i don't care how much time this will take

Advice for the signs
  • Aries: Take a step back and think. You are wonderful just the way you are, why do you have to be mean to others just to compensate for your lack of self-esteem? You care so much, I know that. But you have to let the others know that as well. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone. You're a hidden gem, aries and let someone find you instead of wrecking the surprise for them. You are loved and you know exactly how to have fun so keep reminding yourself that you are worthy of the adventure your life has to offer.
  • Taurus: Get out of your comfort zone and stop caring about what people think. I know that you're the best at giving advice but I think it's about time that someone takes care of you. You are not those stereotypes people try to label you with. You are candid. Don't forget your dreams and keep focusing on how to get there. Be social, let yourself be loved and remember that you can always learn from anyone. You're not alone and people can understand, if you let them in. Take in the sun, try something new and keep in mind the fact that you can live through anything. You represent grace. You are going to be okay.
  • Gemini: You have so many interesting things to say and don't let anyone ever shush you. You are a deep thinker, an innovator. Gemini, I know your mind is on overdrive but take a moment to slow down, on your terms. But after that, do as much as you can because you are capable of so much. Be sure of your opinions (stick to them!) and keep looking forward, you moment will come too. Discover yourself, your surroundings and let yourself be immune to all that is superficial. We all know you are authentic so why keep up the mask? We'll love you anyway and perhaps even more. You are going to be okay.
  • Cancer: You spread your love so much that at the end of the day, you have none left for yourself. So, when you're down, let yourself be nurtured as much you would nurture someone else. Your voice may be soft but every word has so much meaning. You are so kind, genuinely thoughtful and you are so rare. Keep your purity, don't let corruptions soak in your veins or crawl on your skin. Sometimes, it can be good just to stop caring and to live at the moment. The world's problems are not your responsibility. You are free. Always. You are going to be okay.
  • Leo: Keep being yourself, I like that. But remember, people's opinion about you does not impact your self-worth. You are special and you are whole just by yourself. It's okay to lose your cool sometimes and become humble and silly, it will feel refreshing I promise. You are so brave and one of kind. Keep standing up for what you believe in and never let anyone extinguish your fire. Go get what you want and keep fierce. You are going to be okay.
  • Virgo: You are so on top of everything and I admire you for that. I know that things are overwhelming right now but you have to realize that you are powerless to somethings. Live and let live. You are so talented, unique, sensitive, intellectual and grounded, why are you so hard on yourself? You are your very own prized position. Be proud of yourself and keep working hard, it's going to bring you places. Keep being kind and considerate. The fear you feel is only in your head and you hold power over it. You are going to be okay.
  • Libra: I cannot even begin to describe how wonderful you are, so stop trying to please so hard! The people who are truly good for you are the ones you will not compromise yourself for. You are aloud to be unhappy with something and voice your opinion about it. Discover your talents and expose them to the world. Sing, dance, laugh and don't let anyone rain on your parade. You are more than meets the eye libra. You are a force to be reckoned with. You are going to be okay.
  • Scorpio: Oh boy, there are so many things I want to tell you. I'll start by saying that people care about you as much as you care about them so stop pushing them away. When you're in the dark, let your hand be held. You know you are different but you forget that it's a good thing. You are so loyal but don't be with your demons. You are not who has hurt you so shake that thought out of your head. I love how you are able to strive even when your heart is shattered. Remember what your priorities are and make sure to include yourself. You are going to be okay.
  • Sagittarius: The world is your oyster so never limit yourself to only what is known. Be daring, keep being honest and don't let yourself taken over by things that are simply not worth your time. Be patient and the good things will come. Cherish your freedom and keep that laugh of yours just as loud. Remember your one liners and how many faces you have made smile. Do whatever you want your heart desires and stay candid. You are going to be okay.
  • Capricorn: You have so many plans and you know exactly how to make them happen. No matter what your achievements are, you will always be successful. Take a minute to look at the beautiful world around you. Show them they were wrong! You are so much more than what they tell you to be. Keep asking questions, competing but keep your mind open. You know that you have an emotional side to yourself and you will feel at piece once you acknowledge it. You are devoted but let someone but just as kind towards you. You are going to be okay.
  • Aquarius: Keep being weird and not caring about the differences that set you apart from the rest. Your brain holds so much knowledge and wisdom, don't let your pride get in the way of it. You can revolutionize, change the world, modify the norms. You are so peculiar and I know that it's hard to have your interest but I can promise you that if you look at everything without a filter, you will feel at peace. Be the exception to everything. You will be okay.
  • Pisces: Always follow your gut. Your thoughts speak nothing but the truth so never put them aside. You are so special already, you don't need to change to fit in. You naturally do. You are an old soul, the one who got away, the one who will take you home. Don't let yourself get taken avantage of, trust yourself and never stop dreaming. Keep doodling and listening. Remember how strong you are, that behind that sweetness hides a layer of tar that you need to discover on your own. You are multi-dimensional. You are going to be okay.

anonymous asked:

Whatever you do, don't imagine how Andromeda stopped, breath caught in her throat, the first time she ever saw Ginny after the war when she cut her hair short. How her first thought was that she was seeing Tonks, sporting Weasley-Red hair and freckles, and brown eyes. Then her heart shattering when she realized it was Ginny, not Tonks. Then how her heart swelled again seeing how much Ginny took after and looked like Tonks, knowing she loved her as family.

And can I add the possible fact Ginny helped Harry taking care of Teddy? I’m gonna sleep well tonight.

anonymous asked:

Its weird but can you please do one where Hanzo kidnapped the reader a really long time ago and she's been his "wife" for a few years now and one of their many children starts showing symptoms of bring yandere (like they say they like someone at school and will make them like them back) and Hanzo is proud but reader is horrified and she strictly advises them to never hurt or make anyone do anything they don't want to and Hanzo is mad like ?? That's how I got you isn't it why would that be wrong?


It’d been such a long time since Hanzo had taken you and made you his wife, so long that you couldn’t imagine what your life would be like now if he hadn’t done so. You hardly ever left the home the two of you shared, much too busy with taking care of the children the two of you made together; you didn’t want them to be without a mother so you had long ago stopped trying to get away from your husband. 

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List of DISNEY starters - Put one in my ask!
  • "Because it's true love!"
  • "I want so much more than they've got planned."
  • "I just can't wait to be king!"
  • "The human world... it's a mess."
  • "This can't get any worse, can it?"
  • "I'm sorry I bit you... and pulled your hair... and punched you in the face."
  • "Sometimes it's better to be alone. No one can hurt you."
  • "Ladies do not start fights, but they can finish them."
  • "You don't even know him!"
  • "Memo to me. Maim you after my meeting."
  • "Hmm. Don't know, don't care. How's that?"
  • "Even miracles take a little time."
  • "I ain't biting no more butts."
  • "Something brought you were here."
  • "Being brave doesn't mean you go looking for trouble."
  • "I'm surrounded by idiots."
  • "Can you paint with all the colors of the wind?"
  • "Be our guest!"
  • "And when I promise something, I never ever break that promise. Ever."
  • "Who says we have to grow up?"
  • "You're the one. The one I've been looking for!"
  • "If you don't think, then you shouldn't talk."
  • "Would you like to stay for dinner?"
  • "How do you spell love?"
  • "When was the last time you let your heart decide?"
Reasons To Join Team M!Robin

The Mage Gauntlet is approaching and I wanted to do my part spreading the Robin propaganda, so here goes!

  • First Character
    • A lot of people’s first game was Awakening (me included), therefore Robin was many people’s first character, a character that we could personalize to boot, so let’s go join his team, eh? 
  • Smash Fan
    • Do you like to play Smash? Then Robin’s the mage for you. Bonus points if Robin was your Smash main.
  • F!Robin Isn’t In This Gauntlet, So Make Do With This One
    • Disappointed that you can’t root for F!Robin? Then why not root for this Robin instead!
  • He’s Always There For You
    • Robin isn’t just available as a 4* and/or a 5*, he’s available as a 3* as well! You get to see his cool summoning video a lot! That, and even if you’re tired of seeing him, he’s at least Bonfire fodder so it’s not a total loss.
  • Triangle Adept Hero
    • Robin can take most reds to the face and colorless units can’t even touch him. Robin is one of the best units to benefit from Triangle Adept because it gives him advantage over two colors. He may not be a nuke, but he’s a pretty solid choice for your team.
  • Shipping Lord
    • Robin’s your best wingman. Who cares if you’re fighting a war? He’ll hook up anyone that can support.
  • Best Waifu
    • Don’t be fooled by the waifu status of mages like Tharja, Robin’s the real waifu and let me tell you why. In Awakening, Robin is literally best waifu. Got a character you want to S-Support? Waifu Robin. Want to make a certain child character OP? Waifu Robin. Want to make Morgan OP? Waifu Robin. Want that sweet ass custom hair color on a certain child character? Waifu Robin. Meanwhile in Heroes, if you want a mage with some bulk, then Robin’s the waifu for you. Tired of Takumis ruining your day? Robin’s the waifu for you. And yes, male mages can be waifus too.
      • Joking aside, Robin actually has a chance to be the first male character that beats the trend of female Gauntlet winners. Even if you don’t care much for the whole waifu thing, I ask that you help a male character win the gauntlet for once.
  • What Time Is It?
    • I implore you to join Team Robin. After all, we’re stronger together because our bonds give us strength. We have to show them how it’s done, that it’s the wrong move to even think of going up against Robin because he’ll find a way to secure that checkmate. Robin is here to even the odds, so it’s time my friends… Time to tip the scales!

I don’t think people realize how big a deal it was that Mon el told Kara that he loves her.

He is a man who didn’t know love, his parents didn’t show it to him, his planet didn’t really exhibit the most loving of characteristics (I hope you know how sarcastic I am being), all of which mean that he didn’t really understand it. Not until he came to Earth and meet Kara and quite frankly, all of the friends at the DEO that really do care for each other. They showed him, Kara especially, what it is to love and be shown love in return.

So yes, he may have said it pretty fast (but love is only relative to how much you allow yourself to feel it) and yes it may have been at an unfortunate time (tell me when it’s a perfect time, I’ll wait) but it doesn’t take away from it.
HE MEANT IT. stop discrediting him.

now excuse me while I cry a little. or a lot.

Snape Appreciation Month Day 3: Head of Slytherin
  • Can you imagine how insufferable Severus was at the end of each year during his winning streak. Like he walks into the staff lounge and he transfigures his usual seat into a throne. I can just imagine how much he includes the House Cup win into every conversation.
  • Mcgonagall: So I'll be escorting Mary Mckinnon.
  • Severus: Oh escorting. Great idea. I was wondering whether to leave the Trophy here or take it with me. Thank you, Minerva.
  • Mcgonagall: This is why we're not friends.
  • Filch: Anyway, I found the body wedged between broomstricks. Can you ask Dumbledore to ask the Ministry if they want to have a look? I think this is something they’d care about but I’m not too sure. They don't let me out of the school
  • Severus: I'm not sure he has the time. He just handed me the House Cup for the fourth year in a row.
  • Filch: Ok but he can do something about the murder-
  • Severus: Yes I supposed I could say we have made a killing yet again.
  • Filch: Well the stench is driving Mrs Norris wild.
  • Severus: Our celebrations might have been a tad too wild, yes, but we cleaned up afterwards. That's why we're ahead of the other Houses. Discipline.
  • Filch: I supposed I'll throw it to the squid. Let it get a taste of human flesh. That'll teach those brats.
  • Dumbledore: Voldemort- stop flinching- could return at any moment, Severus. You need to be prepared.
  • Severus: Preparation. That's how Slytherin wins. Not cheating like Minerva swears. I swear that every year I beat her, she gets more and more ridiculous.
  • Dumbledore: ... anyway the fate of the-
  • Severus: Yes I know we're fated to excel but that doesn't make victory any less sweet.
  • Dumbledore: Severus one day I'm going to hit you with that Cup.
  • Severus: Don't do that or I'll quit.
  • Dumbledore: No you won't.
  • Severus: No, I won't.
  • Suzaku: So where's Lelouch?
  • Suzaku: ???
  • Shirely: ...
  • Suzaku: *huge sigh* Well, thank goodness. If you've stopped caring, then Lelouch and I can come out.
  • Shirley: Come...out? Why the hell are you asking ME where Lelouch is if you already know?!
  • Suzaku: I meant that we could come out of the closet.
  • Suzaku: I'm about 100% certain that he's not in the closet to hide from you.
  • Shirley: I'm gonna find out! *marches over to Student Council closet* Lelou, you can come out now!
  • Suzaku: Uh, Shirley...
  • Shirley: *yanks open door* LELOU-- huh? Suzaku, he already came out.
  • Suzaku: Not that one. It's a metaphorical closet. It means Lelouch and I are gay.
  • Shirley: G...ay...?
  • Suzaku: Yeah... We didn't want to tell you in case you got upset, but if you don't care anymore...
  • Shirley: I totally want you two to be happy!
  • Suzaku: Wow, Shirley, you're taking this much better than we'd thought you would. Thanks a bunch.
  • Shirley: Sure, Suzaku! You must think I'm heartless. Say, what kinds of things do you and Lelou do when you're gay anyway?
  • Suzaku: You know, I think I'm gonna let Lelouch handle that one.
  • -+-
  • -+-
  • Lelouch: Suzaku. At a time of my choosing, I'm not going to talk to you for 47.25 minutes. Because that's how long I had to endure Shirley going into hysterics.
  • Suzaku: About what? She took it so well the other day!
  • Lelouch: I had to clarify. She thought you meant that you and I were happy together.
  • Suzaku: But we ARE happy together.
  • Lelouch: ...While I love you dearly, you can be SUCH an idiot. Between you and Shirley, no wonder the message didn't get across.
  • -+-
  • Milly: Where are Lelouch and Suzaku?

anonymous asked:

Sometime people use he/him pronouns with me and honestly I don't give two flying shits what pronouns people use with me but my family takes it like ultimate dishonor or something. The thing is... I don't feel like a girl or a boy? I'm just here I'm just living in just human. Like sure some days I wear dresses and some days I don't but those are just clothes they have no relevancy to me like they do my family. Idk how to express this to my family. Idk what that means I am?

my family is the same, fren, they get so offended all the time and care about what other people think way too much
you might just be an agender creature of the wild like myself (aka gender makes no sense and to hell with gender roles) or genderfluid (aka one day you feel more feminine and choose to wear things that are considered to be more girly like dresses and makeup, another you feel masculine and wear clothes/hairstyles/accessories that are considered to be more boyish) but let’s be honest clothes are just pieces of cloth sewed together in different ways why they’re divided into such ridiculous categories as “what’s allowed for females” and “what’s allowed for males” is simply beyond me

anonymous asked:

Hello! One more headcanon if you don't mind :) Boys + Ravus reaction when they find out that their s/o was a guinea-pig in Gralea long time ago?

Apologies to anyone who’s waited long for me to respond to their asks.  I’ve been crazy busy with articles, commissions, updating AMONC, and taking care of some health stuff. Anyway, better late than never, right? 

Here you go my lovely Anon!

✓ I doubt his reaction would much differ from how he reacted with Prompto; he wouldn’t see it as something to be ashamed of.
✓ If anything, this would amplify his hatred for the Empire; his best friend and his s/o were both victims of their sick experiments? It’s ass-kicking time.
✓ If he found out before you reached Gralia, he would vow vengeance of the Empire. When rescuing Prompto, he would reveal his dark past, and Noctis would jokingly respond “Does that make you somehow special? So was this one,” pointing at his s/o.

✓ Prompto would probably sense this before his s/o would even say a word.
✓ He’d possibly search for a tattoo on their wrist when they were not looking, or ask if he could see their wrist. If their s/o resisted, he’d show his own tattoo first, and they would know.
✓ I can imagine this being a very emotional and cathartic experience for Prompto. He would just hold his s/o, as tight as he could. He would be empowered by sharing his dark past with someone as wonderful as them. He’d want to protect them from any harm, and feel a whole new level of affinity with his s/o.

✓ Again, if he’s already in love with his s/o, their past isn’t going to waver his devotion.
✓ In fact, he’d even offer to on to Gralea on his own to find the bastard responsible for the experiments and ‘bash some heads in’.
✓ I can see Gladio being way more protective and angry after finding out, more than the other guys. He’d also become annoyingly compassionate, checking up with his s/o every five minutes. “Are you ok?” If his s/o would have the slightest discomfort, like a pain in the foot, he’d pick them up and carry them, regardless of any resistance.

✓ Ignis would be deeply shocked when he would find out. He’d be really concerned about his s/o’s mental wellbeing.
✓ “I’m not going to ask you. But if you ever want to talk about it… I’m here to listen,” he would say.
✓ He would understand the traumatic nature of the experience, and thus not make a big fuss about it, but he’d always be ready to support his s/o emotionally if they needed his shoulder, at any point.

✓ Poor Ravus! No more heartbreak for him, he deserves happiness. I think the first thing he would feel would be guilt, and shame.
✓ He’s probably witnessed quite a lot of the MT creation, being a high ranking officer in the Niflheim army. If anything, this would strengthen his resolve to turn against Niflheim and help Noctis, seeking some redemption for himself.
✓ Wrestling with his own demons, this would make his ultimate fate even more tragic. My heart just broke in two… I can’t deal with Ravus finding out this shit about his s/o. It didn’t happen, ok? Ravus met a big fluffy bunny in the field of Tenebrae and rode on it into the sunset.

limitofmyimagination  asked:

Hi! Lately I've been taking care of my grandparents' dog while they're on holidays (an English bulldog) and I've been having trouble when walking her. Since I don't know her that well I prefer to keep her on a leash, but she almost always manages to take her collar off and runs away. I then have to wait for about half an hour for her to come back home on her own, which is not much fun and also makes me really anxious every time. Any idea why she might do that and how to make things easier?

First, A+ for choosing to keep her leashed. It sounds like she’s prone to running off, so that’s the responsible choice. It’s definitely not fun to have the dog run off and not be somewhere you can keep it safe. 

I’d suggest checking the fit of her collar - it may not be tight enough. It may also be that due to the shape of her head and neck, even a well-fitted collar can still slide off. At that point I would suggest getting her something new to wear (I know she’s not your dog, but it’s your peace of mind) like a martingale collar or a harness. Martingales have a piece that can tighten down (but not to the degree of a choke collar) and are used on dogs like greyhounds whose heads and necks are often the same size. 


It’s been two months but I genuinely don’t care, I’ll keep drawing for the DigiOTPweek I missed, watch me.

Day 4: Alternative Universe

- flower shop AU (florist Takeru is my ultimate weakness)

- soulmates AU (first words are tattooed on wrists)

look i’m no expert but i think the lgbt+ community needs to stick together and stop it with whatever gatekeeping bs is going on. there’s always going to be some intracommunity fights and ~*discourse*~, sure, but recent events are a horrifying reminder that nobody wants to be lgbt+ just for fun. please stop it with the ‘you need to be thiiis gay to ride’ mentality. there is no official community registration or badge or stamp. if you’re young and confused and need a place to belong, you do. if you’re aro and/or ace and feel excluded everywhere, you shouldn’t be. if you’re intersex or if your gender is being weird, you’re not alone. as for allies, here’s a reminder they used to be (and may still be) human shields, and that many allies might actually be closeted lgbt, or questioning, and it’s a safe way for them to access the community. ally is a title that is given, not taken, and i’ve seen some bad self-proclaimed allies around, but there’s no need to make the community unsafe for anyone.

we can’t afford to fall apart. we need to take care of each other because we’re all hurting in some way. there’s a quote from the time of the norwegian tragedy five years ago that goes ‘if one man can show this much hate, imagine how much love we can show together’

anonymous asked:

I am so scared. I have been really behind on all of my classes/notes and I can't get a passing grade on my exam no matter how many times I take it. My head has been hurting I haven't been able to sleep, I really don't know what to do anymore.

Omgg that sounds so stressful!! But don’t worry ok anon? Let’s try to break this down.

  • First, it sounds to me like you’re pushing yourself to extremes and that way you’re not going to get anything into your brain. You absolutely need a day off. You’ll be so much more productive and ready to absorb info once you take a break. Here’s a self care masterpost for you to relax. If you don’t want to take a whole day off, at least, take a couple hours off, paint your nails (if you’re into that kind of thing) and watch some youtube.
  • Sleeping-wise, you need to sleep if you wanna be able to study. Some sleeping tips courtesy of my fren @studyfitaustria – you can try taking melatonin tablets or valerian, exercising during the day (although make sure it’s at least three hours before your bedtime), and also try to not eat right before bed. Lavender tea or a lavender pillow spray may also help you relax and, if you have some time before this exam, maybe try to fix your sleep schedule by going to bed at the same time every day.
  • If you don’t have proper notes and you’re falling behind, maybe you can ask a friend that you know is good at taking notes to lend them to you? If that’s not option, I’d say get a textbook and your syllabus and start studying from there (if your exam is in a few days, please don’t take notes, just study straight from the textbook and underline whatever you think is important (with pencil if you’ve gotten the textbook from your library)). 
    • If you have a little more time, I would recommend that you copy your syllabus, onto a  text file and summarize whatever info your textbook has on the topic under said topic.
  • If this test involves not only memorization but also problem solving, I can only say practice. Taking past tests is by far the best ssrategy. Time yourself and then check whether you’ve made any mistakes. Write those on bright sticky notes and make sure to look at them often.
  • If you’ve taken this test before, ask your professor to se it, or at least, to point out some of the main mistakes you’ve made.
  • Count all the pages you have to study and distribute them between the days you have left to make sure you’ll absolutely have enough time to study everything.
  • Something that I always recommend is that you review out loud because it really forces you to see if you really remember what you’ve just read. So you would read some paragraphs and then try to tell yourself what you’ve just read. I have some more memorization tips here in case they help.

I can’t really think of anything else but I hope this helped a little bit. I’m rooting for you, I know you’re going to ace that exam!

Sas Nahn

I talk a lot about the part in TWoK that affected me so strongly that on my first read I threw the book across the room and didn’t touch it for a few days - I mean, I talk about that it happened that way. I was sideswiped. I threw the book. I let it lie there for a while. I don’t talk about That Chapter.

So, now I’m rereading the book, and got to Sas Nahn this morning. It’s been years and several rereads. I try not to look at it when I’m not doing a full reread, because of how it affects me.

But today, I was steeled for it.

And I finished the chapter. (More after the cut.)

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What I like and dislike about each type
  • Warning: I'm very straightforward with this and aim to be as honest as possible. Also, these are my own perceptions and may not be prominent in all individuals of the type so take it with a grain of salt. With that said, you're always free to send anonymous hate mail in my ask box if you're not happy.
  • What I like about ISTPs: You're too cool. How do you do that nonchalant "I'm effortlessly good at everything" -attitude floating around you? You're also so quick to act in sudden situations, your reflexes are excellent.
  • What I dislike about ISTPs: You do care about things so stop pretending you don't. You fool no one and it's embarrassing to watch. Showing some sentiment doesn't equal being weak, everyone else gets that so why don't you?
  • What I like about ESTPs: How do you notice everything? Of all the types, you're possibly the most observant and objective about your observations. I admire your straightforward way of communicating.
  • What I dislike about ESTPs: You're too competitive. For fuck's sake, it's only a game. Grow up and stop throwing temper tantrums whenever someone's better than you at something.
  • What I like about INTPs: How can you know so much about everything? You're like an information sponge who can glance at an issue and take in the most vital parts in two seconds and then move on to something else that's interesting.
  • What I dislike about INTPs: Your passive and cynical attitude towards life borders ridiculous. You don't get to spend your life putting absolutely zero effort into your ambitions and then mope about how your life is wasting away. It doesn't work that way so grow up and start taking some initiative.
  • What I like about ENTPs: You're ridiculously good at brainstorming. If I run into a wall with something, you guys are the people I'd ask for help in order to find a solution outside the box.
  • What I dislike about ENTPs: Learn how to filter your speech at times. Yeah, freedom of speech and all but it doesn't mean you have to pay absolutely zero attention to what you let out of your big mouth. Some jokes are just in bad taste.
  • What I like about INFPs: You're imaginative and mentally very strong. You have no issue to stand up for something you believe in and God help the person who's in your way of setting things right.
  • What I dislike about INFPs: Everyone is not targeting you in particular and criticism is not always voiced solely for the purpose of offending you. Learn not to take everything so damn personally.
  • What I like about ENFPs: You're so much fun to be around. How can your humor be so out there yet spot on? A social gathering without an ENFP is like a bath without bubbles.
  • What I dislike about ENFPs: Pick up after yourself every now and then. I know mess doesn't probably bother you as much as many other types but it's a part of common courtesy not to leave your stuff around for everyone else to clean. It's disgusting.
  • What I like about ISFPs: You're genuinely a warm and interesting person to be around. Your shyness mixed with your observant nature and thirst for new experiences is very charming.
  • What I dislike about ISFPs: Stop being such a doormat. You have a tendency for self-sacrifice, doing things you don't want to do for people who really don't want or need you to do it for them and then wallow in how much you don't want to do it. This is not the Bible and you're not a martyr so grow a backbone.
  • What I like about ESFPs: You're so set on enjoying life to the fullest. How can you turn everything into a fun experience like that? You're so observant and know how to have fun.
  • What I dislike about ESFPs: Learn the meaning of personal space. I know you're genuinely interested in people but if they wish to be left alone, respect that. Plus, don't get so touchy if someone doesn't want to spend time with you every now and then. It doesn't mean they hate you.
  • What I like about ISFJs: How can you have so much compassion? It's like you instinctively understand everyone around you. I admire the way you withhold judgment when dealing with people.
  • What I dislike about ISFJs: Stop being such a worrywart. The world will not fall apart even if you're not there to take care of everything. Your fussiness can be so damn annoying sometimes.
  • What I like about ESFJs: You're the queen bee. How can you be so popular with so little effort? You know how to make friends and how to handle different people. You're so likable it's almost ridiculous.
  • What I dislike about ESFJs: Stop worrying about conflicts so much. It's not the end of the world to be in bad relations with someone. Not everyone will be your friend, learn to live with that.
  • What I like about ISTJs: You're so dependable. It's programmed in your system to work hard and expect little in return. Your loyalty and dedication is moving.
  • What I dislike about ISTJs: You're too judgmental. Don't jump to conclusions so much and learn how to listen to opposing views. They have a point sometimes, you know.
  • What I like about ESTJs: You're no-nonsense and I admire that. You know how to handle matters impersonally and efficiently. You see what needs to be done and do it.
  • What I dislike about ESTJs: You're too bossy sometimes. Stop measuring other people's worth by how well they perform and learn to cut some slack at times.
  • What I like about INTJs: You set a goal and keep pushing until you make it. You're a true achiever and have excellent self-discipline. You know what you want and if you don't know how to get it, you find out.
  • What I dislike about INTJs: Hold back with the superiority complex a bit won't you? There's a difference between being proud of your accomplishments and just being a smug asshole.
  • What I like about ENTJs: You know how to be smooth. You have strong communication skills and people follow you instinctively. You naturally seem like someone who always knows what they're doing.
  • What I dislike about ENTJs: You're too dominant. You can't control everyone and everything and it's really annoying when you try to do that. Also, keep your jealousy in check, other people's achievements are not indicators of your incapability.
  • What I like about INFJs: You have a unique worldview and see connections other people might miss entirely. Even if not religious, you still have this spiritual aura about you.
  • What I dislike about INFJs: Try to get rid of your special snowflake complex. You're not inherently different from everyone else, you're just about the only person who doesn't realize everyone's quirky in their own way and you're not more so than the others.
  • What I like about ENFJs: How can you be such a good mediator? You're like the best person to be in the middle of two people fighting, you know how to help people compromise and live in harmony.
  • What I dislike about ENFJs: Stop the humble bragging. Seriously, I get that you're proud of your good deeds but making sure everyone knows what a good person you are kinda eats away at the authenticity of it all. Plus it's embarrassing.

anonymous asked:

Dee, YOU come first before any of US or your STORIES. It's not selfish or anything to not post a on time or a pt months later b/c you're human, u're not a writing machine. I really hate how ppl don't understand that. You're truly admirable how u respond to ppl constantly asking "update this!" "request please". i hate to see it may becoming too much. Just know there are readers who understand & who want u to put urself & ur needs, school, fam, etc first. So take care of urself first. ily! \(^3^)/

Thank you so much, you’re too nice :*

Alec Lightwood facing Camille's existence and Magnus' immortality
  • Book!Alec: I didn't know about her. Why you didn't tell me about her. And besides her, how many people were in your life before me? And how many people will be after I die? You're immortal, you will forget about me and find someone else quickly. I'm nothing more than an instant in your life. I'm trivial.
  • Show!Alec: What she said about you being immortal, she's right. You watch the people you care about age and die. And no matter how much I want to stay, I will die anyway. No matter how much you want me to stay, you will have to watch me die and then you will be left behind, like so many times in your past. And you will be lonely again, and suffer again, because loving me will cause you pain someday and I want so much you to love me but I don't want you to suffer for it, Magnus.