i did not know she was such a shitty person

remember how during the year that never was that woman sold martha out, but when things were back to normal martha brought her flowers because she understood why she did it and still respected her

even as so much of the fandom was hating on martha like mad, martha jones herself refused to villainize other women for the choices they made in difficult circumstances. and the more brilliant and badass and wonderful martha is, the sadder it makes people look for hating on her.

I once fell in love with a girl who literally broke my heart into a million tiny pieces. But even after all the tears I still found myself in love with her . It was like no matter how many times she hurt me, I’d always find a reason to forgive her. Whenever people would tell me she was a shitty person I’d get mad and defensive. Like you don’t know her, she doesn’t mean to hurt me. I mean what do you expect she was my first everything. Literally she was my everything. I was so in love with her I never thought anything she did was wrong or I tried to justify all her actions. It took me awhile but eventually I realized I didn't deserve to be treated that way. Like it wasn’t okay. I realized that if she really did love me she wouldn’t of treated and hurt me the way she did. Sometimes loving somebody just isn’t enough. It just breaks my heat to see people bent out of shape over a person who isn’t worth shit. Nobody deserves that. You should be with somebody who wants to have you and treats you like you deserve to be treated. That acts like you put the stars in the sky and looks at you with no fear. Somebody who really loves you. Never forget indecision is in fact a decision. You deserve happiness, don’t settle for somebody who only has you around when it convenient for them.
—  mylifeasiblowit11
Zoe Quinn Catch-all

This is gonna be pretty much all my thoughts on this ordeal, so unless something else huge comes out on it, this’ll be the last thing I write about it. This is everything I have taken away from the events that have unfolded.

  • Did she do the stuff she’s being accused of? Who knows, but given that she pretended to be ‘hacked’ and her recent movement towards 'it doesn’t matter what I did’, I think she probably did. So she’s emotionally abusive, dishonest, and a shitty person.
  • Game Journalism is even worse than I thought it was. If Grayson worked for any real outlet he’d already be out on his ass, but game journalism seems to think they’ll all evaporate if any of them are proven wrong, so just continue adblocking and donotlink-ing everything.
  • Game Journalists fucking DESPISE youtubers. I thought they might, but this really brought out the claws. Granted, Youtubers are producing better content than them and slowly driving them into oblivion, so I guess it makes sense, eh?
  • Game Journalists are exactly as awful as the gamer’s they try to decry. I have seen so many shitty game journalists decry behavior while doing that exact behavior in the same breath over the last few days. Ya’ll motherfuckers ain’t any better than who you’re shitting on, you were just the first ones to crawl onto the empty pedestal.
  • On a similar note, Gaming Journalism is so fucking insular and incestuous that I no longer believe there can be any hope of it getting better without almost a clean sweep. So just fucking adblock everything, contact sponsors and tell them who they’re sponsoring suck ass, use donotlink, pastebin, whatever.
  • Game Journalists hate you. Yes, you, reading this. They hate that social media allows you to contradict them. They hate that youtube allows you to make your own content to compete with them. They hate that adblock allows you to choose what articles and content is worth giving adviews to. So fuck 'em, stop supporting them, if you ever did.
  • Anything even tangentially related to feminism can never be reasonably discussed on social media because the two groups of chucklefucks that completely ignore the actual subject to throw shit at each other will immediately take over the discussion and turn it into another bunch of fucking nothing
  • There are a lot of indie devs that are fucking furious they’re not making as much money as they think they should be making.
  • If you’re going to pretend 4chan hacked you, try a little more than 'not at all’.
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YEAH I DON’T THINK I’M GOING TO OPEN MY TOWN GATE AFTER HEARING THAT YO.

this is got to be one of the most INHUMANE thing i have seen in animal crossing besides holding people hostage on the island.

and the worst part of it is the person she was bashing was online at the time, the girl who was being bashed might of asked her to stop, or that she didn’t mean it and that she was sorry but Isabella here didn’t give two shits, she kept going on and on and ON about the insults calling her shitty, an ass, or just both. saying that she lies and steals n’ shit.

THIS WASN’T THE FIRST TIME ISABELLA DID THIS TOO.

and if i see this ONE MORE TIME, i swear to god I’M GETTING THE PLASTIC WRAP. I’D RATHER DIE THAN SEE ONE MORE PERSON GET PICKED ON BY THIS PERSON.

and if you guys know people like this PLEASE remove them from your friends list, bullying in a game where the world is a better place to live is not right at all. It’s all wrong.

Arzalyea

She spends her time writing out a full apology. 5 days later she goes back to doing the same shitty stuff. She leaks videos and photos even though Luke is always saying he wants privacy. She knows that the photos and videos upset the fans yet she continues to do this. I honestly cannot understand how people support her how people like her how people think she is a good person. I think that you learn from your mistakes, you learn what makes people upset. Then you apologize for what you did wrong for what you did to upset people. Now you have a clean slate and you keep it that way. Instead she went back to doing the same thing she knows is wrong that she knows hurts the fandom. So yes that makes her a bad person, it makes her a liar, and fake and not care about the fans whatsoever. I will never respect her and I will never respect Bry.

holy shit im fucking livid over the new episode of how to get away with murder

sure okay lets make the token gay character a completely shitty person, yeah? sounds like a good idea? his only use in that episode was to make michaela doubt her fiancés sexuality, saying that she needs to make sure that he is ****not gay**** because of one gay thing he did when he was a teenager. not only does this demonize homosexuality and “experimenting”, it discredits being accepting of and honestly exploring a non-heterosexual identity.

now this is a bit of extrapolation but im still going to be pissed about it; lets assume her fiancé was, i dont know, bisexual? bicurious? the way she treated him was basically “how can i trust you at all if you arent 1000% straight” whicH IS SUPER SHITTY BECAUSE IT PERPETUATES THE STEREOTYPE OF A NONFAITHFUL BISEXUAL (and to a minor extent, non-hets)

basically the show just took a huge shit on queer people and im fucking pissed

The Fault in Our Stars {Sentence Starters}
  • "Is this where you bring all your romantic conquests?"
  • "I've been trying to tell you, I'm kind of awesome."
  • "Don't hit that, don't hit that!"
  • "I cannot tell you how thankful I am for our little infinity."
  • "You did not! No, you did not, you did not, you did not!"
  • "I'm a good person, but a shitty writer."
  • "It was like I was gone already, you know?"
  • "I think we should wait until dark."
  • "She's done a great injustice, so we've come here seeking revenge."
  • "I don't wanna ask you for any favors."
  • "She thinks I have a drinking problem."
  • "That was the stupidest speech I've ever- That actually worked?"
  • "It's a metaphor, see."
  • "You're a shitty person, but a good writer."
  • "I fell in love with him the way you fall asleep. Slowly, and then all at once."
  • "You gave me a forever within the numbered days, and I'm grateful."
  • "I love it when you talk medical to me."
  • "Your hands are so cold."
  • "That's a thing about pain. It demands to be felt."
  • "I'm so excited I can barely breathe!"
  • "You put the killing thing right between your teeth, but you don't give it the power to do its killing."
  • "Funerals, I've decided, are not for the dead. They are for the living."
  • "I should probably go to sleep."

I know Sasuke’s “you’re annoying” was to prove to Sakura that he did in fact remember their first moment together and later her confession, but I always like to self insert my shitty version where he’s calling her annoying because he was trying so hard to cut off his bonds and shut out emotions that would get in the way of his path to revenge. He was doing all he could to not feel, but Sakura filled that existence with love. She’s annoying for being just what he needed in his life.

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You guys know that I am typically against Anita Sarkeesian, but what this person did to her is absolutely unacceptable. She conducted herself respectfully and all she gets in return is people making shitty tweets faking a different reaction.

Even as an anti feminist, I’m disappointed in whoever made these, and in whoever spread these as if they were real. All it too was a trip to Twitter and a Google search to find out this shit was fake.

Generally, I think she actually does shit to deserve the backlash she gets, but in this instance, people went look and couldn’t find anything so the decided to make shit up. And it hurts me to know that it was most likely an anti feminist.

Killing Her Softly🔪❤

11/29/16 5:01 AM

“Do not come near me. I fucking hate you.” She says to me.

I start to walk backwards away from her. She walks towards me, her hands folded into fist. If she hates me so much, why is she coming closer?

“You wish you could hate me.” I know I shouldn’t have said that but if we’re gonna fight, now’s the time. 

“No, I hate you. I really do. Everything about you is shitty and I wish we never met.” She’s throwing verbal daggers at my chest.

“If we never met, I would be such a happier person. You think it was easy loving you? Dealing with your mood swings and shit. It fucking wasn’t… when you find someone who’s gonna love you and put up with you the way I did, you let me know.” I zip up my suitcase.

“I’m not the problem. It’s you. You’ve always been the problem. Every fight we’ve ever had was because you couldn’t control your feelings. You don’t love me. You don’t even love yourself.”

Ok, that hurt. “You fucking bitch.” I laugh to keep from crying in front of her. I carry my bag down the steps. She comes down after me and throws a picture of us in a glass picture frame on the floor. It shatters into a million and one pieces and I literally cannot deal with her anymore. 

She stands at the bottom of the steps with her arms folded. “Bye. Leave.”

“I can’t get my food out of the refrigerator??”

“No, get the fuck out.” She slams the fridge shut. I remember telling her that I would never put my hands on her, but she’s testing me right now. I am going to fucking explode if she does not leave me alone. 

“I’m leaving! This is what you want and I am giving it to you so go away. All you want to do is torture me and make shit harder for me because you’re too miserable with your own damn life.”

She shoves me across the kitchen. I don’t turn around, I just stand there for a second. “You didn’t just push me.” I’m shaking my head to myself, trying to convince myself that she didn’t just push me first. 

“I hate you. I never loved you.” 

Ok. I slowly turn around and walk towards her. “What did you say?”

“I said I never loved you.” She’s looking me straight in my face.

“How could you say that?” I’m about to cry. I can feel it.

“It was all a lie. I wouldn’t marry someone like you. You’re trash and loving you is just something I would never try to do again.” 

I shove her so hard she slams into the wall. I walk away. I can hear her getting up and coming towards me but I’m in such shock by what just happened I don’t run or protect myself from what she’s about to do to me next. That’s kind of like how our entire relationship went. I always knew when she was about to hurt me but I didn’t run or hide because I’d rather let her destroy me than to leave and never be near her again… but now I can see that I have to go. It’s just not safe anymore for neither of us. 

She grabs me by my hair and brings me down to the floor. “Let me go!” 

She drags me across the hall back into the kitchen and leaves me there on the floor. She opens the fridge and pours my leftovers on me. When she walks away I grab her ankle and pull her down to the floor. I couldn’t help but to punch her in the face and so I did. I immediately got up off the floor so she wouldn’t be able to hit me back. I cannot believe I just hit her like that. I still love her. I still want to be her wife and hold her through the night but none of that matters anymore. I still love her but I fucking hate her. I walk out of the front door and walk to my car. I hear the garage door opening and she’s standing there with a bat. 

“Oh hell no. Melanie, if you fucking hit me with that….”She swings on the windshield of my car. I run over and try to take it from her without getting swung on. I get it out of her hand and it falls to the ground. She stands there huffing and puffing. Her eyes are red. My eyes are red, I’m honestly about to cry. I was going to marry her. We just stand there staring at each other. I’m waiting to see what she’s going to do next. 

“I’m leaving.” 

“No, I’m not done with you.” 

“Well I’m done with you so..” I walk back into the house to get my bag. She’s walking up behind me.

“Don’t leave.” She mumbles.

“WHAT? What did you say?” I ask. She’s standing in my way. “Melanie.”

“Don’t leave.” She says it again. 

“Melanie, do you hear yourself? My windshield is cracked and your face is swollen but you don’t want me to leave? Fuck you Melanie.” 

“No, forreal. Don’t leave.” 

I don’t know if she’s serious or not. 

“I have to go. You don’t love me and I have to go.” I try to walk past her.

“I love you Alexis.” she says to me, but I keep walking. She didn’t love me last night when I slept in our bed alone. She didn’t love me when I loved her. She didn’t love me when I was in the hospital. She didn’t love me when I needed her to love me. She didn’t love me when I loved her. 

“You know I gave you everything. I was a virgin when I met you. I lied and told you that you were not my first woman, but you were. You were my first love, my first girlfriend, everything. I gave you everything and you threw it away because you couldn’t handle loving someone like me. Well guess what? I’m done. Now you can go be with any man you want.” I’m crying now so I walk away with ketchup stains on my shirt. I don’t hear her coming after me. I don’t hear her coming up behind me. She won’t fight for me when I need her to and that is why I have to go. 

I’m looking for my keys in my purse. “Ugh, where the fuck are my keys?” I remember that I left them on the counter. “Fuck.” I have to go back inside.

To be continued

To me, Rachel Duncan has always been a character who always did what she thought was necessary to survive. No one in the world cares about her, and the only person who did is dead now. Fuck you, Ethan Duncan, for making things worse for her while you were the one responsible for what Rachel has become in the first place. I still get angry beyond belief when watching that scene. SHE WAS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AND YOU FAILED HER, YOU DON’T GET TO MAKE THIS ABOUT YOU AND CHECK OUT NOW BECAUSE YOU CAN’T DEAL. FIX IT, YOU SHITTY SHITTY PARENT. *takes deep breath* 

I know Rachel has done terrible, terrible things to others to get ahead and I’ll never make excuses for those things but in the end you have to admit she is also a victim. She’s just always been in a position where she could minimize her own victimization, even if that meant further victimizing others. But now, her status as a victim in this huge mess has become undeniable in the most literal way. She is completely dependent on others now. And these others all hate her and probably wouldn’t even care if she died.

She bought into an ideology to keep herself sane, much like Helena did. People who claim Rachel is a terrible villain while also calling Helena a perfect cinnamon roll… really confuse me.

If there is one thing I’m looking forward to from this plot line, it’s that I hope emotionless Caroline will start dropping some truth bombs on people. I REALLY want her to call out certain characters on their bullshit.

Especially Elena. I practically cheered when Kai did it, now I want Caroline to do it. She knows a lot more about them than Kai and I’m sure that she’s been keeping in a lot. People have been enabling Elena’s shitty behavior for so long that she feels like there’s nothing wrong with it. The fact that she acknowledged that she’s become a terrible person but she’s okay with it because she has Damon just made it worse.

And hopefully Steroline fans can go through this without too much damage. I’m a little worried they’re going to use this opportunity to make Carenzo happen. If they do that then I’m going to be incredibly pissed. Having Elena fall for Stefan’s brother wasn’t enough? Now you want his new love to fall for his enemy? I really hope they don’t do that. Stefan has been shit on enough by the writers on this show.

All Steroline shippers know that they’re going to end up together, more than likely by the end of this season, but that feeling is going to be cheapened if they decide to use Caroline to hurt Stefan even more. Give the guy a fucking break.

What the fuck guys

I heard about the zamii070 thing and it’s such a  petty, horrible thing I can’t even process it. A 16 year old, a human being with feelings, dreams, and aspirations killed themselves because a bunch of psychotics on tumblr harrassed them, knowing full well their condition, until they killed themselves.

Over a goddamn drawing of a cartoon.

Not even the bronies did this. Not even furries, the classic shitty fandom, did this.

SU fans are the worst. Both the fact some of them did this, and the rest let it happen.

I don’t expect to ever see the fucking despicable, inhumanly petty slugs to ever think about other people but, consider the following:


She was a human being. A person who felt, had things they liked, had friends and family who loved them, had dreams and skills and things they wanted to share with the world.

Once she took her own life, which is your fault, directly. All of that went away. You robbed her parents of their daughter, you robber her friends of a person they loved, you robbed her of everything she was and wanted to be, was going to be.

I’m an agnostic leaning towards atheism, but I will briefly entertain the notion of hell being real just so I can see you sizzle in an endless ocean of boiling piss. What you did was evil, unambiguously, purely evil. No society on earth, in any context, would find this anything but evil. You deliberately caused a  death. You are as guilty as if you pulled the trigger yourselves, if it weren’t for your intervention she wouldn’t have died.

For a website that prides itself on being tolerant and accepting, you sure are a bunch of fucking bullies. Let me guess, you were bored and wanted someone to fuck with, and Zami here did something you could sorta kinda parse as being offensive to you, so you displayed your superior morals by literally being the death of her.

A 16 year old with mental illnesses, of all the people  you could pick on.

It’s because she couldn’t fight back. Don’t pretend otherwise because that shit’s not working. If you cared about half the shit you say you do, this would not have happened. This shit is on you, assholes. It’s never washing off, it’s never going away, you’re going to be the person who pushed a girl to suicide when she needed a supportive community more than anything.

You know, the thing you say you are.

You people.

You fucking petty, sadistic scum-sucking, two-faced, hypocrtical shitty excuses for people

anonymous asked:

i feel like i get why people are extremely upset though to contact her, not that its the right course of action but...what he did was sooo horrific i felt like throwing up after reading about it..he pretty much tortured those women and like with all men it's easily swept aside and he's getting nom'd for big awards and oscars :/

no i get that people are upset and what he did was fucking vile, but what do people hope to achieve by contacting her? like they have to know that she is not in a position to say anything but the party line, right? and idk maybe people don’t think in terms of “what is my goal in doing this” and contacted her because they were reacting emotionally which is apparently something i do not understand, but it’s just……… there is nothing to gain from confronting her about it!!

like idk about other people who have had similar experiences, but for me personally, having been stuck in really shitty abusive situations for my entire life, the idea of people asking her to take responsibility for the disgusting stuff that he’s done and then criticizing her for not being able to stand up to someone who has way way more power than her and has the potential to hurt her in many ways is also extremely upsetting to me, like that makes my skin crawl and sends me right back to when i was put on the spot and i vehemently defended my abusers time and time again and so. yeah. i understand your reaction, but please try to understand where i’m coming from as well.

ukitakejuushiro  asked:

U a Komugi my dude. I've been thinking real hard about this haha. You're 100% a Komugi personality wise??? A ducking wonderful person and everybody sees that except yaselves. Sees the good & best in others even if they display their shitty selves. Ye

did u make a blind joke u ass

It’s funny you say that because one of my nostrils is currently runny (allergies, not a cold, don’t worry). Idk, I’d… Komugi is too pure, you know? I’m a lil more sinful and spiteful. I mean I. I guess. I will believe you.

I, personally, would love to make a chimera ant fall in love with my (but not that one), but I’m not one for dying like she did lmfao. 

anonymous asked:

I know what wiishu's tweet said, it just sounds ridiculous that someone doesn't have time for a good friend because she was at a candy store. Because you know, other side of the planet thing..

But what was Amy doing while Signe was at the candy store though? That’s what the other person was trying to point out, that there’s another side where details are unknown. If Amy was free and Signe really did have more time that’d be shitty. If Signe only had time to hang out at a candy store with whoever was able to go and Amy couldn’t make it, that’s something to consider.

anonymous asked:

Aaah @anon India thing bums me out too as Indian American person...but I find it really fundamentally unfair to judge someone's character by a single instance. I think people often respond to other cultures with inappropriate flippancy/humor because since it's so different of course it seems strange. Yes Eleanor's behavior was inappropriate and cringeworthy but I think she's goodhearted and I don't think her image is a facade :)

yeah like it was a shitty thing to do and like if it made you uncomfortable like i totally get it you dont have to like anyone but i dont agree with like the idea of oh this person did something problematic i cant like them because like everyone is problematic you know and like it can be an opportunity to be like hey you fucked up heres why and then they can better themselves you know

anonymous asked:

i'm mostly upset because it confirms the suspicions i've had about liam for years. he's always had small, problematic things he's done that have added up to make me think he's a pretty shitty person and now he's with this horrible racist, like actual violent awful racist person, and it's sad cause i was such a huge fan and to know i wasted all that time on a shitty person kinda sucks. but the baby has nothing to do with it and i hope people dont attack the kid like they did louis'.

I mean idk anything about their relationship really but I think he turns a blind eye to the shit she’s done because she’s someone who he’s had a crush on since he was like?? 14??? I’m definitely not defending her actions or him being in a relationship with her but it’s definitely very ://///