i can be the girl

I’m doing a lot better in a lot of ways but I still absolutely feel like that friend who just annoys the crap out of literally everyone but y'all are too nice to say anything

no offence but let yourself be ugly!! you don’t have to fix your hair if you’re not going anywhere you don’t have to cover up ur spots or change out of your lounge pants to go buy milk like damn we really gotta let ourselves be comfortable without constantly apologising for just looking normal and it’s hard but i think we need to practice looking in the mirror and saying i look ugly af today and that’s okay!! tru self care is letting urself be ugly tbh

8

everybody screws up. that’s what happens. it’s what you do with the screw-ups, it’s how you handle the experience - that’s what you should judge yourself by. i have a great life and an amazing kid. and i took a detour, i ended up some place good.

not to be dramatic but there is literally a giant hole in my heart….. nobody will ever come close to SNSD and what they did for not only their fans but kpop in general….. they just deserved so much better! over their recent comeback, over this year, over their entire career tbh!!!! it’s such a bittersweet feeling y’all it’s truly the end of an era like kpop w/ no SNSD? one of the most iconic groups of all time???? nyway i hope the girls are happy and that they all succeed in everything they choose to pursue for the future and i hope SM rots and burns