i am so sorry my dash did a thing

@danisnotonfire My dash did a thing. I think it’s pretty accurate…

Hello welcome to my Spring break follow forever that the lovely cutie Julie aka @bringitin kindly made for me they’re the bestest! I promised myself I would have this done & posted quickly but yet i’ve been so lazy anyways alas here it is! I want to mention you all who have made my dash a *sometimes messy* wonderful thing! I love you all & I don’t think I missed anyone but if I did I am sorry please forgive so here we go…

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Hello!!!! As you all may know, Christmas is my favourite holiday and so It only seemed fitting I did a good old follow forever for you lot. In the past year I have followed a significantly high number of new blogs, which I do not regret one bit because you’re all amazing and make my dash look wonderful! Not to mention i’ve become totally unhealthily obsessed with Gossip Girl (+ chair) which I also don’t regret at all, lol.

I won’t bold anyone here, as usual, because I love all whom I follow and if I’ve forgotten somebody I am very sorry. I’m kinda rushing this out but I really want to do it.

here we go…

#abc ~ @100slytherin, @22reasonstolove, @ahsgifs, @alycia-careys, @alyciadebnamcarey, @anotherjournalist, @aurorasnik, @badgrounders, @bashxkenna, @bassholee, @blakelovely, @bleightondaily, @bllairena, @bllankspace, @bloody-niklaus, @bonerception, @bonneibennett, @breakfast-at-serenas, @breathtakingqueens, @brockrumiow, @brosciles, @cabellosmila, @cantplaywithoutaheartbeat, @capturingbreakfastclub, @centralperkgifs, @centralprks, @chacecrawfords, @chair-obsessed, @chairdelenazade, @chandlerstyle, @chuckandblairdaily, @chuckskryptonite, @cityofandoms, @cityscapeswow, @clarkegroffin, @clarkeravens, @clarklexa, @clexadaily, @clexasource, @cosmokaramel, @crooked-queen, @cystalreeds

def ~ @daily-emmaroberts, @dailydamongifs, @dailydormer, @dailyfriend-s, @dailygossipgirlgifs, @dailyleightonm, @dailymonde, @dailymrobbies, @dailyninadobreva​, @dailyswiftgifs, @dailyuppereastside, @damnyouchuckbass, @dilaurentisliar, @dinalovesjoecarroll, @doppelutiful, @dormerdaily, @dreamsarefleeting, @drunk-blair, @duskgifs, @edwestwickstation, @edwestwikcs, @elementarymydearmikaelson, @elijahsklaus, @elrnagilbert, @eternityofklaroline, @evadaily, @ewestwickdaily, @fadingtales, @fairchildjace, @fdtd, @fdtdsource​, @fiverosewoodliars, @flawlessbeautyqueens, @forgotyourcoat, @freakishlyvintage, @fred-wheezley, @frie-nds, @friendsgifs, @frixndsinfinity, @fuckfacemurphy, @furrydolphin, @fydexter, @fyeahgg, @fyeahnaley

ghijk ~ @geekorunique, @ggirlxoxoa, @giffingossipgirl, @ginnvs, @gleggie
, @godpenis, @gossipconfessions, @grontward, @haleysbrooke, @harrypotterdailly, @harrypotterhousequotes, @hissaviourqueen, @hmarshall, @hogwartshousehabits, @hopepeaceshehungthemoonmikaelson, @howeverlongs, @huckbass, @iamnotangel, @idiot–wind, @iheartchair, @iheartnewt, @immortalityspencer, @impossiblefandoms, @inlovewithchair, @insidethehouses, @itsleightonmeesterr, @jakegylleanhaal, @jeweljessicajones@kclvina, @khaleesiofthewolves, @kickassfu, @kindabamon, @kingcharlesbass, @klarolineepiclove, @klarolineforevermine, @klausmikelsons, @klausswordholder

lmnop ~ @ladynadinne, @laughcentre, @laurellxnce, @leave-me-hypnotized-love, @leightonmeesteredits, @leightonmmeesterdaily, @letitsnowbarry, @leviosagranger, @likeahepburn, @lovingblakelively, @lupinteddys, @lydsstilinski, @mabastiandaily, @malcolmducasse,@mancandykings, @mazerun, @miikaela, @mikaelsonsreign, @missingstars89, @misskathgifs, @misspocketworld, @mistletoeelena, @mrslackles, @mrssantaklaus, @mysteriousdamon, @natasharomanoff, @natashavromanoff, @nathanshales, @newtscarf, @newtttheglue@newyorkexplorer, @niklausxcaroline, @ninadobrevadaily, @ninadobrvea, @ohmyscarletheart, @onetreehill-gifs, @onlybritishmen, @onlyklarolinefeels, @oodair, @parisinthe1920s, @pclyjuicepotion, @petrova, @petrovastanclub, @prettymysticfalls, @princesconsuela, @psychopierce

qrst ~ @queenofthequarter, @queenvampirebarbie, @queerbanshee, @rayvens, @realynn8, @reginashappiness, @reigningdaily, @remember-to-bring-me-back, @revenge-is-everything, @revengenda, @romanoffsbite, @rongasm, @royalcaliber, @royalpetrova, @ryanreynoldssource, @rykemeadowes, @salvatoredamon, @schemingblair, @schmidtsburg, @shippinginthedeep, @sicklyscribe, @stylishhazz, @summer-roberts, @terriblygrimm, @that-craazy-brunette-girl, @thealluretodarkness, @thechuckandblair, @thedenimofrose, @thefollowinggifs, @theoriginalwinemom, @tonkola

uvwxyz ~ @ultravioletcas, @vanessayves, @varietyofwords, @waldorfhappiness, @westwikc, @westwikcs, @widowelena, @willowaus, @willowolven, @wolphies, @xxariax, @xxwhisperofdreamsxx, @zacsfron

Quick Things
  • I am only half sorry for flooding your dash with message responses. You guys know that at first Antonio and I weren’t met with a whole hell of a lot of positivity, so this news not being the bane that I expected is just remarkable and fills me with joy I really need. Thank you all so damn much.
  • I have not announced it on Facebook yet. Antonio did, with a very quick, less than ten word tag that I did not accept onto my own feed. I love him and all, but this is a big deal, I need more than seven words and an emoticon, dude. 
  • All of the kids know. {I wanted to wait to tell them, but they’re all going to be here before second trimester hits anyway, and Samara knew about the transfer thanks to her father - don’t get me started.} And I take a tremendous amount of offense to anyone insinuating that we *owe* our exes a direct phone call - I fail to understand how any of them are privy to the contents of my uterus by default. We told everyone important; the kids. They HAVE to know, they are impacted directly, they gain a sibling. Telling an ex is a courtesy, not an obligation.
  • For the record though, because I frequently have to speak to both of mine, they do know. It was still a courtesy.
  • EDD is July 29th, putting me at 4 weeks, 2 days pregnant. As soon as I knew this, I looked into the hCG levels and they’re really not *that* high? So, I’m not betting on twins, but I’m very anxious for our first ultrasound anyway.
Since this blog has found some (expected) conflict I would just like to say this:

The reason I created this blog was not in order to fill negative tags with positive messages. I am fully aware of why there are in fact the negative tags and I am completely respectful of the fact that people dislike certain actors and ships. 

This is why I do not tag any of my things with these anti- tags. My responses to asks will end up in them and I am sorry about that, I can’t change tumblr’s stupid settings.

I had found that this URL was not taken, and I really liked it so I did take it about a month ago. My intention was not to use it and I was going to just let it go because I felt bad about hoarding it. Then there were a few really really heavy negativity filled days on my dash (not just the tags) and so I thought to myself, “how could I help this?”

So I decided to make a blog for positivity, and I used this url because I thought it fit nicely with what I was trying to do, that is create positivity through all of this negativity. 

Starting this blog, and I know it has only been 2 days but I have thought a lot about what it could be, it was focused on Misha love because at the time that is what my circle needed due to the amount of misha hate there was/is. However I have already begun changing this (and I am sorry for those who were expecting full Misha love, there will still be a lot but not 100%). 


Long story short, this blog is meant to be a positive place in itself. A place that will not feed into negativity of any kind. No I will not be filling the anti tags because I am not here to divide us farther, but to maybe reconcile something. No I am not asking anyone to like everyone or to promote them or whatever. I just want to be able to make this fandom a little closer to the family that it was when I stepped in to it. It helped me A LOT when I was going through some really, really depressing times and even saved my life and I want that to be there for new fans, and even old ones that need it.

Also I will say this again~ FOR THOSE WHO ARE TRYING TO PROMOTE THIS BLOG. I thank you, wholeheartedly, but please please don’t do it in the anti tags. and Please don’t pick fights with people or do so aggressively. It defeats the purpose of this blog and makes people hate it even more.

New URL = Blogrates!

As said in my previous post, I’m considering changing my url but I’m bad at making a decision. As a thank you for your help and kindness I’m doing blogrates! This is my first time doing blogrates so bare with me!  

*blacklist briesbr if you don’t want to see the rates on your dash.

RULES:

  • You don’t have to be following me but it would be nice c:
  • Vote for my new url on the pop up poll on my blog please
  • Reblog this post!!
  • Send me your vote for a blograte c: 

FORMAT:

URL: Okay | Awesome | Perfect | What warlock magic did you use to get that?!

Icon: Okay | Awesome | Perfect | The only thing more lovely is Magnus Bane

Theme: Okay | Awesome| Perfect | stunning like Jace’s eyes and Alec’s smile

Posts: Okay | Awesome | Perfect | The only thing more perfect is Izzy

Following: No I’m sorry :c  | I am now c: | Always and forever <3

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