i can relate to so many of these

Tumblr's Newest Update

So in light of Tumblr’s newest update, I may have lost many of my young followers due to “explicit content” AKA being an LGBT related blog.

I am so angry about this.

There is no way that this helps kids. The kids who are LGBT are the ones who are most vulnerable and need support like the one I offer here. LGBT is not adult content. How can it be when there are LGBT children.

@staff don’t think we didn’t notice. You claim to be all cutesy with your little rainbow icon and your pride flag icon. You can’t love us in public and then censor us and hide us in the back. We’ve seen this before and you are scum for trying to do it now.

obviously songs are for anyone to listen to and they don’t mean anything bad by it but when white indie girls talk about identifying with “your best american girl” or wanting to cover it, it’s just hard to swallow sometimes. yes the song is about unrequited love which is universal but it’s also about not feeling pretty or american or white enough, a specific part of the non-white/mixed/immigrant experience

i’m projecting at this point and i’m still white-passing sometimes but it’s hard to see girls with dainty features i would’ve killed to have relating to a song that’s about struggling with wanting to be like them. how can you be that unaware of the lyrics you’re singing. so many july 4th pic captions this year are gonna quote this song, just like last year, and it’s weird to see the people in those pics already looking like the idea of a “best american girl”. you don’t have to try, you’re right there already??

QnA?

So I’ve reached over 1.2k followers on here and I’m very happy. Since there’s alot of people who don’t really know me, I was gonna do another QnA
You’re more than welcome to ask me any questions you want.
Whether it be personal questions, my thoughts on the boys/working with them
Or my art process or art related questions
You can send as many as you want. I’ll do the video in a couple of days c:
So hit me up with them :D

k im trying to think of new and exciting things i can post

im thinking ill make like a masterlist of the best pelleted diets for parrots and links to where you can buy them with benefits & ingredients list???

i dont use a smartphone anymore so i havent been posting many daily pics lately (but my moms getting me an ipod touch omg which is so sweet of her so ill have that!! and reason i dont use a smartphone is the constant notifications heighten my anxiety, its weird)

but ya anyway would you guys be interested in that??? or any other bird related masterposts regarding care?? lemme know!!

Originally posted by gif87a-com

all these anti-mcreyes people out there and im just sitting here like, honestly guys

ur obsession with making jesse mccree a child and getting so attached to these (very non-canonical) in-depth, very literal, father/son dynamics with reyes is ten times weirder and creepier

also why tf do so many people make sombra jesse’s “sister”/gabe’s daughter like. pharah i can kinda get what with actual backstory but like. sombra??? do you all just think that all the hispanic/possibly hispanic ppl should be related or sthg, like???

anonymous asked:

Fuck off. Stop telling yourself that bs about "they obviously already have an eating disorder" you don't know for sure and you're still promoting it. You're taking a safe space for so many people and making it triggering as hell. Using a blog as a means of expression is so much different than using it to actively tell people they should starve themselves, I can't believe you compared the two. I hope your blog gets deleted before you fuck too many peoples' lives up.

Let’s pretend you’re right and say I’m ruining people’s lives by stating facts that are easily accessible on the internet. If they didn’t want this ‘triggering’ content, why did they follow me or any thinspo blog for that matter? Clearly they knew that these blogs discuss and view content related to eating disorders and if they would be triggered by that stuff, why would they voluntarily choose to see their posts? It doesn’t make sense. Please message me if you have any other concerns.

Hi all !! So Mod Wesley is having a bit of a rough night and so I can’t really do actual asks at the moment (sorry @ everyone currently in our inbox), but if any of you want to send in requests for positivity posts I’ll do as many of them as I can in the next hour, until 2 AM in PST !! (If we get a ton of asks, I’ll probably just post the first five and queue the rest so Get Your Requests In Fast !!)

Or, if you don’t have any requests for positivity but instead would like to share a happy story relating to coming out, or something LGBT+ related in general, that’d also be great & feel free to drop it in our inbox !! We always love those types of asks !!

Anyways, I hope you’re all having a good [insert time of day here] !! Sending lots of love and supports to anyone who might need it !! 💜💜💜💜


Mod Wesley

anonymous asked:

Hi there! I was just wondering what kinds of fics do you normally (prefer to) write? I'm considering sending a couple of prompts in but I just want to make sure they're something you're comfortable with / interested in. Thanks! (Also, you're one of my favourite blogs. Thank you for what you've done with it, it's amazing xx)

There are so many nice people here today, it’s fantastic! I’m so flattered you like my blog so much, and just alsjifsdlssp <3!!! damn it, why can’t I ever be eloquent about this??

Okay, you’re asking an important question there, let me think. Obviously I prefer Tony-centric prompts, since he’s my fave and this blog is all about him. Also I absolutely refuse to deal with anything non-con related (lenience can be shown when it involves the brainwashed WS and is completely non-sexual). 

I’m a bit iffy about A/B/O and D/S AUs. Hm, also probably explicit sex. I don’t have a problem getting asks involving any of this, I’m just not comfortable writing it atm.

Other than that I’m open for anything, I think (and should that change for whatever reason I’ll make a post to let you know)

Thank you for asking and please don’t be shy, send those prompts in! I’m curious now! :)

Edit: Just realised you asked what I preferred, not what I don’t want oops. But really, I don’t have any particular preference. I’m partial to WinterIron but I don’t mind writing other pairings- yeah. I’m bad at this

Drabble requests: open

Originally posted by ffxvcaps

Ok so I’m even surprising myself doing this… partially because this little dump has nearly reached 500 followers (ILU ALL SRSLY 💖 ), and partially as a desperate attempt to get back in the fan-fic groove and over the creative block, I’m opening up drabble requests for a very limited time. (Read: like 2-3 days max.)

Please note the guidelines:

✓ Drabbles are short scenarios of roughly 500-1000+ words, so please don’t request complicated sagas. 
✓ I’ll do my best to finish as many as possible, please be aware that there is a chance I may not choose your request - this is nothing personal. The only reason would be due to time limitations, or because I really just couldn’t get into the scenario or found it too difficult to write.
✓ You can request anonymously if you so wish.
✓ You can request several.
✓ As long as it’s Final Fantasy I-XV related, it will be considered.
✓ NSFW is welcome but so is everything else.
✓ Please request in the ask-box.

Looking forward to your prompts  😘

Cool Cats

This is random, but I just felt like recommending and showing some appreciation to the people listed below, because they make coming to this website worthwhile for me. So check them out and follow them!

@wasitfuckingamazing

I love her for many different reasons. She’s my #1 fellow Seb fangirl. If something Seb related has happened and I need someone to fangirl with over PM, then she’s someone I always run to! I also love her because we mutually fangirl over Margarita Levieva together (B A B E ! ! ! ! ).

She also sends me random BuckyNat posts she comes across even though she doesn’t ship it. If that’s not friendship, I don’t know what is! It’s the little things that can mean so much. 😘

Also, you should follow her just for the cute voice and accent alone. I’m tellin’ you. Follow her, and get her to make a recording talking to you. I SWEAR!!! She is the cutest. Love that lil Australian voice.

AND ALSO! If you love 13 Reasons Why, she’ll be a great follow for you because she’s obsessssssed with it right now. ;D

Good For: Sebastian Stan. Stucky. Captain America. Margarita Levieva love. 13 Reasons Why. Pretty multi-fandom. AND THAT AUSSIE VOICE!

Seriously, she is the best! FOLLOW HER!!!!! OR ELSE!

@sebstanmoviesandtv

Yo, do you like friendly people? Then you should follow Ally if you aren’t already! She’s the best person to talk to about Sebastian’s filmography, and upcoming projects. FOR REAL! Also, anything Bucky related in general, especially if you ship BuckyNat. And Marvel! And Chris!!!!!!! Her whole blog is just A+ content, okay?

Seriously, she’s a great person and one of my favorite people from Texas. ;P Also, she posts other non-fandom content that is really interesting all the time. I feel like I almost like/reblog too much of her stuff sometimes. Hahaha 

@rancorousrocker

She is one of the first people I followed on this website, back in the days of the Marvel Against Humanity games, and I’ve never regretted having done so. She was also around for the Seb/Chris filmography viewing parties that I lazily quit doing half way through. 🙈  She’s really sweet and fun to hang out in chats with, plus she posts lots of great fandom content!

Also, gurl is always liking my embarrassing rants and personal posts, and that shit means a lot when I’m feeling down!

ANYWAY, you should follow her if you love Sebastian, Bucky Barnes, great social commentary (/political) content, Sense8 love (RIP 😭), and so much else. I LOVE HER AND YOU SHOULD TOO!

@viperbranium

Do you love Marvel? Captain America? Stucky? ALL THE SHIPS?! Then you should follow Viper (or Vipey…as I call her in my head haha)! She is seriously one of the sweetest, friendliest people on this website. If you don’t already follow her, then you absolutely should. I’ve had many a great conversation with her, whether it’s fangirling Cap related things, ship related things, or Sebastian and Chris. And Sam Wilson. And T’Challa. And naughty fanfic….ALL THE THINGS, OKAY?

She’s the type of person that you can talk to about anything. Even when you admit to embarrassing sekrit kinks, there’s no judgment. Or if there’s a little, at least she’s nice about it. 😝

What’s also great about her blog is that it’s pretty much exclusively fandom content. You don’t have to wade through a bunch of other junk (like my cesspool here) if you’re not interested in it. Plus, she tags extensively if you need that. Yayyyy!

Seriously though, she is one of the nicest people I’ve had the honor to get to know on here. Even if it’s been weeks since I’ve talked to her, I know I can pick up any random conversation, no problem. She’s the besttttt!

@elves-n-angels

You should follow her because she is one of the sweetest people I’ve talked to on this website. She’s a great person to follow if you love Sebastian Stan, as she reblogs a lot of amazing content. The same goes for Stucky, Marvel and Captain America in general. I also really love her super distracting screencaps of Sebastian posts. She’s great at picking out little moments that make you go 🤤.

She’s also someone I highly recommend if you’re looking for 99.9% fandom related content. Seriously. Just scroll through 2 pages on her blog, and you’ll probably want to reblog most of it.

Amazing content + great person! So friendly, and easy to talk to!!

@existansial-crisis

Okay, I love following Jen for many different reasons. One, she’s the type of fan that I tend to gel with, in that she’s a fangirl but doesn’t go overboard. She recognizes when people take shit too far, and I love that. I cling to those kinds of people, tbh.

Two, she loves Margarita Levieva! Follow her Margo blog too! @margoshafans.

Three, she reblogs great funny stuff/shitposts/meme stuff that always makes me laugh. She’s just a great follow for multi-fandom stuff, and random content.

ALSO REALLY NICE!!!! Takes no shit from stupid people, but in a nice way. :D

@sirjamesbarnes

Yo, I love Sarah. I really do. She’s my fellow Trevante fangirl. And Seb fangirl, O B V I O U S L Y. If I ever want someone to just chat with, I know I can talk to her….whether it’s about movies, or fangirling and thirsting over someone (S E B A S T I A N). She’s super friendly and one of my very favorite people everrrr.

Blogwise, she’s good for Seb content, Cap and Marvel stuff, but also a lot of really great general content too. Sometimes it’s pretty pictures, other times it’s important political things. 

I LOVE SARAH AND YOU SHOULD FOLLOW!!!!!!!!

@eufry

I have had many a great conversation with Gati, she’s the bestest. I love her blog because it’s multi-fandom, and there are so many great things that she posts about. She also loves Sebastian, which is like my #1 thing. MUST. LOVE. SEB. :P

But seriously, if you love great conversation…or stand-up comedians (P.S. Gati, did you watch Hasan Minhaj’s stand-up show on Netflix???? I’ve been meaning to ask!)… or Arashi (SHE LOVES!), or apt political posts that make you go, “YEAH!!!!!!”, or multi-fandom content ranging from Marvel to DC to all kinds of TV shows and Harry Potter. Yo, I’m just saying, she’s amazing and you should follow her because of her awesome personality AND the awesomeness of her blog. DO IT!!!!!

@larryflippedthebird

Love One Direction? Stucky? Sebastian Stan? BTS!!!!??????? THIS GURL IS FO’ YOU. FOLLOW HA NOW!!!!!!! Jo is also one of the people I followed way back in the days of the Marvel Against Humanity games and also solidified my love by coming to the Seb/Chris filmography viewing parties. Sometimes it was just me and her and I loved her even harder for that. She didn’t just say, “Ew. Bye.” 🙈

She’s a great follow if you like multi-fandom content mixed in with lots of random/interesting things. She also loves Shadowhunters if you like that! AND there’s lots of BTS now too, which I am personally resisting by the tips of my fingers to reblog every time I see it! I’M TOO OLD, GURL!!!!!!!!! I’M TOO OLD!!!!!

Seriously though, I love Jo and my Tumblr experience would not be the same without her, so you should follow her too because you are missing out otherwise!!!

Anyway, I could keep going….but then this would be a mile longer than it already is. I feel bad for quitting when I still have several other people I wanna mention, but I gots 2 go. Maybe I will soon though!!!!! I follow so many amazing people. :DDDD

i have been thinking a lot about that poster that says “i am not a woman i an a lesbian” and how to navigate the world as a lesbian is so radically different in relation to how you see your body how you view sex how you relate to other women how you navigate through the world, how many times a day do i play a part where i have to pretend to relate to a straight woman in order to.. socialize, watch any piece of media, live my life.. life through a lesbian lens feels so radically different than the common narrative, it can be so isolating to exist in a world that does not exist for us, it feels so necessary to come home to the safety of other lesbians, to slip into that world of comfort and women like me and how we love and care for one another, it’s amazing how often in the day feels like we’re starved for that kind of community and intimacy that other women take for granted

You know, it’s pretty wild just how much I can relate to so many of the SU characters. Like, all of the main characters are like me in some way, not to mention some of the humans too like Lars and his fear of what people think of him, Sadie and her overbearing mom, Kiki not being able to tell someone no. Hell, even Yellow Diamond’s tyranical ass repressing her emotions and literally singing an entire song about what’s the use of feeling is relatable.

And, I just love it so much. I can’t believe how many of the characters on this show are like me. We share the same fears and struggles and issues. Sometimes it’s like I’m watching myself on screen and I can sympathize so badly with a character, even characters who I thought were nothing like me can say or do something that puts me in shock because I’m suddenly being reminded of myself. I’m really so grateful to this show because with other stuff I watch, there’s typically only one character I can relate to and I’m lucky if there’s a second. Some shows, I don’t even relate to any of the characters at all. But, with SU, so many of the characters are like pieces of me. And, I absolutely adore it. 

I love this show, I love these characters, I love the way they’re written, I love their depth and layers, I love how the writers refused to just have them be cartoony caricatures and made them multifaceted, three-dimensional, realistic individuals that are still learning and growing and healing, the way that I am still learning and growing and healing.

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figure skating meme: [1/?] favorite friendships: johnny weir + stephane lambiel

“Stephane is a crazy artist like me, so when we’re together, we can relate on that fact and sing and dance and go wild. Stephane and I have been friendly since we began competing with each other in Slovenia in 1998, and ultimately our friendship evolved as we got older. He’s one of the kids I went to kindergarten with, so to speak, and we go through a lot of the same things. I have very few friends in my profession, and performing in many of the same shows with Stephane is always special.”

  • Me: I think I'm gonna work on being a better person by letting go of my anger
  • Some asshole: *does unnecessary stupid shit for no goddamn reason*
  • Me: It's time 2 murder
I agreed to do too much. What I need… The thing is my inspiration for ‘danisnotonfire’ what I need is time and space because I’m an introvert, so even if I’ve been on like holiday with a bunch of people that will kind of stress me out a bit ‘cause what I need in order to be creative and calm down, is just to be alone. I need to be alone in a quiet place and sometimes that means I need to just like eat and read books and just think and look at tumblr for like two days just to recover, just to calm down, just to like dump all of my stress and stuff, so that I can breathe calmly. And then I need to just start from a blank slate and think 'what do I want to make a video about?’ and then you know I think of an idea, I come up with ideas, maybe it’s something I need to write, maybe it’s something that isn’t and then I think it through and then sometimes I hate it, I need to sleep on it, I need to wake up. 'Cause sometimes, I don’t think it’s good, I think it terrible and then I wake up the next day and then suddenly it was just sleeping overnight that gave me that switch that I needed. And I know that some, there’s so many YouTubers that can just bash it out, the thing is like I’m just not a good YouTuber in that sense, you know. Some people they might just be much more functional people that don’t have to deal with all the mental health issues. But for who… you know until I make changes in my life as I go along, just constantly trying to make things better for who I am, what I’m like, you know, this is just how it works.
— 

@danielhowell​ during his live show on the 2nd of May 2017

Quotes from Dan (49/?)

I relate so much to this particular moment from the live show. I often feel guilty that I, like Dan, just sometimes need to completely withdraw myself from humanity to function properly and recharge. 

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LIVESTREAM TIME AGAIN!!!!!! Christian be looking like a snack in that CK fit and that messy hair thoooooooo😍😍😍 for some reason i felt that he was giving off fuckboy vibes today - especially with the vaping because all the fuckboys at college vape - but i love him always!!! And that dorky smile😂
(For real tho, can people stop commenting and saying he looks like jungkook, not everything has to be BTS related people! No hate because jungkook is my bias but it does get annoying seeing bts everywhere)
APPRECIATE CHRISTIAN!