No one’s ever been able to answer this so I’m gonna ask it again:
Why do cishet aces want to be LGBT so bad? Why do you want to have that label on you? Because honestly, it fucking sucks. It might seem cool to be part of the “exclusive gay kids club” online, but outside of tumblr, LGBT people are stereotyped at best, and stalked and killed at worst. Sure, we have pride parades and gay bars, but we live in fear of being shot and killed just for being there. There are certain countries I can’t even enter for fear of being executed because of my orientation. I just don’t understand why you would want to be in a community that inherently puts you in danger.
Cishet aces and aros, you have a free pass from this kind of abuse. Why do you want to go through it?
Hi there! Longtime follower, first time question-asker, here! So I have a question about the power dynamic that comes with being on the pole that you mentioned as part of your "pole dancing classes are cultural appropriation of sex workers" debate. I promise I'm not hating! I'm genuinely curious and would like some clarification so I can understand the argument better. Thanks so much and have a lovely day! :D