i am flooding your dash

Deforest Kelley + Hats in Steve Canyon: Operation Jettison

Quick Things
  • I am only half sorry for flooding your dash with message responses. You guys know that at first Antonio and I weren’t met with a whole hell of a lot of positivity, so this news not being the bane that I expected is just remarkable and fills me with joy I really need. Thank you all so damn much.
  • I have not announced it on Facebook yet. Antonio did, with a very quick, less than ten word tag that I did not accept onto my own feed. I love him and all, but this is a big deal, I need more than seven words and an emoticon, dude. 
  • All of the kids know. {I wanted to wait to tell them, but they’re all going to be here before second trimester hits anyway, and Samara knew about the transfer thanks to her father - don’t get me started.} And I take a tremendous amount of offense to anyone insinuating that we *owe* our exes a direct phone call - I fail to understand how any of them are privy to the contents of my uterus by default. We told everyone important; the kids. They HAVE to know, they are impacted directly, they gain a sibling. Telling an ex is a courtesy, not an obligation.
  • For the record though, because I frequently have to speak to both of mine, they do know. It was still a courtesy.
  • EDD is July 29th, putting me at 4 weeks, 2 days pregnant. As soon as I knew this, I looked into the hCG levels and they’re really not *that* high? So, I’m not betting on twins, but I’m very anxious for our first ultrasound anyway.