i cannot stress it enough how much i love them

victuuri as parents, anyone?

  • blanket forts galore! they move furniture around and make a space big enough to fit a kid (later kids), two fairly tall dads, and one or two dog(s)
    • they lie on their stomachs with flashlights and read stories in excited, lilting voices of different characters until the whole group falls asleep on the plethora of pillows strewn on the floor
    • they may or may not wake up with giant red marks on their faces, but it just makes their mornings full of laughter
  • they have frequent family movie nights! they all sit on the couch with popcorn in their laps and enjoy the movie, but it always ends with three or four people asleep on the couch, huddled together in an extra big and warm blanket– and the dogs, of course. can’t forget their dogs
  • victor and yuuri love to hype up breakfast, especially! pancakes have syrup and fruit and bacon piled on top of it in the shape of a face, and waffle houses may or may not be built
  • victor and yuuri are soccer dads. whether or not their kid ends up picking up soccer is up in the air (its their choice and victor and yuuri will support their interest no matter what), but they’re definitely the first parents to volunteer to drive around their kids’ friends around when need be
  • their fridge is covered from top to bottom in various arts and crafts, and victor and yuuri love to sit down and just color with their kid(s)
  • can’t call it one of my headcanons unless i bring up the fact that victor and yuuri scrapbook everything! yet another scrapbook slowly but surely fills up with pictures from the first day they adopted their kid, to their first day in school, first time winning the spelling bee, first time on the ice… a lot of firsts, and a lot of birthdays, for sure
  • this is a little more personal, but i have an aunt who keeps a poster with the words “love yourself” by her kids’ bedside, and that’s absolutely something that victor and yuuri would do. like my aunt, they both remind their kids how much they love them, and above all, how much they should love themselves because self-love is incredibly important
Hak is not a Nice Guy™: A rant by me

**Note: I apologize in advance if this comes across as angry and vitriolic, but I really like Hak a lot. I think he’s a wonderful leading man who genuinely cares and respects Yona in ways I so rarely see in popular media, so to see him being criticized for not being a Nice Guy™ really, really grinds my gears and I felt it necessary to say something. So… yeah. 


So I go on a manga reading website to read AnY, and in one of the forum I see a great big jumble of bullshit masquerading as a forum post. I’ll spare you guys most of it, but I screenshotted the part that made me livid because, especially for the anime but also for the manga, I see the same sort of reasoning ALL THE TIME.

Not only is this just…. super gross generally, but it shows a fundamental misunderstanding of Hak as character. Hak is not a Nice Guy™ who is caring for Yona with ulterior motive of “Oh, if I just stick around long enough and remain hopeful, someday she’s gonna fall for me, right??” No. NO NO NO NO. That is not Hak. That was never Hak. He is not here at Yona’s side hoping and waiting for the moment that she’ll someday love him, and it sure as  hell isn’t the reason he’s still there after all this time. Does he love her, and did he try to make such apparent to her originally? For sure. Does he believe if he just remains persistent, she’ll someday love him back? No. Nooooooo. NO. 

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For those asking what my actual inbox is like. Fun fact: on the 1st of every month I hit the mass delete button on my inbox to try and save some of my sanity, operating under the vague notion of having some semblance of control over my life.

This is my inbox eleven days into the month

You’d be forgiven in thinking most of it is spam, and while I do get the odd one or two “crucifix nail nipples” interrupted occasionally by hot you Snapchat girlzzzz wanting to show me pictures of their cats (at least I think that’s what it said) for the most part it’s people asking questions, either for help or just wanting someone to talk to. And I’m not complaining, I cannot stress enough just how much I am not complaining. I am genuinely sincere in my love for you and being able to interact with all of you.

It’s just sometimes…a tad… overwhelming, and I can only apologize for the messages I never get to. I feel awful about them, but it’s that or go mad trying to answer them all.

So I fear I can only beg your forgiveness on that count and carry on trying to do the best I can do. I am but a humble smut pedler on the internet who has somehow been mistaken for someone important. I promise you, no one is more surprised by this than me.

scutchieeee  asked:

Hi! I've been a French student for 4 years now, and am looking to start learning German. Are there any programs/apps/books that you know of that could help me?

Hey, thanks for the question! :)

I was in your position just two years ago, so I remember looking for resources all the time. So this is what I used when I was first starting out:

- Mission Berlin - (A1.1) The story is interesting and it starts out in English and gradually introduces more and more German, this is the probably the only course I did 100% from beginning to end. I highly recommend using this as your first resource because I feel like when you’re starting out, it’s important to keep yourself motivated, so you don’t drop the language.

Deutsch Interaktiv - (A1-B1) I also used this quite a bit, starting at A2. It’s a good resource as well. It’s got audio, fill in the blank, multiple-choice, everything could want.

Duolingo - Of course, Duolingo is also good, I ended up doing the French tree in German and even learned a few German words months after my last German class.

Deutsch.info - (A1-B1) Also a great interactive course, made by the same people who made lernu.net for learners of Esperanto, if you like that style. There’s forums, a dictionary, a Mediathek and even a section on cultural information like studying and working German (and Austria, can’t forget them!)

I cannot stress enough how great a resource Deutsche Welle is. Even when you get past the A1/A2 phase, they have loads of content, like news in slow German, the Telenovela (which I loved lol), the Video Thema and the Top-Thema. Like I used these so much until one day I realized, hey wait, actually I think the narrator is speaking a little slow for me. And from then on, I’ve been watching the Tagesschau, German movies, Türkisch für Anfänger, etc.

Good luck, and don’t give up! If you have any questions at all, send me some more asks / messages and I’ll be glad to help!

anonymous asked:

I'm genderfluid and I just got a boyfriend who's straight-ish. we were together over a year ago too and he admitted to me that back then he didn't really accept my gender identification, he did say however that this time he really will respect it only it's a process, which it was for me too to accept it so I get, but do you have any advice on how to make it easier for others to be comfortable with my gender identity?

As someone who also had issues coming out to a straight partner in the past, I cannot stress this enough:

There is a difference between someone who still loves you because you’re still you, and someone who still loves you because you’ve still got their preferred body parts.

Yes, there are nonbinary lesbians and nonbinary gay men; they’re beautiful and I love them so, so much. But there’s a difference between identifying that way, and having a gender association imposed on you by someone who doesn’t respect your identity.

Like, boning down on a gross dude who shrugs and says, “You’re basically a girl, so as long as you don’t expect this to come up ever again, I guess it’s chill,” isn’t being accepted. It’s being silenced, and you can’t let someone hurt you like that.

I think a lot of the time, when you aren’t going to be presenting differently or changing your name or medically transitioning, what people want to know is how, if at all, this changes things. So if he wants to understand and this relationship is worth salvaging, it would probably be helpful for everyone if you sat down and said, “I need you to use these pronouns,” or, “I need you to call me your partner instead of your girlfriend,” or whatever it is you need him to do for you.

Make sure the conversations are about HE can make YOU more comfortable, and don’t let him pressure you to subdue yourself. If he, for example, gets upset when you present more masculine, or becomes uncomfortable when you remind him that he isn’t dating a woman, those are some pretty massive red flags that he was hoping you’d just acquiesce to whatever role he’d previously carved out for you or that this would blow over.

thelargestspaghetti  asked:

hey idk if you still read this stuff but i just wanted to let you know that you are my favorite artist in the whole galaxy. Your drawings are SO incredibly beautiful like jesus ! and the fact that they have minor imperfections just make them a whole lot more unique and awesome and gosh I cannot stress you enough how MUCH I ADORE YOUR ART like seriously. I wish I had money to buy your whole shop. I promise you I'll buy something soon because I want to support you. Keep going ily PS i love nardo 2

WOW THANK YOU!!!! you have no idea how much that means to me!!! people like you make me want to never stop drawing! i really hope you continue to like my stuff, i’ll work hard for u! :’’’-)

tacomather  asked:

pass the happy along! when you get this, reply with 5 things that make you happy and then send it to the last 10 people in your activity feed :D

Just five things??

uhh

ok 

1. @ossy-possum

They are so heckin creative and supportive of me whenever I’m feeling down and they inspire me to be better both as an artist and a person and they teach me great memes and I appreciate them 1000% they are patient and kind to me and i cant stress how incredibly creative they are like holy cow literally the best story teller i have ever met and they never fail to inspire me and im lov them

2. @nightwing-it

They mean the world to me and I love them with all my heart just remembering the fact this person exists is enough to bring a smile to my face and life to my soul i love them so much i cannot even describe they have supported me for years and helped me through learning more about myself and the world and will forever be subject to my unconditional love for them there is no escape now.

3. @sylphofthedamned

I love them, I love them so much, they are so fun and caring and selfless and talented they have such a colorful personality and are a joy to know and be around they have a beautiful smile and a creative mind that is even somehow more beautiful and full of amazing ideas and they give great hugs and always smell really nice and i love them.

4. @pigicemaster

Really super sweet to me always and unconditionally despite me never really having done anything to deserve it, always tells me they’re here for me to talk to when i need them, they tell me about their day and tries to make me feel included when I’m struggling to not become dissociated with life, never fails to give me reassurance and tell me im appreciated, gives me encouragement and shows interest in what i’m doing and they mean so so much to me and i could never match them they are honestly the sweetest most selfless person and I don’t even know them that well and have no idea what I did to deserve encountering such a caring individual.

5. @bananapoppies

They are honestly so sweet and an aMAZING ARTIST!!! AA everything they make is so squishy and cute and I want to hug all their characters they are so so nice to me they talk to me when I’m feeling depressed and are so so supportive and patient with me,,  when my motifs are barren and my irrational anxiety is telling me it’s because i’m boring and bad in general, they fill my notifs with tagging me in random and great stuff, another person who really helps keep me from dissociating, a good good sweet bean who puts so much effort into their art and writing and i lov them and appreciate their existence so so much.  

And 6 cus heck to your rules.

@itslonewolfgamer @draco-rex @nighty-crystal-art (I just met them for the first time like yesterday but they already seem super crazy nice and I like them a lot already??) @mangoburger @colorful-pancakes @citizen-of-88th-dimension @ihavenosoul12 @waffowls @sludgebat @fancytragedytrash and you of course @tacofamily

To avoid making this a super long post, I won’t go into anymore details here but point is I love you all and you make me so so happy just by existing so please keep doing that.  -existing, that is. 

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Naruto 30-day challenge

Day 4: Favorite non-canon couple

Next on the list is NejiTen. I cannot stress enough how much I love them! They’re just absolutely perfect for each other. So, fuck you Kishimoto for what you’ve done to Neji. He deserved his own wonderful ending too (preferably with Tenten).

I love Neji. He’s the sort of guy you’d take home to meet your parents haha. He’s strong, reliable, loyal, and he holds a lot of respect for his teammates. He’s the kind of person you’re 101% sure will never let you down!
I love Tenten. She’s so badass, strong, and cool! She doesn’t tolerate mysoginistic shit either. She’s pretty much the series’ feminist. Her expertise in wielding ninja tools makes her more…ninja-ish (because real life ninjas can’t do those ninjutsu duh lol).

Their character designs complement each other perfectly. I can envision feudal Japan period with how their characters were designed 💕

NejiTen is ❤️❤️❤️

if you’re a college student i honestly cannot stress enough how much u should look at thriftbooks.com for your textbooks before buying them from the college bookstore, or even amazon rentals. today bought just some of my (many, many) textbooks for the fall and i spent $40 as opposed to the $240+ that would have been charged me otherwise. they also have free shipping if your order’s over $10!! i love thriftbooks.com!!!

mckasa  asked:

psa ; this jean blog is wonderful and awesome! they play an amazing jean and i fangirl over them at least three times a day! the mun is sweet and brings me pure joy! they brighten up any dash! and when they write it is like magic! they are lovely, amazing, kind, and i'm so thankful to have met them! i guess i'm biased because i really like super cool, sweet, and talented people but hey. this has been a psa about this amazing blog who belong and makes the snk fandom better! <3

SOBS @ THIS PSA BECAUSE IT HONESTLY MADE MY EVENING LAST NIGHT? I cannot stress enough how much I love this Mikasa & their mun, they’re so wonderfully kind & are honestly an honour to have on my dash with such a great character portrayal if I may say so myself ! It brightens me up every single moment i see their account on my dash because they’re so wonderful with both formatting & portrayal so another PSA to say I really don’t deserve them at all in my life ! If you guys ever needed a good blog to follow I’d certaintly recommend this one because she’s a partner to not miss out on, I swear down on my love for cats tBH lBR. I love them so so so much & y’all should too !!  ♡ ♡

I cannot stress enough how beautiful Kim Namjoon is. Like he is so beautiful inside and out. He has the kindest soul and the sweetest heart. He literally thinks about everyone’s feelings and takes them into consideration. He is always willing to help and listen to anyone when they need him. He puts everyone first before himself. And he just goes out of his way to make others happy. I am so happy that this precious human being is our leader. Thank you, Kim Namjoon for being the angel that you are.

Dear non-artists

For whatever reason, today I have multiple friends contacting me at once trying to bum free work off of me. 

I cannot, cannot, cannot stress enough how much you should NOT DO THIS. 

  1. It puts me in a very awkward position, it’s uncomfortable and I don’t like dealing with this so please just don't 
  2. It is extremely disrespectful and just plain poor manners
  3. Knowing an artist personally does not by any means give you the right to ask them to do concept work (or any work) for you free of charge. 

Honestly, what is wrong with you? I would never expect handouts from friends. If anything, I am more inclined to compensate them for their time, supplies, and skills BECAUSE THEY ARE MY FRIENDS AND I LOVE AND APPRECIATE AND SUPPORT THEM. 

Of course it’s not just non-artists who do this–I have seen other artists do it as well. It is just less commonplace. 

  • “I know you like doing art so…” NO.
  • “Since you like <insert theme here> could you draw…” NO.
  • “You know what you should draw…” NO.
  • “You should do this for free, it’ll give you exposure…” NO.

Please please please do not ever do this. It shows that you do not truly appreciate or respect what I do. It shows that you do not value my work or its worth. And on a more personal level, it shows that you do not understand what my work means to me. 

And most importantly, it will make me distrust you.

Amateur Stuff, Mish

Title: Amateur Stuff, Mish

Relationship: Jared Padalecki/Reader

Word Count: 2,469

Request: reader is a good friend of Misha’s and he introduces her to Jared and they end up dating and falling in love over time? But the reader is younger (like maybe 24 or so) and Misha is concerned?

A/N: I’m so so sorry it took so long to get this request filled out! I hope it was worth the wait!

~Jordan

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(( i hereby apologize for the lazy follow forever but it has symbolism so that’s all cool right. right. symbolism is cool yo y’all are warming my angsty heart–

so here we are, 320 or so followers, a near 200 follower increase from my last follow forever. that is INSANE. especially since i consider myself to be one of the lesser rpers in this community, and my lack of capabilities that could make me an exponential rper (as in a pretty small vocabulary of giant and epic words that could be used, and i in general cannot settle on a format for the life of me). and yet here you all are, sitting on the sidelines and watching me rp, and actually ENJOYING my rps. i’m honestly just. so flattered by you all being here by my side.

alright, without further ado, let’s move on to some really sappy shit because this is me we’re talking about here.

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