i am done with these people

Nine to Five (Part 3)

Pairing: Stiles x Reader

A/N: The response to Part 2 was absolutely out of this world. I couldn’t believe it, I’m so happy that people are loving this as much as I am writing it. Enjoy Part 3; Just a reminder that this is a drabble series so I’m not trying to make each part 2k long, this part is only 905 words so don’t bombard me with “why is it so short” drabble series

Part 1 | Part 2 | Part 3 | Part 4 (coming soon)

Originally posted by wydobrien


Over a month has passed, the most amazing and exciting month of your life. Accepting the job to be Rosie’s nanny was definitely the best thing you’ve ever done. She was a wonderful, adoring little girl that deserved the best in life, and you were determined to give it to her; along with the help from Stiles, who you would willingly give the award for Best Father within a beat of the heart. He had so much time for his daughter even with working a full time job, he never came home grumpy or too tired to spend time with her. Every time you left the house in the evening, he had her cooped in his arms.

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anonymous asked:

What's with the alcoholism post? You also don't seem to be enjoying reyes week between your posts today and the deleted ones last night.

LOL call me out why don’t you nonny.

Like, at the risk of getting unfollowed and possibly provoking ire from a general corner of the Reyes fandom: no, I am not enjoying this Appreciation Week. So get ready for this big word vomit of a vague post.

There are posts that are referring to alcoholism as cute and sexy, which imo is just really insensitive and romanticizing an addiction many struggle with. It’s one thing to portray him (whether by fanfiction or fanart) enjoying his favorite bottle of whiskey or relaxing with a drink. It’s wholly another to do that and THEN label it in the cutest terms possible as alcoholism. The last part is an entirely added step that didn’t have to be there.

I also don’t mean to generalize, because a lot of great fanart and fanficlets are being written for this week. However, I am just kind of done with Reyes as the scary Latino lover who lets their lily white Ryder enjoy what it’s like being “dark.” 

There’s a history of this trope being used; there’s a history of literary examples of Latino characters allowing for white protagonists to explore a darker side to them in completely romanticized terms. It’s a history of white people writing people of color as an intrinsically other and morally compromised without any exploration of systemic issues, of social strictures that place them in such positions, etc.

To clarify, I do think Reyes is a morally complicated character who sees contrivance and murder as necessary. Yes, even the collective has a torture chamber, but these are standard espionage practices done by any military or militarized faction. To ascribe these actions to one individual as a symptom of how inherently “dark” he is makes me wonder whether people have ever heard of Machiavellian politics, and whether they understand these political intrigues occur as part of the US capitalist imperialist machine to begin with (and NOT with sadistic spicy Latino lovers).

Don’t even get me started on the shipping wars with bierasure, in which one side makes really misogynistic statements using the pretext of criticizing bierasure (as if bisexuality means only ONE gender can fit the bill and receipts need to be pulled to prove one’s bisexuality). 

By the way, for all this talk about racism when people were being critical about Andromeda, I see none of you ever supporting Ryders of color or Ryders made by writers of color. There is even much fewer people respecting Latino culture that goes behind a character like Reyes. 

And it’s funny how selective some of my followers get. They have no problem liking and reblogging things I post that let them enjoy this vision of Reyes undisturbed, but the moment I call out problematic fandom participation, these posts get (WEIRDLY) ignored. 

So at the risk of being that blog that calls people out for problematic bullshit and getting unfollowed for it, here’s the fucking tea. 

Sweater Weather

SUMMARY  - You read Bucky’s diary after an unfortunate event .

WARNINGS - ANGST , DEATH ( I maybe cried a little while writing this)

Sorry in advance . 

A/N - This is for Annie’s @hellomissmabel 1K celebration shuffle challenge . 

Taw @supersoldierslover Thank you so much babe . 

Everything in italics is from Bucky’s journal. 

MASTERLIST 

Originally posted by merci-angel

I was scared . I didn’t know what to say and if I had to say anything at all. I felt extremely uncomfortable with the number of people around me . I felt guilt . I didn’t understand why they would welcome me to their house after everything I had done . You were the last person Steve introduced me to. The wide smile and the genuine sparkle in your eyes gave me comfort . I hoped to stay away from you in fear of hurting you too like I did to the other in the room .

  All I am is a man
I want the world in my hands
I hate the beach
But I stand in California with my toes in the sand

Well , at first I tried to stay away but wasn’t very effective . You seemed comfortable around me , no hesitance in sparking up a conversation or just sitting next to me watching the television . Your soft smile directed towards me every time our eyes met made me happy for some reason . It gave me ease. My otherwise tense body would slouch a little and I would breathe lighter . It felt like a huge weight had been lifted off of my shoulders. I didn’t know what to do when you feel asleep on my shoulder . I just sat there looking at how peaceful you looked hoping that one day I could sleep as sound as you were.

Use the sleeves of my sweater
Let’s have an adventure
Head in the clouds but my gravity’s centered
Touch my neck and I’ll touch yours
You in those little high waisted shorts, o

It has been a few months here now and I feel settled . Well you make me feel that way . And the others too have shown so much acceptance that I will forever be grateful . I have become welcoming to touches and conversations. Maybe it is just me but I feel that for some reason you spend a lot of time with me . I like it . I like to think that you care for me . Sam and I don’t really get along that well but I still like him because I heard him giving an earful to an agent who said that I was a monster and I killed people and that I was dangerous . Man !!! I have never seen him so angry . I was very happy to know he cared too .

  She knows what I think about
And what I think about
One love, two mouths
One love, one house
No shirt, no blouse
Just us, you find out
Nothing that wouldn’t wanna tell you about no

I didn’t really expect Tony to ever talk to me after discovering the truth that  I had killed his parents . But today , he started working on a prosthetic arm for me and he called me to his lab . He was so gentle touching my arm . I couldn’t get the guilt off myself and I found tears rolling down my eyes while I whispered ‘I’m sorry .’   He said nothing . He just hugged me . I didn’t think I deserved such kindness but it eased me mind and heart . He just patted my shoulder and walked out of the lab .

  ‘Cause it’s too cold whoa
For you here and now
So let me hold whoa
Both your hands in the holes of my sweater

So…..It been some time since I flirted with somebody . And it was a little surprising to know that girls are pretty good at it . In my time it was the guy who had to woo the ladies . But I didn’t really mind the other way around . Not that I would recognise it if someone actually flirted with me . ‘Listen to me dude , I know for sure she likes you.’ Sam whispered into my ear while we were all sitting in the common room having dinner . I looked at Steve for some help . ‘ I think so too . I mean , she’s been pretty flirty with you lately .’ He said shrugging . Flirty??? You flirted with me??  I liked you but never did I think you would like me back . I found myself blushing every time you looked at me after this new found information .

  And if I may just take your breath away
I don’t mind if there’s not much to say
Sometimes the silence guides our minds to
So move to a place so far away

I tried ok? I tried to be cool and flirt back but even I was cringing at my horrible attempts . I was hoping that the charm back in the 40’s would come back but they didn’t . But thank fucking god you were good at it . ‘ Would you ….Would you like to go on a date with me Bucky?’ you asked and I truly couldn’t my ears . I was screaming and jumping in joy all in my mind . I could only nod with a wide smile etched on my face .

  The goosebumps start to raise
The minute that my left hand meets your waist
And then I watch your face
Put my finger on your tongue
'Cause you love the taste yeah

It was the most wonderful 4 months of my life . I couldn’t be happier . Laying beside you on the bed with you wearing my maroon sweater with your head on my chest made me want to stay like this forever . It’s the best night of sleep I have ever gotten . I couldn’t take the images of last night from my head . The feel of your lips against my body , your soft hands running over my scars , looking at them like they are the most beautiful scars you have ever seen . They once made me feel ashamed of myself , a constant reminder of the day I turned into someone I hate now . But you make them look like battle scars . Like I endured all this pain and came out alive .

  These hearts adore,
Every other beat the other one beats for
Inside this place is warm
Outside it starts to pour

2 years and I still get butterflies in my tummy when you smile . I hope I can always see you smiling that way .I hope I save you from the horrors of the world and keep you say . I will never let anyone make you cry . I found myself blankly staring at you and wondering how the fuck I got so lucky .

Coming down
One love, two mouths
One love, one house
No shirt, no blouse
Just us, you find out
Nothing that I wouldn’t wanna tell you about, no no

After everything I did I didn’t think I would have a chance at a normal life much less a chance at love . But you….uhhhh I don’t know what to say . I could have never imagined the life I am living today . I want to hold you in my arms and cherish you forever . That’s when it hit me…..

 Cause it’s too cold whoa
For you here
And now
So let me hold whoa
Both your hands in the holes of my sweater

It wasn’t just Steve who was helping me out but it was also Nat , Wanda and Sam. How the fuck did they even know ?? Steve and Sam were mostly useless since they only teased me all the time but Nat and Wanda actually gave me tips . Nat helped me pick out the ring and Wanda helped me out in calming my nerves and helping me with the speech . I had to get this all ready before the mission and Tony also promised me that he would make a romantic atmosphere on the roof for when I come back so that my proposal could be the best .

'Cause it’s too cold whoa
For you here and now
So let me hold whoa
Both your hands in the holes of my sweater
 

I was going to be off to the mission by tomorrow morning and I knew I will miss you a lot . So I kept you close to me all day . Kissed you and hugged you every chance I could get . And at night I when I found you on the bed hugging my sweater to your chest already asleep I pulled you against me chest and fell asleep . I wanted to tell you before I went but you were fast asleep and I didn’t want to disturb you . I can’t wait to get back .

But he didn’t . Well technically he did get back . But he didn’t get back alive . You held the book against your  chest , tears flowing down your face staining the sweater as your body shook violently against Steve’s chest . You didn’t understand how he was able to contain himself . You knew he was dying inside . So were you .You couldn’t believe it . How could this happen? It’s not true !! Bucky can’t be dead!! He said he’s come back . He said he’d propose to you .

“Steve??? Please!!!! Bring him back !!! He wouldn’t leave me like this . He loves me !!!” You cried turning around to face Steve ,clutching his shirt shaking him trying to get him to speak . But he didn’t . He just wrapped his arms around you and pulled you close as he silently cried .

You pushed him away .

“Steve!!! He’s…..He’s not dead . I love him . He..he…..please….” You begged . You couldn’t accept the fact that he is gone . The man that you love , you will never be able to see again .

Everybody’s heart broke to see you this way , Tony wanted to come and console you but he couldn’t get himself to do it . He was in shock too .

“Do you want to see him?” Steve asked softly as he wiped his tears with the back of his hand .

You shook you head no . “ No.. I don’t ….My Bucky is dead Steve!! Our Bucky is dead Steve…I…” He pulled you back against his chest as you sobs grew louder . You stayed there hoping that this was all just a nightmare . You kept staring at the door hoping that Bucky would run through it and kiss you . Hoping that he would hold you against him as you slept . But that never came . Steve slowly lifted you and took you to where Bucky’s body was kept . You felt nauseous . The tears crept back in threatening to spill.

And they did as soon as you saw his lifeless body on the bed . You couldn’t go closer . You didn’t want to touch him and make it all real . Still hoping that this was a horrible nightmare .

The next few days went so quick. You had no time to register what was happening around you . You just went with the flow and so did Steve . Still unable to accept that he lost his best friend for the second time.

After the funeral and everything you came back to your room and hopped on your bed . That’s when you realised . This was all true . Bucky is gone . Your breathing became heavier as you head started to ache . His sweater on the pillow , and you bought it to your body . You turned around not able to look at the empty place on the bed next to you . The book that you had read had a box on top of it which caught your eye . You knew what it was . But you couldn’t …you couldn’t look at it . You didn’t want to look at it . The reality of never seeing him ever again , never hearing his voice , never able to touch him , never able to look into his blue eyes again but most importantly look at his beautiful smile that you would die for. And even though you had his sweater with you , you felt cold . Cold and empty. 

Life is cruel. As soon as it gave him a second chance it snatched it away from him .

It’s too cold,
It’s too cold
The holes of my sweater
 


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The crossed ones tumblr didn’t let me tag . Sorry . 

anonymous asked:

wag tayong maglokohan. we know u voted for duterte because u believed that some people deserve to be killed. that makes u a monster, too

Wag tayong maglokohan. I wasn’t able to vote because I wasn’t in the town where I am registered as a voter during elections.
Most days I am annoyed with his impulsive words that are usually out of line.
Some days I agree with what he has to say and some days, I don’t.
I may have supported him at some point back then but only because I’ve seen what he has done for Davao city which I’ve been living in for more than 4 years already but it doesn’t mean I support all his acts, all his words, his principles, etc. I sometimes wish he would’ve just stayed there.

I still get to have a stand on what’s going on and what he is doing. But then again, he is the president. He knows some things we do not but does this excuse him from doing whatever he wants? Of course not. So if he thinks some people deserve to die in horrible ways we see in news does not mean I do, too.

You can support a person without having to agree with everything they think or do. This does not only go with politics, it’s for everyone.

I hate putting watermarks on my drawings but from now on I’ll do it so it as visible as possible cause HOLY SHIT I AM SO DONE of seeing my art edited and cropped and with absolute SHIT quality both on instagram and tumblr. I am tired of calling people out on it. I am done asking for credit nicely. So please, if you see my art uncredited or edited somewhere, please let me know so I can tell them to take the post down.

As usual people are leaving hateful comments and fighting on Seungri’s latest instagram post. So if you’re missing Seungri, or idk bored or something, maybe go leave a nice comment, or even just some hearts, to show support and drown out the haters

Rules - copy and paste this in to a new text post, delete my answers and put in yours. When you’re done, tag up to 10 people!

Tagged by the wonderful @halekingsourwolf of infinite wonderful headcanon giving! Seriously, the best headcanons. And rants.

A - Age: 27

B - Biggest fear: Sharks and failure.

C - Current time: 6:12pm when I started, but I’ve had beer and Chinese food in the process of finishing this.

D - Drink you had last: Concrete Dinosaur Brown Rye IPA, which I am currently drinking.

E - Every day starts with: Drinking coffee in the shower, because I always get up later than I intend to.

F - Favorite song: I’ve been really feeling Open Your Eyes by Starfucker

G - Ghosts, are they real: Depends on my proximity to places likely to have ghosts. The closer I am, the more definitely real they are, and they’re all coming to get me. 

H - Hometown: Ann Arbor, MI

I - In love with: The nachos at Wolverine State Brewery Tap Room.

J - Jealous of: Anyone who can afford to eat Wolverine nachos every day.

K - Killed someone: This sounds like a trap.

L - Last time you cried: Oooh god…maybe a funeral when I was in high school? I don’t cry often at all. Wait–I drunk cried when Allison died? It was St. Patrick’s Day, I was pretty drunk, I feel like that doesn’t really count.

M - Middle name: Super long, super Greek, super uncommon.

N - Number of siblings: 1.

O - One wish: Financial security and a husky. They’re a package deal, they count as one.

P - Person you last called/texted: Petals!

Q - Question you’re always asked: “What can I get you to drink?”

R - Reason to smile: Beer

S - Song last sang: One Too Many by Kaytranada. It’s been stuck in my head all day.

T - Time you woke up: 8.

U - Underwear color: Black, always.

V - Vacation destination: Italy or the UK, because I loved being there. Kind of feeling Iceland lately, for no actual reason. Maybe someday.

W - Worst habit: Crippling procrastination.

X - Xrays you’ve had: Just dental x-rays so far.

Y - Your favorite food: Pizza and a beer.

Z - Zodiac sign: Aries.

…I realize this makes me sound like an alcoholic who drinks constantly. I swear I’m not and I don’t.

I am going to tag @petals42, @wellhalesbells, @troubleiwant, @obroech, @mad-madam-m, @batwynn, @simling, @rhysiana, @rubyredhoodling

anonymous asked:

How would the paladins react if they were in walmart and asked their s/o what kind of chips they want and they yell back "I'm always a slut for Doritos!" (Sorry I'm a meme)

I am a meme as well, Doritos Slut Anon. Let’s be memes together.

Keith

  • This boi is honestly so confused on what you just said.
  • He’s not really into memes and people are just staring at him.
  • He just puts a bunch of Doritos in the shopping cart and just dashes to the checkout.
  • Once that’s done, he zooms past everyone just to hide in the car.
  • If Keith is asked what the most embarrassing part of his relationship is, it’s this.  

Lance 

  • He starts laughing at the response gaining a smile from you.
  • He knew this is what he was going to get from the start of this relationship and he never wants it to end.
  • He grabs about five bags of Doritos and continues calmly throughout the store. 
  • Went he meets up with you, an elderly lady asks why you are a “harlot for chips”.
  • When explaining she gets mad at such use of words, but Lance comes in to defend you.
  • The best relationship ever.

Pidge

  • She laughs it off, but people are staring at her and she’s uncomfortable.
  • This causes her to forget about her shopping and runs to you in the deli aisle. 
  • She’s shaking from the overwhelming state of attention and you can tell that she’s scared from being judged.
  • You thought it wasn’t a big deal, but you leave the store and comfort her about it.
  • She thinks badly about herself since she didn’t get your Doritos, but you assure her that it wasn’t more important than her mental health.  
  • You say that you can be a slut for Doritos another time.

Hunk

  • Hunk is a different story, I tell you.
  • He’s in a state of limbo, just trying to figure out why he’s dating you
  • He grabs your chips and when he catches up to you, but he sees you smile. Oh, he remembers.
  • You hug him dearly and thank him for going through what he did.
  • He just explains that he zones out and doesn’t really pay attention to what people say and that you’re the only important thing.

Shiro

  • He’s not having it. 
  • DAD MODE ACTIVATED
  • He simply leaves the cart in the middle of the aisle and tries to find you. 
  • He sees you eyeing the Oreo cookies, but all he does is just grab your wrist.
  • It’s scary how he’s not talking and your relationship looks like he’s your father in a very close age range.
  • Get in the car you’re grounded. And fucking watch your fucking profanity.
  • He let’s go of your wrist to let you get in the car.
  • NO DADDY SHIRO TONIGHT, ONLY DAD SHIRO

jilza963  asked:

So, I was rereading Queen of Shadows and found this bit in chapter 82 "His precious gift, his key, he had called her. A living gate, he promised. Soon, he had said he would add the other. And then find the third." "Kaltain Rompier unleashed her shadowfire upon them all ... The fire she had harbored since magic had returned—golden flame now turned to black." Could what happen to Kaltain happen to Aelin since Kaltain had fire magic? Would Aelin make herself the gate to banish Erawan?

Hey! Thank you for the ask buddy!! 

So, here’s the problem, I haven’t read EoS in a while, and because I joined tumblr after everyone was done talking about it, I don’t know any of the theories/ meta on the whole key/lock/gate word-salad thing that happens in EoS. BUT, I’m glad you brought this up because maybe some people can provide some handy links to some great meta that I am certain has been made on this topic because I easily get lost on all this stuff and I want to get it straight in my head too!

1. I forgot about that line about the “living gate”. They talk about the wyrdgate but I can’t remember a whole lot about what that meant. Does that mean that when a person is in possession of all three keys that they become the gate? I was never super clear on that. (this is what happens when you only listen to the audiobook on a series that is this dense, y’all)

2. I remembered the bit about how Kaltain’s power used to be golden, isn’t that why she was chosen by Erawan? Because she also had Brannon’s gifts and he wanted to pervert the powers that are capable of defeating him and use them for his own use? But her powers turned into shadow-fire due to her possession by a Valg prince I thought. So I think Kaltain is meant to be like the other side of the coin, like what would happen to Aelin if things went horribly, terribly wrong.

3. It was my understanding that Aelin’s purpose isn’t to be the gate, but the lock. She talks about getting the three keys and putting them in the gate, but again is that a person or a thing? Either way, her power and life force is meant to go into forging/ reforging the lock to seal the gate. But also, I’ve always thought that it wasn’t going to be just her anyway. She’s obviously not going to die, and there’s too much weight put on that moment in QoS when her and Dorian use magic together. But I think a third will be thrown in somehow-Manon. I just don’t know how. Because Manon is just as tangled in this mess (her valg blood, her birthright to break a curse, her and Aelin needed to use to witch mirror together, the eye of elena was/is a witch mirror, etc.) we’ve got a ‘threes’ thing going on. Three keys, three-faced goddess… 

three super convoluted points to this post that probably in no way answered your question I’m so sorry…

Because I’m tired and I am so done with folks (even cishet folks) talking about this only in respect to one collection of people:

LGBTQIA+ people are not the only people impacted by Tumblr’s “safe mode”. I can point to various communities of disabled minors who have lost access to all SFW informative content.

Not to mention the fact that the workarounds, which require mouse-clicking to “teach” Tumblr what posts are and aren’t safe, require more work from users just to access the same content they used to enjoy. It is inherently ableist to make disabled minors do more work to try and access the same content or disabled adults do more work to make that content accessible for disabled minors. Sadly, I’m used to seeing abled people not realise that increased amounts of mouse-clicking or tapping to see content (that used to be freely accessible) is an access issue, but as someone with chronic hand pain, I can assure you that it is.

I am so tired of seeing LGBTQIA+ folks talk as though this “safe mode” debacle only targets one vulnerable section of Tumblr’s user base. It doesn’t. It targets a lot of different minority groups who are now denied free access to information, and it’s extremely ableist on top of this already-ableist restriction in that their solution is to ask people to click more buttons just to see information or recategorise that same information so others can see it.

Please stop throwing other minorities under the bus in your complaints. Please remember that our minors, too, have been now denied the ability to fully participate in our communities.

Please stop ignoring the ableism in Tumblr’s “fix”, because that needs to be addressed by more than one or two disabled bloggers, and I’m yet to see more than a few people discuss it.

modern hogwarts houses - slytherin
  • highkey addicted to coffee. coffee is a slytherins life blood, especially during finals season. will drink iced coffee on the coldest winter days
  • prefer their coffee with sugar, but will easily drink any type of coffee to get the job done
  • swear more than a sailor
  • have two main outfit categories: absolute trash or all out. go big or go home bitch
  • makes new playlists, listens to only that playlist for weeks, gets sick of the playlist, makes another playlist, and repeats 
  • stays up till 2 am talking with their friends and then scolds their friends for being up so late
  • responding really harshly to something someone said in their mind and then watering it down before they say it out loud, but people usually still end up butthurt
  • then thinking “oh god imagine if i had actually said that out loud they would be crying”
  • reading, re reading, and re- re -reading the same book series over and over again because they find comfort and never get tired of it
  • almost always get what they want - at least from their parents.
  • will sense a parents mood, decide what would happen if they asked for what they wanted, and either proceed if they are certain they will get what they want, or they will wait until the time is right
  • strive for good grades 
  • fear their future will be hindered if they get bad grades
  • got in trouble a lot as a kid for fighting people who made them angry
  • still kinda gets in trouble oops
  • stares their ex- friend in the eyes and laughs
  • on the debate team
  • have a million ideas and thoughts running through their mind at all times
  • say “fight me” with no fear because they know they could probably make anyone in the room cry
  • say things like “look at the clouds!!! look at the sky!! this sunset!!!” all the time
  • major people watchers
  • usually take the lead in group situations because they can’t stand how slow people are going and they just want things to be done
  • have very little patience
  • major bitches but they don’t care
  • get emotional over dogs
  • hate being silenced and hates when people tell them not to interrupt because they are just trying to express their point of view
  • seem intimidating to some but will be your ride or die if you get close with them

anonymous asked:

I'm sorry to being up the discourse, feel free to not answer. I'm trying to explain to a friend how aerf is transphobic, but he won't listen. I've told him how, yes ace people go through a lot of shit, but it's not the same experience as the harasment/doxxing/murder/endless list of terrible things that are done to trans people by terfs. I thought hed take me seriously cause I'm ace and nb but apparently I'm "ignoring ace issues". What other arguments am I missing?

[DO NOT REBLOG]

You pretty much hit it on the head. The discussion of aphobia is a relatively new one, and “AERF”, regardless of anyones opinion on the discourse, is ahistorical and transmisogynistic. You can’t take a term that is firmly rooted in oppression of trans women and bastardize it to describe LGBT peoples’ opinions on having cishets in their spaces. ESPECIALLY taking a term stolen from trans women and applying it to trans women.

Also, it describes a specific movement of radical feminism. There is no large scale radical feminism movement trying to divorce cishet aces/aros from LGBT spaces. TERF history actually is connected with death. TERF history is connected with anti-trans legislature.

Anyone who uses the term “AERF” is a transmisogynist. Your friend is a transmisogynist. -Mod Dave

I was tagged by the sweet Roxy @larryiswhatilivefor … thank you so much!!!

Originally posted by soniamencarelli

RULES: Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours. When you are done, tag up to 10 people and also tag the person who tagged you… and most importantly, have fun!


a) Age: 29 ( and that is the age I am going to be staying for a long time lol.. yes I am not ready to hit the big 3-0)

b) Biggest fear: losing my mom or one of my siblings and clowns ( u have no idea how hard it was to even type that out.. i am deathly afraid of them)

c) Current time: 10:54am (central time)

d) Drink you last had: warm water with lime

e) Every day starts with: just hold on (cuz its my alarm tone lol)

Originally posted by quietasides

f) Favorite song atm: hmm good question.. actually thanks to @seasurfacefullofclouds.. I am currently obsessed with ‘Whatever Lola Wants’ by Sarah Vaughn

g) Ghosts, are they real?: hell to the yeah.. maybe not like ghosts per say but more like spirits. I have had my own experiences with the paranormal

h) Hometown: well originally I am from Edinburg, Tx but I have lived in GF, Ark for basically my whole life.. and they are both home tbh

i) In love with: Louis and socks and anything purple

j) Jealous of: anyone that is close to OT5 cuz I wanna be their BFF

k) Killed someone: literally.. no.. at least I dont think so lol… but in my head - yes.. yes I have

Originally posted by geekylaugifs

l) Last time you cried: umm yesterday.. I was watching a Ziam timeline video.. and it got to me

Originally posted by mybedisforharry

m) Middle name: Patricia - Paty for short

n) Number of siblings: I am the oldest of 6… 4 sisters and 1 brother

o) one wish: I wish I could be a mermaid..it’s been my one childish wish for so long lol

Originally posted by oceansprincess

p) Person you last called/texted: My mom actually.. she always sends me morning messages and I just responded back to hers

q) Questions you are always being asked: “why don’t you want to be a mother?”.. its apparently weird to be my age and still be single and not want any kids in my future

r) Reasons to smile: OT5, my siblings, my nephews, and my mutuals (also my girls from the GC)

Originally posted by harrywavycurly

s) Song last sung: does singing in your head count..? lol.. cuz the last song i listened to and was singing was Trumpets by Jason Derulo

t) Time you woke up: 5:31am

u) Underwear color: simple.. black

v) Verse from a song you like: well I just listened to Trumpets so right now.. its:

Is it weird that I hear
Angels every time that you moan?
Time that you moan
Is it weird that your eyes
Remind me of a Coldplay song?
Coldplay song

w) Worst habit: expect too much out of ppl - i get disappointed easily…also I am a huge procrastinator

x) X-rays you’ve had: for my abdomen area and teeth

y) Your favorite food: anything Mexican cuisine tbh and Italian .. ooh also a huge fan of American breakfast food… and hot Cheetos lol

z) Zodiac sign: Capricorn

Okay, so I am tagging: @niallloverontheloose @massivelydeepdreamland @klanefotop @seasurfacefullofclouds @boyfriend-shirt @liamtunnelvision @doesthelittleone @shiipertrashe @intrinsicsyn @louisprotectionsquad

and anyone else that is wanting to do this! Also if you don’t want to you don’t have to.. so no pressure!

zandalorscat  asked:

I decided to give Critical Role a go because you kept posting about it. Less than a year later, I'm almost caught up and I have had so much fun watching these nerdy-ass voiceactors, holy shit. Also, I've learned how to play DnD. I'm having a blast playing my very first character in a group of really nice people. In conclusion, your blog has done wonderful things and you are awesome and I hope you have a great day.

Hey! My day has been super fab! 

Critrole has done a lot of the same things for me and I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOUVE HAD FUN AND LEARNED HOW TO PLAY D&D! That’s awesome buddy!! Keep doing the rad things you’re doing :D

anonymous asked:

Hey! I am very pleased to see that you ask for permission before reposting people's artwork on tumblr. It's quite refreshing thing to see <33

Thank you very much. I take that quite seriously since the art is not mine and I have no say in what can be done with it. 

I hope it gives everyone some security in what they find on my blog, from myself to my followers to the wonderful artists who allow me to share their works.

A meme!

Tagged by @aragarna :-) thank you!

Rules - copy and paste this in to a new text post, delete my answers and put in yours. when you’re done, tag up to 10 people!

A - Age: no matter how much this website tries to get me to confess to how old I am, it’s never going to happen. I think I put in 94 when I signed up for tumblr though, so I’m technically ancient and you can call me your friendly fandom grandma.
B - Biggest fear: currently worried about my parents, also I can swim really well and I love the beach and sea but I have this irrational fear of tsunamis.
C - Current time: 9:23 pm 
D - Drink you had last: water
E - Every day starts with: me groaning, pushing my floof’s furry head away from my face, and wishing I could go the fuck back to sleep
F - Favorite song: ??…????…?? the poi soundtrack. does that count?
G - Ghosts, are they real: I’d prob be haunted by one if they were lbr
H - Hometown: some place on the Eastern coast of the US
I - In love with: my floof, my neighbour’s floof, that random floof walking down the road, also person of interest
J - Jealous of: …shows that haven’t been canceled that aren’t POI
K - Killed someone: I’m feeling the strong urge to backtrack through this meme and see who has answered ‘yes’ to this question, but no I have not personally killed anyone (yet)
L - Last time you cried: I got really emotional over the Return 0 anniversary a few days back, didn’t quite cry but my bottom lip was def trembling 
M - Middle name: a foreign concept 
N - Number of siblings: zero 
O - One wish: murder everyone who hurts innocent animals
P - Person you last called/texted: mom and dad
Q - Question you’re always asked: awww can I pet him? (referring to my floof obvs)
R - Reason to smile: I have a new job! 
S - Song last sang: this land is my land…
T - Time you woke up: 8:00 am
U - Underwear color: a light blue with flowers on it (and yes I will share underwear colours with y’all but not my age, deal with it!)
V - Vacation destination: Maldives – it’s gorgeous!
W - Worst habit: extreme sarcasm even when it’s not strictly appropriate
X - Xrays you’ve had: teeth, left leg, right hand (the last two to check if they were broken, I was a wild child)
Y - Your favorite food: red velvet cheesecake mmmmmmmm
Z - Zodiac sign: the bull. I think. I’m never quite sure tbh.

tagging @bad-code-root @singingsweetyorange @samgrove-s @pota-totoo @nightwolfslair @xlostlenore @presumenothing @machinesroot @carolineaquino73 @rising-from-ashes (the first ten people off my activity page at the moment!)

~.~

I sent friend requests on discord to people whose codes worked… if you didn’t get one, then please message me with your username and four digit number… please accept these requests, so I can add you to the chats!

I also apologize for being slow with requests; I’ve been working on ~something special~ But I am getting all of the writing done! I will probably post most of them together today-early Saturday… Thank you for your patience, and I hope you all are okay!

I WAS TAGGED BY MY BETIS, @daisieslouis AND @lionheartlouist , love you sweethearts so much!!!

RULES: Copy this post into a new text post, remove my answers and put in yours. When you are done, tag up to 10 people and also tag the person who tagged you… and most importantly, have fun!

a) Age: 17 (well 16, going on 17 BUT SHUSH LEMME BE DELUSIONAL)
b) Biggest fear: this world running out of chocolate (and being hated on)
c) Current time: 7:16 pm (edit, i FINISHED it at 8:59 bec i had to go somewhere woops)
d) Drink you last had: tea, with milk and 1.25 spoons of sugar (the perfect cuppa)
e) Every day starts with: waking up ._. duh? (in all seriousness, it starts with checking my phone and replying to my messages)
f) Favourite song atm: gimme! gimme! gimme! by ABBA (guilty pleasure okay fuck off)
g) Ghosts, are they real?: as an intellectual alien, i can confirm i have a few ghost friends myself.
h) Hometown: quoting @lionheartlouist , “mumbai meri jaan” :D
i) In love with: nutella and louis tomlinson
j) Jealous of: harry styles (bec he is literally married to an angel)
k) Killed someone: in my head? HECK YEAH! in real? not really but @daisieslouis I can make people disappear ;) if you get what im saying
l) Last time you cried: dont remember. too long ago.
m) Middle name: my dad’s name but i aint letting it out hehe
n) Number of siblings: 1 older brother
o) one wish: i have something planned for my future, and my one wish is just hoping and praying it happens.
p) Person you last called/texted: if you’re asking the ones that are on tumblr, then it’s 2 people actually, @harryspdf (talking about our chaxiversary ofc), and @justanothercrazypenguin (bec i talk to this babe everyday of my life)
q) Questions you are always being asked: “Why dont you have a boyfriend?” like lmao chill my life doesnt revolve around being in a relationship
r) Reasons to smile: one direction, ryan higa, @justanothercrazypenguin (and loreen) and of course, chocolate.
s) Song last sung: still got time by zayn
t) Time you woke up: 8:30am
u) Underwear colour: white with tiny pretty purple roses
v) Verse from a song you like: “Sorry love, but i don’t really care…” from Happily, and ik this isnt a verse but i love this lyric the most.
w) Worst habit: getting attached too easily (record time=2days of constant texting), and caring too much about people’s opinions on me. (hoping to pull a harry styles one day and transition into worrying about being judged to flaunting all i have)
x) X-rays you’ve had: just tooth x-rays
y) Your favourite food: anything spicy is probably my favourite (frankies, spicy burgers, SPICY CHICKEN WINGS!…im hungry now…brb)
z) Zodiac sign: Virgo (and unbiased-ly my favourite)

i tag some of my favourite people:

@justanothercrazypenguin
@oliviatracknine
@mistreated-hallways
@iicflarrie
@statuesquecurls
@kiwiau
@twoghostsau
@theimpalasdoctorin221b
@fetuslarry28
@pezzles17

(too bad if you’ve been tagged before, bec i know most of the ot14 gang were probably tagged by someone else before me, but oh well…AND YOU DONT HAVE TO DO THIS IF YOU DONT LIKE IT OR ARE TOO LAZY, bec tbfh i can relate)​

(and ik im a little slow but i was busy making all the things bold, and italicising the right parts, and tagging the right people. it took time to make this look decent okay stop judging me)

anonymous asked:

how do you feel about the idea of nonnatives creating two spirit characters?

i personally am totally for it, i see it the same way as a straight person making a gay character, as long as its done respectfully, theres no harm done

would i like for all two-spirited characters to be made my people that are themselves?? ideally, yes because that would lower the chances of it being bad representation, however i do realize that, just in general, a lot of representation wouldnt exist if people were only allowed to make characters that are like themselves

some general tips i can give is to not write about two-spirit experiences and ask several people for advice to make sure you arent doing anything bad and make sure the people youre asking are actually okay with giving you advice, these are general tips for when youre writing outside of your own experiences so these are really vague, i will put out there that, at this moment, i am open to giving advice personally for writing characters that are two-spirit, though my experiences are my own and shouldnt be treated as if how i feel is 100% correct which is why i said you should ask several people