As I've faced more and more difficulty with being trans I've gotten saltier about cishet aces. Hell I'm probably ace-spec myself, and like, no. I can tell you from experience, not wanting to fuck doesn't give you the same difficulty as being trans. not even close. and if we allow everyone on the ace-spec in the lgbt community we're harming trans and gay and bi people. no you're not fucking lgbt if you're sapiosexual or have a low sex drive.
I cant speak from personal experience because im cis but thats like so obvious the only reason this stuff needs to be said is because cishet aces want to be oppressed so bad so they can join the cool lgbt club. they dont experience any actual adversity that would make them want to be part of the community for self preservation and safety they’re just basically straight people that want to feel special and its disrespectful to anyone thats ever been called a slur or beaten up or fired because of who they are