i don't agree with her on some things politically but as a person she's the best

anonymous asked:

I don't see why anyone likes you you're a piece of crap

I know right. Even I think that about myself :D matter of fact there are tons of reasons to Hate me which I’ve said several times before so lets count em down ^u^

Reasons to Dislike JaxBlade :)

I’m Overly Optimistic….like annoyingly so at times. I look at the glass Half Full and my lifes been crappy but I always see the good. A lot of pessimist people I met don’t like me cause they think I’m fake but hey Most of the time this is me appreciating the good times though to lead into my next one.

I can be a tad emo at times.…There are times where i feel like my friends dont like me at all, I’m burden to them and they are just being polite especially if we go long bouts without talking and i feel all alone and depressed and Kinda clingly. Luckily Im working on that day by day

I can be a Bit Cocky and Arrogant at times. I’m proud of my body and like to show it off cause I used to be fat and seeing myself improve eveyday gives me a slight ego boost and I like to show off.

I can be a such an Attention Whore: In so many areas xD especially If I’m at a place I like to be center of attention and take off my shirt to show off even though

I have mediocre results for a fitness person: I’ve working out since I was 16 and I’ve barely added that much mass to my frame. Speed and Strength have skyrocketed since back then but I’ve been working out Damn near 10 years and my physique honestly isnt that impressive even though I like to gloat

I’m kind of a Perv Not like peeking through windows and stealing womens under-roos but I love women, I love booty and I love breasts. I love the concept of an hour glass woman with curves in all the right places and thats the primary stuff of my Special blog

I can be the Biggest Dick if you’re an Asshole to my friends: when people insult me I gotta thank all those years of bully beatings for giving me tough skin cause i can get on but if someones fucking with a friend of mine or someone close I become like a fuckin supervillain and If they are out of shape and being an ass to my friends I let lose and break their self esteem. Luckily with all the meditation I do now I dont do that as much and focus on my day

I’m indifferent on a lot of things that people get upset over: Like a lot of people can be pissed off and ask me my opinion and Im usually like “yeah that sucks” and they get mad at me cause I’m like Meh. The last time i remember that was that Dear Fat people video that a lot of people bashed and while I personally didnt agree with how she was saying her message as a person who was beaten up and fat shamed and used that as motivation to get in shape. It honestly didnt bother me that much and I didnt think anything of it but a few people got mad at me cause they thought i was promoting fat shaming with my indifference

I’m all for Gay people and their rights: so Some people may call me a “Fag lover” or something cause Im supportive of the gay community BUT i do know something about me. I was at one of my Best friends’ , since we were 14, Wedding 2 years ago he’s gay and been that way since he said he was 12, and I met his husband there and his husband was cool and an awesome dude and I thought they were great. But when they said “Kiss the Bride” I looked away. and I notice I do that a lot when I hang out with my gay friends marcus and kevin and they kiss I just look away. I’m happy that they are happy and in love but seeing two men kiss makes me a lil uncomfortable SO I HAVE to work on myself to be a bit more liberal

I’m Black: so Racists hate me just cause of the melanin in my skin so theres that

The Brony thing: I used to be a Hardcore brony back in 2011-2012 till I dropped the term and now Im just a casual fan of the show. So Some people can dislike me because I watched it and others call me a poser and fake cause im in my Buddy Racebest’s Bronies React videos but i dont use the term brony for myself anymore since im just a casual fan of the show so theres that.

I Prefer Dubbed over Subbed anime

I’m kind of a Man whore

I’ve Lied to the ones I loved the most and the ones I was closest to because I was scared that they’d leave If somethings wrong with me I usually laugh it off and kind of do a Lie of omission if someone asks. So I need to work on being more open to people who care about me

I dont like the Pixar film Up xD and some people have legit told me they hate me for that and unfollowed me

I Quote my Bullying story a Sickening amount for Motivation and Inspiration for people.

I like seeing Criminals and bad people in general die in horrible ways and think they should be put down for the count instead of imprisoned.

If its not Fitness, Health, Exercise, Anime, Cartoon, Comic stuff I can be considered borderline retarded at points

I can be Overbearingly Overcaring for people I care about at points that I come off as Irritatingly clingy

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And theres a WHOOOOOOOLE Lot More that I openly admit and all I can do is acknowledge it and work on bettering myself like a Redemption Arc Yeah like Kenshin when he went from Battosai to Heroic Samurai or Vegeta mass murdering warrior to Lovable Family Guy. Its gonna take some time but I’m willing to work on it But I’ve already accepted all my faults so I can use them to better myself

Hockey Coach

Requested: could you do one where you are the ice hockey coach of aaliyah and at one parctise you meet shawn?

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You’ve loved hockey for as long as you can remember. Now that you’re eighteen and attending university, you aren’t playing in a league like you used to, but you couldn’t walk away from hockey completely. That’s why you found yourself volunteering to coach a thirteen and under girls team. The girls are all sweethearts, although some days are more difficult than others. Coaching girls has taught you so much, even though you were their age only five years ago, you feel like you’re so different now, but they definitely remind you of yourself at that age. Thirteen is a hard age so you have to definitely be sensitive when you’re dealing with them.

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Door-ky Calling

Ship: Nalu

Story Type: Oneshot, Fluffy

Characters: Lucy Heartfilia, Natsu Dragneel, Levy Mcgarden

Summary:  “Let me guess,” Lucy said into the intercom after a while, “You’re the singing leprechaun I hear people talking about.”“Close enough,” He answered,“Only I’m six-foot tall, I don’t have pots of gold, and despite popular belief, I can actually sing.“

A present for meanie cici @strawberrysweetlove35 

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anonymous asked:

Hi. Don't you think that Catelyn started the 5 kings war by imprisioning Tyrion?

Hi there! I’m not the best person for political analysis, but in my opinion, while Catelyn definitely had a huge hand in precipitating things, it’s inaccurate to blame her for starting the war without looking at the overall context. Like many historical events irl, the war of the 5 kings as we know it was determined by a combination of several concurrent factors, and Cat’s actions were essentially a trigger in a political climate sizzling with tension and begging for a war to begin. 

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anonymous asked:

I saw that you've met gerard before. Is he a nice person? I don't want to pry or anything I'm just curious if he's as sweet as he seems.

HE IS! he’s the nicest, most generous person ive ever met. hes so kind and appreciative and genuine. actually i have a long-ass post (an ask i answered before when someone asked me what he’s like in person) so i hope you dont mind that i copy and paste what i wrote

oh my, okay this could probably be a 10k word essay but lets not im trying to keep it under 5k lol but he’s always been super sweet when i met him. and obviously this is based on my own experience but since i had the pleasure to photograph 3 of his signings, i also saw how hes with other people. and what i always appreciate the most about him is that hes really attentive and he always seems interested in what you say. when theres time, he will always make an effort to have a proper conversation with you, its not like hes just making smalltalk for the sake of it. i noticed that he is really perceptive. and im aware that can intimidate people. it used to intimidate me. but i got over it and i felt like the second i got over it and legit stopped thinking so much about what i say to him and just talked to him, it was so much better and i could tell that he noticed how i let my guard down and that he appreciated that? i cant really describe it. like, the last time i saw him, i was having really bad anxiety (not bc of him) and i stayed away from him on purpose bc i could tell he was feeling a bit anxious too. but somehow we ended up outside and i said hi, we hugged, had a conversation. and i mentioned feeling so anxious and that i was basically able to breathe for the first time that evening and he was like ‘yeah me too i totally get it’ and i felt like he made such an effort to distract me from my anxiety. but at the same time he was distracting himself from his anxiety too? like he kept asking me all these questions and whenever i mentioned something i was clearly excited about he was like super smiley. and honestly, i felt SO calm. and from the times ive met him hes always made me feel super calm and like i could talk to him about everything and anything. idk if thats just me bc im sure he makes other people feel nervous lmao but yeah i think at least some ppl will agree. he just always makes you feel like he enjoys the conversation as much as you do. hes super interesting, hes fun to be around, his laugh is the most infectious lol hes always polite, hes even nice to people who have been shitty to him. if Lindsey is around he will always look for her in the crowd, if shes close he will always have his arm around her or hold her hand. but at the same time he will not ignore you just because shes around (same with Lindsey btw) he goes out of his way to do things for other people but he doesnt go around being like ‘oh my look at me, look at what a good person i am’ actually if he does something nice for you he will make it look like it just ‘happened’ and then after months you will find out that Gerard Way made sure it happened. . so id say hes very humble and down to earth. like at one signing i photographed the staff advised me not to take ‘posed’ photos of Gerard with fans bc it would take longer. but then one fan asked me to take one. and i asked Gerard if it was okay and he was like ‘of course!!’ and gave me this reassuring wink. so obviously then everyone else wanted posted photos too and i felt like i shouldnt be doing it and i was worried that it would bother him but he kept telling me ‘its okay, dont worry, we’re just gonna do this’ *reassuring wink* and then after a while whenever i was off somewhere photographing someone else, i would hear Gerard be like ‘Anna? can you take a photo please? :D :D :D’ and at the end of the day when i had to leave everyone was like ‘nooo who’s gonna take photos now’ even tho the staff said it wasnt allowed but bc Gerard did it anyway, they were like ‘okay cool’. like….i could give you dozens of examples of times when he was just the best dude ever. but that would take so long and im not sure ppl want to hear me ramble on and on. anyway…basically he doesnt see himself as ‘a big deal’ like so many artists/musicians. he always remembers a fan he met before, sometimes he even remembers people from twitter and honestly its the best thing ever to see him recognize a fan and see the fan get excited about it. also, people dont even know how much he sacrificed for other people, especially while MCR was still a thing. like, he always put other people’s needs first and not his own. and i think ultimately he shouldnt have done that bc it made him unhappy but he did it anyway and i think thats really noble. hes just so normal. when i see him i honestly forget thats THE Gerard Way. i mean i know thats probably due to my experiences with him and not everyone feels like that but yknow…just from my perspective.

and yeah i know it sounds like im up his ass or whatever i dont care. people can tell me im full of shit all they want. all i can say is, if he wasnt a genuinely nice person i wouldnt be his fan, and i sure wouldnt bother telling you about how lovely he is. bc i have met several of my idols in the past and somehow i was always disappointed but with Gerard it was like ‘yes hes genuinely a nice person and hes not fake at all, hes not arrogant at all, i feel appreciated as a fan and a person’ from the very first time i met him. so i hope if you havent met him yet you will meet him soon bc its honestly such a special experience to be around a person like that <3

im also gonna add that since i wrote this post, i saw him again (in November at NC Comicon) and again, he was SO lovely. the second he saw me enter the room he waved at me with a big smile on his face, then he took some extra time to talk to me. i gave him and Tommy Lee Edwards the artbook we made for him (if you dont know what the artbook is you can go to http://gerardwayartbook.tumblr.com and look at it) and yeah he was just so excited and grateful and so was i, obviously. the whole weekend he was so lovely to everybody, and i know he always works with the organizers of the events he does to make sure the fans can have the best possible experience. he really makes an effort. and every artist, musician, music industry professional, comic book professional, comic book retailers, other photographers, his close friends etc etc i meet just says such positive things about him too and always mention what a kind, humble person he is. and that makes me even more happy 

SORRY FOR THE LONG POST but yknow i love to talk about Gerard lol

anonymous asked:

Hello Sam, I had a question for you since you are the internet‘s dad. It is a Grownup Problem: my colleague is very down on our environment and makes disparaging remarks constantly. If I address her comments, she says I am being defensive and she is just trying to express her feelings. If i ignore, I am "cold." I'm sympathetic, but I don't agree that work is a place where you necessarily have license to put all your feelings out there. What's your take on total honesty at work?

Total honesty at work is for upper-level management and assholes (there’s often a large overlap there; I’m extraordinarily lucky my place of work is pretty much asshole-free). Your colleague is fostering a pretty negative work environment, especially if she’s requiring you to agree with her on pain of being berated for disagreement. That’s not expressing her feelings; that’s emotional manipulation, and it’s probably happening because she feels powerless at work and having even some small modicum of power over you makes her feel better. Shitty for you, though. 

You have a couple of options, one of which is to mention to whoever manages her that she’s making it difficult for you to maintain a good attitude about work because of her negativity and because she keeps trying to make you agree with her. This is usually something that workplaces, even shitty ones, come down pretty hard on, to the point where, in my second Real Grownup Job, I was amazed people were allowed to look forward to the weekend, because we weren’t allowed to express ANY even faintly anti-work sentiment at my first Real Grownup Job. (My first Real Grownup Job was traumatic enough that I continue to occasionally have issues at work now because of the conditioning I received there.)

If that’s not an option, or if you (understandably) find it distasteful to talk to a manager about a coworker, you can try a couple of responses on her and see where they lead. If you’re able to simply walk away or avoid her, I would recommend doing so. I mean, do you care this lady thinks you’re cold? She sounds kind of unpleasant. And if she’s angry enough at you for long enough, she’ll leave you alone eventually. We often fall into the trap of thinking everyone has to like us, and sometimes we try to make unpleasant people like us long after we should have stopped for our own sanity. 

But that might not be politically expedient, or even possible. You can try turning the whole thing back on her a little — if she complains about something, say “That must be hard for you” or “I’m sorry that’s happening to you”; if you leave it at those statements, both of which continually imply the problem is hers, you’re not likely to be very interesting to her for very long. Basically, just respond with sympathy for Her Situation, without admitting it’s Your Situation in any way, and she’ll start to notice you repeating yourself, which may make her examine if she’s perhaps beating a dead horse. 

Or you can try making it about you — if she complains, say, “I’m not comfortable discussing this” and if she persists, tell her, “You’re making me uncomfortable”. This has the benefit of being the truth — and if she says she’s just venting her emotions, then you can tell her that you’re sharing yours in return, and you’d like the same respect from her. You’re not her therapist. 

I will say “This makes me uncomfortable” or “I’m not comfortable in this situation” is something I use a lot, especially in situations where NOBODY is comfortable but nobody wants to admit it. It’s a good all-round “I shouldn’t be made to do this thing and you are rude for making me”.  

I’m always in favor, in these situations, of not playing some kind of game to try to get the other person to stop, mainly because they’re usually much better at these games than I am, since I don’t care for them in the first place. I honestly think your best options are to tell her supervisor, to be continually, obstructively neutral, or to simply ask her, over and over, until she gets the picture, to stop. Anything else just plays into a game she started and you never wanted to be a part of anyway. 

You will probably have to sacrifice her good opinion; being liked by this person may simply mean being her chew toy, and that’s the more unpleasant option, in my view.

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