HERE IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SORRY IT TOOK SO LONG I HAVE BEEN VERY SIDETRACKED, BUT HERE IT IS NOW AND I HOPE YOU ENJOY IT. TELL ME WHAT YOU THOUGHT.
ALSO I AM ALWAYS LOOKING TO MAKE NEW FRIENDS SO DONT HESITATE TO MESSAGE ME AND AS ALWAYS MY REQUEST BOX IS OPEN.
JB: married life with Jaebum in my opinion would be very domestic. Dinner together every night, or as many nights as he can. Breakfast together at the dining table, date nights on the weekends, buying furniture and going grocery shopping together JB strikes me as someone who would kill for all those marriage life he sees on TV. He strikes me as someone who wants the normal stuff and enjoys it. Cooking together and sleeping in each other’s arms every night, he would want it all.
Mark: married life with mark, my lord I can picture it already (*cough* not my bias or anything *cough *) married life with mark would be serene and peaceful. He would want to pamper and take care of his lovely wife, little surprises here and there, cooking for her, drawing her a bath. But also it would be water gun fights in the house and pushing her in the pool. Dragging her out to a different adventure every time. Raising coco together and maybe get another dog.
Jinyoung: married life with Jinyoung would be very romantic and domestic, kind of like JB. He seems very traditional and it feels like his married life would be the same. Date night, romantic dinner in candlelight, cheesy romantic gestures, rose petals on the bed with candles all around when he forgot an anniversary or a date. Drawing you a bubble bath and joining you to give you a massage when you tell him you had a long day. Overall romantic and traditional.
Jackson: this man was made to be a husband (*cough * right Lisa @jisawang *cough *) he would be the protective kind. Always making sure his wife was okay and healthy and would pamper her every chance he got, which would end up being every other day. He would try to rope her into his workout sessions, which all depending on his S/O would be either very easy or very hard. He would want to have romantic nights making sure you know how much he loves you *wink wink * and other times he would come home frustrated and just pin you to the wall. Married life with Jackson will be praises and adoration from him and from you, reminding him of what a beautiful talented man he is whenever he starts doubting.
Youngjae: oh my sweet sweet child, my little sunshine. Married life would be just that; sunshine. Everyday would be so bright and joyful he would make sure you are always happy and smiling. (Which would be hard not to cause that angels smile would be contagious.) He would be so caring and attentive to you. He would want to sing you to sleep to you every night or really every chance he got. Cooking in the kitchen; sing, cleaning the house; sing, taking a shower; sing. You would be blessed with that boys vocals everyday. He would probably get a dog in the first few months of your married life, if you didn’t have one already. He would be very playful, going out to the park, the beach, the pool, amusement park you name it, if you can play and have maximum fun, you bet your ass you are doing it. I just love that boy so much, CHERISH HIM!
Bambam: okay dabdab. Dear lord I hope you like memes. That boy would want you guys to always be trendy. Follow every new Internet trend, fashion trend, food trend; you name it, if its top 10 you are making your life about it. He is a fashionista so life with him would always be fashionable. He will probably drag you shopping every week, so if you don’t like shopping like myself, brace yourselves, and learn to love it cause its gonna be a big part of your life. He would be very playful, cracking jokes, playing pranks, teasing. Your house life wouldn’t be domestic per say but it will never be boring. You would be in bed getting ready to sleep and end up both laughing so hard you have tears running down your face. Bambam would always make sure you were happy, and would find a way to make it up to you if you had a fight or forgot a date. Married life with Bambam would be silly jokes and all the trends he can find and a lot of laughs, there will never be a dull moment.
Yugyeom: okay this little bunny, this sinful bunny am I right ladies no? Okay lets just get right to it. Married life with this bun would be giggly, let me explain. This boy is pretty much shy no matter what he lets on, on stage. So even though you guys would be married it would be whole new experience for him. Even if you have been living together prior, for him it will feel like the first time all over again. He is gonna be excited for everything with you. Late nights of him showing you a new choreography, boasting to his hyungs when you make him lunch, eating breakfast together and supper would be the things he will be very serious about. Spending as much time as possible with each other and making sure you are eating. He would be a flirt, now when I say flirt I mean just with you. He would flirt just like the very first day he met you. He would feel excited about getting into the domestic life and would be extra on all those ordinary things married couples do. Married life with Yugyeom will be somewhat innocent and pure but also exciting and safe. You will never feel insecure or unstable cause he will make sure of it. *whispers * protect him*
Can you suggest to me some j-pop boy groups please? I'm new to jpop! (:
Of course anon! Firstly, I’d recommend checking out all the johnny’s groups, it’s an all-male company and their groups have the most subbed content if you need that when watching shows. The currently active Johnny’s groups are: Hey! Say! JUMP, Sexy Zone, Kanjani8, Arashi, KAT-TUN, V6, KinKi Kids, NEWS, A.B.C-Z, Kis-My-Ft2, Tackey & Tsubasa, TOKIO, and Johnny’s WEST. There are also Johnny’s Juniors which are the companies trainees, they’re great and the fetus trainees are super cute.
Besides Johnny’s I’d recommend Da-iCE, Boys and Men, W-inds, X4, EXILE, MADKID, IVVY, Flowback, and EBiDAN groups (Choutokkyuu, Dish//, PrizmaX, CustomiZ, SUPER★DRAGON, and M!LK)
1. We’ve been trying to do that for years. 2. We have the game. 3. Is that typical? 4. We have revised our strategy. 5. I can always tell. 6. Can you close your eyes? 7. It’s getting worse. 8. I want to keep them close. 9. I wasn’t that lucky. 10. You’re not wise enough.
Hello! I'm planning to fight all the Malevolent Crucibles in Zestiria for the achievement. May I ask for advice on what skills I should aim to put in my equipment? Advice for each characters would be great, but a general advice is also good! Thank you in advance!
Sorry for the super late reply anon! I got busy, then sick with food poisoning, then had to rush to finish Berseria (not quite there yet) but I didn’t want to keep you waiting any longer so here goes:
How hard the crucibles are to clear depends on your level. The higher the level, the better your stats and equipment and the more artes you have, so it’s a little bit easier. (General advice and more under the cut, this thing got long):
Part of me still thinks this could be an elaborate hoax. It’s so over the top. Right-wing Christian organizations drive a bright orange bus down the east coast insisting that there are only two possible options for gender identity (and only two combinations for chromosomes)? Their writing their own parody! Are we supposed to take this seriously?
Well, yes. And I’ll tell you why. I know @buzzfeed isn’t always a destination for serious news (no offense, Buzz), but this quote is pretty serious:
“This is not about live-and-let-live,” he added, saying transgender people pose an threat to norms of sex and procreation. “This is about what is best for the common welfare of society.”
This, this heterosexual agenda, isn’t about live-and-let-live. Dreadful. But not a shocker. In fact, this echoes something my mom said to me over Thanksgiving , after calling my transness “delusion.”
“I think you and I have different ways of viewing the world,” she said.
I asked: “Do you think that gives you the right to call me delusional?”
“Yes,” she answered. “Because I believe my way is the right way.”
My mom is a devout Christian. She doesn’t support hate or murder. Still, her perspective and the #freespeechbus share the belief that trans people are wrong, and they can’t be allowed to “live-and-let-live.” Boil that down, and it sounds a lot like trans people can’t live.
On the one hand, this “free speech” bus is just a publicity stunt. They want to provoke a reaction. Unfortunately, my mom already did that a few months ago. So did my dad, and my brother and my coworkers and my friends on Facebook. The belief that trans people are under a delusion is not radical or new or unheard-of. I’ve heard this all before, and I’m already pissed about it.
I just hope that having to see the free speech bus does for the majority of Americans what my mother’s comments did for me.
We catch up in person, I really want to ask her about her romance life but she has little to tell. “The guy I met, Arturo, he seems like a pretty good guy! He doesn’t have the best of jobs so I don’t know how mother would judge him.” I tell her.
“Oh, don’t worry about her! You always did put too much weight in the things she says!” She always was the rebellious one!
Tst, I want to say thank you for giving us such a wonderful fic. You're an inspiration and I can't begin to tell you how happy it always made me to see that CobC had updated, or to see some really cool art inspired by it. Thank you for taking the time to write this fic! You can definetly count of at least one person (that's me!) purchasing your book whenever it's finished! And, just as a side note, will we possibly in the future, see more undertale fanfiction not related to CobC?
So, I just got hired at a brand new! very time consuming! job! So, nah, I have no time to design a whole new story that isn’t, you know…. The Duke. And because I’m a dickhole who always bites off more than she can do, Monday Evening Dungeons, which is like Friday Night Lights but instead me and Wrex and some pals doing a D&D adventure on mondays and also it’s nothing like Friday Night Lights.
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used to love Naruto and my writing style as it is now, lyrical and introspective, became apparent/started existing around the time I wrote my ‘big story’ for that fandom.
I ship one ship at a time, always, not for ride-or-die-otp reasons, but because of obsessive reasons: I literally cannot think about more than one thing at a time, because my mind automatically redirects every bit of creative effort towards this thing that I am passionate about right this moment.
Which is why, usually, when I leave a fandom, I do so for good. But that only happens once I find something else to love just as much, and not spontaneously.
Spring is the hardest part of the year for me, always, which is disconcerting because I love spring, its so beautiful – I love flowers, I love the green, the renewal - but my brain doesn’t rly give a shit about any of that and just wants to shut me down.
I had a very… classical upbringing, I think. Piano classes, art classes, classic musical left and right, poetry, mythology books etc.
I had a goth phase! Yes, I did lmao. Or was it called Emo phase? Idk. But it involved a lt of black clothes (which I still wear), thousand bracelets, the necklaces and all the works, even the dark and unrelenting makeup sometimes. The hard rock music (lmao which I still love), the un-dealt with anger silently feeding my depression before I even knew what that was, was not so much fun however.
I am an excellent liar – or so evidence would suggest - and I hate that about myself more than almost anything.
I am empathetic and more times than not I can understand where people are coming from and why they are saying what they are saying, but that has a ‘dark side’ so to speak, which I hate. Meaning that I know where people are coming from and my brain usually informs me of all the ways this person can be manipulated and what could be said to hurt them the most because I know where it hurts. Which creeps me the fuck out and I never do (more or less…), but it enrages me seeing other people do exactly that without the slightest awareness.
I could see every person that ever abused a child dead, and never feel bad about it. That is not a metaphor or exaggeration. I would smile upon the sight of their graves.
I LOVE FOOD! I love cooking – it’s the one thing that truly manages to stave off my anxiety. But mostly I love food and I love eating.
Im the nicest, most breathtakingly-rage filled ball of randomness and anxiety you will ever meet,
Last night on librarian Facebook, I asked a question about keeping sane and grounded in the present when you’re always planning ahead.
Here are some responses I got:
Tell me if you find out!! I barely know what month it is! (Some variation on this is the most popular response)
Bullet journaling (the modern panacea)
Make sure you’re taking time to connect with the seasons, even though sometimes you’re planning for winter in June.
Try not to bring your work home with you
Use a calendar book to plan ahead.
You get better with practice
Very long, well-meaning post, including anecdotes and stuff they’re planning, that despite being an opportunity where I feel confident that I could go to this woman for advice with organizing my department… is the same as “use a calendar book to plan ahead.”
The posts that completely bypassed the question to give me organizational advice have me shaking my head, man. I DID make the mistake of my initial question being too long, so of course not everyone is going to read it. But I did repeat the question twice within the text.
But how can saying “use a calendar book” to someone who started with the line “I’ve been running a reference department for 6 months straight out of school” be anything but insulting?
On the other hand, I suppose what I could take away from it is that these women think they have they shit together but are so stuck in planning-ahead mode they don’t even realize that planning isn’t the cure for everything. Which is either a stunning view of my future or a cautionary tale.
Someone recently bought something from me and asked how long the item gonna reach their place and if I offer express shipping. I said no and it might take 1-2 weeks to reach their place.
They were shocked and asked where the hell I live. I told them the answer and that they should’ve known that if they check my store FAQ carefully. I ended up getting lectured that my reply was ‘curt’ and that they’re a busy person and have 5 children with a husband working for Disney and I’m just ??????