i couldn't stop watching that scene

I stopped watched OUaT but still keep up with Captain Swan scenes. Someone explain to me why Killian was sad in the proposal scene and WHY FOR THE LOVE OF GOD WOULD THE WRITERS TAINT THE SCENE THIS WAY IT’S SUPPOSED TO BE A PERFECT  MOMENT

I’ve been sitting here for ten minutes thinking about how nice john is to sherlock exclusively. especially in scandal. john is so incredibly NICE to sherlock in this episode? DOES IT EVER HIT YOU HOW NICE HE IS BUT ONLY EVER TO SHERLOCK?? is this episode the source of people’s terrible pushover characterization? I mean he’s perfectly grumpy and sarcastic and “I killed people” for like half of the episode but then the minute he thinks sherlock is sad he’s just like….okay ill be here if you need anything, okay it’s fine if you don’t need me ill still be here, how are we feeling about that, it’s okay that you just slammed this door in my face but are you okay, ok bye bye girlfriend im not gonna stop you i need to take care of sherlock, okay here is this phone i mean it belongs to the government but you stole that ashtray for me so here im just gonna give you this actual piece of evidence…yeah ok she’s alive just don’t be sad anymore…

Okay, but the fact that the first thing Klaus asked when he met Stefan was “How is Caroline?” shows that he cares more for her than the MF gang who doesn’t give a sh*t about her, and Klaus and Caroline haven’t seen each other in years. 

He also helped Stefan because Caroline was is already suffering too much, losing control of everything around her (the pregnancy, the babies, her boyfriend…), not doing what she wants, what she isn’t feeling obligated to do. Klaus just wanting to take a burden off her shoulders because he knows she can’t live like that is ughh…

If that’s not love idk what it is.