i'm so scared of sexuality and relationship.I'm 15 and all my friends have/had a boyfriend.I feel so alone because i don't really like how relationship works like send good morning text,doing photos togheter...i don't like that.Also i think i'm asexual and that makes it even harder because i never had a partner so i can't confirm?This is all anxiety fault but i'll be glad if someone could help me .
Hiii darling 🌷 I want you to know that everything you’re experiencing is very common, especially for teens. We just don’t talk about these things nearly enough!
The truth is the majority of people actually stay single throughout school, and even stay single into their late 20′s. I truly admire you for sticking to your genuine beliefs despite all of the pressures there are to be in relationships and to have sex. It’s even more difficult at a young age. Try to ignore what everyone else is doing. If you don’t want to be in a relationship, it’s more than okay to stay single and be happy with being single !! Romantic relationships are not the epitome of love.
You may not have been in a relationship before, but your feelings of asexuality are still completely valid. Being unsure of your sexuality is another common struggle. It’s human to want to know who we are and where we fit in. The reality is it takes time and patience to discover ourselves. Another common experience is that your identity may change over time.
It took me years to find clarity about my own sexuality because I was questioning for so long. And that’s okay !! We are all continuously growing and learning. Above all I want you to remember that there is absolutely no rush, and your identity is your decision. 🌈✨