i actually dont know if i like it or no

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anonymous asked:

4years ago I realized I was bi&I recently came out2my mom. Shes been accepting of me except every time I bring it up she says that 1day ill "choose a side" I know thats wrong&being bi is valid but lately Ive started 2 realize that I have a preference 4girls & I havent been attracted to guys in a while. im starting2question if i might actually be a lesbian? Im really confused bcos i WAS bi when I came out but now Im not sure &I dont want2say anything bcos i feel like ill just b proving her right

hi anon!

well, for one, thats really rude of your mom to say that. 

secondly, youre not proving her right or anything of the sort. There are lesbians who used to ID as bi and knew at that point that they were bi. That doesn’t make you any less of a lesbian nor does it mean bi people are any less bi. 

(also, its your decision to whether you want to bring it up to her again, but youre not “proving her right”. youre simply being yourself after all, and that has nothing to do with any other bi person on this earth)

- mod amara

Antis in voltron fandom is wild

I’m not in the fandom but everyone that hasn’t seen voltron know the fandom is toxic like steven universe fandom 2.0 maybe even worse.  I never seen anything good from the fandom main thing I see has the biggest controversy is the charcaters ages.  So far the charcater don’t have a confirmed age rather just a gauging of it 16/17-20. Even creators and  writers dont seem to have actual canon ages for them i dont think. But the creators are find with how people ship or headcanon them. I’m pretty sure the creators support most if not all ships in voltron. But of course antis start throwing buzzwords at them and just being annyoing screaming at them HOW OLD ARE THEY SAY IT AGAIN. Like calm your ass down its a cartoon in space where 5 people form a giant robot. 

But here’s how wild they are and stupid ( most are young so may they can grow out of it) You got antis telling people to kill theirselves cause they think shiro and keith could be a cute couple. Other antis glossing over the fact someone just said this person needs to die but nah comment on how the ship is bad -_-. It not shocking knowing antis think bullying, suicide baiting, send gore, irl chid porn is okay but nah a ship of of 2 people with an age gap is worse thing.  Antis dont care about surviors they care about theirselves and fictional charcaters to the point they are more important than a human life. I mean they sent child porn this is coming from a group that hates pedophilles and wants to PROTECT THE CHILDREN uwu. Or Shiro is 25 and keith is 17 he’s keith father???. Antis say they care for survivors but they mean survivors that agree with them not the ones telling them to stop cause antis remind other survivors of their abusers. Cope in private, find another way to cope, what part of nobody is the same you dont understand. Antis have such a black and white mindset its scary and if your part of FICTION IS REALITY get help! Antis honest to god think these characters belong to them and should be written this way or else. Also antis stop getting mad at what strangers do with fiction, they didnt hurt you, YOUR ABUSER did. 

Im sorry at all the shippers and fans that just want to have fun and gasp* do what fandoms are suppose to be fun making content of the charcaters you love. But sadly its hard to do that without an anti stalking the tags and blogs. Sorry  show i heard that is pretty good its get tanked by toxic people 

anonymous asked:

mon el makes me uncomfortable bc its showing how verbally abusive he is like my dad so wow watching a tv show that i loved and have a character whos deadass abusive as fuck is actually triggering haha

i know a lot of people have stopped watching because of that and i definitely dont blame them. im this 👌 close to not continuing to watch the show too

anonymous asked:

imagine being so obsessed with being so negative over nitpicks about a cartoon that you cause actual damage to the mental health of other people bc thats every su critical blog i cant imagine that kind of life it sounds awful. who hurt you?

its not my fault that people dont know how to not post in/look at the su critical tag or use xkit to block posts with the word “su critical” in them.. whose mental health have i hurt? i literally tell people that it’s okay to like su and that media criticism has been a thing since the dawn of time. i just personally dont like all these things about it and that’s fine. what used to be criticism written in papers by critics of fine art and plays is now people on the internet expressing their opinions about tv shows and movies and that’s perfectly fine! I can’t imagine anyone back in the days of kandinsky’s avant-garde art, crytyping in a letter to the editor about how the thing they said about composition no 7 was very mean and harming people’s mental health and art is very hard for this professional artist. this is literally the same thing on a more accessible level.

i really think we aren’t hurting anyone, we arent oppressing anyone; if anything a lot of us are oppressed. lots of su criticals call out racism in the show bc they are poc. im studying to make movies and comics in school so im going to call out bad storytelling, and im an artist so im gonna call out bad art. devon writes, so he is going to notice bad narrative decisions. so it goes.

n yeah i was abused as a child which is why i…call out child abuse in this show…which i used to love…like…yes i was hurt? I don’t want people or kids thinking that’s okay and if you make fun of that then youre fucked up. pointing out pearl trying to murder steven is not nitpicking, it’s showing how this show that used to Comfort me is now kind of scary for me.

imagine not being able to take criticism about something that doesnt even affect you though lol

anonymous asked:

random, i know and i don't know if you can relate. but, i've been playing the sims literally all day in the dungeon of my room and i just went downstairs for the first time in forever and it's kinda dark and i screamed because i thought i saw a slug on the floor, but it was actually an ice cube. i feel like ea should have a warning on their game, like, instead of don't drink and drive, "don't sim and life. happy simming. :))" it's been a long day, i apologize if this is a waste of text.

DONT SIM AND LIFE sjdvnlfkqdw;asnlvdkm;w

whenever i finish playing i feel like im a gremlin coming into the light bc time goes by so quickly and suddenly its midnight ack!

anonymous asked:

hi you'll have to forgive me if u have ever done any but have u ever considered doing serious film reviews on letterboxd? not that yours arent already good and all bc i love the jokes but i would rlly like to hear what u actually liked abt a movie, y'know? u come off as having seen so, so many movies that there's no way u dont have thoughts that dont expand past a joke, y'know? idk. i would just really like to hear ur thoughts on movies more often on there

this is a really true point to make hshsjdjskdh. i have done serious reviews, but only a few times. the truth is that about half of the time i finish a movie i have absolutely nothing deep to say about it? like, many movies are just ok, and i don’t love them or hate them and therefore don’t have much to say, and that’s kind of where my one liner joke reviews came from. plus i prefer discussing movies, especially among friends, rather than just writing paragraphs on what i personally thought. i’d be happy to talk in depth about movies when i get asked on here though!

bulk

–mod–

You know how it goes 

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Anon: 
Am i the only one that actually dont believe that they are dating? There is none proof that they are dating or in a relationship , in fact i think Diane is behind this , im sure there have been “ ilove you” text around those 2. And dont you think she will be seen at all the events he went in 2016? Steve’s wedding , the concerts , and traveling with him (ofcourse except the Paris thing) . Like Mod said and what i also believe , they prob just friends with benefits 😉




Anon: 
Sorry to bother you but is NR and DK “dating thing” official or not? This situation is such a mess that I can’t understand anything 😂😂😂
–mod–
Right now it’s still just rumor and speculation

 


Anon: 
OMG MOD! So it was all about publicity wasn’t it??? She did that to get her name out there for Oscar weekend. I feel so much better now. They can’t state a denial and then be caught again or it would look HELLA bad

Anon: 
i think that i’m just sad because he isn’t single anymore ahahahah is that bad?
–mod–
Not at all



Anon: 
I don’t understand how they could be together. She embodies everything he hates (glitz glamour hollywood) She also screws with his fans worse than CS. Are they really going to go walking around holding hands like she did with JJ? He doesn’t do that shit. And what about attending award shows? Are we gonna have to see her stupid face every time he goes somewhere? I think I quit. If he’s with HER, he’s exactly the person he said he wasn’t. I so hope it’s not true

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Anon: 
Holy Heck, at this point I don’t think a denial would even do much. Consider that when that old EK story broke in TMZ and People he denied it by then, but there are still fans who believe they were (or are!) together even though she hasn’t been in GA in two yes and has a long term bf. On NR’s newest post are some comments to “pls clear up the DK rumor and admit you’re still with EK”. Like…what? More ppl follow tabloid gossip than follow NR’s IG I guess. 



Anon: 
Do you think Norman even knows or cares about disappointed and sad maybe even disgusted fans? Seems like the majority of them don’t care when you read through the comments on his ig picture. i kinda wish he’d get more backlash.
– mod–
He is filming right now and being down or whatever doesn’t make for a good show



Anon: 
I think as fans we put Norman on a pedestal and expect more from him than a non celebrity. Yes he spoke of his dislike of cheating but no one likes to be cheated on. If the rumors are true he was on the other side of the fence this time and might have felt different. But he ain’t no saint! He’s just a dude. I’m not condoning his actions either way and DK has a history of being vile, but that doesn’t seem to matter until it does. If ur taking this personally, take a breather. Its not gonna last

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Anon: 
nurseyanon: I don’t care/never have about Norm and DK. It’s not like we’re engaged or anything…I do have a date every Sunday night (when I’m not working and saving lives that is!) to watch him and my beloved Crazy Rick kick ass. I don’t know what Norm is like in real life, I DO NOT plan to attend a con or a cruise to meet him, I certainly am not going out of my way. I confess an attraction to Negan, or JDM, or sorta kinda both???

 
 

Anon: 
With all the kindness and consideration he’s shown over the years he deserves better fans than this. Choosing between the actor who’s Skyped with dying kids or people being cruel on the internet I’m going to stick with NR being the person I continue to prefer. No one is speaking for me when they say he’s let fans down or owes us explanations. I’m not upset whether its true or not and he owes me exactly nothing. I’m ashamed by some of the behavior I’m seeing directed at him. 



Anon: 
That Norman or his reps didn’t come out as of yet tells EVERYTHING. He denied the Emily rumors years back immediately. The rumors with DK are going on since almost a year now and he still didn’t say anything. Disgusting, gross and ridiculous! Makes him look like he’s got no balls and is such a wimp if he can’t even admit it. I hope he gets backlash, I get why fans are hella disgusted and disappointed in him. Seems like he’s definitely not the man he claims to be. And that is disappointing.



Anon: 
Honestly: that neither Norman nor his reps said anything or denied the DK thing yet says it all. He denied the EK rumors within 2 hours and even made fun of it. He went all silent now and doesn’t say anything at all. Actions are sometimes more proof than words. They are dating if you want to admit it or not. I for me lost all my respect for the man and it’s not about being jealous. It’s because he claimed to love honesty yet he looks like a big liar and fool. 




Always-hopeful:
Mod I know I’m late to the party but I just woke up, checked the news, and I have to say I’m stoked that it looks like Norman might be finding love again! And who really knows what he and DK are like, they might be very good for one another, who knows! And as for people who are upset because he “lied?” How’d he do that exactly? I’d want to tell those people to not judge unless they’ve walked a mile in his (or her) shoes. That’s all I want for him (and told him so at WS ATL), peace & happiness.

 

Anon: 
My God.I don’t know what the hell to think.I have always adored Norman and the way he brings Daryl to life.He seems to be such a captivating,interesting person.I want to be on his side still,but the rumours leave a bad taste in my mouth,I can’t help.There is so much confusion,nothing fits together.For all we know he could have simply driven her home because she had all these bags.But the rumours just won’t die. And he should be smart enough by now to avoid her.Why does he allow her to do this?

–mod–why do any of us keep the company we do. It’s all rumors at this point so maybe wait and see what happens in the coming days and weeks.






Anon: 
Also notice how Norman stopped liking DK’s pics on IG. Probably because he was with her all the time. He also didn’t go back to NYC THAT often before in between filming last year. He did it to see her, come on. It grosses the hell out of me to just think about it. He’s such a good actor, making himself look like he’s an honest man yet he’s the opposite.




Anon: 
Hey Mod, I just saw all the talk, is it true or just another rumor? How come these pics always come out right when there’s something she’s doing that she wants attention for?
–mod–
Right now just rumors. No ideas why they dropped on Friday when they were taken days before.





Anon:
Do you know if Norman is currently getting a lot of hate for the shit he did or not? I don’t follow Norman blogs on Twitter or Tumblr/IG so I don’t see anything. Would like to know if people are more disgusted or happy for him. I can’t believe one could be happy with what he did, lying and probably cheating like how can one support his behavior? Nothing to be proud of. So anyone knows what the majority of his fans think?
–mod–
He’s getting both. I think he’s fans are divided into like 3 groups those that hate it, those that approve and those that don’t care.




Anon: 
Nothing makes sense Mod. If this was supposed to be him coming out w/ her, (since the pics were obvs set up), then why didn’t he do it on Valentine’s Day instead of leaving a day early /ignoring it? &why did he go out w/ Jarah to bury the rumor if he was still gonna come out w/ DK a month later? If it’s true it looks SO much worse now b/c he went out of his way to hide it again even after ppl were talking about Paris. So it looks like he lied twice. Either it’s not true or he’s REALLY stupid.


–mod–

No those were pap shots. Those aren’t they type of shots you get for “coming out”

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Anon: 
One question: were the pictures taken in Norman’s NYC garage or upstate. If it was upstate she might’ve helped him with stuff since he’s going to move there. I don’t believe it myself but it could be just helping a friend. If it was in his NYC garage it’s kinda weird. They unloaded a whole lot of stuff, even cartons. Looks even a bit as if it might be her stuff and she moved to his appartment? Can someone help me out, I’m lost. Because to me it doesn’t look like just stuff from a shopping trip?
– mod–
It was taken somewhere in NYC, so not upstate. His place in NYC doesn’t have a garage. Side note he’s not moving permanently upstate. That home is already set up.

 


Anon: 
Total speculation but I can’t help but think that when NR was with HC over the holidays maybe she warned him about DK’s..love of tabloids and to steer clear if they were just friends, fwb or exes? Now, even if she set it up, he was physically in her parking garage just last weekend. Its not like it was a random super old pic her people gave to DM/TMZ. It’s new. So as crappy as it is for him to be set up I can’t be sympathetic because, how could he not see this coming?




Anon: 
I guess for me I am just really having a hard time understanding why someone would want to keep their relationship so secretive. If they are dating. Unless the cheating rumors are true and they don’t want anyone to know. I would think if you love someone you would want everyone to know. The possible cheating is the worst part for me. I guess if the cheating rumors wind up being true then it will make me see him in a different light. I am definitely still a fan of his movies and TV shows.
–mod–
Again at this point it’s speculation at minimum they are friends. So we just have to wait and see how things go from here 




Anon: 
So people are just going to ignore all the good things Norman has done? He’s seen with another female and doing things what friends do and now he’s the devil. People need to stay the fuck out of his personal life and stop acting like 13 year olds. He isn’t some band member. Chill out.




Anon: 
It used to be DK deleted every comment about Norman on her IG posts but now she is only deleting the negative ones. She’s keeping the comments that say they make a good couple and all that. I’m taking that as a confirmation to be honest.



Anon: 
Is it official that norman and diane are dating or in relation?
–mod–
Nope





Anon: 
Do you think it’s all true Mod? I was so excited for RIDE now I don’t even care. It’s like he’s not the same as we thought he was.


–mod–
I don’t think it’s true. Even if it was it doesn’t really bother me.

 



Anon: 
So I’m annoyed with Norman’s “choices” like others and totally see this TMZ “photo scandal” as an attempt by the untalented DK to “stay relevant,” the timing / Oscar weekend is so convenient. However, my main gripe is…why does Norman look so greasy and in character 24/7? Others in the ZA have bathed and cut their hair, and in that Georgia heat it might feel better while slaying zombies. His gross factor is turning up.
–mod–
Feral Daryl makes the world go BOOM 💥. I have no idea where that come from.

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Anon: 
Did you see what they all unloaded from his car? It looks like it’s someone’s whole household stuff, bags but also bigger cartons. I wonder if it’s her stuff and she moved to Norman’s house? That’s not just stuff from a usual shopping trip 😷 Or can someone help me out?
–mod–
Just stuff from a normal shopping trip. She isn’t moving in.






Anon: 
I really don’t want to believe NR and DK are a couple based on a couple of pics of them hanging out but it’s so weird that NR isn’t denying it. We’ve had these kind of rumours before. It was TMZ who also released the “NR and EK are dating!” story and NR took to social media to deny it AND had his reps deny it too within hours of the story breaking. But this time… nothing? I’m starting to think he can’t deny it because it’s true.




Anon: 
Even if it turned out to be true , i would be dissappointed in Norman , but do we actually think he is that stupid? To love a hollywood woman thats been acting like a diva? He isnt even like that , she will hate his fans and try even more attention from all the media. I really hope his people says something about this situation because this is going to give him a bad reputation 😖





Anon: 
Some things are objectively clear 1) DK, who has a deal with DM, orchestrated the pap pics *without NR’s knowledge or consent*. She arranges weekly pics with DM and this time they just happen to “catch” NR–in her garage? 2) The content of the original articles (DM TMZ) is a lie. She wasnt upstate with him 3) DK was aware the pics, article (and lies therein) were gonna come out, but NR wasn’t, it seems. Doesn’t seem like something a loving gf or even friend would do. Thoughts?





Anon: 
Tripping across the dark playground 🤐. It seems like she ‘confirmed’ by liking insta comments about him being good at hiding the relationship.
–mod–
New favorite phrase “tripping across the dark playground” I’m stealing it anon 





Anon: 
why are people so upset about if norman and diane turns out to be couple? I dont really follow them to much but I cant see the problem..
–mod–
Mostly because of the cheating allegations if they’ve been together. She was in a long term relationship which ended.



anonymous asked:

Just wanna say I really wanted to reblog your post about playing bassoon better than the president can run the country but as I've been playing (mediocrely) for ~5 years I do actually know what I'm talking about, unlike the president

A lot of people are saying “I cant reblog this because I do play bassoon” but like…. I didn’t mean only reblog if you dont play bassoon i meant ESPECIALLY REBLOG IT IF YOU DONT PLAY BASSOON.

my depression is turning me into an asshole JFC i get sad no one talks to me and then when people do im like okay…….  i dont care, no way am i reading all of that, and i dont have the energy to think of anythign to say anyway so i fkn leave them on read….. people are like “you know abt *important social justice issue happening* ? arent you like so mad about it” nope! scrolled past everything about it . i objectively care about it and recognize its sad and unjust but like actually i cant really care about anything not presently happening to me . 

anonymous asked:

Top 5 Taeil Looks™

YES

1. like really i cant stop thinking about this, i didn’t think this would be any more attracted to him, the whole no glasses+short sleeved shirt+ tattoos showing look has me dying. HE LOOKS TOO HOT HERE

2. i fell for him in this look so it’ll always have a special place in my heart#bringbackthemiddlepart, also the lipgloss he wore in jackpot saved my life

3. TAEIL IN CLOTHES THAT ACTUALLY FIT HIM THANK YOU BLOOMING PERIOD FOR BLESSING US

Cr: Noblesse PYO

4. I actually really liked his big hats, i know many dont like them but i thought they were really cute

Cr: Luminous 

5. it took its time but this look really grew on me, i like the hair and the whole styling also the fake tattoos are cute since he’s all tatted up now

Originally posted by shmaylova

anonymous asked:

Lol did you know "pupper" means boobs in Norwegian? It's even funnier because often people say "rare pupper" if the puppy is special, and that literally translates into "weird boobs". I laugh everytime I see "pupper" and It's kinda amazing

i did not know but im so glad you told me because im gonna use it from now on that is AMAZING ~Admin 404

I have some amazing rare puppers ;;)))) pLS TELL ME MORE ~ Admin 626

anonymous asked:

my girlfriend of two and a half years just dumped me. I think she fell in love with someone else. She still is the love of my life. Just me picturing her with someone else makes me panic, but I'm gonna have to see her everyday at school. I don't know how to deal with this at all because I love her so much even though she blamed everything on me.

im so sorry babe :-( i was really in love with this girl in high school, but she did not feel the same way about me and ended our friendship. i remember feeling like the pain i was feeling would never end, that i would never actually get over her because i was hurting so much. but i did. it took a long time, but i did.

i dont say this to try to invalidate your feelings, bc of course it hurts. it hurts a lot. and you need to let yourself hurt, to go through the stages of emotional recovery that you need. but i can promise you, it will pass. every person’s process is different but you will move on. i can guarantee it. i don’t know the person i was when i was 16; i have grown and changed so much (for the better) in that time and i am so grateful. my life is so completely different than anything i could have expected. is it perfect? no. did healing from that unrequited love suck? hell yeah. but it didn’t last forever, and im very grateful that i was able to let myself move on when i needed to.

please don’t be afraid to talk about your feelings with others! it can make it so much worse just to hold it inside. i love you. <3

anonymous asked:

mom, i was actually getting around to pulling my life together and my dad told me that there are high chances he might be relocated to mexico (i live in south america) and like, i just dont know what to do and i need a big hug bc i was supposed to start college and i was getting a job and like, i want to stay bc of those things but then i just dont want to be away from my family and see them twice a year

Oh sweetheart, this is so stressful and sad! I’m so sorry!! Whatever you decide, you are wonderful and you are loyal and you are kind, and you are generous, and you deserve the best of all things for yourself. I’m sending you so much love, and giving you all the hugs <3 <3 <3

Originally posted by dontkierame

Originally posted by lovercompany

I dont know if davenport is a red robe bc I do think the red robes are actually not bad people like we were lead to believe, but I dobelieve he’s a major player/the big bad. I think he is exerting control over Lucretia to make her BELIEVE the red robes are evil. 

The same way he exerted control over pringles to make him do the shit that got him thrown into the brig