Do you ever look at your cat and just, remark on how well crafted they are
OK, so this is just me, but even if I knew someone was a gender, I would Not call them "they" when referring to them. It may work for some, but if I know how u look, imma use that to decide whether to say he or she. U look like a chick, imma say she. Look like a dude, imma say he. If I can't tell, I'll ask. Got a problem with my ideals? Then build a bridge and get over it.