i blog too much about destiel

anonymous asked:

I often find so much negativity about Sam y destiel blogs... why is that? and if you could lead me into some sam positive blogs...

Hi! This confuses me, everyone I know loves Sam too :D

The only thing I would say is that we meta writers in the Destiel side don’t have a blind martyrising view of Sammy, we view him flaws and all, as we do both Dean and Cas and everyone else, so if you want OMG SAM IS AMAZING HE HAS NEVER PUT A FOOT WRONG HE IS TO BE ADORED AND WE MUST IGNORE ALL HIS MISTAKES then I would say we are not for you. 

We pick apart all the characters and their flaws as well as their amazingly positive points and tbh we focus more on the positive, because why would you want to bring the mood down when the show is something we all love and seems to be in itself going down a more positive route these days? 

Sam at the moment is having some awesome plot points that are going to get really relevant going forwards for his arc, which I call his self forgiveness arc (whereas Dean’s is self acceptance and Cas’ is self worth).

Sam’s story is getting really interesting and much more relevant to the mytharc again after seasons 6-12 have been, lets be honest, very Dean focused, not solely of course but still, and I think it is going to pick up massively in season 13 so if you want positive but not blind meta and general stuff about Sam as well as Destiel and TFW in general then I would say take a look at me, @amwritingmeta, @postmodernmulticoloredcloak, @mittensmorgul, @elizabethrobertajones, @margarittet, @godshipsit, @obsessionisaperfume, @bluestar86@nerdylittleshit, @grey2510, @k-vichan for a start :)

hi! :)

I only just woke up and tumblr gave me the followers thingy report and whoa -

Guys - thank you and welcome. Since my blog’s about section is mostly a useless thing about magpies (don’t ask), I thought I’d write a slightly more helpful post to introduce myself.

about me

I’m basically a 30-someting woman with too much time on her hands. I studied Greek antiquity (think mythology, art, fairy tales, and a little bit of history that was mostly spent fangirling over Alexander) and I now work as a translator; I read a bunch of languages, I’m interested in a lot of things, and I’m always lowkey or highkey stressing out about politics and the end of the world. I also write - a lot

about the blog

I guess it’s way too late to pretend my blog isn’t mostly Supernatural, Dean Winchester and Destiel, but I also like to discuss and reblog languages, history and random things. Expect a lot of SPN fanart and gifs (not mine), the occasional movie rec, plus the usual amount of smol animals (still not mine, because the world is an unfair, cold place).

the tagging system

I’m very consistent about my tagging, and here is how it works.

my stories

I’m one of those - the people who started writing stories about their pets when they were six in colourful block letters and didn’t put the pen down since. At the moment, I’m working on one (two?) original novels, and when it hurts too much I come back to fanfiction because I love it and I consider it some kind of world-changing genre. Here is my AO3 - I mostly write angsty, canon-compliant Destiel stories (with happy endings), but I love the other characters too, so I always include a lot of Sam, some Crowley, and occasionally other people like Eileen or Charlie. Stories you may like include a case fic about a siren (guess who it turns into), a slightly AU resurrection fic which starts out in Biblical times, an elaborate fantasy of how, exactly, Cas saved Dean from Hell (and I can’t believe we still don’t know for sure), an honest-to-God-almost Valentine fic, a dreamwalking!Cas ficlet and an external POV story written in the voice of a woman they saved

my art (ha ha)

A couple of months ago I discovered a photo editing website, and since then I’ve nursed the misguided conviction I’m actually some kind of artist. Really, it was just an excuse to spend even less time on actual work and put Cas next to a dinosaur (I think we’ve all been there?).

my metas

I like to write metas after every episode - since I’m not a TV expert and I don’t follow the actors’ lives all that closely, my metas are only about the internal narrative of the show. You can find most of them under spn meta (31 pages and counting).

my SPN worldview

I was tricked into falling in love with this show - I started watching because I like to keep up with how mythology, folklore and the supernatural are represented in movies and TV shows (probably not a healthy habit, because, man, you need to be skunk drunk to endure some of the latest ‘Greek mythology’ blockbusters), and I never expected these characters to suck me in as they did. Or to break my heart (and probably my brain - and also any other organ in between, to be honest). I’m mostly a positive blogger, but I do think we should walk around with our eyes open and fair criticism should always be a thing. As for Destiel - at this point in the story, I don’t see any other logical way out than Destiel becoming canon, but the thing is, logic is not always where people go, so - we’ll see. After everything that’s happened, this is one of those I won’t believe it ‘til I see it things, which I guess it’s okay? After all, if the show’s taught us anything, is to be careful with our faith in higher powers. Whatever happens, though, in my heart and mind there’s no doubt that those two love each other very, very much.

[Quote from Autrement Danger]


Best Line 12x20

I have a few reasons for picking this line. The first is through the lens of my destiel loving heart. Dean gets it. He gets Cas and he understands him because he loves him. Cas has good intentions. He wants to help, not just Dean, but his family and for the greater good. So it doesn’t just fuel my destiel feels, but it also shows Cas’s greater view on the world. And Dean gets that. He gets it because he’s been there before and because he would do it again. I also loved this line because it shows an improvement on the part of the writers to acknowledge Cas even when he’s not in an episode (the only great failure at that this season was the Claire episode… I mean, come on!). I take this as a good sign about Cas’s role in the upcoming season. I just hope beyond all hope that Cas is right this time. He needs a win SO badly and I want it for him.

So you see, this line shows me so much and makes me consider the future of Cas, not just with Dean (which of course I have a weak spot for, but hey, it’s my blog!), but with his family and for humanity. I want this for Cas, and you can tell from this line that Dean does too!

anonymous asked:

i love your blog very very very much and the tops you usually do are just amazing, so i was wondering if you could give us your favourite destiel fanarts? cause i need more of them (for science). thank you💚

Hello! Thank you so so so much❤, you are so nice and this means a lot to me! Well I can share with you my favourite artists here for your needs! I really really love @consulting-mutt @sketchydean @elicedraws @consulting-cannibal @cas-watches-over-you @yoyodeano
@diminuel and @iamjustgod I’m sure I’m forgetting someone ( sorry about that) but these are my favourite and of course I have lots of amazing reblogged fan art in my blog too! Hope this is useful 😉

anonymous asked:

I'm very excited for a reunion between Dean and Cas, but I would also like a "reunion" between Sam and Cas. Maybe something as simple as Sam initiating a big hug, telling him "glad you're okay, man" and maybe even Sam getting a little emotional. I feel that if this happened, then it would show Cas (and also the audience) that Sam cares about him too, but in a different way.

Chuck yes!! I love Sastiel so much and I often blog about how I hope that now they are not trying to downplay the Destiel anymore they can let the Sastiel get much more present in the show.

I love how they were together whilst extracting Gadreel’s grace etc, it was such a lovely profound moment for them and it makes me kinda sad it was just one episode and even through this they still talked about Dean a lot of the time, cos they interact mostly as brothers in law rather than brothers, precisely due to the Destiel subtext having to remain in the subtext so Sastiel has to be less strong than it could be if Destiel was canon already…

Sam and Cas are exactly what I think of in terms of adopting someone as your brother in this kind of show and by showing them as such they can also show how Dean and Cas are NOT a brother dynamic, while letting them be awesome brothers together :)

anonymous asked:

I've been scrolling through your profile today because I saw one of your porn dabbles in another Destiel blog and I wanted to check it out and I have so much to say to you. First off, your porn dabbles are SO FUCKING AMAZING I LOVE THEM. And you seem super chill too. I also saw you are getting loads of hate about your Wincest drabbles. I dont ship wincest (hell I think it gross, no offence), but people shouldn't be so rude to you about it. You keep doing you Kim. You continue being amazing. 😘😘

This is so nice! Thanks for taking the time to send it :) And welcome to my blog! XOXO

anonymous asked:

I need help with a difficult decision. I'm trying to forget about the UK election results and want to watch SPN. Between seasons 5, 6, 7, 8, which one should I start to watch from the beginning if I adore Dean & Cas scenes? (I'm still saving up to buy the later seasons and I left S4 at my friends). I love your blog btw and hope you're having a great day <3

im sorry about the UK election results (i truly am). 
honest answer, you should probably start with s4 to appreciate the development of their relationship.. so, of course, if you can’t watch s4, my answer will be s5 (which is also my favorite season). 
i mean, with 5x03, you can’t go wrong. they’re really cute, old school destiel is always nice. thing is (and maybe im thinking too much, when you just want to think of something that it’s not terrible politics) if you have never watched those seasons, i’d start with the most recent (so you can enjoy their arc and development). 
(otherwise, just watch s8 and enjoy the gay)

Hey, followers!

If you have WIP fics that you’re working on (destiel or otherwise) and you want them to be featured on my blog, let me know! (via ask or message, pls)

or, if you have finished fics that you’ve written and want me to feature, let me know that too! 

i’m working on a lil project for hiatus ;) just want to see how many people are writing fic over the summer. 

anonymous asked:

I'm not great at subtext. I just love destiel. What about 7.17 makes you and others say the subtext started on purpose? And also, I adore your blog and all your meta. You're amazing.

Aw, thanks! I know @elizabethrobertajones has discussed this before (and probably others too), but after Sera Gamble’s two seasons as showrunner (6 and 7), that was about the point where Carver began setting the stage for his turn at showrunning.

Most of s7 was, in retrospect, Dean mourning the loss of not just Cas, but pretty much EVERYTHING in his life. Bobby, Baby, the safety of a base of operations at Bobby’s house, every friend and ally they’d had, seemingly. It culminated in the threatened loss of Sam– at that point Sam really was Dean’s last tenuous tether to… well… pretty much ANYTHING. So when Sam was dying as a result of the damage his soul had suffered in hell, well, Dean was at the end of his rope.

And then he found Cas.

Who thought he was some dude named Emmanuel who couldn’t remember anything about his past. UGH THE AMNESIA TROPES! THE HEARTBREAK IN DEAN’S EYES WHEN EMMANUEL THANKS HIM FOR PROTECTING HIS WIFE! HIS! WIFE! UGH.

Poor Dean.

From that point on, nearly every interaction between Dean and Cas fits into some romantic trope or other (are you ready to dive down the rabbit hole? if so, peruse http://tvtropes.org/ for a while).

(i mean really just spend an hour looking through all the love tropes and you’ll be ready to fling yourself into the sun)

(i may have accidentally just done this. again. oops.)

But really, that’s the point where Carver began actively steering the story toward the point where his own storytelling took over in s8 (widely considered the point at which the Destiel began to take over as a major B plot, and the writers began actively building a real foundation for a potential relationship between them).

After Cas had been ostensibly “dead for realsies” for the majority of s7, and because of the trope-filled circumstances surrounding his return, it was pretty hard not to see it as deliberately structured to set up Dean and Cas as a sound and viable potential future relationship.

I’d make a list of all those tropes, but a) someone probably already has, somewhere, and b) it would potentially take days, not only because GAH THERE WERE SO MANY TROPES but also because i would have to stop and breakdown and cry a lot. :D

gracewolves  asked:

Do you ship Destiel?

ew gross

who the fuck

would ship those two

i don’t see it yo

totally platonic

i never end up at 4am crying over fics, reblogging fanart and i totally don’t have a tag for it that has near 100 pages

so no idk what you’re talking about, destiel is my biggest notp 

In the past five days, I haven’t been able to get this tweet off my mind:

Perhaps I’m reading into things here, being overly optimistic. Misjudging a completely innocent comment by a man clearly without understanding of the implications of such a tweet… right? Wrong. The more I have thought about this, and the comments made by @cupidsbower in this post, the more I can’t help but think something is different this year.

I have said before that it feels like we are building up to something. expectations are of course raising and I will continue to drag myself back down from that premature high until I see it on the show with my very own eyes… but seriously… The Ellen Show? Of all the shows he could have picked, of all the very popular American chat shows, Jim Michaels chose the Ellen Show. This… doesn’t seem like an innocent choice by a man out of the loop. Jim Michaels is VERY much aware of the kind of things that we pick up on. I can’t help but think there is something in this.

Of course, Ellen talks to all kinds of celebrities about all kinds of projects. But just think about it for a second here. Ellen is known for pushing boundaries and also asking difficult questions. Also to quote cupidsbower in the previously linked post: 

Ellen herself is also the most famously out lesbian in the American entertainment industry. To invoke her name in this context, at this moment, when Destiel is an overt question, and Killing Your Gays is all over the entertainment newscape after The 100 fiasco… it is not a neutral statement.”

Stop for a moment and picture that interview. With Jensen, Jared and Misha on this particular show. Can you honestly imagine her NOT bringing up the shipping? The LGBT+ following or at the very least the fact that when you google the word ‘queerbaiting’ supernatural is top of the search results?

The problem is, for Jim Michaels to confidently tweet that he WANTS the boys on the Ellen Show kind of raises questions about his own views on these topics. I said above that I do not think he is out of the loop. He is an intelligent man after all. For him to confidently state that he would like them to be on THIS show, of all the shows, means he sees a great deal of positivity in the potential interview there.

Which then brings me to my main point… imagine if they were to go on the Ellen show once Destiel became canon? That would be a whole different ball game. Oh yes. That would be one hell of an interview. It would raise SO MUCH awesome publicity for Supernatural and you bet that Ellen would jump right on board. Because Destiel becoming canon would be a huge event for the LGBT+ community. A show coming into its 12th season goes ahead and brings its main character out of the closet explicitly in a way that cannot be denied by the heteronormative after 11 years on air? Add on to that you are making canon what is popularly described as the greatest love story ever told? In a show that is basically bible fanfiction? and having his love interest be an angel of the lord??

That is one heck of a positive message to LGBT+ people all over the world right? Well I personally think it is as a bisexual person. We all have our own opinions of course. Perhaps I have been thinking too much about this over the past few days. This tweet has haunted me. Of everything else that I have blogged about regarding canon Destiel positivity this is the one thing that actually has me seriously considering it as a real possibility. I always like to debate about the story structure and how destiel makes logical sense, but as far as TPTB actually going there? Well that was the road block. This tweet kind of changes my view on that. Perhaps the road block isn’t a road block at all, perhaps its just a speed bump instead?

anonymous asked:

Hiii, how are you? I wanted to request a top ten destiel moments until 11×3, please!! Sorry, it is too much to ask, but i'd love to know your opinion about Destiel! Thank you for your time! Your blog is amazing, btw ❤


Oh gosh, this is such a hard question. But hey, I’m always willing to talk about Destiel, so I’ll give it a go…


This is something that I will always cherish. 

The fact that Dean-no-chick-flick-moments-Winchester wants to talk emotions with Cas… Really, Dean initiating this talk was so important and such a fresh breath of air at the same time. 


The ‘watching another person sleep’ trope will always be somewhat romantic to me. What stands out to me about this moment, is that Cas just patiently waits for Dean to wake up, and is curious as to what Dean is feeling. 

“What were you dreaming about?”

A scene like this was rather intimate for two characters that have only just met, thus one of those Destiel scenes that got me thinking in the early seasons. 



That wasn’t just Dean’s buddy that died. This meant a lot more, and that trench coat that he kept and even returned to Cas in S7… Yeah, all of that was oddly romantic. 

“Part of me always believed you’d come back”. That line might not have made it into the original episode, but it was written, and even shot as actual footage proves. Let us never forget.


We can all agree that all of purgatory was a huge win for Destiel, but this…

To me it felt like this was the first time where we truly saw that Dean picked Cas first. He could’ve gone home, to Sam, to safety. For getting out of Purgatory, Cas was a liability, not an asset. Yet Dean stayed, and ran around chopping of demon heads, desperate to find his angel. He didn’t need Cas for his powers, or to get out. He needed Cas for Cas. 


This, oh god. this. 

“I did it, all of it, for you.”

I pick this moment because it was one of the early moments where I went; ‘WHOA, this can’t possibly be platonic. He’s a celestial being who killed his own siblings, turned his back on his entire existence for this ordinary human he just met.’

It made me doubt their entire ‘platonic’ relationship, so kudos to that.


This scene… It’s so simple but means so much, because in hindsight, it points out exactly why Cas did what he did; working with Crowley, opening purgatory. Metatron confirmed it seasons later, but even then we could see exactly why he did what he did; it wasn’t for Heaven, or for humanity. He wanted to fix the problem but at the same time ensure that Dean Winchester had a happy human life.

“I was there, where were you?”

Cas was there, he made a wrong decision, but it was for you.


This one is important to me, because even though I saw their potential and chemistry before, this is the point where I actually suspected that Dean/Cas was in fact meant to be a romantic thing on the show.

In ‘the Man Who Would Be King’, we are practically witnessing a breakup, five seasons later confirmed by a heterosexual pairing on the very same show (David/Violet) for which the same dialogue is used in the exact same situation. 

“I was there, where were you?”


Without a doubt: when they first met in 4x01.

What really puts this in the top three for me; Ships usually have to grow on me. It’s not often that two characters meet and I’m like ‘HOLY SHIT, OTP RIGHT THERE!’ But this scene did that for me, whether it was the actors or the characters; the chemistry was hard to deny. When Cas said “you don’t think you deserve to be saved”, I knew that Castiel might become the one person on this show to understand Dean’s feelings, accept them, and get through to him despite it all. 


I think the entire Endverse episode was one huge pile of Destiel, but this will always stick with me:

“Don’t ever change.” 

That line is something that I will forever hold dear, and combined with the way they look at each other here… It’s like you can literally see them falling in love, one of my all time favorites.


“We need you, I need you.”

And then Cas drops the blade. 

I think what really gets me about this scene is that we never got an explanation afterwards. It was even confirmed by the actors that an ‘I love you’ was planned, but what did it for me was that in canon we got this ‘What broke the connection’, and even though all of us simultaneously screamed the word “YOU!” the show never elaborated. The show never proved us wrong, and I will forever take this as canon. The power of their love for each other breaking through the mind control. 

So that’s my top 10 choice, not sure if fellow shippers agree but it was fun to do. :p 

Timeline of my thoughts on Destiel
  • I first learned about Supernatural when I got a tumblr in 2012. Being a huge fan of horror/paranormal stuff, I thought about watching it, but was scared of a huge time commitment (lol) so I put it off and just kinda saw stuff on my dash.
  • Literally all I knew about the show was Misha Collins/Cas (fucking Mishapocalypse), Destiel (Misha played a gay angel or something), and incest I guess?? 
  • Flash forward a couple years and one day I’m on TVTropes and I accidentally read a spoiler about Dean selling his soul to save Sam. That interests me, so I finally start watching. Now, I’m a person who can ship easily, and because of tumblr, I thought pretty much everybody shipped Destiel, so I figured there’d be at least a 90% chance of me shipping it.
  • As I was watching the show, I fell in love with the Winchesters and their relationship. I don’t mean in a Wincest-y way. I just loved their bond and what not.
  • Before season 4, I honestly dreaded Cas coming into the show. I didn’t want him to distract from S&D. But then I got to season 4, and I was very confused. He’s only in a few episodes? I thought he would be with them all the time thanks to tumblr.
  • Then as I kept going through the seasons, I was very confused. Where is all the Destiel stuff I kept hearing about? Maybe it’s in later seasons, I guess. But nope. Never showed up.
  • Then I started to like Cas less and less. Oh you’re just gonna do nothing but bitch all season and then break Sam’s wall and be god? Now you’re crazy? Exciting. Oh boy more boring angel storylines! And I still didn’t see anything non-platonic between Dean and Cas.
  • Then when I was caught up, I figured, eh I guess I just can’t see it. Oh well, more power to people who can. But then I got into the fandom. At first it was okay. I wasn’t following any Destiel blogs, so I didn’t see too much. But then, I started seeing Destiel when I was looking up something totally unrelated the ship. Whatever I’ll just ignore it.
  • Then I saw Destihellers. I saw them harass cast&crew about their opinions on Destiel, then harass them when they weren’t for it. I saw them call people homophobes/biphobes for disagreeing. I saw Sam/Jared hatred. I saw them be the most fucking entitled shippers and act like their ship had to become canon or else it’s queerbaiting (without realizing theyre queerbaiting themselves). i saw them turn literally anything and everything into Destiel. 
  • It was then that I went from being neutral about Destiel to outright hating it.

tl;dr: hellers made me into the monster i am today, good fucking job.

Need more SPN/destiel blogs to follow

So I’ve noticed my dash is kind of slow during the day here (meaning Western Europe). The only solution to that is that I seriously need more people to follow :D

Please reblog or like this if:
- Your blog’s main focus is Supernatural, including all characters but a focus on Team Free Will is ideal
- You are preferably a destiel shipper, but gen/non-shipping blogs are great too (wincest MUST be tagged)
- You post some original content at least from time to time. This can be meta commentary & speculation about the show, fic, fan art, gifsets, etc. I’m basically looking for blogs that do a little more than just reblog content from others. Personal content is good, too, it doesn’t only need to be fandom-related.
- You at the very least use tags for wank, hate, nsfw

If you want to follow me back it’s much appreciated but not required.

Anyone that I start following as a result of this post will get a nice message from me with a compliment based on your blog’s content/appearance :)

To my followers: please signal boost this - thank you so much!!

so my dash has gone unbalanced (too much one direction haha) and i would like to follow some new blogs! so if you post about any of these following pairings/fandoms/characters, reblog this and maybe i’ll follow you if i fancy your blog! 

  • spn
  • destiel/deancas
  • cockles
  • wincest
  • marvel (all forms, i’m no picky)
  • especially cap/steve rogers
  • stucky
  • and the avengers
  • reign
  • how i met your mother
  • arrow
  • heartland
  • glee
  • ts3
  • sso
  • assassin’s creed
  • larias
  • sam smith
  • robin packalen
  • onerepublic

anonymous asked:

Hi :) So recently I've noticed a lot of the Destiel blogs I follow are less interested/falling out of love with Destiel or have lost interest in them and SPN. If it isn't too much trouble, could you rec me some blogs that are still passionate about them and/or believe they will be endgame one day? I like to remain optimistic lol. Btw, I love your blog, and I'm hoping you have a spectacular day! :)

Hellooo~! Thank you for liking my blog! :D

Err, I gotta be honest; I’d love to help, but basically, I see what you’re seeing. :p I pretty much only follow SPN/Destiel blogs, but during the past year or so a lot of them (if not most) have turned into Yuri on Ice blogs, and Skam blogs, and Eyewitness blogs, or multi-fandom blogs with some SPN/Destiel but also a combination of all these with some other fandoms thrown into the mix. 

Now I’ve watched (and enjoyed) all of the above, so I don’t really mind seeing it, lol. But I completely understand that it’s annoying if you’re on tumblr for Destiel content. 

I’m afraid that 2016/2017 is officially that era of ‘I’m exhausted, screw it all, I want some actual representation for once, damnit’ for a lot of people, seeing as once again SPN canon isn’t giving us much to work with when it comes to (even the friendship) Destiel.

I follow plenty of blogs who still post Destiel, but so many of them have turned multi fandom. I also follow plenty of people who still like the ship, but the explicit canon believers are far and few between these days. 

So I’m not sure which blogs to recommend right now that fit these criteria, but maybe it’s an idea if anyone who reads this and thinks “Hey, this is me!” likes or reblogs this post to let you know, so that you can check out their blogs and find new people to follow. 

Anyone who thinks their blog fits the anon’s description, please let them know by leaving a note! :) 

An Open Letter From A "Casual Fan" To The "Destiel Shippers"

submission from Casual Fan:

Just read that post you reblog about destiel and I was reading all these reasons why destiel is there and how the show has implied it, etc. And I think you guys are complicating things too much. 

(Don’t take this bad, let me explain) 

I don’t think I can say anymore that I’m a “casual viewer” because I do own a tumblr account and I follow some spn related blogs, but also I’m not totally one of you guys or at least not in the same level because I don’t read/write fanfics, I don’t make artworks or gifs, I am not totally up to date with what the cast members are doing (I don’t even follow them on twitter or any crew member) and I can’t think of more stuff but I don’t think I do even half of the stuff you guys do so passionately (which I admire how much you guys love this fandom). 

What I trying to say is that I’m more of a “casual fan” that like the show and really like some of its characters and which involvement in this fandom is pretty much laughing at funny gifs and post about spn that I see in my dash and send them it to my friends, and sometimes (like this one) reading your interpretation and your concerns about stuff related like destiel. 

Which brings my to the point of me writing this: You are complicating yourselves too much. You don’t need to make those long post about how destiel is present or implied at least a small way, because let me tell you it obviously is. I can see it, a few of my friends that watch the show, the ones that I send the funny gifs/post I see here because they don’t even have a tumblr and know pretty much nothing about this fandom, can see it too

We are not from the U.S or any country with a big fanbase on it (english is not even my first language, sorry for any grammar mistake) and apart for the few of friends I know that watch, I don’t know anybody else that watch spn. This is the first time I have interact in this fandom and I think I would have stay some kind of a outsider if I had not had the need to make this statement.

My friends and I started this joke when we’ll watch an episode with Cas and Dean on it and we will be like “look the boyfriends” and like “aww Cas wants to protect his boyfriend” or “aww Dean is worried about his boyfriend” and stuff like that as I joke but I got to a point where we thought “Woah! they really seem to like each other”. We still make those jokes when we see Dean and Cas (which is why I send them the funny gifs or post I see on tumblr) but we definitely see it present now in some way, but a real one. 

So please guys, you are not crazy and you don’t really need to read much into. Me as a “casual fan” and my friends as the real deal “casual viewers” can tell you, destiel is there.

My dash needs more random shit.

aIf you post about any of the following stuff, reblog this and I’ll check out your blog and follow you!



Doctor Who



American Horror Story




Dan & Phil.

Achievement Hunter

Mavin/Team Nice Dynamite



And a bunch more youtubers. I’m not really picky seeing as I watch alot of youtube.

And most anime. Attack On Titan, Blue Exorcist, Angel Beats, Black Butler, Mirai Nikki, Elfen Lied… just to name a few. 

So, yeah. If you post about any of that stuff, feel free to reblog and I’ll give your blog a follow. You don’t have to follow back but it would be cool if you did.

anonymous asked:

So, can you tell me the difference between dean-sam hugs anddean-cas hugs? Because I ship destiel really but I just can't see the difference and it's killing me so pleasee!! By the way love your blog one of my favorites😍

Honestly, you probably won’t see too much difference between Dean-Sam hugs and Cas-Dean hugs, at least not on Dean’s end. The way he hugs other men tends to be brief when the other person isn’t dying, about to die or he presumed was dead but just found out otherwise. Dean doesn’t like to show that sort of vulnerability– so it doesn’t matter who it is: Sam, Cas, Benny … he will probably hug them the same way if the moment isn’t dire.

Except for once …

Dean knew Cas was alive when they were in purgatory. He knew he would find him and he just knew that when he did, they would all make it out; yet he still hugged him like this. He didn’t care that Benny was watching or how unmanly it might seem, he still clutched onto Cas and held on for a long, long time– not wanting to let go, Not holding back his emotion. Surrounded by danger and dismay, Dean Winchester still smiled and hugged his angel like everything in the world was okay.

Now Cas on the other hand, hugs very specifically. He is a pretty passionate hugger all around. He doesn’t play around with his hugs– physical contact like that is rare for him, so he’s not going to waste a moment of it if he can help it.

The only times he won’t hug back is when he’s really worried about the other person’s safety, and he deems that as more important than his own need for physical touch.

The only other exception is if he’s been snubbed before ..

Then fuck you for next time …

Basically, Nonny … each situation is different. Each individual is different and a hug can mean a thousand different things. So don’t focus on how to spot the differences, focus on the beautiful moments that led to that hug and what that specific hug might mean to the character. Then you’ll see how special it really is … then you’ll see the Destiel.