i didn't mean to ship them

Like I’m here for all the headcanons about Percy being flustered about Annabeth, and how much he loves her but I’m also here for all the posts about Annabeth loving Percy and being flustered by him, and looking at him with heart eyes and just being happy because Percy makes her happy and it’s fucking canon and it’s barely discussed. Annabeth Chase is as in love with Percy like he is in love with her. 

angsty relationship asks

why? bc i’ve been dying with r76 lately

(this doesn’t have to be necessarily romance-oriented)

  1. do they have a lot of arguments? if so, over what?
  2. who apologizes first? in what way? is it hard for either of them to apologize?
  3. which one has more insecurities? over what?
  4. who gets more riled up? do they show their anger? 
  5. how do they hide their pain when they’re upset? do they try to hide their pain?
  6. who tries to make up first? does it work?
  7. would they hate-fuck if they were mad at one another? if they had a falling out?
  8. do they hold grudges? is it hard for them to let go/forgive each other?
  9. is there something big that could potentially tear them apart if it was revealed? 
  10. if something already happened to tear them apart, what would make them come back together? is it even possible?
  11. what’s their favorite pass time when they’re upset?
  12. who do they confide in when shit hits the fan (besides each other)?
  13. is it hard for them to talk about their feelings openly with each other? if so, is there any way that can be resolved, even in the slightest?
  14. who grieves more when the other is away?
  15. who misses the other more, or really thinks about them more?
  16. do either of them have a special item (an article of clothing, a necklace, a book) that they use when they miss the other? if so, what is it? what do they do with it (read, wear, look at, smell)?
  17. who cries more? who gets more emotional in general?
  18. do either of them have the other’s stuff lying around their house?
  19. how about teasing? do they tease each other while in a fight (whether it be with themselves or just general teasing)?
  20. do either of them have any vices?
  21. what’s the thing they miss most about each other?
  22. what’s their go-to breakup/angst song?
  23. who’s more jealous?
  24. who is the first to forgive?
  25. what’s the one deal breaker for either of them (lack of communication, fear of commitment, etc)?
  26. who would take longer to let go? do they ever really “let go”?
  27. which is more afraid of confrontation?
  28. who’s the first to distance themselves (if either)?
  29. who’s more patient? is it hard to break that patience?
  30. who’s the first to blame themselves? 
  31. who’s more likely to do something out of spite?
  32. who would be the first to say they hate the other? would they mean it?
  33. who worries more?
  34. what scent reminds them of the other?
  35. do they have any regrets (regarding the other, or just in general)?
  36. who’s quicker to walk away if a situation gets heated?
  37. who is more prone to anger?
  38. who cries more in an argument? do either of them cry?
  39. does it take a lot for it to get to the point of yelling?
  40. who sleeps on the couch? can either of them sleep without the other?
  41. who’s more likely to protect the other?
  42. if one of them gets injured, who worries more?
  43. who would be more afraid of the other’s death/harm?
  44. who ends up yelling first? are they always yelling when arguing, or do neither of them yell at all?
  45. who would be more likely to save who? 
  46. who stays up at night brooding?
  47. who has more dreams/nightmares about the other?
  48. who comforts who after a bad dream/event?
  49. do they think about each other a lot? does it affect their performance/schoolwork?
  50. if one of them were to come back after a long time, who would come to who? would it go well? would the other person take them back?

I don’t get why anyone would ship Kataang, even just because of the age thing alone. Yeah, it’s only a two or three year difference, but when you’re a kid, a couple of years can mean an extreme difference in maturity and personal (and physical, sorry to go there, but it’s true) development. Put yourself into Katara’s place. When you were a teenager in, say, ninth grade, were you into sixth graders? I should hope you weren’t. I know I wasn’t. When I was Katara’s age, 12-year-olds were little children to me. The idea of dating one was unthinkable. Hell, in real life, girls Katara’s age babysit kids Aang’s age.

I could give you this whole long-ass essay about why not to ship Kataang, but I won’t right now. Because to me, this point should be enough.

Sincerely, Me

Evan: In an email I received from you two weeks ago I noticed a comma in the middle of a phrase

Evan: It changed the meaning. Did you intend this? One key and you’ve consumed my waking days.

Evan: It says “Dear Evan Hansen,”

Evan: With a comma after dear

Evan: You’ve written “Dear, Evan Hansen”

“Hey Kaito, did you want to get ic—?!”

“I’d normally agree but today I think I’ll have ~you~ instead.”

Floral x Holiday Kaito for 03-23-17

It’s Ennoshita’s birthday!!!! And what better day to throw at you my newly acquired Ennoshita ship? Literally none, because there’s no good day for this nonsense, but have it anyway!  (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧

My Mother is Amazing
  • -I just showed her Moana tonight. After the movie: -
  • Mom: I like that Disney's been doing strong female leads with Brave and Moana.
  • Me: Anna and Elsa were a strong female leads. Elsa didn't even have a love interest.
  • Mom: Well, we all know Elsa is a lesbian.
  • Me: (laughing) What made you come to that conclusion?
  • Mom: The evidence is all there. She doesn't seem very attracted to men.
  • Me: I mean, yeah. But she has maybe three interactions with guys in the entire film.
  • Mom: She just doesn't seem that attracted to them. . .
  • -a beat passes-
  • Mom: Maybe all this shipping you're doing has gotten to my head.
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Popstar Meme | Relationships [2/?] - Conner4Real & Ashley Wednesday

There’s moments in your life when, all of a sudden, everything just clicks into place. And you’re, like, “oh, shit! This is my person. This is who I’m gonna spend my life with.”

anonymous asked:

hey! I'm new to the fandom and deh is one the best musicals I've ever heard tbh. I just had a question and i hope it doesn't come off as rude or hate, I'm just genuinely curious :) I just had a question of how the Convan ship actually works because Connor is,, yknow, dead. ? anyway I hope you don't take this as hate because I didn't mean it to be. thanks! <3

youre all good!

this is my personal interpretation of the characters and the pairing, just as a forewarning. i know some people see it differently and pair them differently.

obviously in this blog’s au setting, Connor never committed suicide.

it is my heartfelt belief that in the computer lab scene where Connor and Evan talk, Connor was attempting to mend and apologize to Evan for pushing him earlier, possibly out of realization that Evan hadn’t been laughing at him and it was his paranoia and fear after what Jared had said affecting his perception of the situation. I really firmly believe that if things had gone differently in the computer lab, instead of Connor running off with Evan’s letter and killing himself, that Connor and Evan could connect over their insecurities and bond and become close friends… Of course, we’ll never know that for sure in canon. But that’s how I interpret it.

The ship itself was formed in the first place in fandom prooobably because of ‘Sincerely, Me’s gay jokes about the two and Evan’s lies of friendship (looks at ‘For Forever’) sounding Suspiciously Gay™, but it’s become way more than that as a personal thing for me? Like I relate to both Ev and Con so much so this is like, healing, I guess, to have them happy and together and both of them having a friend.

Take this blog as an AU of the musical where instead of Evan helping Connor’s family deal with grief, he helps Connor himself, and in return Connor helps him, too. Just two mentally ill gay boys doing their best. Run by a gayass mentally ill mod. 👌

junkyardflowers  asked:

The only reason I'd ship pheaker is if it's an Au where George ain't an asshole and they're kind to each other and Phillip doesn't die.

you see, that’s what i used to say, but i think butchering characters (even if they are assholes) for the sake of a ship is not cool? i mean.. you said it yourself. “an au where george ain’t an asshole”. he.. killed philip, you know? and yes, i know i drew them. and, yes, i was wrong to have done so, and, yes, i will be the first to admit it.

personally, i don’t like aus where personalities are changed (unless it’s everyone like that one au by either ray or hui; i don’t have it on hand) but i mean.. if you’re going to change a character a bunch, why not just make an oc? ocs are fun and, yeah, you won’t get as many notes and stuff, but you also won’t be completely changing a character that wasn’t yours to begin with. also- i, myself, just don’t want anything to do with a ship in which the characters “hate each other but make out”. that’s.. yikes! on its own.

ship whatever you want. i’m not gonna fight you (i mean i have friends who ship pheaker. just bc i don’t like it, doesn’t mean i hate you or anyone else, but please don’t send me stuff about them). personally, i’d really rather just steer clear of the ship in general. i won’t delete my art of them (though i am tempted, i know they’ll still float around regardless). i, also, will not be drawing them anymore and you won’t see eacker in 2nd gen college au series on ao3. sorry if you’re following me just for them, but you’ll have to look elsewhere! 

anonymous asked:

I find it extremely annoying how people started shipping KiriMina after one measly chapter, they didn't even interact once yet people started forcing the romance and shipping them :/

Is that so?

Well you know something anon? That’s what the whole fandom does to each ship:

Bakushima

Katsudeku

Bakumomo

Shinbaku

KiriKami

Kacchako

Tododeku

Shindeku

SeroMina

Kamijiirou

Katsuyu

Tokotsuyu

Toshinko

Todobaku

Maizawa

Ojiro x Hagakure

Todomomo,

Pretty much every damn ship in the series has forced romance, because that’s how shipping works. If you think about it in a logical perspective none of these ships should be shipped because they all have ‘forced romance’ and some of them have had little to no interactions.

Give someone a small interaction with little meaning to it btw character A and character B and their shipping hearts will go crazy…that’s just how shippers are.

  • <p> <b>My friends (looking at my phone):</b> what is Bellarke/Starco/Adrinette?<p/><b>Me (beeing tired to death):</b> my... Titanics *creepy ass smile*<p/><b>My friends (worried):</b> r u ok? What does that mean?<p/><b>Me (fully awake):</b> *screams* SHIPS OF DREAMS! *blanks out*<p/><b>My friends:</b> ...<p/><b></b> Dafuq just happend<p/></p>

i’m sorry but nothing Quentin Tarantino ever does will ever top the cinematic masterpiece that is the 2013 Teen Wolf Comic-Con panel

anonymous asked:

I remember seeing comments about how Garroth was in the wrong for being mad at Aph when she told him she was pregnant, Aph said she loved Garroth and Laurance but never said anything about Aaron, so as far as they were both concerned she loved them when she didn't, basically leading them on. I mean I'd be mad if someone who claimed to love me was pregnant and in love with another man

Garroth is in the wrong. Laurance is in the wrong. Aphmau in the wrong.

Nobody was innocent with what went down– and it was a complex situation made worse by Garroth’s jealousy, Aphmau’s avoidance of communication and Laurance’s anger fueled by being in a bad mental space.

You wanna know the driving force of all this? Insecurity.

I know, I know Aarmau is official the soulmate ship but why it came into being… and why a lot of fans didn’t like it, even Aarmau fans being upset what happened, was because it felt like Aphmau chose Aaron out of desperation and being in a bad place. She didn’t feel in control of her life but with Aaron? She could pick him and run away with the burden of deciding between two people she love, a love that could very well be platonic rather than romantic like she first thought. That why it felt so rushed, that why a lot of people went like “????” because while it was building up, Aphmau just lunging into a sexual bond with Aaron felt like out of field risk.

Garroth was trapped in another dimension which was a heavenly space as smack-in-the-face allegory of him needing to redeem himself after making a HORRIBLE mistake. What was the driving force that made a person who claimed to be for good and the righteous make such a rash, ill-thought out? Damn boy is insecure as fuck. He couldn’t even stand the thought of somebody else being with Aphmau, somebody who was a good friend and trusted. So his reaction to Aaron? I’m surprised he didn’t blow up even more! He has self-entitltedment that currently in season 3, Aphmau would crush under her feet because Garroth’s biased decisions aren’t the most sound.

And Laurance. God, you all know I go soft for him but he did need to take responsibility of the pressure he put on Aphmau. He’s the one, while at the time it seemed noble and romantic, made her to narrow down her choices to just him and Garroth– and that’s fucked up. Sure, this shown he was considerate of other’s feelings but at that moment? He just assumed Aphmau would end up with him or Garroth. This assumption was what his jealousy and confusion, his eventual insecurity and unstableness was built upon! Aphmau didn’t plant this idea, HE did. She didn’t owe it to them to return it– while she went about this so fucking poorly and what she did to them inexcusable, at the end of the day, she didn’t owe them love.

She owed them a proper conversation. Like what adults do. That’s her fault, like I said– Aphmau didn’t communicate.

Maybe that’s why I love season 3!Aphmau more because it showed she matured! Garroth hasn’t changed, Laurance changed but we don’t know for better or for worse.

All in all, this ot3 aren’t the healthiest and I still assert that while Aphmau might’ve went to Aaron in a vulnerable moment where she didn’t know all her feelings and was shitty what she did to both Laurance and Garroth, aarmau still was better and both Laurance & Garroth done shit that don’t leave them out of the blame.

Tl;dr:

Aphmau fucked up. Laurance fucked up. Garroth fucked up. All three weren’t meant for each other because all they did was generate insecurity and hesitation to properly talk, lack of consideration of the other’s feelings, and entitlement that shouldn’t exist being there!!! Garmau/Larmau was fucking doomed from the start lmfao.

So don’t pile the blame on Aphmau.