i am so sick of people trying to tell me

i’m so sick of straight people trying to force their straight agenda into everything

I'm trying to prove a point to my dad here.

Please like or reblog if you aren’t a pedo/rapist and believe internet friends are just as real as irl friends.

Fuck off!

I’m so sick of people making judgments on my issues and the way I feel. I’m sick of people thinking my issues are stupid. These people are not trans they don’t feel what I feel and haven’t been through what I go through on a daily basis. Yes I care what people think and yes it bothers me if someone questions my gender and who I am as a person. Ignorant people challenging my very identity does kill me a little inside and maybe I shouldn’t care but I do! That’s not going to change so people should stop trying to tell me how bad it is to feel this way. I KNOW! Telling me how sad it is that I feel like that doesn’t change the fact I do and saying I shouldn’t care doesn’t help make me not care!

anonymous asked:

Whenever I legit need help my asks never get answered at all. Thanks for that.

OK dude. 380 asks.

The world is not all about you. I am trying but whenever people send me shit like when one person tells me a funny joke and ten other people have to try and tell me a joke, the box gets cluttered.

I’m getting really sick of people being so entitled.

On top of that, it is more difficult than you think it is to answer asks about trans boys wanting to kill themselves again and again and again. It disheartens you, it’s depressing, it’s difficult. It’s all around bad for mental health. I want to help but I feel powerless to help a lot of people I care about.

So, please, fucking go easy on me. I’m trying.

anonymous asked:

Mom, My entire family thinks I'm super angry because they've been asking my questions or making comments on me or what I'm going to do/ doing and I've been snippy. I'm not trying to be, my depression is coming back again and I don't know how to cope or what to do. No else even know I'm not happy. this always happens, I'm sick of it. I can't keep doing this. What am I supposed to do

Oh sweetheart, I know this feeling very well. I am so, so, so sorry you’re going through that! Sometimes, telling people (family) can be very, very helpful, because then they gain a frame of reference for what’s going on in your life and what you need, and it might be the beginning of a support system for you (even if that support system is outside of your blood family). You deserve the best of all things, including a support system of people that love you and support you unconditionally (and you can start to have that on here, with this queer fam!!)! You can do this: hang in there, sweetheart. I’m so proud of you for being exactly who you are. I’m sending you so much love: you’ve got this. I believe in you, honey. You are not alone, and you are so, so, so loved <3 <3 <3

shout out to all asexuals that are told they are never going to have a partner, because “sex is sooo important in relationship.” i am hella ace and I GOT ENGAGED yesterday. although we are asexuals - fuck them! fuck all those people who try to tear us down, fuck those who tell us we are sick or weird. and also - i already found the RIGHT PERSON and i still ain’t fucking! so trust me, you are amazing and if you want relationship, you can have it! i love yall!

I am so sick of being your “on call friend”
you can’t put me on a back burner until you decide to want me again
it doesn’t work like that
people aren’t like your video games you can’t hit a button to freeze the frames
you can’t rewind and take back what you said last night
things fall in and out of place while you are too busy trying to see if I’m worth it

you tell me that you need some time to figure things out
you need some space to adjust
like me and you are a clock and the hands are just a bit off
like right now our stars aren’t aligned but if we wait a week or two
they’ll match up like perfect puzzle pieces

and that is such bullshit
this isn’t fate saying no, not yet, this is you and your commitment problems
and you try to play it off like it’s my fault to take the heat off your back
but that just places it in on mine
look I’m fine if you need some room but at least give me a real explanation before you close the door and walk out.

—  It was hardly even a goodbye but I doubt I’ll be hearing from you soon– Lily Rain
Prince

I am sick and tired of the media trying to tarnish Prince’s image and legacy. He was extremely private, so how is it that now EVERYBODY knows EVERYTHING about him. So you mean to tell me that for 30+ years, nobody knew anything about his personal/private life, but now that he’s not here to defend himself (even though he probably wouldn’t because he didn’t care what people said or thought about him) people are coming out of the wood work with stories, so called truths, and other nonsense that people are believing to be true?! It makes no sense to me.
Whatever comes out, even the toxicology report, I’m going to have a hard time believing. I truly feel that there is a dark side to the entertainment industry, and anything can be put out there to try to damage a person’s image, legacy, and/or credibility. People can be paid off at any level, so I’m very leery of any info that comes out about him.
It is just so sad that it is happening to Prince. I was and will forever be a fan.

I am so sick of people pointing their fingers at bisexuals and telling us that we aren’t a real sexuality and how we need to pick a side, or that we’re just confused. I am so sick of people thinking they have the right to tell me what the fuck I am. If I wanna be bisexual today, straight tomorrow, and a hardcore fucking bull dyke by Saturday night than I’ll fucking be whatever the fuck I want to be and I’ll do whatever the fuck I want to do to make myself happy. If you’re gay or lesbian, you should be the last ones to point your fingers at bisexuals and try to tell them what the fuck they are when you know damn well that people have done that to you and how that made you feel. Love is love. NOH8.
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I’m still shaking from fury at having to cut down someone trying to tell me on FB not to make this about race/religion, so here I am sharing some photos from the Our Three Winners FB group. These are photos of the vigil held for Deah, Yusor, and Razan last night on campus at UNC. I wanted to go, but I was still sick and I didn’t want anyone to catch my cold.

Look how many people there are. This is beautiful and amazing and I am so proud of my community right now.

anonymous asked:

I feel so sick and like shit and just not fucking okay, your art usually makes me feel better but like its not anymore and I kinda just wanna die. Any words of advice..? ~Max the Anon

Hello anon, I reply you as fast as I could. I’m really sorry if my comic can’t make you happy, I’ll try my best to bring more joyful feelings for you and other people next time.

I am not a verbal person and I’m not really good with comforting people verbally but I’m telling you this, It’s okay to feel sad, It’s okay to feel shit about yourself I’ve been there before and now I still feel like shit sometimes too. It’s a sign you’re a perfect human being! But the more important thing is to let it out. Get the feelings outside your system, You cannot let it inside you forever because it’ll hurt you consciously or not. You can reaching out to your friends about it, screaming, writing, crying, drawing, any activities that release the feelings. But do not harm yourself. I’m telling you I’ve been there before.

I tried to love myself when I feel nobody would love me. I found myself in strange.. umm fetishes Ugh.. not really, Well strange hobby so I can feel better about myself. You can find your own “Xanadu”, I’m sure you can slowly but steady. Whenever you feel like shit, remember there’s people who think you’re not. There’s people who hold you dear as you’re Important to them. Even if you don’t know or not sure, believe me you’re Important to them.

I hope that would make you feel better. You can PM me if you want, I’ll listen to your thoughts and maybe giving you suggestion based on my experience. Stay safe anon. God bless you!

Confession #257

I’m sick of people telling me to make goals for the future. What can I possibly do with my life when I’m as sick as I am? What’s the point in even trying when I know I can’t do anything productive anyway? My dreams are dead, my life is going nowhere, and I haven’t got a clue how I’m supposed to find purpose in my life when I’m so incapable of everything.

i mean it’s not like i don’t think i’m a good catch its just hard to have confidence when you’ve been lied and cheated on as much as i have. my trust has just been broken so many times it’s just hard to feel good enough. it’s not like i’m not okay because i’m actually pretty good but people just think it’s so easy to be confident and be happy and put myself out there and open up so easily and i promise i try as hard as i can but i just struggle a lot but i honestly do the best i can. i dont wish people knew how it felt bc it sucks but i do at the same time because i’m sick of people telling me to just do something or to not be a pussy or whatever. i am such an open person i am a risk taker i am very adaptive. out of everyone i know i am really at the top i think with being open to do things and take risks and able to do whatever and leave my comfort zone. but a mind set, a way of thinking, a voice in the head - it’s really fucking hard to ignore it all the time. sometimes i lose the battle and thats ok. bc i am happy and i am having fun in life and a lot of adventures and in the end i know that i really love who i am even if some people hurt me and i hurt some people. and yes i admit, wounds from just a couple people have caused me to miss out on a lot of great people who had chased me for a long time, but i can’t change it, i’m getting better everyday, it’s a slow process and it never ends once it starts. so watch me. watch me get back, cause i will.