How to Write Characters in Realistic Polyamorous Relationships
Earlier this week, an anonymous follower asked: Any advice for writing a REALISTIC poly relationship?
Friend, you are in luck. As a polyamorous person, I’m always looking for more stories that include good poly representation! So first, we’re going to dig into some information about what poly is and what it isn’t, go over some vocabulary, and discuss how polyamorous relationships function in the real world, and then I’ll get into some dons and don’ts for writing polyamorous relationships. Read on under the cut!
Would live for this. He would get off to hearing your moans
“Come on baby, moan for me some more,”
Boy would also love the FUCK outta your moans, he’s the type to quiet himself down just so he can hear every sound that escapes your lips
He’d tease the hell outta you. That’s all I gotta say,
“You sound so dirty kitten…”
He’d enjoy them quite a lot. He’d do everything he could to make you moan, simply because of how much the sound turns him on
“More babe…I know you can moan louder,”
He’d be super turnt. Boy would do what he could to have you screaming, and won’t stop UNTIL your screaming and begging for release
“Come on baby girl, scream for me…”
I can see him being loud in bed, but I also see him having a bit of a moan kink as well. So the louder you moan the louder he moans, and vice versa.
“Fuck baby, you feel so good…”
I feel like he’s pretty silent, so he’d bask in the sound of your moans and encourage you to moan louder
“Come on, I know you can be louder. Scream for me babe,”
Baby would initially blush upon hearing you moan for the first time. Not expecting such a lewd noise to come from your mouth, but after time goes on your moans would be his favourite sound
“Moan baby, come on. Let me hear your beautiful sounds,”
He’d be so turned on. Like…I have no words to explain it. 10/10 would listen to them if he could only listen to one noise for the rest of his life. But like…real talk, he’d indulge in most of your kinks/fantasies just so he could hear you moan
“You sound so sexy…let me hear more,”
Like Chanyeol, I can see him being shocked upon hearing your moans for the first time. But after some time, he’d love to make you draw out your moans because of how erotic it sounded
“That’s it baby…I need to hear more…Louder baby girl…”
Kai seems like the kinda guy to enjoy someone who is loud in bed. So he’d tease you for hours on end just to hear you moan loudly for him, calling his name and begging him to do something
“Uh oh…That wasn’t my name baby…You must really enjoy being punished don’t you?”
(I apologize for the low quality gif, but like…Yes please? Sign me the fuck uP SEHUN! WHOO!)
Anyways, Sehun seems like a dirty talker. That being said, he’d love to have you moan into his ear as he whispers all the lewd things he wanted to do to you.
“I wanna fuck you so bad baby…I want you cuffed…completely submissive to me,”
Disney songs from some popular Disney films dubbed in german! Music is a brilliant way to immerse yourself in your target language, and what better way than the Disney way? Many of these songs are from our childhoods, so it’s some nice nostalgic immersion.
*The english titles next to the german is not necessarily a translation, but rather the english title. Also the year next to the title of the film is the year that the initial english film was released, not necessarily when it was released or dubbed in german.
Some notes: I apologize if your favourite Disney film or song didn’t make the list, I definitely didn’t get all of them. Maybe a part 2 is in order? Also, I tried my best to find videos that had subtitles and a translation, but unfortunately not all of them have it. You can always do a quick google search if you want the lyrics and/or english translation. Be sure to check the descriptions as well, some of them have the lyrics in there. Some videos are better or worse quality than others, but they’re all generally listenable.
I’d also like to give a huge thanks and credit to the creators who translated and subtitled these videos! They did all the work, afterall.
So I know that a great thing is seeing some representation of yo self in media, so here’s a masterlist of songs with lgbt+ themes. Some of the song don’t seem lgbt+ themed themself, but are stated to be by the creators or the singer is gay. Personally as a closeted queer I love hearing songs i can relate to
Love songs(songs about a romantic/sexual relationship of some sort:
Girls Like Girls - Hayley Kiyoko
All the things she said - t.A.T.u
My boots - Lights(actually about canadians winters but sounds very gay)
The blow - Parentheses
Cliffs Edge - Hayley Kiyoko
Wherever We Are - Human Life
Beautiful day - Brett Avery
End of the world - Matt Alber(sad ballade)
Venus - Lady Gaga(sounds gay too)
Too young to be in love - Hunx and his punx
Closer, Boyfriends, Stop Desire, etc - Tegan and Sara(the duo are lesbians so they have a lot of lgbt+ love songs.
Might tell you tonight - Scissor Sisters
Let’s make love and listen from death from the above - CSS
If I Had You - Adam Lambert(probably one of the most famous ones on this list)
I’m Not Gonna To Teach Your Boyfriend How To Dance With You - Black Kids(straight dude sings from the perspective of a lesbian)
She keeps me warm - Mary Lambert
Jenny - Studio Killers(AWESOME music video, must watch)
Girlfriend - Icona Pop(could be a bff song, but they use the term Girlfriends so)
Gay Pirates - Cosmo Jarvis
Him - Geo Louis
Rebel Girl - Bikini Kill(reccomending this to feminists)
She - Jen Foster
Sweet Girl - Nicole Dollaganger
Hood - Perfume Genius
Night Go Slow - Catey Shaw
SEE - Potions
Ghost - Halsey
Ironworks - Baths
Against the night - Child Actor
I didn’t just kiss her - Jen Foster(sounds a bit non consensual??but idk??)
Love You Anyway - Ji Nilsson & Marlene(i think Ji Nilsson has more lgbt+ songs)
Cool for the summer - Demi Lovato(some say it’s a biphobic song tho..)
I kissed a girl - Katy Perry(personally don’t like giving Katy Perry cred for making this song, since she also made the song “You’re so gay”)
Girls/Girls/Boys - Panic! at the disco
DON’T WAIT - Joey Graceffa
Born This Way - Lady Gaga
Spectrum - Boyinaband ft. Cryotic & Minx
Different - Naomi King
Define Me - Ryan Amador
Same Love - Macklemore
It Gets better - Todrick Hall
Everyone is gay - A Great Big World
If you were gay - Avenue Q(from a musical)
It’s OK to be gay - Tomboy
Spectrum - Ryan Amador ft. Jo Lambert & Gyasi Ross
Gay Bar - Electric Six
Help Me - findingconnor(very nice song about being trans by a trans person)
My body is a cage - Arcade Fire
Transgender Dysphoria Blues - Against Me!
The Love You Have In You - Asbjørn(I think he has other lgbt+ theme songs??)
Around - Russell Elliot
She Likes Girls - Metro Station(it’s kinda like a straight dude’s perpective on lesbians/bisexual girls, but maybe you’ll like it?)
The Gay Song - Lesbian Answers
Only a girl - Gia(the music video is like a lesbian orgy fantasy of a straight dude tho..)
I don’t do boys - Elektra
Girls - Beatrice Eli
Girl or boy - Dani Shay
Cowboys are frequently secretly fond of eachother - Pansy Division
IN LOVE WITH A STRAIGHT GIRL - Ally Hills
COMING OUT - Ally Hills
Spa Day - Le1f
Girls and Boys - Blur
I’m your man - Alexander Jasper(he has other songs with trans themes)
Break Free - Ruby Rose
My Body Is Not A Apology - Aston Colby
Gay Goth Scene - The hidden cameras
Pansexual - PansexyJenny(bad audio quality, super cute tho)
Gay or European - Legally Blonde(also from a musical)
Feel free to add some and please share so others see all these queer songs!!
Haha okay so: 31.07. Day 7: rest? | anything goes | sun
I decided to take this day to draw Tosaki’s wedding (with his fiance, I think her name is Ai?) in a happy ending maybe…haha I don’t know it seemed like a funny idea in my mind XD and drawing all this crap was actually really fun. So this was clearly meant to be ridiculous so, what the hell? I just hope you enjoy and laugh with me at this shit I made.
Since Ajin is such a dense manga, and I really love the characters, sometimes I just feel like I want to see them doing stupid things together… (unfortunately I didn’t think it’d be right to include Sato and the others here xd except for Tanaka, cuz he’s just a cinnamon roll).
(Anyway I apologize for the bad quality of some drawings that are next ): when I’ve my computer fixed, I’ll make them well).
You have seen me posting funny Markiplier faces. Now, here’s my most favourite video game character, Dante, with his funny derp faces from Devil May Cry 3. As you can see, I have way~ too much fun with the pause button >w< I apologize for the low quality on quite a bit of them. Some were taken around the time before the 1080p feature was added on Youtube. Others either looked like that (No matter which HD/HQ video I watch), or turned out really blurry when blown up in size. If you’d like a better view of them, you can either click on them or download them.
Volume warning and poor quality apology - Some sirens went by while we were brushing one of the elderly low content animals who needs some extra help with the seasonal shedding and I got a moment of it on my phone. I love hearing the little coywolf (not visible here) and her unique and very coyote based howls/cries over all of the other wolfdogs.
JUS! Please tell me you got some quality Blaytant headcanon. We need more fuel for this tiny ship! As the co-captian I'm relying on you
GENTLE REMINDER THAT BLAYTANT IS REAL AND @owlish-and-confused AND I ARE THE CO-CAPTAINS OF THIS SHIP.
Just Blaytant (blaytz x vant) Things:
blaytz flirting with vant (yes this is my name for him, vant like servant, but shorter) after dinner and apologizing for zarkon’s stubbornness, but not holding it against him too badly.
blaytz skipping the next paladin dinner and leaving a note saying that he and vant had dinner plans, because while playful, i just know my blue boy blaytz is petty like that.
blaytz inviting vant to his home planet and vant being super excited because he never imagined that he would ever be able to leave daibazaal.
vant wearing an air bubble helmet when he’s there, because- water planet and blaytz kissing all over the helmet while vant is giggling
blaytz, my boy blaytz, revealing that he is noble on his planet, and that if vant were to marry him, vant would be the rising-est of the ranks, going from servitude to royalty, by hand of a very gay marriage
i love them. blaytz x vant, blaytant. it’s real. and i love it.
So we lost one of the best true crime blogs on Tumblr due to bullying and harassment. I hear ceaseless bitching and whining about blogs that condone, that celebrate serial killers and mass murderers, that put flower crowns on Dylann and call him Daddy, and see those blogs being held up as an example of the community as a whole even though they don’t come close to representing the majority of us. But @truecrimedaily1-deactivated2017 , one of the BEST blogs on here, PERIOD, who never glorified, never harassed anyone, and consistently posted high quality content that she thoroughly researched and verified gets run off by some juvenile asshole who can’t even be bothered to attach their name or face to their deplorable threats. I’m pissed. She is owed an apology. This is horse shit.
What does Judy mean by that? Will she finally talk to Nick? Will Nick leave?
Here it is the next few pages of this comic, first of all I apologize for the quality of this last pages, I’m having a heavy week and did them in a hurry… kinda’. But I promise I’ll work harder for the rest of the comic.
And second, it was interesting to see how you are reacting to this and sometimes I giggled a little knowing what’s gonna happen, but I really encourage you to give your opinion about this comic, I saw that some of you where kind of mad about it being sad and full of angst (to be honest I didn’t knew that word before haha) but it is really common to couples to fight, even the sweet ones like Wilde-Hopps, so that was a factor to do this comic…
Now to end this “Book” of a text, what’s going to happen in the rest of the comic is something that came to me some day and if there is already a fanfic about it, I really apologize, The ONLY fanfic I’ve read is: “It’s called a Baby Sweetheart”, so if there is one about something similar or the same, I really didn’t knew about it.
Hope you keep enjoying this, and thank you for reading it. See you next time.