i don't blame you for being you but you can't blame me for hating it

anonymous asked:

It's interesting because the same OT5 logic would mean you shouldn't be able to support C solo if you can't support OT4 together. The existence of either of those things means the end of OT5. But it's interesting you place the blame the fall of OT5 on OT4's existence and not C's existence. I don't think there's anything 5H could've done for you to not blame them. It's sad because they've just done the best they can with someone else's solo plans.

But I’m not blaming them for anything!! It’s not about the girls directly! It’s about the situation! The big difference between 5H and Camila right now is that Camila is starting something new and she’s on her own! Whereas LDNA are still using the Fifth Harmony name and we still witness their friendship, only for me everytime I watch OT4 I can’t help but feel like something is missing, like there’s a Camila shaped hole! It’s the image of the 5 of them together that I can’t let go of! When I see Camila I don’t feel like there’s 4 body missing, just like when I see Lauren or Normani solo I don’t feel like there’s anything missing either, because the link to 5H is not there. Again, I don’t blame anybody for this! I don’t blame the girls for wanting to keep the group going. Just like you shouldn’t blame Camila for following her dream. 

Now I know that no matter what I say or how much I try to explain the way I feel, anons like you, who obviously have a problem with Camila, are gonna think that I’m just trying to cover up the fact that I’m a Camilizer but in all honesty I don’t label myself as Camilizer -  I’m a Camren shipper, and Ot5 stan and a Cameleon - meaning that I stan Camren, the old 5H and Camila, without having a ounce of hate towards LDNA. 

That being said, I’m not gonna keep fighting with you anon, so the next unpleasant ask I get I’m gonna block, that way you won’t feel offended by my opinions and I won’t feel offended by the way you pretend to know how I feel.

I don't blame you for being you (but you can't blame me for hating it) - ThatsWildPatrick - Multifandom [Archive of Our Own]
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
By Organization for Transformative Works

Chapters: 20/?
Fandom: Fall Out Boy, Panic! at the Disco, Twenty One Pilots, My Chemical Romance, Bandom
Rating: Explicit
Warnings: Graphic Depictions Of Violence, Underage
Relationships: Patrick Stump/Pete Wentz, Sarah Orzechowski/Brendon Urie, Frank Iero/Gerard Way, Josh Dun/Tyler Joseph, Ryan Ross/Brendon Urie
Characters: Patrick Stump, Pete Wentz, Brendon Urie, Sarah Orzechowski, Ashley Frangipane | Halsey, Joe Trohman, Andy Hurley, Tyler Joseph, Josh Dun, Ryan Ross, Dallon Weekes, Spencer Smith, Ray Toro, Gerard Way, Mikey Way, Frank Iero
Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - High School, Musicians, Violinist Patrick, Bassist Pete, Fluff, Angst, Smut, Eventual Smut, Slow Burn, kinda slow burn, grumpy patrick, Sasstrick, Humor, Attempt at Humor, Minor Injuries, Career Ending Injuries, Emotional/Psychological Abuse, Physical Abuse, Suicide Attempt, Implied/Referenced Suicide, Suicide Notes, Mental Health Issues, Anxiety, Absent Parents, Rich Patrick, poor pete, Class Differences, Drug Use, Recreational Drug Use, Underage Drug Use, Consensual Underage Sex, Underage Drinking, Mutual Pining, Pining, Crushes, Vandalism, Homophobia, Patrick’s family and siblings, Pete’s family and siblings, These tags took a dark turn, i’m sorry lol, Police Brutality

Patrick Stumph belongs to a very rich and prestigious family.
He’s a talented violinist and his parents have a wonderful future planned out for him.

Pete Wentz is a grungy, poor, emo kid.
The kind of kid Patrick is not allowed to hang out with under any circumstances.

Pete doesn’t seem to understand that last part.

anonymous asked:

"It’s ok to be angry at Yoonbum if he has disappointed you and ruined your expectations" I get being angry about the story not going in a way you would like it to, but directing that anger at a character who's only crime in that particular chapter was to help a police officer after being brutalized for months is wild to me. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not hating on people who say this, people can say whatever they want, it's just something I've been trying to understand but I really can't.

You say they can be angry at the story. Ok, well I ask you, what is ‘the story’? The story is Yoonbum. The story is Sangwoo. The story is Seungbae. It’s the characters and their choices that make the story, so Yoonbum has the power to ruin ‘the story’ for certain fans who expected a certain route. The thing is, nobody is blaming him for any “crime”. They’re angry at him for making bad or stupid decisions that could ALSO lead to even more pain for Yoonbum himself. The thing is many people also dislike Seungbae so they saw this as an opportunity for Yoonbum to be able to gain Sangwoo’s trust and maybe actually things could get better between the two. But instead he chose to help another guy, knowing fully well Sangwoo gets easily jealous and knew what he’s capable of. I personally think it would be terrifying if Yoonbum and Sangwoo are alone at this point. Don’t you? And it’s because of the decision Yoonbum made. Still, no one is blaming him. His actions are justified. His decisions also. The anger is basically something as simple as when you might yell at your pet for ruining something. Doesn’t mean you’re blaming the pet or don’t understand why he did what he did.

anonymous asked:

Hey, I understand why you don't like Cullen but how can you blame him for his crush on Amell/Surana? It was pretty cute and innocent andwe can't help who we fall for. I'm not trying to defend him I just really want to undersatnd because I maybe missing something

ok disclosure: i hate talking about this ship; it horrifies me because of a host of personal reasons but you were very polite so alright i’ll bite

cullen’s feelings for amell/surana aren’t in themselves the problem. it’s when you take those “feelings” in context of everything else cullen says and does and the atmosphere of the circle system that things get creepy

  • he’s a templar.
    the circle system is built so that by this very position he has institutional power over amell/surana which is bad enough on it’s own, but in addition, he wholeheartedly subscribes to the model of templars having power over mages. (by his own admission, templars have “divine right over mages”)
  • he’s at her harrowing.
    this really gets to me. if you have a shred of concern for someone’s well being, you don’t stand by ready to murder them in case they fail a test rigged against them in the first place. (i can’t help but compare this to jowan and lily. when lily finds out jowan’s in danger, she tells him and she’s not even a templar.)
  • the broken circle cutscene.
    he’s under duress so i guess you can let this one slide but i’m mentioning it because it makes me uncomfortable personally.
    demon’s can’t make up things. they just tempt people with whatever it is they want most. (see: the whole fade quest in DA2, the other demon holding the templar hostage with visions of a family.) from cullen’s dialogue, we can infer that the demon offered cullen a stab at a relationship with amell/surana and his reaction to that is visceral disgust. so he has a “crush” on amell/surana but reacts to the idea of an actual relationship with her by blaming her for leading him into sin.
    “corrupting the moral integrity of a templar” is a legitimate charge against mages that can result in them being made tranquil. if amell/surana hadn’t been a warden, what would’ve been their fate in the restored circle?
  • his “crush” on amell/surana is open knowledge in the circle.
    at least two (iirc) background characters mention cullen being in love with your warden. in the magi origin, there are mages voicing concerns over the possibility of templars watching mages bathe. templars are known to rape mages. in light of all that imagine trying to live with the knowledge that there’s a templar “in love with you”, that should he attempt anything, you are powerless to stop it, that no one will take your word for it and if anything, that you will probably be blamed.
  • he dehumanizes mages.
    (”mages aren’t people like you and me.” -da2) i’ve seen posts saying he only developed this attitude after kinhold hold’s fiasco, which i don’t agree with. but even if it were true, he continues to have ~feelings~ for amell/surana throughout his Mages Aren’t People phase and in inquisition (”meredith’s methods kept people safe” because mages still aren’t people to him) when he asked a romanced leliana if the warden ever spoke about him. so he both dehumanizes mages but ~likes~ amell/surana and that is a dangerous sort of “you’re not like other mages” exceptionalism. what happens when cullen deems her not exceptional enough?

there’s nothing cute about his feelings for her

sure he can’t help his feelings, but he could’ve definitely worked on the Not Dehumanizing and Oppressing Mages part lmao

fall out boy. {rp meme}
  • 1: "I thought I loved you but it's just how you looked in the light."
  • 2: "I don't know where you're going but do you got room for one more troubled soul?"
  • 3: "You can wear the crown but you're no princess."
  • 4: "I've got troubled thoughts and a self-esteem to match."
  • 5: "I only want sympathy in the form of you crawling into bed with me."
  • 6: "I don't blame you for being you but you can't blame me for hating it."
  • 7: "So, progress report: I'm missing you to death."
  • 8: "You're the only place that feels like home."
  • 9: "I'd trade all my tomorrow for just one yesterday."
  • 10: "I try to picture me without you but I can't."
  • 11: "You are what you love, not who loves you."
  • 12: "So fuck you, you can cry me an ocean and let me be."
  • 13: "The person you'd take a bullet for is behind the trigger."
  • 14: "Am I more than you bargained for yet?"
  • 15: "I don't care what you think as long as it's about me."
  • 16: "I want to hate you half as much as I hate myself."
  • 17: "I wanna scream 'I love you' from the top of my lungs, but I'm afraid someone will hear me."
  • 18: "She's an American Beauty, I'm an American Psycho."
  • 19: "I'm your best kept secret and you're biggest mistake."
  • 20: "I swear, I'd burn this city down to show you the light."
  • 21: "C'mon, make it easy, say I never mattered."
  • 22: "I'm a stitch away from making it and a scar away from falling apart."
  • 23: "We were the kids who screamed 'WE AREN'T THE SAME!'"
  • 24: "I'm having another episode... I just need a stronger dose."
The Signs and why you should hate them PART 2
  • Aries: Loud and obnoxious. Thinks it's cool to be aggressive and snobbish but it's fucking annoying to the rest of us. Their so called "confidence" is as fake as Iggy Azalea's ass. They're the most boring people on the planet. They're the child you never wanted. Meeting or befriending an Aries means you're being punished for something.
  • Taurus: They think the world revolves around their slow asses. Tauruses act like they do everything but all they really do is masturbate, cry and throw a tantrum when they have to get out of their beds. They expect everyone to do everything for them. If you want to win a Taurus' heart, (which I doubt you do) then just be rich. They probably have money hidden somewhere but they'll act like they're poor and homeless just so they can have your shit.
  • Gemini: Geminis are very good actors. That's why they spew bullshit out of their mouths every 2 minutes and everyone buys it. They're not funny and tend to laugh at their own jokes while everyone just wants them to shut the fuck up. They feed off of bullying other people but act like they're for the people. Gemini's only talent is having everyone believe their lives while actually believing it themselves. They have no sense of right or wrong because they're still children who need to be put on a leash in order to prevent them from fucking up everything in their path. Do they even hear themselves talk? Probably not, because they suck at listening to anybody including themselves.
  • Cancer: Cry me a fucking river. Cancers act like they don't give a shit but will try to plan your death if you don't notice their shitty haircut right away. They have no social life and their parents/guardian try to kick them out because all they are and ever will be is the loser living in their parent's/guardian's basement jerking off to The Notebook and thinking about their ex.
  • Leo: Their whole entire existence is a joke. They act like they have morals but will try their best to degrade people so they can feel superior. Why? Because they don't know who or what the fuck they are. They still have identity issues at 30. Arguing with a Leo is easy (and hilarious) because their egos are consistently being bruised by nothing, so you'll always win the fight. Leos can relate to cats because they're pussies.
  • Virgo: They like to fight with everyone. Everything is everyone else's fault except for theirs. Virgos can't take the blame for anything because they think they're perfect (when they actually look like a mean sack of shit) and because they're prone to stomach aches and shitting their pants every time there's a little bump in the road. They hate being wrong (which they usually are) and will lie and murder their best friend just to try and prove a point. Because their ego comes before anything else.
  • Libra: Libras are so shallow, they won't think twice about talking to you if you're ugly. But take a good look at them and notice how boring their physical attributes are. They're just a plain jane walking piece of stale bread with two legs and a pulse. And they have as much depth as one too. All they do is try to charm people with the same lines they've used over and over again. They figure since they can't impress anyone with their looks they'll have to charm everyone with their fake personalities and horrible sense of humor. If you should even call that thing a personality.
  • Scorpio: Scorpios can see right through you -- HA. This is bullshit. All you are to Scorpio is a mirror. So everything they see in you that's "bad" is just themselves looking back at them. They only know you're lying because they have used every lie in the book and it takes one to know one. They're so shitty, they have done every horrible thing there is to do in life. So when someone reminds a Scorpio of themselves, they instantly don't like you. Because they know you're a piece of shit just like they are. This is why they're considered "mysterious". They judge people mainly by their looks (but use the word "aura" to throw people off) but if you look behind the sunglasses, millions of scarves and large hats they try to cover their faces with, you'll see they're not that special either.
  • Sagittarius: Congratulations! You are the shittiest fucking sign. You should be proud of yourself. But I bet you are, because you'll do anything for attention whether it's good or bad. Sagittarius itself is a joke and everything they do is the punchline. They think they're smart and will stand up for something they don't agree with just for the sake of arguing and seeming smart when in actuality, they got their facts from wikipedia and other people that they eavesdropped on.
  • Capricorn: Calm down. You're not superior. In fact, judging by how quickly you get offended you're the exact opposite. Capricorns love to fight everyone if it gives them some extra points on looking tough. But honestly, they're not even tough. We all hated them ever since they walked into the room. They focus on work and school because they have no friends. They act like they have class which is a joke, considering they put on a tough front all day and then cry their cowardly hearts out at home.
  • Aquarius: Hahahahahahahahahaha. You're not even worthy of one. Go fuck yourself.
  • Pisces: Pisces love to daydream and imagine the impossible, like getting off their lazy asses for once and actually doing something with their lives besides smoking pot and getting drunk. They're naturally psycho, because they can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality anymore. But they claim to know everything so if you tell them they're wrong they'll turn everyone against you. They're such pussies, they will probably grab a knife, scream, cry and kick shit if you look at them the wrong way. But don't worry, the knife is only so they can stab themselves repeatedly in their own face since they love to self destruct and then play the victim and put all the blame on everyone but themselves. Their own family hates them. So there's your first clue to avoid them at all costs. Seriously, the worst sign ever to exist.

anonymous asked:

so i'm 14 and i'm dating a girl who is 20 and before i dated her i didn't even know about ddlg, but she brought me into it, forces me to play a "daddy" role, gets violent if i don't want to have sex, which i hate to do especially when she acts like a baby. i can't tell anyone because i know it's my fault that i allow it and dated her in the first place but i'm scared, i feel disgusting and i don't even want to live. how do i escape her and do i even really deserve to?

Oh my god. I’m so, so sorry this is happening to you. This is not your fault, and you are not to blame for this. I want you to remember that. She is taking advantage of you and hurting you. You are the victim here. It is okay to seek help and to escape.

I don’t know the specifics of your situation, but if it’s possible to tell an adult close to you about this, then you should. In every state/country I know of this counts as rape of a minor and is very, very illegal. It is okay to tell someone. It is not your fault. No one in their right mind would blame you for being manipulated by someone years older than you.

You need to break up with her in some way. I would recommend not doing it in person, as you mentioned she gets violent at times. This is where it would be helpful for you to tell an adult about your situation to make the process easier for you. I would recommend contacting police and pursuing legal action if possible but I would understand you choosing not to if your situation would not be conducive to it. 

If it is possible for you to access a counseling service, I would recommend you take full advantage of that. Counselors and therapists can offer professional and personal resources for you, though they may be obligated to report any crimes they’re told about. An anonymous online resource is 7cupsoftea.com and they offer confidential counseling/advice. It’s not a whole lot, but it can be a start if you have no other resources.

I want you to know that I care about you, and that you have a lot of people who care about you. I understand the emotions you’re feeling and I understand why you feel that way. But please be good to yourself. You are a victim in a terrible situation but there are ways out where you can live a full and happy life. You did not deserve this, but your future holds so much potential. Don’t let her take that away from you. You deserve more. I am so sorry this advice is so vague but I would be more than happy to talk to you privately over messenger or chat. It’s really hard to give generalized advice for these awful situations because the factors influencing each is different. I am so sorry you’re in this situation, and I hope you’re able to find help. Please be safe. You’re worth so much.

Colleen Ballinger and Joshua Evans Divorce
  • Hello broken hearted Joshleen fans everywhere. Also hello to the GOD DAMN TROLLS THAT ARE MAKING THIS HARDER FOR THEM THAN IT ALREADY IS.
  • Yes, we can all comment on how none of us saw it coming. I didn't. I cried when I watched Colleen's video first, then I cried again when I watched Joshua's. But, STOP TRYING TO MAKE IT ABOUT YOU. When I looked into the comments I expected love and support from their fans. I was both horrified, disgusted and disappointed to see what waited for me in the comments. Fans asking when they'll be back online. Fans blatantly blaming Joshua after Colleen said to send him love and support and that she DOESN'T hate him or anything of the sort. It's terrifying, that a community that has always taken her love and work and dedication, can't give the slightest amount back. Don't ask them when they'll be back. Ask them to take their time and mentally heal, both of them. Yes, Joshua's video had some connotations when he came across sounding as though the divorce was Colleen's idea. But don't blame her. A divorce is a two way street, and it's a decision I'm sure in reality, they made together. Instead of blaming or hating, give them time. DIVORCE hurts. HEARTBREAK hurts. Give them time to heal, and love them as much after as you did before. They're both amazing people, so stop being a dick to them in their greatest time of need.
  • Thank you.
  • Josh and Colleen, I doubt either of you will ever see this. But I love you both. Thanks for being such amazing role models to me, my sisters, and my friends.
Riarkle fallout after the new year's incident
  • <p> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b><p></b> <b></b> This scene takes place after GM The New Year.<p/><b>Location:</b> Matthew's building roof.<p/><b></b> Riley is sitting alone on the bench. Maya and Lucas went home. Riley is thinking about the night's events that occurred. She gets up to look at the stars. She hears footsteps and turns around.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Maya, I'm really sorry about every-....oh, it's you.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> (looks down) Hi Riley.<p/><b>Riley:</b> What do you want?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> (looks at Riley) I just came to say....<p/><b>Riley:</b> (folding her arms) Say what? You're sorry? Sorry for betraying my trust, for hurting Maya, putting distance between me, Lucas and Maya, and possibly ruining our friendship in the process? How can I trust you now? Tell me!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I don't know what to say.<p/><b>Riley:</b> That's a first!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I never meant to hurt you.<p/><b>Riley:</b> It doesn't changed the fact that you did! I told you not to say anything! I even beg you not to! And you went on your high horse because you did what you thought was right and told my secret! MY SECRET! Not yours!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> If I didn't say anything, then Lucas would never know how you feel. How is that fair to him?<p/><b>Riley:</b> What about Maya? Did you think about her when you open your big mouth?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Did you think about her when you didn't say anything?<p/><b>Riley:</b> What?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> How would Maya feel knowing that you still had feelings for Lucas and kept it from her? I can tell you right now, she would be mad.<p/><b>Riley:</b> And now you're concerned about Maya?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I want what's best for you, Maya, and Lucas. And keeping secrets from each other is not what's best for us.<p/><b>Riley:</b> You're not apart of this!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Stop being naïve.<p/><b>Riley:</b> WOW! I can't believe you just called me naïve!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I'm sorry. But everything that we do affects our group. Did you really think that you could keep this secret forever?<p/><b>Riley:</b> I don't know if forever, but I could had told them on my own time.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> When? When they're officially dating? Or married?<p/><b>Riley:</b> I would never tell them if they were dating or married.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Exactly, that's why I had to. I never want you to be in pain. That secret would be eating at you all day and night. I know what it's like.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Farkle? What do you mean?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Nothing. This is about you, Lucas and Maya. You need to put yourself first. You have feelings for Lucas and so does Maya. Lucas has feelings for both of you. You three need to talk this out and see where it goes. The longer this goes on, the harder it will be for everybody.<p/><b>Riley:</b> I don't even know if he still has feelings for me.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> He does. Trust me I know. It's not easy to get over you.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Farkle.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> (turns away) I can tell that's how Lucas feels.<p/><b></b> Farkle starts to walk to the roof door. He turns around.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I really hope that I didn't lose you as a friend. Please don't hate me.<p/><b>Riley:</b> I'm still mad at you, but I could never hate you. You will never lose me.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> You will never lose me either. I'm really sorry for the pain that I caused you. That was never my intention. I was only trying to look out for you.<p/><b>Riley:</b> I know. I'm sorry that I was harsh with you earlier. Everything fell apart tonight, and even though you are partly to blame, I had a bigger part in the mess by not telling them sooner.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> You can't blame yourself. These feelings are new to us. We're all going to make mistakes. We have to learn from our mistakes. I still don't understand my feelings.<p/><b>Riley:</b> For Smackle?<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Yeah. And in general. Science I get, but feelings are confusing.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Tell me about it.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> I should go home. And again, I'm sorry. I'm going to do what I can to make it up to you.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Farkle, its ok. I know you were trying to look out for me. I'm going to try to stop being mad at you. Besides, I would probably do the same for you.<p/><b></b> Riley hugs Farkle.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Happy New Year!<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Happy New Year!<p/><b></b> They stare at each other and smile. Farkle leaves.<p/><b></b> Riley walks to the door and sits on the ground with her back to the door.<p/><b>Riley:</b> Huh!<p/><b></b> Farkle is sitting on the ground on the other side of the door with his back to the door.<p/><b>Farkle:</b> Huh!<p/><b></b> The end.<p/></p><p/></p><p/></p><p/></p><p/></p><p/></p>

xiuxiuminnie  asked:

I don't understand your anger about Lay not being in the video. He's been in China a lot, doing solo stuff (TV shows & movies & his release of his new book). You can't blame SM for that. Lay wanted a studio in China. It's Lay doing that on his own.

Please allow me to counter what you’ve said one by one and attempt to make you understand my point of view. And please let me know what your thoughts are after you read this.

1. He’s in China a lot doing solo stuff. You can’t blame SM for that.

Yes, he has been in China a lot. He works so hard and constantly flies back and forth between Korea and China all the time. If he wants an easier lifestyle, he can simply say sayonara to SM and China wouldn’t even care. We have three very good example of this with Lutaokris. Why hasn’t he left yet? Because Lay is one of the most loyal people you’ll ever meet and he keeps a promise despite getting shafted again and again.

And if you don’t like him to be active in China, please tell me what can he do in Korea? Please name me some solo Korean activity the ex-Chinese members got to do in Korea? And now name me all the solo activities the Korean members got to do in Korea? I am not hating on the Korean members. I love them! I am simply asking for receipts and comparison. Now please name me one Korean commercial with just EXO-M members? There is none. Are the Baskin Robbins or Pepero ads EXO-K members only or is my memory failing me? 

Alright, hypothetically speaking, let’s ask what can Lay do in Korea? Hmm, can he act there? Probably not because Lay’s Korean is not perfect so I doubt a director will cast him as a Korean character. And unfortunately, there are only so many exchange student/foreign rich kid roles he can play (think an ethnic, be it Asian, black or latino actor in mainly white Hollywood). Can Lay do Korean variety show? Probably not very well for the language barrier reasons I mentioned above. I mean this is the guy who asked Baekhyun what is a cheeseball and what is a camp fire on Showtime. He was called jpeg Lay for a reason on Korean variety shows and now you see how not a jpeg he is talking in his native language on the Chinese variety show Go Fighting. I don’t want jpeg Lay back do you? 

So now, please tell me what else can he possibly do in Korea? Stay in the SM dungeon and compose music all day? Practice dancing all day? Host a Chinese radio show like Zhou Mi? No thank you when he can easily get a role as the lead actor in a Chinese movie and get casted in one of the most popular variety shows in China.

He has missed some activities and concerts in Korea but he has never missed any official EXO concerts because of a Chinese schedule. EXO members never said they mind so why should we? Also, he taped a VCR for the EXO-Love concert when he was in Dubai and we are talking about during a tight schedule of flying from China - Spain - Dubai - China for work in a matter of 3 days. 

Also, it’s not as if he was not in the MV because he didn’t bother to show up when they shot the MV. He was clearly there as you can see him in the different scenes in the BTS/preview video. I also saw his face clearly in the preview so can you explain to me why a single clear face shot didn’t make it into the final cut? I mean in SNSD, I see a lot of Yoona but at least I still see Hyoyeon’s face. Where was Lay’s face in this MV so far? I only saw his nostrils well for a split second. I understand I have not seen the remaining 1 min, but I have seen 2m30s of a 3m30s song (and that’s 70% of the time) and there was zero clear shot of Lay period. 

And since this song is for the Japanese market advancement, do you not think it’s unfair not to even properly show Lay’s face in their first introduction to a new audience? I love Kai but I don’t need to see his back in one of two Lay’s short lines. Also, I don’t need to see a crumpled cupcake for the only high note he ever gets in a EXO song. No thanks. 

Also, if you pause at 0m47s of the MV, there is a time stamp for Oct 7th. Now I don’t know if this is when they filmed that actual scene in the MV or why that time stamp is there, but if it is when they filmed the MV then YES IT IS SM’S FAULT. Because October 7th is Lay’s Birthday and he promised months and months ahead (aka probably before EXO’s Japanese debut) to the fans to anticipate a fan meet in China (as the previous fan meet was in Korea). Since you know that Lay had a book out then I assume you know how much and how hard he has been preparing for this fan meet. He showed 5 news songs and all new self made choreographies for crying out loud! So if SM actually decided to film this MV on Lay’s Birthday, knowing he had a fan meet in Shanghai, knowing they could have picked any other 364 days of the year then NO, it’s not Lay’s fault. 

3. Lay wanted a studio in China. It’s Lay doing that on his own.

Do you know what a studio means in China? It simply means that he is not under a big Chinese agency (I’m talking about Lay specifically here. I know some celeb’s studio is under/in partnership with big Chinese agencies) and has his own group of staff that help him find work. That’s it. It does not mean multi million dollar recording studio. A lot of Chinese celebrities, once famous enough will do this because they get to have more control and also get to keep more of their own earnings. Since SM allows Lay to have his own studio, it is not Lay but Lay AND SM doing it together. Please get that right.

Also, as can be seen in Lay’s instagram update where he thanked all his back up dancers (for his fan meet and the NBA half show) –> his dancers were all Korean and therefore I assume from SM. So I see this as SM 100% supporting his Chinese studio and solo activities.

If anything, he is now the only Chinese EXO brand ambassador in China and you’d think SM would be smart and want to keep that up because it’s a good thing for EXO and everyone. Let’s not forget the size of the Chinese market and how much bigger it is when compared to the Korean market. I always thought SM loves cash money and is smart about getting their cash money.

Lastly, do you know what was a great MV? CMB. Everyone had screen time. I can’t think of a single member who didn’t get their chance to shine. Chen? Yup. Lay? Yup. Suho and Xiumin? Yup and yup. It’s as if CMB was perfect and then SM decided to undo all those gains for LMR, the K, M, and now J versions. 

So please have some respect for Lay and please get back to me and let me know if anything I said is false. And I hope you now understand my anger. 

aria-of-the-abyss  asked:

What would the Iwatobi boys, Sousuke and Rin, do if they want to kiss their gf but just can't find the right timing? Note: Yay! A fellow imagine maker, nice to meet you! though I don't make imagines about Free~ :3

Howdy! I checked your blog out, your scenarios are great! This ask’s hilarious! btw

Haru: Haru lay in is bath tub, feeling quite annoyed. These past couple  of days he had been overcome with the desire to kiss you, unfortunately he kept getting interrupted, by you! Initially he thought you were doing it on purpose, but then he realised that you were just damn clueless. He partially blamed it on his own poor timing, he probably shouldn’t try to kiss you when you were rambling to him about your day, or when you were cooking, or whilst you were yelling at him two days ago when he tried to swim in the public fountain; but it wasn’t his fault that you looked so beautiful at that moment at time. You were to blame! Yes it was all your fault. “Haru, Haru!” Speak of the devil, oh right! Shoot! You two were going to the cinemas today, man were you going to be irritated when you saw that he wasn’t ready.  
“Haruka!” His bathroom door was slammed open, and he was greeted by your vexed form. “God damn it!” The movie starts in twenty minutes! You said marching over to the tub, your boyfriend, just fixed you with a blank look. “Jesus christ, Haru!” You exclaimed in frustration, grabbing his arm in a vain attempt to pull him out of the tub, you stopped struggling when you felt his wet hand curl around your wrist, pulling you down onto your knees, “God da-” you felt your boyfriend, place a hand around your head before he pulled your forward allowing your lips to meet in a firm and deep kiss. When he pulled back, he stared at you for a couple of seconds before saying, “c’mon we’re getting late,” as he got out of the tub.

Rei:  He was  currently feeling a mixture of embarrassment and discouragement. Over the past two weeks Rei’s curiosity had gotten the better of him and so he decided that it was now time to take the next step in your guys relationship; unfortunately for him however his advancements had failed due to his blunders and his teams interruptions, mainly by Kou and Nagisa. He sighed to himself, maybe he never should have tried to kiss you, he should just let it happen. Smiling softly to himself he finished packing up and headed outside the change-rooms, only to be greeted by your grinning face. “Hey there!” You said cheerfully, “thought you could walk me home.”
When two reached your doorstep, you turned and gave your boyfriend a smile, thanks for walking me home Rei.” 
“No need to thank me _________, I wanted to.” He said with a sincere smile making you feel all warm and tingly inside; giving into the moment you leaned in and pressed a soft peck on his lips. As you pulled back, you felt him deepen the kiss, eyes widening you gave into the moment. Once you two pulled back for air, you gave him a shy smile before heading back inside; leaving your boyfriend dazed as his fingers automatically touched his lips.

Sosuke: Sosuke was a very straight forward person, especially when it came to his feelings. So he was feeling a bit confused as to why every time he went to lean in for a kiss, something always came in the way; and pretty much every time it was out of his control. Did karma actually hate him that much? I mean it’s already rudely put his swimming career on hold, does it really feel the need to put his love life on pause to? Chuckling, he turned and stared at the sky, well he always loved challenges, alright karma, bring it.
When you boyfriend picked you up after work that afternoon you noticed that he seemed to be in a really good mood. “What’s got you in such a great mood hmm?” You asked cheekily, your boyfriend just gazed down at your face, shrugging his shoulders he said, “nothing really.” Confused, you just continued walking, “Hey want to get something to drink?” Sosuke asked as you passed your local convenience store; “sure.” You waited outside as you boyfriend went to fetch you two something to drink. He returned a couple of minutes later, with two slushies.
“Oooh thanks Sou,” you said reaching over to grab your slushie, “uh uh uh _______ you gotta pay me first.” He said with a sly grin. ‘Oh right! Sorry babe,” you said as you reached into your handbag for your wallet, hearing your boyfriend chuckle as you did so, you turned around to see him wearing an amused grin. “Not with money ______,” he said tapping his lips. Your eyes winded at this, chuckling Sosuke moved closer towards you until your foreheads where touching, “so what do you say?” He asked lowly, you felt your head nod and that was all the conformation your boyfriend needed as he dipped down and pulled you into a short but passionate kiss, that left your lips aflame. Pulling back, he handed you your slushie, with his signature grin. “Let’s go” He said taking your hand as you two continued walking home.

Makoto: The first time he wanted to kiss you, was when he had dropped off at your doorstep after confirming that you two were indeed going official. The moment he began to lean forward, the door was opened by your father. He retreated back instantly; his cheeks flaming red. It had been a week since then, and he still hadn’t managed to successfully kiss you. You and Makoto were talking a pleasant evening stroll when you noticed that your boyfriend was being very fidgety, you turned and faced him, mid stroll. 
“What’s wrong love?” You asked squeezing his hands. Eyes widening as a blush formed on his face, your boyfriend turned his face to the side and said. “It’s nothing.”
“It’s clearly something, you couldn’t be more obvious,” you said with a knowing smile. Realising that he had been caught, your boyfriend wore an embarrassed smile, “ahh,” he said laughing whilst rubbing the back of his neck. “Well you got me, I guess theres no point hiding it anymore, right?” He said with a cute smile; confused, you said “I uh, I guess not.” Chuckling, your boyfriend cupped you cheek as he leant in and gave you a sweet, deep kiss. Your eyes were still open in shock as he pulled away, “I’ve been wanting do that for a while” he said with a sweet smile, as he resumed holding your hand before continuing on your stroll. 

Nagisa: Nagisa glared at the television screen, you two were at your place playing Mario kart and he was currently coming 11th; but that was the least of his concerns. He was currently at this moment in time, filled with frustration and a desire to kiss you. He really wanted to kiss you, and he has every right to feel that way, you were his girlfriend damn it! But why was it that every time he tried to make a move you somehow were always distracted with some insignificant object whether it be your phone, book or PSP. And although he tried to direct your attention to himself, you always just brushed him off saying, “not now Nagi.” Pouting he decided to take out his frustrations on an unsuspecting baby peach, knocking her off rainbow road. He ended up finishing in 10th place, whilst you came in 2nd. “Hey Nagi, what’s eating you?” Your boyfriend seemed to be in a foul mood, he had playing the entire time with a scowl planted on his usually cheerful face, and lets not mention his poor score. Nagisa turned and faced you, “It’s you ______.” He said pouting, “me?” You asked in surprise. 
“Yes, I want to kiss you, I want to kiss you so bad! But every time I try to, you just brush me off, and continue reading or looking at your phone!”
You blushed a little at his outburst, “I-Idiot, why didn’t you just say so” you mumbled embarrassed. “So I can kiss you?” He asked surprised, “well yeah, I mean we are a couple aren’t we?” you said with an embarrassed smile. With a huge grin on his face, your boyfriend grabbed you shoulder and pulled you into a clumsy, enthusiastic yet sweet kiss. 

Rin: He was feeling incredibly irritated; these past three days he had tried planting one on you but kept getting interrupted! The first time was when Momo had barged into his room after a particularly good study session with you. The second time was worse because you two were actually having a moment, and he had his game on damn it! He had you blushing and returning his flirty smiles but the moment he leaned it, Sosuke had just opened the door and casually strolled in like he owned the damn place, well it was his room too, BUT STILL! The third time he actually lost it, It was after swim practice, he had you pressed against a wall, his arm over your head and when he leant in for the kill, the classic case of phone cock-block happened and what was worse, it was a telemarketer so he let them have it!
He was laying in his bed mulling these thoughts over when he had an epiphany, he was never going to have the perfect kissing moment with you, life was just one huge cockblock! If he wanted to kiss you, he’d just have to go for it, no planning, no waiting; just get in there and go for it.  So with this sudden rush of adrenaline he grabbed his keys and headed off to your place. You were surprised when you heard your doorbell go off at 9:30 in the evening, who in their right mind would visit this late on a monday. Upon opening the door you were greeted by your boyfriend, who was staring at you intently. “Ri-” you were cut off by his lips pulling you into a deep and sensual kiss, when you two finally pulled back for air, Rin pressed his forehead against yours, “hey” he whispered huskily. 

I can’t get over Until Dawn.

I’ve seen like…more than five people’s play through now and every time it’s interesting because everybody does it differently so it’s just, so interesting to watch it over and over again.

But I’m absolutely heart broken by the game as well.

Especially about Josh.  

Spoilers ahead, and this is like really really REALLY long.

I feel absolutely bad and heart broken about Josh’s two endings…He doesn’t deserve that really. From the evidence found by Sam, the breakdown in the shed with Mike and Chris and also from the chapters where you play as him you can seriously seeing him having severe mental issues before and especially after his sisters’ death. Probably depression and schizophrenia and psychosis all mixed together or something, and the side effect of his meds probably made him so sick he went off his meds and started being so unstable that he came up a twisted plan to terrorize his friends (Though he never planned on killing them, the Wendigos was clearly something that nobody knew was coming and it wasn’t his fault that Wendigos were hunting his friends while he thought he was just “pranking” them.)

To me a part of him probably really doesn’t want to do it in his heart, as Dr. Hill represented his conscience and the part of him that wanted himself to stop, but the voices and hallucinations of his sisters blaming him for not being able to help made him felt so guilty and driven him to do what he did.

I believe he really didn’t want to do all of this because we see the scenes when he was alone with his hallucinations and he was crying, screaming and pleading “you can’t tell me what to do anymore.” meaning the voices and hallucinations that were the withdrawal side effects of not taking meds/schizophrenia/psychosis/whatever has driven him mad and kinda made him to force himself to do it to revenge his sisters.

He probably hates himself more than his friends for not able to be there when his sisters needed him the most, for passing out drunk when his sisters was in distress, and the only why he could think of to cope with it, was to blame his friends and plan that twisted prank idea as a revenge. (which again was probably the result of his meds not working/not taking his meds anymore and having severe withdrawal side effects/schizophrenia/psychosis/whatever it is and as a result made him insane and more unstable.)

Even though he put his friends through shit and probably crossed the line but he still didn’t deserve either of his two endings. He was probably the one who had suffered the most during the entire year after Hannah and Beth’s disappearance since they were his whole world and was so close due to their parents being busy and not able to spend much time with him. Plus he wasn’t getting the proper help he needed and was said to be really suicidal in the files Sam found. The files Sam can find is just…you can just see how broken this poor guy had became.

I just feel really sympathetic for him and want a more better ending for him. He’s been through a lot of things that can drive a person insane. And the way he speaks after he had his psychotic episode and after you see what’s actually been going on in his head, he’s all scared and remorseful and apologetic and again at the edge of breaking down again, well he did break down again I think. It’s just……sad. And I just hoped that someone could just hug him and tell him it’s gonna be okay. What he needed from the very beginning. Support and love from his friends. ( And it really seems like apart from Sam and Chris everybody else probably just went their separate ways and I’m sure they didn’t really check on him. Plus even if Sam and Chris checked on him he probably hid his condition from them for them to not worry but it just got worse because he didn’t reach out and refused any help/ thought that meds just doesn’t help him at all and was useless.)

I’m also heart broken about the Sam/Josh relationship…to me they had a special connection and Sam even said that in her interview. They certainly had some chemistry going on between them and that possibility of them being together was shattered by the only two endings of Josh. It’s just heart breaking.

Chris is definitely the nice cool nerdy guy, a cinnamon roll too pure. Especially when he insisted to go back for Josh. It really warmed my heart that even though Josh put him through a lot of shit he still went back and tried to save his best friend.

I’m glad when Chris and Ashley gets along and she seems really nice because I haven’t seen her having a bad relationship with Chris and end up killing him by not letting him in. So I like her and she’s like a pure cinnamon roll to me as well, and her relationship with Chris is just absolutely adorable.

But just, I can’t get over Josh’s two fate. He doesn’t really deserve that. I wish there was a ending where he can be saved and can finally get the proper help and support from his friends after they’ve seen how severe his mental condition was. I know for sure at least Chris and Sam will stick with him and look out for him if he had survived/not turned.

Just…I hope they can release a special DLC or something for either Sam and Chris to go back to find him. Or more tragically, a DLC where after Sam and Chris finds out that two rangers went missing when they searched the mines, they figured it must be Josh who had turned into a wendigo and was determined to return and kill him to end his suffering. (Due to the fact I think being turned into a Wendigo is a fate way worse than dying.)


I worry about some people in this fandom, I truly do. Travis just got his Twitter hacked, vile, horrible things were said (actual threats, posting Travis’ personal information, and using homophobic slurs) all on his account and this person was apparently trying to get back at him for Misha?

First off, Misha and Travis are friends and co-workers; Travis never said anything bad about Misha. Learn to read if you believe he did. Travis was receiving threats from fans who Travis believed to be some of Misha’s fans, and all he said was that it was disappointing that Misha (who he regarded as a great guy) unfortunately had “some fans” (again SOME not all and not Misha) that were being awful. 

Of course, instead of acknowledging the truth that some people in this fandom actually are awful (c’mon we all know bad apples exist let’s not lie to ourselves), it became a mess of fans accusing Travis of hating Misha and hating his fans. This is simply not true, he was responding to the ones specifically that were sending him threats and awful messages. Let’s take away fandom and the show and the rest of the cast here for a second - the man is being threatened, and so is his family, and he’s defending himself. Then, a hacker gets on, says horrible shit, literally threatens Travis saying they know his location, and already I’m seeing people in the fandom arguing over whether this is Misha or Travis’ fault?

Are you fucking kidding me? This is the HACKER’S fault. Stop trying to victim blame and blame those who are not responsible; there is ABSOLUTELY NO EXCUSE for the way Travis was violated. This was completely crossing the line; nothing Travis said made him deserve what that hacker did and is still doing with the threats to him and his family they made and the personal info they posted. If you really think there is anyone besides the hacker to blame - or people like them that defend what the hacker did - you need to take a step back and re-examine your life because Travis is a human being and what just happened to him is completely wrong. You think Misha would EVER be okay with someone hacking an account in his name, saying horrific things, making threats, and saying they did it for Misha? If Misha sees this you better believe he is going to be absolutely sickened - apparently the hacker forgot that Misha is actually a good guy with a good heart.

All the hacker proved was exactly what Travis was trying to say: some people in this fandom are absolutely disgusting. 

anonymous asked:

I don't like the Maximoff twins. Their hatred is understandable, but shouldn't they share some blame for helping Ultron and thus decimating the earth? I was so angry to see them acting self-righteous but in fact they're naive from the root, especially the scarlet witch, saying that Stark cannot tell the difference between destroying and protecting the world. Excuse me, miss, it might be true but apparently you can't tell the difference between revenge and assisting murderer as well.

I don’t know, I’ve seen a few differing interpretations of that quote and yours is definitely a very valid one. From a very biased standpoint, it really saddens/pisses me off that of aLL the characters who needed more in-character hate, Marvel chose Tony. As if he doeSN’T ALREADY have enough sins he thinks he has to atone for. 

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