i care a lot about their relationship

I’m seeing a lot of posts floating around that are questioning how much craig cares about tweek and is invested in their relationship and I might pose it to you to eliminate some of your expectations. Their subplot is about expecting what your partner does to fit your narrative about what love is. Both Craig and Tweek make speculations on why the other left Coon & Co. or chose to stay without actually communicating about their feelings. Both of them feel justified in saying they are the victim of the other’s percieved wrongdoing (abandonment/lack of support) and they both felt the burden was on the other to apologize. They both had expectations of their partners that were built on fantasies of how a partner *should* act or what a partner *should* do- instead of dealing with the reality of what their partner actually did. Healthy, long lasting relationships are built on trust, understanding, & compromise. You can’t expect that everything in a relationship is going to play out the way you imagine it. Thus, you need communicate about your expectations and compromise on them, so your relationship can be built on a sustainable reality rather than fantasy. The player must also dismantle their expectations and look at the reality. You believe that Craig not responding exactly the way you (and Tweek) wish he would means that he must not love Tweek, but you need to trust that Craig reciprocates Tweek’s feelings and the reality is that he just expresses those feelings in a different way. You expect that he, and any partner, *should* show their love in one outwardly verbally affectionate way, like Tweek. But Craig can’t do that- and Tweek no longer *expects* him to. Craig needs you to look beneath the surface and recognize his more subtle, more physical brand of love to be just as valid as Tweek’s, and not expect him to be verbal in a way he’s not comfortable with or ready for- even if it doesn’t quite fit your fantasy of what love should be.

the relationship signs ♌️♍️♎️♏️

  • dare i say… PEOPLE PLEASERS??? 😵😱
  • tends to overanalyze things/interactions (ESPECIALLY virgos.. y’all already know)
  • lowkey picky and judgmental.. they expect A LOT from their friends/family. trust me.
  • the best at putting their feet into another person’s shoes
  • they kinda remind me of pisces tbh because they lowkey absorb people’s energies 🤔
  • cares about your opinion
  • claims to not like drama but is always somehow involved in drama or always attracting drama 🤹‍♂️🤹‍♀️
  • tHe sWEETEST people aw 🤧😩💖💗
  • needs someone to look up to (leos… im looking at YOU 👀)
  • their connections are VERY important to them
  • views the world through people. the people are like their lens or glasses 🔦
  • pls hug them 😖

you know what I’m loving most about Jack being with the boys is the fact he is bonding with Sam so well. I feel like every secondary character has had a stronger connection to Dean than Sam and it’s about damn time Sammy boy gets a strong bond. Dean was closer to Charlie, Kevin, Jo, Garth, Bela, Tessa, Claire, Benny… and of course our mains, Crowley and Castiel. Even though the men of letters tortured Sam, I still feel like they were working harder to connect to Dean. Mary I also feel like has a stronger relationship with Dean, which can make partial sense because she died when Sam was a baby, but I feel like she didn’t care a lot about Sam’s feelings than Dean’s last season. Dean also had Abaddon and Amara more connected to him, and as much as I adore and love him, I’m damn happy Sam is forming a relationship with Jack. It makes my heart swell.

You are the best surprise of my life.
—  Poets Love Her
Secret things your sign gets anxious about randomly (check your moon too):

psst: These are all things someone could get anxious about, but I’ve personally seen certain things in one sign the most which is why I have assigned it to them here. 

Aries: Although they can be quick to rebel, they secretly fear judgment from their peers but will always be too proud to admit this. 

Taurus: Awkward silences! They love being seen as charming and holding a conversation with someone new feels like a lot of work sometimes, as they’re worried they’ll run out of things to say

Gemini: Ending up alone. They adore being surrounded by friends and people they can laugh with, boredom and loneliness are a terrible thought. 

Cancer: If the person they care about cares about them as much too. They’re insecure about their abilities in friendships/relationships and always think they should be doing more. 

Leo: Their mental capabilities! They project loads of confidence and most of the time do really have it, but one small failure in for example school can lead them towards a downward spiral for an hour or two. 

Virgo: They really worry about timing. They get stressed about being on time, doing everything before the deadline is a must and this can lead to small breakdowns. 

Libra: Being invited places. They really can’t stand the thought of being left out! They also fear someone pointing out their flaws a lot. 

Scorpio: Having their secrets out in the open. They’re protective of what they know and feel the need to hold on to intimate details to stay safe. 

Sagittarius: Being the odd one out with nothing to say in a group of people. They’re social AF and need to be somewhat of a leading figure and on top of things. 

Capricorn: Being betrayed by their friends. They feel the need to be backed up in confronting situations, and although they can fight their own battles they also want people standing with them. 

Aquarius: Losing someone they love. Of course, everyone would hate this but Aquas have a vivid imagination and think too much, to the point where they can randomly find themselves in tears over someone who hasn’t even passed away yet. 

Pisces: Not being cool enough. Funny enough, I find that Pisces (at least in their teen years) try very hard to fit in with popular people. They need to talk like them, act like them, dress like them. That’s totally fine! But can be stressful to keep up with. 

the thing about Bakugou is that, in the limits that his personality allows, he’s soft for Kirishima - he calls him by name, listens to him and always answers him, tries to help him out as best as he can, accepts his help when Kirishima offers it, actively works to make him feel better when he’s down, never yells at him unless it’s an answer to Kirishima’s teasing, has no problems in complimenting him and pointing out his strength, he’s soft for Kirishima

he openly considers him a friend and treats him as such, he cares and doesn’t really try to hide it, though his inexperience in showing that sort of feelings does make him come off as awkward now and again 

I guess what I mean to say is it’d be nice if the fandom could remember that, instead of writing him as angry and prickly and downright offensive and uncaring when dealing with what has been recognized by the canon as his best friend and someone he does enjoy the company of over and over again

Female Zodiac signs as girls I’ve met

(Not including myself)


Aries♈: independent & dependent at the same time, confident, popular, has the best hair I’ve ever seen, can be really moody at times, cares a lot about her friends, isn’t sporty, but still looks very athletic, a bit selfish but will defend anyone who she believes is worth defending and protecting


Taurus♉: mom of the group, somehow she always has snacks in her backpack, wears headphones everywhere, seeks a love relationship, stalker when in love, very good at cooking, marriage material, incredibly stubborn, strong af, loyal


Gemini♊: always in the center of attention, either very quiet or very loud, top class student, isn’t afraid of confrontation, obsessed with Harry Potter, writes poetry but is ashamed to show it (why??), gets bored easily, overthinks a lot, independent, not good at showing her emotions, but if she cares about you you’ll know, says she hates drama but somehow always gets involved in it


Cancer♋: poor little lamb, wants to help everyone but doesn’t know how to help herself, very sensitive™, kind to literally everyone, has been through a lot, thoughtful, very romantic, cries over every (even slightly) sad moment in the movies and TV shows, a bit paranoid, the best person to have on your side, loyal af, her laugh is the best laugh in the world (idek why, I just like it), creative


Leo♌: adores being in the center of attention, kinda annoying at times, either very bitchy or not at all bitchy, can be very jealous in relationship, confident, loves being loved and to love, selfie queen™, creative, dramatic, very emotional


Virgo♍: quiet™, overthinks, very knowledgeable, can surprise people like no one else, loves animals more than people, no one knows what she thinks, her mind is like a labirint, interesting in many ways


Libra♎: social butterfly, everybody loves her bc of her easygoing nature, creative, very kind except to people she doesn’t like - she tries to ignore them, hates confrontations, sensitive, she gives some weird vibes that makes me feel like I’ve known her for thousand years


Scorpio♏: secretive, can and will destroy you if you provoke her or anyone from her squad, perverted, likes to discuss things, tough love, it’s hard to know what she feels, intuition on point, basically protective mama bear


Sagittarius♐: very independent and outgoing, creative, hakuna matata, looking at her is like looking at the sun, honest about everything, good at physics, athletic, tolerates everyone


Capricorn♑: classy, always says smart remarks, sarcastic, very funny when in good mood, worries too much, always says exactly what she means, hates drama, sick of people’s bullshit


Aquarius♒: the best taste in music, independent™, always wonders about life, world and other universal questions, very open minded, extraordinary, creative, social, belongs to thousand fandoms


Pisces♓: that girl that is always confused in class, so adorable™, gets very excited about things she likes, whatever she does it’s sooo cute, open minded, sensitive, playful little angel

Analysis about Craig and his relationship with tweek and how they complement each other

In the new episode (put it down) when they’re arguing at the end Craig says “Oh see, now you made lose control of my emotions, godd damit” and walks away upset 

And I was like “well why is he so upset?? maybe he just wanted to be the calm one in the sutiation" but then I rememered that Craig is always the one who doesn’t give a eff in lots of situations,

 I mean even on the Tweek vs Craig episode he doesn’t really care about the fight even after cartman says “Oh I guess you don’t really care about what tweek said about your mom” his answer is just “no” and closes the door

But when eric says “I guess you don’t care what tweek said about your guinea pig” he gets really mad and decides to fight him. 

And if we remember after TFBW information was out it was confirmed that Craig just cares about his guinea pig (and tweek) but why? I was wondering why he just care about his pet and why is he so distant from everything else and just don’t gives a f*ck?

Well I was thinking and realized that maybe it has to do with his family and also why he complements so perfect with tweek.

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anonymous asked:

Do you have any hcs of iwa being a dad, i really loved the drawings

Okay!!! 

  • Tobio’s mother died when he was born (and yes, she was Iwaizumi’s partner at the time).
  • Tobio means the world to Iwaizumi, he’s a very dedicated dad, and loves his baby a lot.
  • Iwaizumi often feels guilty because he can’t spend too much time with Tobes.
  • Iwaizumi buys lots of toys Godzilla related.
  • When Iwaizumi can’t take care of Tobio he stays with his Grandma or his neighbor Totoro Suga+Daichi.
  • Oikawa and Tobio have a really good relationship <3!

That is all what I had in my mind then, I haven’t thought too much about this AU I guess. Also someone else asked me for drawings about this AU time ago, so here you go!

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#two very different relationships for shaw yet both so important #they both loved her so much but in different ways (one platonically and the other romantically) and its big because for someone that always thought something was wrong with her and no one would ever take the time to GET her #she ended up gaining two people that legit would’ve died for her and vice versa #they BOTH understood her and never judged her and loved her exactly the way she was #not to mention root and reese’s love for her even helped THEM bond in a way that made them start to care about each other #i just have a lot of feelings about these three tbh

you didn’t ask for playlists but here

all are from { my spotify }

dancing around the room with wet hair and mismatched socks

these songs give me unrealistic expectations for my first date and I’m kinda okay with that

rain is when the clouds cry and my soul wants to sing

that one person who sits in the corner brooding listens to this as they stare at everyone

let’s sneak out on the roof just to stare at the stars while the wind blows around us

you really don’t want to talk to me if this is playing

it’s dark and we’re running through dimly lit streets, sitting and staring and not caring and feeling too much

when everyone leaves and it’s just me alone at night on my bed with my laptop

never been in a relationship but I made a breakup playlist anyway

there’s a stillness about the night that’s extremely calming 

I see a lot of people using Tangled as an example of the age gap Keith and Shiro have not being uncommon in fiction but there’s more than that out there.

There’s star wars, Anakin and Padme start dating when he is 19 and she is 24. In Howl’s Moving Castle, Sophie is 18 and Howl is 27. And of course there’s practically all the Prince/Princess relationships in Disney movies.

Interesting how people don’t care about age gaps as much in fictional het relationships but are extremely quick to call it gross when it’s mlm.

anonymous asked:

Do you have any ships within gorillaz?

no,

i am very intrigued by the relationship stu and murdoc have, not in the sense that ‘wowie uwu they are both so hot uwu it’s not abusive at all uwu they love each other uwu’ but in the simple matter that both of them depend on each other in a rather tragic way. i strongly believe that murdoc really does care about stu, a lot, he’s just a bag of dicks when it comes to coping with his past abuse. to be honest i hate all the ‘stu is still being held captive ect, he’s in the band against his will’ fuzz. he’d be long gone if he really wanted to.

in the last interview we saw how stu helped murdoc calm down when he started dissociating, and even though most people viewed it as a funny moment during the interview, it makes me really quite sad because we get to see how much murdocs life is still impacted by the abuse he had to go through as a child.

so no, i guess no ‘ships’ but bonds.

The hardest part of the entire Supergirl cast shitstorm to me is that it feeds that little insecure part of me that constantly says that people just don’t care. About my experiences or my sexuality and that this world will always be a heteronormative society and that the LGBT community will constantly be hurt whether it be a gay character dying on a tv show or a cast of a show with a canon wlw relationship and calls itself progressively feminist still can mock a gay ship that means a lot to a lot of people. That no matter what we go through, no matter how much we endure it will never be enough, that I will never be enough.

Female Zodiac Signs As Girls I’ve Met

Aries♈: independent & dependent at the same time, confident, popular, has the best hair I’ve ever seen, can be really moody at times, cares a lot about her friends, isn’t sporty, but still looks very athletic, a bit selfish but will defend anyone who she believes is worth defending and protecting

Taurus♉: mom of the group, somehow she always has snacks in her backpack, wears headphones everywhere, seeks a love relationship, stalker when in love, very good at cooking, marriage material, incredibly stubborn, strong af, loyal

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dating yoongi [realistically]

Originally posted by myloveseokjin

jungkook l taehyung l jimin l hoseok

important disclaimer: please remember that everything I wrote down is my own personal opinion. I do not know Yoongi personally, nor his past relationship experiences, so this is based on my imagination of ‘’realistic’’ only.  This is only my own imagination on how it could be like dating him. If you’re not open to stuff like this, please don’t read.

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why I'm attracted to pennywise
  • really big and tall
  • I mean he could completely wrap himself around you
  • obviously very cooky, there would never be a dull moment with him
  • yeah he’s creepy and potentially dangerous which I know not everyone likes but I’m super into
  • and that fact would make it even more special when he’s gentle and tender with you
  • there’s something about knowing that it would be wrong to be with him that just feels so scandalous and exciting
  • the sex would be kinky as fuck
  • he’d be super rough if you wanted, really dominant
  • you could completely submit and he would take good care of you
  • secret relationships are kinky
  • big hands to hold yours, and they’d also be really warm and it would generally just feel really nice
  • soft plush lips and kisses all the time
  • his CUTE AS FUCK toothy smile aw
  • ability to change his genitalia which would be really fucking interesting and also very hot
  • can be very childlike
  • gets really excited over random things omg it’s so cute
  • temper tantrums and lots of pouting when he wants something which is hecking adorable
  • the voice changes
  • I mean THE VOICE CHANGES like damn
  • probably a whole lot of other stuff that I don’t consciously realize
  • what about you?
Regarding Class 1-A and Bakushima

I like to think about the evolution of Class 1-A’s perception of Bakugou and Kirishima in a romantic relationship. See, a lot of fan content takes place in a time where Bakugou has already developed and formed bonds with the majority of the class. 

 At present, in canon, I think there’s still a general dislike of Bakugou. They care about him, certainly, because he is one of their own, and those he affords a degree of respect to even like him (Kaminari, Ashido, Sero), but I feel like he is still a generally dislikable person to the majority of the class. What they see of him is: violent, arrogant, lashes out without warning, has to be restrained, was seen by villains as an ideal recruit, tormented Deku to the point of trauma, etc etc. His quiet moments are interrupted by cursing, any attempt to be friendly is met with aggression, he’s just generally not the kind of person you could like from an outside point of view. 

 (I may have to revise this later — I’m currently rereading the series so the details on his current relations with the rest of the class are foggy to me) 

 So the point I’m trying to make here is that the class would probably be incredibly wary if he and Kirishima were to start dating. “Look what he did to Midoriya, his childhood friend. Imagine what he’d do to his ‘boyfriend.’” People would likely discourage Kirishima from pursuing this. Would extend words like “If he ever hurts you…” And warn Bakugou that they’ll be watching him.

 Bakugou, of course, would be furious. But his reaction only cements their image of him as short-fused and violent, and his protests fall on deaf ears. In the end it’s Kirishima who has to calm him down, upset by the reaction but telling him that the only way to change their mind is to show them their relationship is healthy. 

 And at first Bakugou doesn’t want to do it — he doesn’t give a shit about what others think. But it pisses him off that they see him like this. He wants to prove them wrong. So he changes his plan: he’s going to be the best god damn boyfriend the world has ever seen. Couples will be breaking up in tears because they understand they could never hold a candle to Bakugou and Kirishima. 

So he does exactly that. Yeah, he’s still snarling at the rest of the class, but he’s doing it while holding Kirishima’s hand in a death grip. Kirishima says something mildly self-deprecating? Bakugou materializes, yelling, “Your quirk is fucking fine! There’s nothing wrong with you, you should be proud of what you made of yourself you piece of shit!” God forbid someone makes a rude comment about their sexuality. The entire school knows that the last time someone made a homophobic remark, Bakugou vaulted five tables in the cafeteria to drop-kick them in the middle of lunch. 

It’s unbelievable at first. But then it becomes legendary. Bakugou Katsuki: Number one in his class during the entrance exam, infamous for a deadly quirk and a mouth just as violent, and absolutely fucking in love with his boyfriend. 

(There was a time, once, when several teachers had to come to class 1-A because every last student started screaming. The reason? Someone asked Bakugou “Well why do you think angels are real?” And Bakugou told them, “Cause I’m fucking dating one, you idiot.”)