eyes I hold you near."
  • "You’re the only song I want to hear."
  • "I've tried before to tell her of the feelings I have for her in my heart."
  • "Every little thing she does is magic."
  • "Must I always be alone?"
  • "I’m drunk off your kiss."
  • "This is becoming too routine for me."
  • "I did not mean to lead you on."
  • "It's all right to pretend that we still talk."
  • "It’s just for show, isn’t it?""It’s my fault that it fell apart."
  • "You were everything I wanted but I just can't finish what I've started."
  • "I still pick my friends over you."
  • "We're making our own history."
  • "This is the moment where it all began."
  • "Every single hero has to start out looking like me and you."
  • "We can do this if we really want to."
  • "Why mess up a good thing, baby?"
  • "It’s a risk to even fall in love."
  • "This is trouble."
  • "I don’t go out much like I used to."
  • "Why leave when I got you, baby?"
  • "It’s a risk but babe, I need the thrill."
  • "I never said you'd be easy."
  • "It could be lethal, sleeping with a friend."
  • "No heroes, villains, one to blame."
  • "The thrill is gone."
  • "We used to have it all."
  • "It's our time to go, but at least we stole the show."
  • "I'm not calling you a liar, just don't lie to me."
  • "I'm not calling you a ghost, just stop haunting me."
  • "I love you so much, I'm gonna let you kill me."
  • "When you kiss me, I am happy enough to die."
  • "Classy girls don't kiss in bars, you fool."
  • "You and that girl, she your girlfriend?"
  • "Pretty girls don't know the things that I know."
  • "I love this secret language that we're speaking."
  • "Never really thought we would make it."
  • "I don't wanna see the end begin."
  • "I never felt nothing in the world like this before."
  • "You could have stayed but you wouldn't give me a chance."
  • "Why does your pride make you run and hide?"
  • "Are you that afraid of me?"
  • "I will wait for you."
  • "You're still in love with me."
  • "You don't love me at all."
  • "You're a bad-hearted boy-trap, babydoll."
  • "You're so damn hot."
  • "So who's this other guy you've got?"
  • "Once upon a time, we burned bright, now all we ever seem to do is fight."
  • "I could've been a princess, you'd be a king, but no, you let me go."
  • "You really hurt me."
  • "I'm going straight to hell."
  • "You're going down."
  • "God, it hurts so much to be the bearer of bad news."
  • "Don't just dream in your sleep, it's just lazy."
  • "I am going sleepless and you're out of lullabies."
  • "You've got a dark heart, you've got a cold kiss."
  • "You always let me down."
  • "I'm a junky for the way that you please."
  • "I almost told you that I loved you, thank God I didn't because it would've been a lie."
  • "I say the damnedest things when your on top of me."
  • "I'm not the one that you want, I'm not the one that you need."
  • "My love is like a fucking disease."
  • "I'm the hardest mother fucker to please."
  • "They say you never miss it 'til it's gone; well you're gone and I wish I'd done it better."
  • "I miss having you close to me."
  • "I'm sorry, I promise I'll do better."
  • "Can we start again?"
  • "You needed something better."
  • "I want more."
  • "I try my best, but I don't ever change."
  • "Who wouldn't want it when he looks like that?"
  • "If I try my hardest, would you look my way?"
  • "Do you want to show me something new?"
  • "I know I want it far too much."
  • "Are you coming over soon?"
  • "Can I be what you like?"
  • "Don't try to fuck with me."
  • "This is the last time I am gonna put you back together."
  • "I'm sending pic after picture, I'mma get you fired."
  • "I can't stand these nights alone."
  • "You light up my cold heart."
  • "A love like this won't last forever."
  • "I'm not the one that you want me to be."
  • "Are we just gonna stay like this forever, floating?"
  • "I know I'm gonna let you down."
  • "I wish I could say what I'm feeling; I'm scared to let these words out."
  • "I can't trust you."
  • "This isn't fun anymore."
  • "Damn, I thought we'd make it."
  • "You never got to heaven but you got real close."
  • "I beg for attention in small doses."
  • "You play those hearts like toys."
  • "I'm the option you shouldn't have chosen."
  • "This is the night you'll regret in the morning."
  • "I always wonder how far we could go."
  • "We could be free."
  • "This is my life and they'll call it a song."
  • "Make myself a king."
  • "There's no one to blame but you."
  • "You need me there, ain't no leaving me behind."
  • "There ain't nothing here for me anymore, but I don't wanna be alone."
  • "I can be a lone wolf with ya."
  • "All the world is gray as though you took the colors with you."
  • "We don't talk anymore like we used to do."
  • "What was all of it for?"
  • "I just heard you found the one you been looking for."
  • "Shoulda known your love was a game."
  • "I just hope you're lying next to somebody who knows how to love you like me."
  • "Call your girlfriend, it's time you had the talk."
  • "Say it's not her fault, but you just met somebody new."
  • "Let her down easy."
  • "You never meant to hurt no one."
  • "I give you something that you never even knew you missed."
  • "Don't you even try and explain how it's so different when we kiss."
  • "Now it's gonna be me and you."
  • "You're not sure that you love me."
  • "Don't worry 'bout this heart of mine."
  • "You're gonna break my heart anyway."
  • "Get it over with and just let me move on."
  • "Don't concern yourself with this mess you've left for me."
  • "You not making up your mind is killing me and wasting time."
  • "I'm sorry, I'm really a mess right now."
  • "I'm trying my best to get it together somehow."
  • "Tell me where love goes when it's gone."
  • "Suddenly someone is no one."
  • "I'm sorry, I let me fall for you."
  • "You're the hand I can't hold."
  • "I don't want you back, I just want to have what you took from me."
  • "I'll come around again, I know it's not the end."
  • "Love leaves a black hole where it dies."
  • "How can I ever love again?"
  • "I see you with her and it crushes me inside."
  • "Guess I should stop thinking about you all the time."
  • "Maybe this is a sign."
  • "Maybe I've been blind to reality."
  • "You seemed so interested."
  • "Was it real or was it all in my head?"
  • "She's so pretty, you two look so great."
  • "It was probably just a silly crush anyway."
  • "I just can't help but think that we could've had something."
  • "Did you ever feel the same?"
  • "I promised I wouldn't do it again."
  • "Taught him a lesson he wouldn't forget."
  • "I hope you find a way to be yourself someday."
  • "Change can be amazing."
  • "I pray for the best for you."
  • "I wish you could be honest with me."
  • "Why’d you fake it?"
  • "Hesitation is killing me, too."
  • "I couldn’t save it."
  • "Friend, why don’t you love me?"
  • "Tell me you want me in your life."
  • "It helps that you feel the same."
  • "We started from a spark."
  • "We got dreams and they start right here."
  • "I cry like a baby when I don't get my way."
  • "I won't apologize when I make a mistake."
  • "Do you want me?"
  • "I got scars on my heart and they won't go away."
  • "Everybody knows I'm a little insane."
  • "I feel you don't even know I'm alive."
  • "I feel you think that I'm out of my mind."
  • "I just want someone to hold."
  • "You're looking at me strange like you want me to change."
  • "I think you're a saint and I think you're an angel."
  • "You give me something to think about that's not the shit in my head."
  • "You're a miracle."
  • "I gotta stay with you."
  • "You're a glimpse of bliss, a little taste of heaven."
  • "I know you're gone now, but I still wait for you."