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The long awaited 1k/Get to know me/ celebration! Thanks so much for helping me get this far, ily, and go learn some things about me :D

I was tagged by @sweetlittleblueboi AND @bahannah01writes to do the 30 question tags! If you don’t know who they are pretty please go follow then they’re rad and have really great writing on their blogs :’)


Name: Samantha
Nickname: Sam
Gender: Female
Star Sign: Virgo
Height: 5'4
Time: 8:33PM
Birthday: September 18th
Favorite Band: P!ATD
Favorite Solo Artist: Childish Gambino or Kendrick Lamar
Song stuck in my head: First Day Of My Life by Bright Eyes 
Last movie I watched: Kingsman: The Secret Service 
Last show I watched: Lip Sync Battle (Zendaya vs Tom Holland lol)
Last thing I googled: “Kingsman: The Secret Service” (lol  swear i watched it legally ok)
Do you have any other blogs?: Bet I have 9 blogs total but I’m only really active on 3 of them
Do you get asks: I do! Lots of ‘em are requests but the few asks that aren’t requests are gr8 I love them
Why did you choose this blog name: Long story 👀 (I miss m/tttme ☹️)
Blogs I’m following: like 1500 lol
Followers: 1000!!!
Favorite colors: Maroon/Burgundy, Black, and Blue :D
Average hours of sleep: 7ish (although now that I’m back in school this is def gonna change lol)(I was right its about 5 now lol)
Lucky number: 33
Instruments: That I play? Saxophone, piano, acoustic guitar, flute, some trumpet, and some clarinet! (I’m only really good on saxophone and piano though lol)
What am I wearing: a gray marvel shirt from Walmart, some dark skinny jeans and gray socks with pink watermelons on them :D
How many blankets do I sleep with: 2 and like 4 pillows lol
Dream job: iOS developer (coding apps and shit for apple prodeucts) 
Dream trip: New York probably 
Favorite food: Tostadas, Spaghetti, and California Burritos from a local shop
Nationality: Mexican-American!
Favorite Song rn: F.U. by Little Mix, Camp by Childish Gambino, Humble and XXX by Kendrick Lamar :D

I tag @sweetnestor @gooseskeletons @bow-chika-wowie @jaylarkson @mild-soapog @ifuckingloveducks @tbh-softdad @sadboyoliverinvisibleboy @jordytheconch @sivansneighbourhood @thnks-fr-th-mngs @ THE LEMON ANON @rhiirhii-moose @siaralovesgaming @nandrii @teamiplier-requests  I WOULD TAG HANNAH BUT SHES THE ONE THAT TAGGED ME SO DINOASEOEIFNOIWO


Bible Verses Masterpost Against Aphobes

Some bible verses that keep my positive within the discourse and  hatred from aphobes. 

Please reblog and add your own verses! 

Note: (and I can’t believe I have to say this again)                                     

I do not mean “Bible verses against LBGT people.” I mean “Bible Verses against Aphobes”, ergo, the people that hurt, bully, harass, and make light of the things that asexuals and aromantics go through and struggle with. This is meant to be a comfort to those, like myself, whose mental health has been hurt by the discourse and hatred. 

If you don’t like it, that’s okay! Just block me or the blacklist the tags: “religion mention”  and “Christianity”. Don’t spread hate in my posts.       

But the LORD is with me as a mighty terrible one: therefore my persecutors shall stumble, and they shall not prevail: they shall be greatly ashamed; for they shall not prosper: their everlasting confusion shall never be forgotten.  (Jeremiah 20:11)

Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you.(Matthew 5:12) 

If the world hate you, ye know that it hated me before it hated you. (John 15:18) 

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? (Romans 8:35) 

 Yet if any man suffer as a Christian, let him not be ashamed; but let him glorify God on this behalf. (1 Peter 4:16)

Have mercy upon me, O LORD; consider my trouble which I suffer of them that hate me, thou that liftest me up from the gates of death. (Psalms 9:13) 

My friends, do not try to punish others when they wrong you, but wait for God to punish them with his anger. It is written: “I will punish those who do wrong; I will repay them,” says the Lord. But you should do this: If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him a drink. Doing this will be like pouring burning coals on his head. (Romans 12:19-20)

Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. Now we ask you, brothers and sisters, to acknowledge those who work hard among you, who care for you in the Lord and who admonish you. Hold them in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.   Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else. ( 1 Thessalonians 5:11-15)

LORD, you have heard the desire of the humble: you will prepare their heart, you will cause your ear to hear: o judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that the man of the earth may no more oppress. (Psalm 10:17-18)

 Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9)

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

anonymous asked:

Would you put together a Gramander fic rec list of things that left the biggest impact on you? I'm new to the fandom and just trying to feel my way around at the moment. Thank you!

Ooooooh goodness. Hmm, let’s thing. Also Hi! Welcome to the fandom! 

What sucks is that the first thing that comes to mind is @rospeaks new fic she’s working on, but I can’t talk about that yet. XD Go follow ro though, so you see it when it comes out!

In Phony Matrimony by SolarMorrigan
I love this one. It’s so pure. Basically none of Graves’ aurors believe he’s married. They think he’s making it up. It’s stupid cute.

Animal -ist -ic by Anonymous
This author had me at the tag (dorks in love). Basically, Newt is easily distracted by his creatures and Graves decides that the best way to get some of that attention back is to pretend to be a creature. Domestic fluff AF.

Vampires aren’t fluffy bunnies by @aethelar
I love everything this author writes, so literally go to her tumblr and read all her stuff about this fandom. Because it’s all gold and she’s one of the people whose writing dragged me into this fandom. But yea, Vampire!Graves. Salty AF Vampire!Graves.

Roar by @elenothar
I haven’t had a chance to read this myself yet, but I have heard from a shit ton of people that it is hands down one of the greats in the Gramander fandom, so I think it’s worth suggesting if you haven’t read it yet. Grindelwald turns Graves into a Wampus after he gets tired of stopping all his escape attempts - enter: Newt.

And now, if you are mentally ready for Pain ™ -

Guilty by @thegaypumpingthroughyourveins
It’s a cheating AU where Newt cheats on Graves during his recovery from being kidnapped. It’s hard and it’s painful and if you’re triggered by cheating, don’t read it. BUT if you are looking for a fic rich with character development, that’s going to give you all the feels and keep you on the edge of your seat the whole fucking time, look no further. This is it. Additionally, go to her tumblr. You’ll find LOADS of Gramander stuff there.

Sinners and Saints -- Older!Damian Wayne x Reader

A/N: Finally, part two to Musicality! Sorry about how long it took to update ya’ll. A lot of stuff happened with my job and I’m stil making some big life decisions. Please enjoy and leave your lovely comments! And feel free to message me anytime! I love to hear from you all!

Song inspiration can be found here.

Tagging (by request) @spunky-89 @laryssa-the-jedi

Part One

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anonymous asked:

Do you have receipts for people who are newer to the tag on you-know-who?

Gonna be real with you, I don’t. I should have years back when he first got called out for some of his posts but since a big part of the tag at the time was either confronting him about it or spreading the bs, I didn’t really think of it being needed cause everyone has eyes, but for new people I see how that can be an issue…

I mean, I could go through some of the things he has said/done but without the receipts I wouldn’t expect anyone who doesn’t know the deal to believe me, and that’s okay. I don’t really want to talk about all the shit he has done tbqh because he doesn’t deserve anymore attention then he’s getting. you can message me about specific events if you want, receiptless of course.

I mean he’s deluded himself to think some of us are stalking his blog to attack his “opinions” but the truth is he puts his stupid shit in the tag for everyone to see and call out (which, lately, he seems to just be embracing his ratness and making posts JUST to go against the grain/the popular tag opinions .) like he honestly tries to be hated so why waste your fucking time trying to prove he’s shit. He’s trying to be shit, lol and then playing the victim when people fall into his discourse trap. It’s sad. 

Other than that we have had multiple public feuds where he attacks my weight, etc. and somehow thinks that it’s the lowest blow I’ve ever experienced lmfao. 

anyways, tldr; no receipts, but all the shit he has done has been in the tag/called out on the tag. I’m not just pulling accusations out of my ass, a lot of people have seen this and are still seeing this. 

if you’re new this is about etceteria   

anonymous asked:

I have a question but please don't take it as me being mean or anything (I too am not a fan of dlr at all) but why are you bringing this up to int fans? Isn't it best for it to just stay on weibo? most int fans don't really care about her anyway. i feel that it would be better to just let this thing die quietly once she finds someone else to use. at this point it just feels like bringing unnecessary drama to his int fandom... not trying to be mean, i just don't see how spreading this benefits Lu

because they’re people bringing this out of weibo to the international fans, making non-fans or even fans believe that lu & dilraba are a ‘cute couple’? these ‘fans’ hashtag and even tag lu on instagram post that’s about raba, spreading ‘ludi moments’ on youtube and even fake-sub lu’s interview video. It’s ok when it’s just a fan’s work, but there are a lot of fans actually believe in those videos then it’s not ok. I just want to bring this up in the intl fandom to let people know that there’s such thing going on, instead of just being blinded by one side. C-fans are able to take charge on weibo, but because of restrictions, they can’t reach the intl fandom. I just want to help them out to bring the truth out, that’s all. :D

30 Things

Rules: answer these 30 questions and tag 30 people. 

tagged by @fooljshgirl




You don’t believe it’s actually Mrs. Otome?



Star Sign?



A wee 5′4″


10:36 PM


January 7th 

Favorite band?

Just one?! Radiohead, I guess, just by sheer dint of how long I’ve listened to them.

Favorite solo artist?

Jeff Buckley

Song stuck in your head?

I Feel It Coming (feat. Daft Punk) by The Weeknd

Last movie you watched?

Rogue One, for probably the 40th time. >.>

Last show you watched?

Shite, I never watch TV. Uh…Mr. Otome had House of Cards on in the background the other day, I sorta tune in?

When did you create your blog?

July 17th, 2017 (Happy belated one month birthday, blog!)

What do you post?

mostly slbp, a bit of other voltage and otome

Last thing you Googled?

Suteki house, because we went to a home show today and one of the super cool houses was Japanese, designed by a Japanese architect.

Do you have other blogs?

Yes but they are for a different fandom. Mrs. O doesn’t like overlap.

Do you get asks?

I get the occasional one, usually a request. Maybe one every few days? (insert pathetic plea here AKA YOU GUYS CAN SEND ME STUFF ANYTIME for anything)

Why did you choose your blog name?:

Because I write route reviews sometimes, in the form of ‘advice letters’

How many blogs you follow?

About 100


I’m a wee babby blog. I’ve got ALMOST 200 now :D

Favorite colors?

Purple. And midnight blue.

Average hours of sleep?

Around 6, much to my husband’s amazement.

Lucky number?

7 and 13 - my birthday and my mother’s, less than a week apart


I can play a bit of piano and the guitar, and sing

What are you wearing?


How many blankets do you sleep with?

Is this in addition to the comforter? If so, one

Dream job?


Dream trip?


Favorite food?

Anything Thai. Literally. Anything.


Plain old white bread American.

Current favorite song?

Nightcall by London Grammar

tagging: whomever reads this and wants to do it!


Tarjei Sandvik Moe and Henrik Holm on the Kiss Cam at the Gullruten Awards

seeing that “notes =/= my art’s value but if you spent 6 hours on a cake for a party and no one ate it you’d be disappointed too” post floating around and it exasperates me a bit

i’ve had art i spent loads of time on sit at 5 notes. for years. until, one day, without any warning, one person reblogs it and the next thing i know, the note count jumps up into the hundreds. it is a crapshoot, guys.

i see a lot of people saying that getting no notes makes them want to quit. i know it’s disheartening, to be proud of something and find out seemingly no one appreciates it. that sucks. i get it!

now i’ve had friends not only disregard my art, but make fun of it. art i’d drawn for them as a gift. if you think feeling like no one likes your art sucks, you’re preaching to the choir. my art was mocked. i was told i wasn’t as good as other artists. i didn’t keep drawing for these people or their approval - i kept drawing for me. i looked for my own improvement and took small victories, and over time, i let go of the cruel things people had said and learned to believe in myself again

when my art started to get positive attention, i’d screenshot every nice comment or tag anyone ever left on my art and save it to a “motivation” folder. they were blessings, not something i felt entitled to. even the tiniest remarks meant so much to me.

at one point, one of my friends admitted they were mad at me - because my art would receive more notes. a friend whose art i would regularly admire, someone who i encouraged and believed in, as if my appreciation somehow meant less than numbers on a website. it really sucked, guys!

your art and the time you put into it is invaluable and you should be proud of yourself above all else. to receive no recognition and to create in spite of that is admirable! it’s heart and passion, and it’s going to stay with you a lot longer than a handful of notes. cherish kindness no matter where it comes from - family, friends, strangers - it’s all genuine, i promise, and while there’s no guarantee your art will become popular, you can be the first person who believes in yourself. hang on tight to friends who recognize your hard work, and if you haven’t found any yet, you will

tl;dr recognition can come in many forms, and notes certainly don’t hurt, but they aren’t your only validation. be proud of yourself, keep going, and cherish each and every person who believes in you. every time you post art, it’s a gamble, but personal growth is a constant. someday you’ll be glad you didn’t give up.

Having dissociative amnesia is so weird because it’s not like normal forgetting where you’re kind of like “I think this happened but I don’t know the details”, it’s looking back at a period of your life and seeing absolutely nothing. There is nothing TO remember, it’s just like a big black pit where your childhood should be.


- Why am I still alive?
- I don’t know.

HIP HOP UNIT Unreleased Track
SEVENTEEN Hip Hop Unit (Diamond Edge D-2)
HIP HOP UNIT Unreleased Track

NOT THE FULL SONG  / please don’t re-upload

for a lot of us, it seems nearly impossible to find a balance between our grades and our health. i’ve created a list of tips and resources for managing classwork as well as mental illness. i tried to be inclusive of depression and anxiety as well as other disorders like adhd and bipolar. (i’d like to be more inclusive of others, but i couldn’t find a lot of resources and wasn’t sure what would help aaaa)

please let me know if you have anything to add, and i hope this post can help you out in some way c:

while studying

  • create a routine, and do your best to stick to it. having a consistent schedule can be a struggle, especially when dealing with long days of class or difficulties with sleep. try something more open-ended and flexible if you can’t manage specific times. (studying for an hour in the morning and before bed vs studying at 8 am and 10 pm)
  • start with your favourite subject. there are a lot of suggestions on how to start a study session (and they usually conflict it seems), but i’ve found that this works best for me. your favourite subject may be easy or difficult, but by starting with it, you get in the groove of studying and won’t get burnt out as quickly, giving you more energy to do your other work.
  • don’t take on more than what you can handle. if you’re feeling motivated, great! get as much done as you can! but on the bad days, just do what you can. there are times where it seems nearly impossible to get anything done, but still try to make the most out of each day and do what you’re able to so you don’t fall far behind. do what you can, when you can. don’t overwork yourself so much.

during class

  • take notes. for me, the easiest way to lose track during a class is if i don’t write or doodle. even if the material doesn’t seem important, write it down! it may be useful later, and it’ll keep your mind from wandering during lecture. (that being said, don’t always write things exactly as the teacher says; putting it into your own words can make it easier to remember and understand)
  • record lecture audio. if you can’t copy everything down in time, or if for whatever reason you need to know something verbatim, then you’ll have something to listen to again later.
  • take pics of what the instructor writes on the board. similar to the above tip, you can refer back to the pictures you took. just don’t forget about them! write yourself a note or make an alarm on your phone to remind you that there’s more material to review. don’t be the kid who takes pictures during the whole lecture but never writes anything, that kid’s obnoxious and gets bad grades
  • stay focused. i fidget a lot with my hands and feet, especially during a long lecture or study session. i find that keeping my hand on my pen/pencil is the simplest way to keep my mind on track, but fidget toys may help you as well. most teachers and students are fine with it as long as it’s not too disruptive.

at home

  • keep track of medication. ngl i am suuuper forgetful when it comes to medication :’) if you’re forgetful too, leave yourself as many reminders as you can. set alarms, write notes, or have someone else keep you accountable if you’re living with a parent or roommate. having routine helps here as well, especially if you take meds multiple times a day.
  • communicate regularly with your doctor. if you’re living away from home, or just a busy student, it can be particularly difficult to make appointments. but you should still make an effort to email your doctor, therapist, etc. at least once a month, and more often if you’re currently changing or adjusting medications.
  • “catching up” on sleep is a myth. depriving yourself of sleep during the week and then sleeping in on the weekends won’t fix your sleep schedule, sadly. keep it consistent if you can. even if you’re staying up late and sleeping in, try to get at least 7-8 hours. whether it’s 12-8 am or 2-10 am, it’s a reasonable amount for getting through the day. sleeping too little can leave you tired and grumpy in the morning, but sleeping too much can also leave you groggy, sluggish, and unproductive for the rest of the day.
  • eat something healthy. okay, no one can eat healthy all the time, and i don’t expect you to. i certainly don’t expect myself to lol. but we can still find a healthy snack or meal to make a part of our lives. sometimes fruit is the best comfort food tbh. here are a few simple snacks that you could try, for studying or for whatever else. i personally enjoy anything with berries, especially yogurt parfait or oatmeal.
  • have a support system. it helps so much to have someone you can talk to when you’re not feeling well or in need of encouragement. it can be a friend, a parent, a sibling, your significant other, or even other members of the studyblr community! (if you don’t have anyone to talk to, please talk to me!! i am here for you my friendo)

other stuff

  • community college by @universi-tea - if you’re worried about moving into dorms or away from home (or are simply unable to), i strongly encourage you to try out community college. it’s made schooling much more enjoyable and accessible for me and i think everyone should give it a chance. plus it’s waaay cheaper.
    • also, most (if not all) U.S. schools have a disability services department; this applies to both physical and mental illnesses. talking to them for the first time can be nerve-wracking, but in the long run it’s completely worth it. teachers and staff want to help you! but you have to help yourself a lil bit too. accommodations may include leniency about attendance and deadlines, or they may let you take exams on earlier or later dates with fewer students present. the flexibility with deadlines has saved my ass more than once tbh
  • things to do when things don’t feel right by @affectionsuggestions - sometimes it’s okay to just do small things, and sometimes it’s okay to not do anything at all.
  • ways to start feeling again by @urbanthropologie - similar to above, but with a focus on mindfulness (helps with anxiety, dissociation, etc)
  • my mental illness tag - this has many other resources that are otherwise not listed in this post.
  • my printables tag! - printables are great for when you’re too tired or not sure how to write things out completely by hand. there are some planners and calendars as well as gratitude logs, habit trackers, etc.
  • i have tons of other tags listed here if you need anything more specific :>

thank you for reading! i hope you found some of these tips helpful. i believe in you!!