i didnt fix the mistakes but

anonymous asked:

I really hope you can fix your mistake. Lots of people who follow you are now hating on Cupcake and making her feel worse than she should be.

ill try, ill try, i really didnt mean to make a survivor feel bad about a coping mechanism

@cupcakesartblog i dont know if you saw my other post, but im really sorry about that. i fucked up, i dont expect anyone to really forgive me for that but i should have asked if you were a survivor to begin with, thats my own fault

@sawa18 that is the point, I DID judge myself negatively and officially on a firkcing exam paper
I basically told the professor I’m worth nothing and he’s not gonna think differently because of my work, I gave it back 2 hours before the end, most people were asking for another paper to write on while I was done and I could have helped myself so much if I just… put a better grade

psa about criticism or call outs towards you.

if you’re going to deactivate your account over a mistake you made that you could’ve easily fixed, then how can i respect you and take your apology seriously?

you removed the post, that enough was a good deed and a step into the right track. all you needed to do was source artwork. instead, the pressure got to you, your anxiety tripped up, and you deactivated (or moved).

don’t let these things push you to stop enjoying your life or your blog. learn from your mistakes, don’t take it as a punishment. if you can’t take criticism, no matter how harsh, then it’s going to get a hell of a lot rougher.

EDIT: they just moved to a slightly different url. my point still stands cause this happens a lot.

anonymous asked:

so you call that artist that drew lance the first time a 'nasty racist' instead of just explaining why drawing lance with lighter skin is wrong, but now that they fixed it youre all gung-ho? thats so fake of you haha

i dont think its fake ????? op messaged me saying they were sorry and fixed it and i did apologize for being harsh (tho like.. the sarcastic ‘larry’ comment is what im sorry for, not for calling someone racist for whitewashing lol). i reblogged the fixed version bc im grateful they were willing to do that and as like a peacemaking gesture to them. i didnt think it needed to be explained publicly lmao… if anything i feel like it wouldve been more childish and fake to ignore the fact that ppl can learn from their mistakes like they easily couldve left or deleted the original post and just resolved to do better next time but they specifically edited it which i think is good. so i reblogged it and let people know 'hey its cool now.’

idk what you want like nobody is obligated to take the time to explain shit nicely every single time something racist pops up and even when you ARE nice loads of people still snipe back and refuse to change anything so… its hard to be optimistic enough to reach out super politely lol since honestly it just burns worse when you make that effort and someone shits on you in response. i apologized to that op bc theyre a teenager and not white and made an honest mistake they owned up to so its all fine but that was context i didnt have at the time. you cant act like people should just stop calling racist acts racist because Some of them might be honest mistakes that people regret, since loads still come from willing negligence or active malevolence… this message really just comes off badly to me

anonymous asked:

You can be a real bully sometimes, Shanna. I love your blog most of the time but when you get on something, your like a dog with a bone. Leave the poor girl alone. She was trying to create something sweet and you're being mean. So she made a mistake...we all do it, even you. I don't think Niall gives a shit, if he's just seen as a Sports enthusiast or not. He knows who he is and what he's done. But I'm damn sure he wouldn't want you to be mean to a fan.

good lord im not being fucking mean. yall are just too sensitive to shit sometimes. all she had to do was admit that she did him wrong and fix it. but she didnt, she kept on making excuses as to why she couldnt. and then got defensive when there was no need to be. 

of course he doesnt care, he doesnt even see this shit. but as his fans, we see it. we’ve been seeing the complete lack of disregard for him for the last 5 damn years, so im sorry that a few of us ACTUALLY spoke up for once. and i only keep talking about it, BC YOU ALL KEEP SENDING ME MESSAGES ABOUT IT. 

GUYS IM SO SORRY I MADE A MISTAKE AND UPLOADED THE WRONG VERSUS ON THE LAST SUBARU VS KOU FILE [BECAUSE I HAD TO GO AND I DIDNT HAVE TIME TO CHECK THE SOUNDCLOAD MYSELF] IM NOW FIXING IT I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY!!!!!!! [BUT THE DOWNLOAD LINK IS OK SO JUST DOWNLOAD]