i did the thing that ppl do

anonymous asked:

Ppl are upset that lotor is being compared to Zuko like??? They appear to be doing like the same EXACT thing with them so yea their being compared like everyone hated zuko until he joined team avatar too guys he did awful things too and then "redeemed" himself so like piss off and stop being piss baby's about it ok??

Idk why people are pissed about that like there are a lot of parallels between the two I was literally thinking about that this morning. Like they’re both princes who are sons of the ‘main villain’ of the story who have very complicated relationships with their father and who clearly struggle with things internally. They both lowkey just want their father to fucking die and want to better their empire. They also both have bad relationships with their mothers. And like you said, it looks like theres going to be a definite redemption arc for lotor where he moves away from being the villain and joins the ‘main team’ of the story like oh where has that happened before??? Literally Zuko in ATLA??? Ofc they’re going to be compared their storylines are parallels. When you think about it their characters are very very similar if you ignore things like appearance etc. 

People neend to stop hating the same popular characters as i do bc then i end up being like hey, maybe i can talk shit about those characters and have people actually feel the same?, and the true ending is me losing all my mutuals, getting 93837asks like ‘did x do something problematic?’ as if i need a reason to dislike ppl, and getting vagued to hell and back, all just bc i needed to trashvent (vent trash talk) about someone everyone likes

anonymous asked:

God i follow only a few spn related twitters and even so it's in flames rn. I cant believe this. at least i know i chose well none of the ppl i follow are stanning this behavior. how many sigs til that petition gets noticed, do you think? Is that how TAW got banned?

No, TAW got banned because he 1) actually harassed someone and broke creation’s rules and 2) pissed off J2 an Cliff. He was STILL allowed at the cons he was contracted for, just not invited back. Ty Olsson did a panel drunk and also did some inappropriate things and was fired. It takes A LOT for creation to care. Mark P is the new Mark S. This will not make a whit of difference to creation because the majority of their audience doesn’t care or know that Mark P is a jerk on twitter.

do y'all realize… that you don’t have to look androgynous to be nonbinary ?? did you know that ppl can “pass” as one gender and still be nb ?? because i’m sick and tired of nonbinary ppl being expected to have a great fashion sense and look androgynous all the time… let me wear makeup and do “girly” things but also let me be “manly” and don’t think anything of me other than what i am. nonbinary.

keith and lance ft. arguing+in love:

  • they’ll get bickering and all up in each others’ faces and it hits them at the same time how Gay they are
    • “No way, dude.”
    • “Uh, yeah way.
    • “REALLY?”
    • REALLY REALLY” and then they just. start making out
  • “every time you call me “mullet” you have to kiss me.”
    • “fine. but every time you don’t address me either as “the tailor” or “sharpshooter” you have to kiss me
    • “guess we better have a practice run just to make sure we’re clear on the rules then, huh lance?
    • “looks like it, mullet.”
  • they’re piloting their little fighter drones and lance’ll elbow keith when he one-ups him, and keith’ll shove him back and lance will giggle and be like “stop” and poke keith in the ribs and keith laughs “I’m not doing anything!!” and before long they’re just a tangled puddle
    • allura: “boys! we are under attack!
    • lance: “I knOW keith is attacking me please hELP”
  • the only thing that can keep them from bickering with each other is when they team up on someone else. 
  • one of the blade of mimosa ppl offhandedly mentions that their fighting is sloppy and keith and lance devour him
    • “uh? Excuse You? did you see keith’s moves out there?”
    • “were you even watching the same battle? lance did great.”
    • “he freaking destroyed those guys and if you think he didn’t then you gotta answer to me”
    • “yeah and I’d like to see you pilot a 10,000 yr old warship, buddy”
    • “so just, turn around? and never insult my bf again”
    • “the door’s right over there. away from lance.”
  • the dude just backs away slowly, then turns and runs from the sheer burning force of their gay power

its been so long but im still trying to figure out how you could go from “i love you” to “i don’t care about you anymore” in such a short amount of time

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use for whatever if you don’t get money for it as long as you credit to my blog

(edit): forgot the acephobe one!

EDIT 7/3/17: If you’re here to curse me out for this post, hopefully you can take a second and see this was posted 3 years ago. Hopefully you can come to the conclusion that me, now, probably does not have the same views as I did 3 years ago.

I am here to say that:

I DO NOT APPROVE OF USING Q*EER AS A BLANKET TERM WITHOUT PEOPLE’S CONSENT. ITS HARMFUL AND WRONG

I DO NOT THINK CISHET ACE or CISHET ARO PEOPLE ARE “Q*EER”, because if you do not experience same gender attraction, are not trans or nonbinary…you should not be reclaiming that slur.  Of course if you experience any of those things and are ace/aro, then you are LGBT, and can reclaim q*eer.

Cis aroace ppl are in a grey area I’m not sure about and so I have no definite opinion on their relationship to the LGBT community but would also say they should stay away from the q slur

Also me saying this doesn’t mean I think cishet ace/aro ppl dont face hardship for being ace/aro, but i don’t think it falls under LGBT hardship.

and that’s all I’ll say on the current #discourse people are coming to my inbox to berate me for. If you want to see more of an explanation for this post i have a small tag.

BTS STANS IRL

Namjoon: Can be very protective over him; have good style/into fashion; make it v obvious they bias Nams; usually very focused ppl, know what they want; very fair/impartial; they look mature but are actually total nerds; give super confident vibes but can be insecure; clumsy and adorable

Seokjin: love food almost as much as they love Jin; also tend to be motherly; LOVE to see pictures/videos of him; actually very creative ppl; very kind but can be hella sassy when they want to be; very passionate about their love for Seokjin; would create a holiday in honor of sj if they could

Yoongi: loud online/quiet irl; love pastels; passionate for #saveyoongisscalp; they pay attention to small details; lowkey really nice; they like to stick together; sleepy/docile most of the time but will roast u hard if you give them a reason; talk big and will usually follow through

Hoseok: loud online/loud irl; very very nice people; love to smile and laugh; are ok with 2nd hand embarrassment; give really good advice; full of love and not afraid to fight you; very good at edits; like to live in the moment; Hoseok is their sunshine; hard for them to talk about their true feelings

Jimin: very passionate in general; love cute things; emotional/will cry over Jimin; very accepting of others; sharing is caring; talk big but usually harmless; dedicated/loyal friends; love everything about Jimin; can sometimes take things too far; supportive to a fault

Taehyung: have all accepted their fate; they love so much it hurts; very nice; usually love/own some animals; very excitable; lowkey sad all the time bc taehyung; will tease you; family-oriented; usually love fashion too; will always stand by your side/won’t let you do stupid things alone

Jungkook: love/hate relationship w/ jk; try to be lowkey but always end up highkey; will fight u, their mom, dog, uncle, etc.; super creative; will ALWAYS protect the ppl they love; easily embarrassed; usually very cute ppl; love memes

anonymous asked:

i'm starting to feel a lil bad tho. dan expressed that he doesn't want sympathy and that he doesn't want to be defined by it. i feel like some fans aren't necessarily respecting that (not you btw I'm talking generally). we should still treat him as we did before the video and realize that he's still dan, he can still laugh and have fun and that we shouldn't let this change how we see him and his content, past and present. he wants ppl to be aware of his depression without it defining him.

i agree with this. the worst thing is when you tell people about your mental illness and then their attitude towards you completely changes. people with depression or any other mental illness do not need to be treated like delicate flowers who require heaps of praise and validation just for existing and breathing lmao. i think the best thing about dan’s decision to share his story is how much he has already helped others dealing with similar issues by reminding them they’re not alone and the power of treatment and putting effort into recovery. it makes perfect sense to me for people to want to share their own stories and to thank dan for helping them, to express the gratitude and the emotions they felt in seeing him be so courageous and vulnerable. but i think there’s a difference between those statements of gratitude and respect and pride and admiration and support, and statements that coddle him and demand his audience change the way they treat him or speak about him in light of his coming forward with this. 

you said it yourself, anon, but i’ll repeat it: dan is the same person he always was. we just know more about him now. his sense of humor is the same as it always was. he is self-deprecating and sarcastic and sometimes a little arrogant. he is insecure in certain ways but astonishingly confident in others. he fucks up sometimes and at other times he does great things and helps so many people through his actions. in short, he is complex and multifaceted and he is all of those things, to use his own words, in spite of this thing holding him back. he’s gone out of his way to describe the steps he’s taken not to let depression define him and it’s on everyone watching him to do the same for him. so when i see posts that are talking about how no one should ever make a joke about him again, no one should ever criticize him again, i just roll my eyes a little. depressed people dont need to be tiptoed around and treated like they’re made of glass. dan’s decision to share his story definitely should not significantly alter how you view him or talk about him or treat him and i hope people can keep that in mind as things move forward (though i expect it will take some time for everyone’s emotions to settle.) 

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So about the incident from the Weibo chat, I’ve gone out to learn what I can about the situation. I’ve also confirmed with Layshands regarding what happened, since she did read the conversation between Yixing and this fanboy. I’m posting some public statements I’ve seen from Chinese speakers who were present for the Weibo chat, since they also confirm what I’m about to explain.

Basically, during this chat, a fanboy with the username “Zhang Yixing’s husband” commented “I’m not gay but I like Yixing because of my girlfriend.” In response to that, Yixing jokingly said, “then your username is not correct!” as in, “you can’t be my husband if you have a gf.” Afterwards the fan apparently continued to joke with Yixing by proposing to him with “can you still be my husband” or something along those lines.

The context of the convo, and part of the convo was left out in the translation that people had seen previously, so its easy to misunderstand the situation. I’m not denying that Yixing is hypermasculine/heteronormative, nor am I denying stupid shit he’s said in the past (xingmi are well aware), but nowhere in this conversation did he tell this fan that his sexuality was wrong, nor did he imply that being homosexual was wrong. He’s also never explicitly stated he was against the LGBTQ community (both in the past & now) either, and he hasn’t said anything even implying the topic of sexuality since like 2ish years ago. So I think from what happened with this convo, and based on Yixing’s own philosophy about considering criticisms seriously, he’s been careful and continued not to mention the topic or make any statements about it. He was simply having a teasing conversation with a fan, jokingly calling out “infidelity”. That’s all I can comment on, knowledgeably. 

reveluve  asked:

one piece !!!!!!!!! !!! ( you knew that was coming )

HERE WE GO I WAS READY FOR THIS 

OKAY SERIOUSLY THEY ARE JUST PERFECT TOGETHER I DON’T CARE, JUST LET THOSE TWO BE HAPPY AND WITH LOTS OF CUTE PIRATE BABIES I SWEAR- I WENT CRAZY FOR THEM I CANNOT HOLD IT ANYMORE!


Bonus (because I’m a sinner and I could actually ship Luffy with any living thing on this Earth):

ppl who h8 sasuke make no sense to me bc what do they EXPECT him to be like….. i mean “yea my brother killed every person im related to and destroyed all my ties and now i have no one and my only purpose now is to be weaponized for a village that never cared about me and in fact ordered that whole clan murder thing….. so i guess that sucks but no hard feelings konoha :) it happens!”

when ppl describe having bpd as “literal hell” and all the sudden ur spiraling into panic bc is my life actually hell?? if it’s not, do i Not have bpd??? am i making this all up???? what does “normal” even feel like??? is what i’m feeling “normal”???? is my functioning even at all impaired, or is my level of dysfunction “normal”??????? did things used to feel worse????? bc i can’t remember at all what i’ve felt before????????? who would i be without my bpd label???? who am i???? am i ok??????????

anonymous asked:

Gotta dish some hot tea! Id like to remain anon since I could lose job&be blacklisted from the fashion world. So I went to London for work and did some digging. Word is miss Calder is in the red! Which is why shes agreed to do this again. Without her families money she aint got squat. Most of the stuff she posted on the blog she brought because lets just say 2 ppl who love Louis dearly put in a bad word about Eleanor to designers&industry ppl so she did not get sent free things. 1/1

Anonymous said to shadyshit91: Once her connection to Louis was cutoff she still lived the lavish lifestyle she had grown accustomed to over the past couple years despite the money from Sysco no longer coming in. Word is she went way overboard. Also she wants back into the bearding game. Shes aiming to work for more A listers and has her eyes set on an A list hollywood actor. So shes dusting off her resume because the fashion world didnt want her! Ill check back and let you know if I hear anything else! 2/2

Hmmm, this isn’t even hard to believe giving the situation lol ☕

chickenpox is honestly? one of the weirdest cultural things to exist. yhyh i know its not a cultural element, its a disease, but the culture that surrounds it is fucking ridiculous

like,, everyone’s just Expected to get chickenpox. its a part of childhood and because of ykno, developed immunity, you can only get it once, so you get hoards of ppl telling sick kids to enjoy it while it lasts because its become a SYMBOL of childhood. how hilarious is that?!

when i was 10 i did a school project on viruses and discovered tht a chickenpox vaccine exists, and let me tell u, that class of 9-11 year olds was outraged!! we thought it was so ridiculous tht ppl would get a vaccine to stop this universally-relatable fun-to-compare-experiences-about thing.

and, most amazingly: Chickenpox Playdates. possibly like the Weirdest thing people do wrt/ chickenpox right? so one kid gets ill and ofc suddenly everyone arranged playdates bc they want their kids to catch chickenpox asap. i mean it makes good sense but like, humans are fucking ridiculous

it’s so funny when ppl are like ‘why is this artist that i don’t personally like successful even tho i don’t personally enjoy their music’ like asldkfsaf do u reaLLY THINK that the entire world revolves around ur unique taste???? what kind of world did u grow up in!!!! like FUN FACT i do not personally enjoy most of adele’s music but i’ve never once said that it’s objectively bad or that she isn’t talented or doesn’t deserve her success because i can recognise that other people have different taste in things than me and she clearly must be doing something right because she’s fucking KILLING IT! and good for her!!! i’m genuinely happy for her because she seems like a nice person and i don’t expect everything in popular culture to cater to my very specific tastes and i have to say i think i’m having a lot more fun playing in the hay instead of sitting in the bitter barn and complaining about it

anonymous asked:

Not to be rude but, I have no real idea about most things Naruto. From seeing your art, I was wondering, why do people ship Gaara and Lee? Or, rather, why do you ship it?

oh man here we go woW okay it all started with the fact that lee and gaara had to fight each other in the chunin exams, you know,,,that fight

rekt

short story, gaara almost killed lee’s life and ninja career in this fight and never apologized (fun fact: he actually did it much later and it’s only shown in the story mode in a videogame) ok so at this point only like 10 ppl were into this ship and only existed because *+*they fighted each other, it’s destiny*+* but then the other amazing arc that changed everything forever happened, the let’s chase sasuke arc

in this arc lee decides to fight against kimimaro (bad guy) so naruto can go chase his boyfriend and bring him back and here is when lee is almost killed by this guy but surprise gaara appears and saves his life. then we know that lee is actually a saint and don’t hold any grudges against gaara and he even want to be friends w him, gaara is so confused by this because he knows he did something terrible to this guy and he just??? yes lee is a saint

so that’s how lots of ppl started to ship this, i think lee is what gaara needs since he is really good at showing his affection and love to others no matter what and have you seen gaara’s forehead?? he will be always in search for love (different kinds of love th) that’s why he is so good to everyone, that’s why he’s been the kazekage for years, that’s why he adopted a child, i think gaara has lots of love to give but doesn’t know how to clearly and i believe lee is that person who can make gaara feel comfortable enough to show his feelings

and now i’ll shut up sorry im too attached to this omfg