i can't say it any other way

Yoongi as your boyfriend

I just typed this up bc I’m in whole love w my little man and I just uuuuuu can never get him off my mind lmao

•contrary to popular belief yoongis a big ass soft boy so he’s gonna b needy as hell
•like he’d never full out say it bc he really *thinks* he’s a tuff boy but

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  • someone: you can't say that about your mother! she's your mom! mothers are loving and nurturing. How could you ever...
  • me, an intellectual: actually, social symbols like the symbolism we associate with motherhood are not absolute and are frequently used as a way to manipulate people into remaining loyal to those who don't offer them care or any benefit. i don't fall for the manipulation to which the masses seem to succumb.
  • someone:
  • someone:
  • me: also i was abused
  • someone: oh. well you're just projecting your experiences onto others...
  • me: look at the masses, succumbing
Wanna know what I can't stand?

The way people write jealousy. People always write it like “you’re my best friend that I have a crush on and you are not allowed to interact with any other male let alone be friends with them but I can do whatever I want with girls, even if you say that you don’t like it or that it makes you feel uncomfortable. An when you get understandably upset and confront me about it i’m going to act like this is all your fault because you dared to have another male friend. You’re now going to let me claim you like you’re some kind of object because even though you’re telling me no, I know exactly what you WANT and NEED.” If any guy acts like that with you they need to get their crap straight and you should probably consider not being around them anymore. That is not love, nor is that ‘super hot’. That’s abusive and controlling behavior. Your boyfriend or friend or girlfriend should not get upset for you interacting and befriending other people. And that classic line in a fic “I’m going to have to remind you who you belong to.” The line itself isn’t bad. But the fact that it’s being used just because you talked to another guy is not okay. And then these fics automatically jump to the rough and unsafe sex complete with spanking and the use of derogatory words with the lack of any safe word being discussed. Shouldn’t you make sure thats okay???? Shouldn’t you give your partner a way out in case it gets too much??? Whether you like it or not, young people do read these fics, and by writing it like that over and over and over again you’re normalizing it and making it seem like its okay and to be expected. NO ONE SHOULD TREAT YOU LIKE THAT! I understand that it might be hot or whatever to some people, so in that case, make him (or her) get angry over some ACTUAL flirty behavior. Make your reader insert character ACTUALLY flirt with another guy, just to get a rise out of your fave or the idol being written about. WRITE SCENES OF A SAFEWORD BEING EXCHANGED AND ACTUAL AFTERCARE AND COMFORT AFTER ROUGH SEX. Come on people, doesn’t that sound way hotter? JUST WRITE RESPONSIBLY UGH

Guys. I’m still not over this. The way Jack says “Where’s my confetti??” I’m dying. And Chucky and Larks both looking good, too. This off-season has been brutal in so many ways. (xxx)

Sometimes I think about things like “as many times as it takes” and “your friend desperately wants to see you” … or the sound of Shiro’s voice when he says Keith’s name and the way Shiro and Keith look at each other like the rest of the world doesn’t exist … or even just the little notes Keith and Shiro write about each other in the Official Guidebook (or “it’s killing me when you’re away”) … and I just think to myself, I’m pretty sure there are actual romantic pairings that are canon in other shows, movies, books who have less romantic moments than Keith/Shiro have, like COME ON GUYS even if the creators of Voltron say they meant for these two to be platonic, I don’t think there’s any way for me at this point to see their interactions as anything but romantic, even if they don’t end up being explicitly canon in the show.

… I think I’ve just reached Sheith enlightenment.

anonymous asked:

I think it's also worth pointing out that characters like Tails, Knuckles and Vector technically don't the same muzzle/mouth designs like most other characters. (Knuckles' tapers out into a 'point', Tails has a small canid muzzle of sorts and rarely uses the side mouth anymore, and obviously Vector has a long crocodile snout. I guess you toss in Antoine and Rotor too) All theirs protrudes out enough to where you can't fully see their other cheek in certain 3/4 angles.

I’d say for the most part all Sonic characters have roughly the same type of muzzle, just tweaked/pushed pulled in different ways. If you master the basic muzzle, you’re in good shape for tackling any other arrangement.

it’s also worth mentioning on the mouth placement- ‘cool’ characters get side-mouths (Sonic, Shadow, Rouge usually, etc), ‘cute’ characters get front facing mouths (Amy, Tails, Cream).

  • racist people when a white character gets switched to a minority: why are they forcing diversity :\ :\ why does everything have to be 'diverse' these days??
  • racist people when a minority character gets switched to white: why are SJWs bitching about this :\ :\ why can't they accept that moviemakers are casting based on talent??
  • racist people when a canonically minority character is played by a minority: tbh i never pictured them that way :\ :\ where does it say in the book that they look like this??

anonymous asked:

There's a lot of hate going around for designer dog breeds, and I completely understand the downsides. But if a breed is created in a healthy way, what's wrong with creating say a smaller version of a large breed? The majority of people can't take care of a huge dog. If a breed is developed with care and the animal's wellbeing in mind but also specifically to be a small companion breed for example, what's the problem? People don't get burnt at the stake for creating new horse breeds. Thoughts?


Okay so I personally don’t have any problem with designer dog breeds if they have a purpose. I do not support backyard breeders or puppy mills but I have no problem with responsible breeders who breed their dogs with a purpose.

For example, farm dogs that are mixed breeds and are the result of two parents with excellent herding/livestock guardian abilities and no known health issues, excellent! Doodles from responsible breeders, for people who want the personality of a lab/golden retriever but can’t deal with shedding, great! Lurchers bred for coursing ability, cool!

I personally do not support dogs designed in a way that makes them unhealthy. For example, most (if not all) of the “teacup” dog breeds are inherently unhealthy (x and x). I also do not support puppy mills who are looking to sell puppies to make a buck, or backyard breeders who have litters for their dogs to “experience motherhood” or their children to “learn the miracle of life”.

Responsible breeders with contracts (and who take their dogs back no matter the circumstances) do not contribute to dogs in shelters. Puppy mills and backyard breeders do.

Another issue with designer dog breeds is that they tend to be magnets for people who want a dog that is cute, without the desire or knowledge to properly train them. Basically, if you’re getting a designer dog after doing your research and because you think this designer breed will fit in to your lifestyle, GREAT! If you’re getting a designer dog because it’s cute and little, consider not.

There are, of course, the people who impulsively get a dog, eventually listen to reason, do their research, and become AMAZING owners. If that’s you, then good on you for learning and keep it up!  

I think the reason new horse breeds are much less likely to experience public hate than dog breeds is that dogs in shelters are so much more of a visible issue than horses. Everyone knows about dog welfare, while only people immersed in the horse world know about horse welfare. 

Again, this is my (Cat’s) opinion. Please inform me if I’m wrong (and I very well may be!) but please keep things respectful.

anonymous asked:

Is it possible that Harry chews because of the frustration he and Louis have to live? Maybe he can't dump it in any way so he chews

My gut instinct says no.

Unpopular opinion again: I think Harry and Louis are actually pretty happy together, despite everything.

At the end of the day, they have each other. They can converse, spend time, entertain, have friends– pretty much like normal people. What the world sees doesn’t really affect their everyday lives.

We hear all these receipts about their spending time together. It’s all fun head canons, but what do they prove? That celebrities can go undercover? Isn’t that obvious, though? I’ve seen celebrities in NYC just walking around, existing, without people mobbing them, in discreet, residential neighborhoods. They can disappear when they want to.

Harry and Louis consult each other about the important matters: their professional lives, their families, their investments, the direction of their careers. They’re the fortunate pair that shares their creative work, so that they can work together, learn together.

Every young couple has restrictions on their lives. Most couples have much greater restrictions than Harry and Louis– e. g. schooling, money, job prospects, maybe children, in-laws that don’t get along, disapproving parents.

Harry and Louis have families and friends that love and support them, in every photo that I’ve seen.

Yes, as a fan it’s disappointing not to see them interact for so long. But that doesn’t change the reality of their lives.

I don’t think they’re disappointed about not being able to be openly affectionate. For all intents and purposes, they are openly affectionate, in their private lives.

Their biggest unhappiness, I would think, is in the thorny negotiations of contract release. It’s undeniable that Louis is not able to sever ties with Simon Cowell, for whatever reason. A blind man could see that he is miserable in this situation, and has to do this for some reason. So I’m waiting for the end.

I know they will prevail. Harry and Louis are incredibly smart and they are fighters. They don’t give up.

sarcasticandephemeral  asked:

How would one go about writing a deaf person's signing? Putting their lines in quotation marks seems wrong, but I can't think of any other way to punctuate

Italics work, especially if you need to distinguish between verbal speech. Mentioning a particular sign once and awhile could help, but don’t overuse it. It’s just a conversation, same as any other.

the redbirds must have their due. oh you, wicked children who come close to the banks of the river, do you not know what waits for you? do you not hear them coming, wading, reaching out with blood red hands to tear you asunder, to eat you whole? is this not the fate that awaits you for your terrible deeds? the redbirds must eat. they must eat. they must feed.


A couple of years ago, I had a dream about a pretty frightening scenario concerning a race of strange creatures with origami birds for heads called Redbirds, who lived in the water and snatched any children who wandered by to eat them alive. My brain comes up with some pretty cool (but scarily weird) concepts, what can I say!

 I could imagine these origami killers (see what I did there) as a sort of grand antagonist in a short story - perhaps a mother needs to find a way to kill them for good before they set their sights on any other child who comes too close to the water…

anonymous asked:

remember that tweet about flint's earring having changed from gold to silver and how little in the show happens by accident? i just can't bring myself to believe that the same writers who did that also made all the flinthamilton and silverflint parallels to basically end up saying "they love each other but just in a friend way haha" i don't know it just doesn't make any sense to me

s a m e

I think we can all agree nothing makes any fucking sense at this point and nothing will until 409/410. But yeah, that ‘little happens by accident’ has been haunting my ass ever since Toby said it. I mean of course parallels as obvious and as frequent as this must have been done on purpose. We know this. We know its partly because of the similarities they wanted to show between them; Thomas and Silver being Flint’s closest friends, both of them being his partners. We also know that its because they’re leading up to Flint’s relationship with Silver being ‘a summation of all the relationships hes had so far’. But whether or not its romantic WE JUST DONT KNOW. 

Looking at everything we’ve been presented with it does makes sense for it to be romantic, of course. Because its the best explanation (at this point). If they had focused more on paralleling Miranda/Flint with Silver/Flint to show their friendship/partnership I would understand that the writers weren’t going for romantic. BUT. THEY. DIDNT. Thomas looking at James: “strange pairs, lieutenant. they can achieve the most unexpected things>:)” [pans to James looking at John]. I mean !!!!!! They paralleled Silver with Thomas from the beginning. And then as if that wasn’t obvious enough they start paralleling Madi with Miranda. So yeah, like you said I dont believe the writers did all this just to label Silver as the love of Flint’s life in a ‘platonic way’. Seems a bit dramatic to build this relationship up over 4 seasons and at the end just say ‘flint was silver’s best friend. thats it. thats what he was to him”. There’s something more going on here that we don’t know about yet.

“Thomas was my husband. I loved him and he loved me. But what he shared with you, it was entirely something else.” I’ve always believed this is the same case for Silver and Flint. Silver loves Madi and Madi loves Silver, but what Silver shares with Flint is entirely something else. We just dont know what the ‘something else’ is yet. But we’ll find out soon enough, just hold tight.

anonymous asked:

I'm having a terrible time with a coworker. She belittles me, bosses me around for fun, calls me names behind my back, and tries to make me do her job for her because she is lazy. If I refuse or tell her I have other things to do, she says I need to remember my place and obey her. I've arranged to talk to my GM on Monday but I'm so anxious that there isn't any way to fix this. I'm so angry all the time I feel like I'm gonna have a heart attack. But I can't find a job that will match my pay.

Do not back down! She is creating a hostile environment so you have very legitimate concerns! Stand your ground. If they don’t do anything then you need to let her know that you’re done taking shit from her. Always tell her no and NEVER give in to her abuse. Hell, straight up tell her you’re done letting her push you around and if she doesn’t like it then tough tits. Good luck, hun. I’m rooting for you. Just remember we’re all sending our good vibes your way! -Abby


Other friends, like Mr. Abernathy — my dad’s age, with some ill-articulated scandal or disgrace in his past — were so mercurial and articulate, so utterly dismissive of me (“And where did you say you obtained this child, James?”) that I sat dumbfounded among the Chinese antiques and Greek vases, wanting to say something clever while at the same time terrified of attracting attention in any way, feeling tongue-tied and completely at sea. —The Goldfinch, p.399

Francis Abernathy: Before and After

tsukithewolf  asked:

I just wanted to let you know that I am so unbelievably emotionally attached to your comic from ABoT where Mob and Reigen meet. I adore the lighting and how the comic gradually becomes saturated with color. The emotional moment when Mob grabs onto Reigen and the stunned joy on his face blows me away every time. I just love everything about the comic. At this point if you redrew that comic like you did the Mogami scene, you may just destroy my heart. Just saying because I can't imagine it (1/2)

(2/2) any more astounding and lovely than it already is. I’ll never get my breath back. Thank you for the beautiful work, Joey, and I look forward to all for your future art pieces!! 

ahhh gosh thank you so much ;v; indeed a lot of heart went into it and i’m blushu

Funny enough though, the current comic is already a redraw ^^ Way back in January-ish, I had a whole other version fully drafted, which I took a solid look at and went: y’know what. i can do this better.

And so I did ! It went from 9 pages to 13, and basically every page is radically different from the page that preceded it. You even have Reigen without his Honker.

You can see the old drafts here!

anonymous asked:

i'm so sick of everything and everyone "exposing" actors nowadays. they're human like us. especially when it comes to someone joking about something and saying something that probably has been taken the wrong way. why can't we just all.. chill? i really miss the old tumblr days because of things like this.

people who think this way are essentially saying “I miss when celebrities and other people in positions of influence were allowed to get away with saying offensive shit without anyone having a platform to call them out and hold them accountable because I align with their privilege (usually straight and/or white) and seeing them get called out for the same things I might’ve said or thought myself makes me uncomfortable.”

Dom is indeed human and like any human he doesn’t get a pass for being an idiot when instead of apologizing he doubled down on his foolishness.

anonymous asked:

so i've discovered i'm ace, i want to come out to my friends but i can't be basiccc!! so gotta any good/funny ways to come out?

my dude:

you came to the right place.

1: make an ace cake– each layer a different color of the ace flag, and maybe decorate it with icing to say “I’m ace” or something on the top

2: just spam a group chat (if you have one) with things like “I’m grACEful” & other adjectives that have “ace” in them & eventually they’ll let on

3: just say you’re a battery: triple A’s if you’re agender/aromantic/asexual, double A’s if you’re aroace. this doesn’t really work if you have different romantic orientation though

4: put an ace of spades up your sleeve and the next time you see them take it out and say “this isn’t the only ace i have up my sleeve”

Ways to impress Newt
  • Y/N: Chuck told me Gally plan's to challenge me to a fight during tonight's bonfire.
  • Minho: Don't bother, I'm sure he'll find someone else.
  • Y/N: What? No! I can't chicken out! Newt will be watching!
  • Minho: So?
  • Y/N: So?!? I'll fight that Shank and show Newt I'm not just any other she-bean.
  • Minho: Y/N. I'm not being a sexist jerk when I say this.
  • Minho: But I'm pretty sure no gender is impressed by a person who gets crushed in a fight they anyway had no chance of winning.
  • Minho: Unless you mean to beat him by flashing him and giving him a nosebleed.
  • Minho: In which case, you might impress the whole glade while doing so.
  • Y/N: You're such a perverted shuckface.
  • Minho: Don't play innocent, I know you've thought about it.

anonymous asked:

I don't know why I'm doing this now, or sending it through here, but goodbye. It was nice being in this fandom and following your blog along with others, such as fear-is-nameless, CBPS, hufflepufftrax and more. And this community for the most part was very kind to me, but I can't do this any longer. You can ignore this, or answer. It doesn't really make a difference. If you do answer back, maybe I was too scared to go through with it so I might respond. Anyways, just have a good day. Bye guys.

If you’re thinking about leaving the community, I’m sure you have your reasons and I don’t want to belittle them in any way.

But if you’re trying to say that you’re going to hurt yourself, then that’s another story.
I’m not going to ask why you want to do such a terrible thing because again, you have your reasons and I’m sure you are in great pain. But please allow me to ask you to think about all this for a minute: what’s gonna happen after you’re gone? Your problems might vanish but at what cost? People who love you will be devastated. You will never know what it feels like to actually overcome your issues. You will never enjoy the stuff you like anymore.

Is it really worth it?

And please don’t think that I’m some sort or spiritual healer or shit like that: I’m merely a person who has had so many suicidal thoughts while growing up that I seriously, honest to god, know what it feels like when you want to disappear. And yet I’m here telling you that it’s not worth it, that stuff DOES get better because it freaking does! It’s not just a common saying, it’s the truth!
And then one day you will look at these moments in the past and think “hey, I did it. I was strong and overcame my issues” and you’ll feel invincible.

I don’t know if I’ve made a difference, like you said, but I do know that if you’re sending me this message is because you’re not 100% sure about doing what you intend to do.
And I hope that this tells you a lot about how much you actually want to live.