i am not complaining

Intimacy for Women of Color:

- Don’t just say ‘you’re beautiful,’ tell me exactly how society has been so brutal in recognizing my beauty because I don’t fit its Eurocentric standards.

- Don’t ever say that I am complaining, do you realize how my narrative has been silenced throughout history? Appreciate my rants. 

- Don’t lay claim on me like I am a sexual conquest, climax through exploring my mind like Tupac did with Jada. 

-  If you care about me as a woman of color, then care about all women of color. You might have to rethink your friendships. 

- Conversations about eternal promises are less meaningful than conversations about how we will fight alongside against patriarchy. 

- You can not truly love what you do not understand, so understand my oppression first. 

Music Shuffle

I was tagged by bewbear999 to do the MP3 challenge - thank you. :’) (P.S. I don’t have a working MP3 player anymore or an iPod so I’ll do this with my music library - it’d be the same thing, anyway, I mean it’d have all the same music on it.)

[You can tell a lot about a person from their music. Hit shuffle on your iPod, MP3 player, etc. and write down the first ten songs. One rule: no skipping. Tag ten people and pass it on! Repost - don’t reblog.]

1. “Take on Me” by A-ha
2. “Paparazzi” by Lady Gaga
3. “Satellite” by Dave Matthews Band
4. “Blue Letter” by Fleetwood Mac
5. “I Wanna Be Your Man” by the Beatles
6. “Still D.R.E” by Dr. Dre
7. “Take Me Home Tonight” by Eddie Money
8. “Fool in the Rain” by Led Zeppelin
9. “Outta Your Mind” by Lil’ John ft. LMFAO
10. “Love the Way You Lie” by Eminem ft. Rihanna

Classic rock and rap mostly. I see. My music taste is so varied it scares me, often, tbh.

Um, mkay, tagging [the last 10 people to reblog from me ‘cause I see that works]: a-totally-vintage-girl, callingnightbird, captainharrison, silverfern, clubufo, magpiefeather, shannon-hartman, bebe-le-strange, stephanielynnsteviebuckingham, historyoftheeagles

Marrish Venting

Okay I need to vent here… 

I have been shipping Marrish since I saw the preview for episode 402 and obviously I am not the only one! But when people complain that it’s wrong for Lydia and Parrish to be together their ignorance is exceptional.

In season 4, Lydia’s mom said she was almost 18 and that was 6 Months ago. So that means Lydia is almost 18 and ½, so it’s perfectly legal. Secondly, I don’t understand why people think it is wrong, because I know for a fact most every teenager has had a celebrity crush with someone who is over 6 years older than them. Finally, It’s obvious that Stydia will be end game, because they are the Ross and Rachel of teen wolf. So everyone quit your whining and be happy that Lydia is finally overcoming the loss of Jackson and Aiden!

Thank you and have a wonderful day,


onlythesassiest asked:

ok IDK if you take requests for gifs, but in silly.tiff Mark just said "Directly in my mouth? I'm not one to complain about that!" and I am dying. I was wonering if it would be possible for you to gif it, if not I totally understand. It starts at about 3:46. It goes until about 3:54. :)

Oh no problem! :) I always take gif requests! I’m on it!

my dog is so dumb she has apparently forgotten that fireflies exist and now she’s chasing them through the yard like intruders.

what am I complaining about? this is the cutest thing that has ever happened.