i didnt want to like you

esharotto  asked:

I think Sansa and Arya's relationship with children is very interesting. Sansa wants to have kids and Arya's stereotyped as the type who doesn't, yet it's Arya who names the babies and plays with the children of Winterfell. Also, I think the contrast between Arya's relationship with Weasel vs. Sansa's with Sweetrobin is interesting.

definitely. the first point is something i never really compared before. but yeah. its arya who plays with the babies in winterfell and invents names for them. which is something you’d see a little girl playing mommy to do. but theres no mention of sansa doing anything like that before the vale where shes forced into the role. i guess she didnt want to associate with lowborn babies lol. 

the weasel and sweetrobin contrast i have thought about before. because theres a lot there imo. arya take this surrogate mother role on a lot earlier than sansa. but i think both relationships start off very similar. arya and sansa are both dealing with their own shit and they dont want to be responsible for these kids with a lot of respective issues. but when arya saves weasel from the battle (when *all the men left them behind) her opinion really changes. weasel is no longer a nuisance she becomes someone arya genuinely cares about. she truly empathizes with this toddler imo. theres no ulterior motive. arya chooses weasel as her first alias and even remembers her in the hob&w. thats some really significant stuff. 

sansa’s relationship with sweetrobin is not as simple. she feels sympathy for him but she’s not against using and manipulating him. sweetrobin is a pawn for sansa tbh. her survival is her main priority. which isn’t necessarily condemnable. but its not really commendable either lol. and she is going to be complicit, to a degree, in his murder. this subverts the gentle mother theme. sweetrobin views sansa as his mother but she will make no moves to protect him. which is not motherly at all 

it comes down to their personalities. the fandom expects sansa to have babies and for arya to shun motherhood bc of stereotypes and first impressions. but honestly? i think arya has more characteristics i associate with motherhood than sansa. arya is fiercely protective, extremely loyal, and deeply loving. she values her pack, her family, above all else. she’s also associated with a lot of things connected to motherhood/life like wolves and the moon and water. none of which is to say sansa wont have babies or would be a bad mother. but i do think she cares more about the idealized version of her happily ever after than anything else. and i think that grrm is going to flip the script with what one would expect with the two of them here. 

anonymous asked:

It seems that she jumps right onto Tumblr after hearing rumours about BTS (most of which are fake) and that's not cool. I also don't like that she reposts too. Not cool. Thank you for sharing. I had only recently found her when everyone was going off about the AMA performance rumours she posted.

i knew about her for a while but it all came up just recently. a lot of my mutuals follow her and i always kinda shut my mouth and didnt share my opinion about her. it seemed like a taboo topic for a long time. i don’t want to spread hate or anything but she’s problematic and i don’t want to sugarcoat it….her blog contains 0% of her own ideas/thoughts. 

Heyyyyyy etsy took down my portal inspired art prints so if you guys want to buy them, it’s $10 for three different prints. Valve is a jerk to independent artists even though I didnt violate the dmca laws….. But in order to reactivate the listings I have to have a lawyer and blah blah blah thats too much effort tbh.
So. If you would like some low priced portal art prints hmu

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[Eng Sub]171115 Seungri Aori Ramen Live Interview

BEHOLD. THE POWER OF LEE SEUNG HYUN.

 im so proud of him. feels like crying. when he talk about his worldwide friends, instantly i remembered how kim gura and bigbang hyung makes fun of him about greedily wants to make friends with everybody (Intimate Note 2009), and they suggest kim gura gave his son (still a baby/toddler whatever at that time) number to seungri. Even to me at that time its not even funny, cuz i know he honestly likes to make friend and people makes fun of his genuine intention. And now just look at him. His personality of innocently making friends and making other people happy prove to be a success. VICTORY win eventually. whos laughing now? im slightly worried of him being a risk taker, but i know success comes with risk. and with that i will always support him. HWAITTING CEO LEE! love you to the mooon and back. You didnt let anyone bring you down since day 1, im sooo proud of you. loving you for so long (im 28 ahahahah), you dont know how much feeeeelssss i have watching this interview. you have come so far.

p/s: im gonna watch this another 1 million time, cuz his smiles, gestures and the way he talks is soooooooo fucking cute and sexy

anonymous asked:

What got you interested in info science? Did you ever go through a period in undergrad where you had no idea what you were doing? I'm going through that now and I'm halfway through. The prospect of graduating is starting to feel daunting

well i’ve always been a fan of books and becoming a librarian seemed like a good idea considering i didnt really want to continue studying classics or anthropology for various reasons…

but yeah i def went through a whole phase where i had no idea what i would do after my degree… i mean, i spent like a year and half not even thinking about it, just like generally ignoring the fact that i would graduate and then have to do something. and then, the summer before my last year, i had like an epiphany that i only had a year left and that i had to make a decision. that year, i just kind of stumbled around, looked at doing a masters in anthropology and then decided not to, thought of getting a certificate in womens studies or in journalism, finally found the masters in info science and decided it was a good move for me.

part of the reason why i chose that masters was because i didnt know what the hell i wanted to do with my life, it was a professional masters so i had an actual chance of getting a job afterwards and i didnt have to write a masters thesis (which at the time i was desperately trying to avoid doing). for me, it was a way to delay the inevitable (aka having to jump into ‘the real world’ and start working and having to decide what to do with my life) 

also, ive always taken my big decisions very impulsively and they always work out really well. when i actually try to plan stuff thoroughly, it never goes well. so now i just go with my gut feeling, and i had a great feeling about info science (and i was right !) 

honestly, i’m still not sure what i want to do. i have a vague idea of what i’d be interested in but im not at all sure of it. i do know i want to do some research, and thats enough for me right now. i’ve pretty much got the next 6 or so years figured out so i think ill be fine for a while lol

HEY MARK

@markiplier

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL AND YOU

We as a community love you and support you no matter what as we have shown with how we responded to your recent late night vlog.

But… IMMA NEED TO LEARN YOU SOMETHING.

You said in your ONI livestream that you wanted someone to compile a list of some of the games people wanted you to play.

WELL I HAVE A LIST FOR YOU hoo boi

I started it back in January of 2016. It has over 6 pages of various games. SIX PAGES!

And I realize that you get thousands of messages. Emails and posts just thrown at you. But I still try..

I have made a Google Doc. Shared with your gmail (both markiplier and markipliergame) and I would post the link here but honestly… I put some more personal stuff on there… ANYWHo 

JUST FOLLOW SOME SIMPLE STEPS!

-Go to your google drive

-Get to the search bar

-Look up “Markiplier Master Game Suggestions List”

-Click it 

-READ MY GLORY

-please

I do try to add more games when I can and some games are kinda old but still.

If you do see this, please give me some kind of signal?? Write on the doc, send me an ask, anything.

@markiplier

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names get carved in the red oak tree
of the ones who stay and the ones who leave

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What is a legacy? It’s planting seeds in a garden you never get to see.
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So where does that end, Frank? Because I look at you and my heart breaks because all I can see is just this endless, echoing loneliness. I’m not lonely, Karen. Bullshit. We are all lonely. I sometimes think that that is all that life is, we’re just- we’re just fighting not to be alone. So what do you want, Karen? What should I do? Should I let it go? No, but I want there to be an after. For you.

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Midoriya Izuku // Episode 38

i draw joseph and caesar casually a lot when i’m bored