i couldve spent more time on this

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Still got many years ahead to grow together 🌻

hxrryspotter  asked:

PLS I NEED AARON'S KIDS CONFUSING THEIR DAD AND UNCLE PLS GIVE ME TWINYARDS IM LIVING

as promised, here it is! not very long, but its something

  • alright so katelyn and aaron have kids not too long after graduation. like before they’re 30 basically
  • and obv they alive alone now and only get together with all the foxes on special occasions
  • they never go to neil and andrew’s apartment because no one deserves that. and no one complains about it either because it’s not like any of them are dying to see each other
  • anyway. let’s say its christmas time and everyone got together the day before christmas eve (they alternate each year between the foxes and katelyn’s family)
  • there are no three little minyards
  • katelyn is putting the youngest to bed and aaron has gone out to buy something last minute
  • the other two minyards are playing with matt & dan’s kids and at some point the second oldest baby minyard stumbles her way to andrew, who’s sitting on the couch with a glass of scotch in front of him
  • and andrew is watching the kid get closer and closer and he probably knows what the kid is thinking but he doesn’t move. just stays put
  • and the lil baby clings to andrew’s leg and tries to climb into his lap but doesn’t quite manage. neil is watching this unfold, so grateful he doesn’t share the same features as someone else
  • the poor child starts whimpering and neil looks at andrew like oh shit what now whats wrong
  • and andrew looks at neil like dont you know how children work
  • from the other side of the room renee is calling the kid’s name because it doesn’t look like andrew has any intention of being a decent human being
  • the little girl is still cryign dada and not understanding why her dad is being so mean
  • but finally andrew stops being a monster for a sec and picks his niece up and she snuggles into him and neil’s face is just ??? because his not-boyfriend is being so soft he could cry
  • anyway. andrew lets the tiny kid rest her head on his chest and he rhythmically pats a hand on her back and pretty soon she’s fallen asleep
  • the oldest baby minyard knows it’s not their dad who has his baby sister asleep on him but he doesn’t care much tbh, not until aaron gets back
  • then he runs to his dad and aaron kneels down to pick up his son who says “daddy, andy fell asleep on uncle andrew she thought he was you”
  • and this has happened before. the younger two often confused aaron and andrew so aaron just sort of smiles because he’s used to it happening now
  • but also because although andrew still doesn’t like katelyn at all, he loves aaron’s kids in his own way and maybe not everyone sees it but aaron does and he’s happy

anonymous asked:

what racist things taylor has done? tbh i only know about the white feminism thing, i don't keep up with her much

first of all white feminism (prioritizing white people) is inherently racist but there’s also the whole kanye thing where she spent the last decade enforcing the angry black man stereotype of it, there’s that time (and im fuzzy on the details) nicki minaj tweeted something about how woc dont get nearly as much recognition as white women and taylor took it as a personal offense and told her she’s antifeminist for saying that and it couldve been a man who took her nomination etc etc. and theres tons more situations like that but imma just top off this ask with a white lady classic: who remembers that time she met the Weeknd and told him he was beautiful and then according to him “just pet his hair for like 15 minutes” a story which taylor confirmed in a different interview bc she really thought it was a fun quirky thing she did 🙈

anonymous asked:

Iiaat to get worse? I dont mean in times of meltdown or shutdown. When I found out that I was autistic through weeks of research, I was relieved. Then it felt like I became worse. I know Im not faking it because it happened naturally, but I dont know how this happened. I know I wamted to open up and be honest since Im 17 and spent my whole life as allistic. I just dont think I couldve changed so much in only some weeks. Im more sensitive, I stim more, my appetite is off, and all sorts of stuff.

This is a pretty common experience for autistic people. Many of us, upon figuring out that we are autistic, begin to become “more autistic”. This can be for a couple of reasons. First, once we have an answer, we often become more comfortable behaving naturally which can make us seem to be getting more autistic. 

Further, I think that many of us discover we are autistic because we are approaching or are in burnout. Being more sensitive, stimming more, changes in appetite, and more can all be symptoms of burnout. 

-Sabrina

maybe if id spent more time with them… and talked to them more…. stepped in when things got bad sometimes……. i dont know…. i feel like i couldve done something to prevent this……..

FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FOR MAKING ME FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU LAST SUMMER FUCK YOU FOR MAKING ME THINK I WAS WORTHWHILE FUCK YOU FOR MAKING ME STAY UP UNTIL 4AM I STILL STAY UP EVERY NIGHT I USUALLY DONT THINK ABOUT YOU BUT WHEN I DO I GET SO ANGRY I JUST DONT GET HOW YOU LET ME SLIP THROUGH YOUR FINGERS I WAS FUCKING GOLD I COULD HAVE LOVED YOU BUT INSTEAD YOU STOMPED ON ME LIKE GUM UNDER YOUR SHOE YOU PEELED ME OFF LIKE I WAS JUST FIFLTH I AM NOT FIFLTH I AM HAPPY NOW I SEE SUNSHINE NOW I FEEL LOVED NOW FUCK YOU FOR MAKING ME THINK I COULDNT BE LOVED WHEN I SAW YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME YOU LOOKED RIGHT AT ME AND STARED LIKE OH SHIT I BROKE HER AND THEN MONTHS LATER YOU APOLOGIZED AS IF SOME BULLSHIT WORDS STRUNG TOGETHER COULDVE TAKEN AWAY THE NIGHTS I SPENT CRYING OVER YOU THE DAYS I SPENT TURNING MYSELF BLACK AND BLUE TO NUMB THE PAIN I STILL FORGAVE YOU THOUGH I ALWAYS DID I LET YOU COME BACK TIME AND TIME AGAIN UNTIL I WAS BLEEDING AND COUGHING UP BROKEN RIBS BUT THEN I SAW THE BOY WITH BRIGHT BLUE EYES AND IVE HAD MORE SUNNY DAYS EVER SINCE AND IVE LEARNED TO DANCE IN THE RAIN NOW IT NO LONGER STINGS MY SKIN SO FUCK YOU FOR TEARING ME OPEN YOU SHOULD THANK HIM FOR SEWING ME SHUT AND SHOWING ME HOW GOOD IT FEELS TO LAUGH WITHOUT MY SEAMS BEING BUST OPEN

anonymous asked:

I genuinely don't think pearl means to be condescending? Idk, I just remember in the guide to crystal gems it kinda explains that she really is interested, just not super good at showing it.

“Pearl has a hard time understanding humans and human stuff, but I know she really tries to be open to it! If she has a hard time talking to you, it’s not because she doesn’t like you- she just isn’t quite sure how to act around people sometimes. I think she’s just spent a lot more time around Gems and Gem culture than she’s spent around human beings. You should show Pearl all the stuff you like and tell her all about yourself! Even if she seems confused, she’s definitely really interested. After all, she’s dedicated to protecting humans and the Earth!”

That’s the quote you’re talkin about! I’m sorry, I couldve phrased that answer better. I agree when I say I dont think Pearl ever means to be condescending, she’s just not very good at conveying emotion and sometimes it comes off that way.

is every post i make just going to turn into a bunch of pictures of pearl? probably tbh