Random question but do you think the members are protective of suho?
i think so yes! they’re kinda the type “only i can mess with you him cause he’s my brother, but don’t think you can” lol like one example is when jongdae when on this radio show and he said something like “i heard kyhyun said suho isn’t funny” and kyhyun (who was there) said “even though suho is a good friend, he really isnt funny” and chen back fired “but suho hyung said youre not funny either” LMAO
and also when suho was doing his vapp and he called sehun and sehun was actually watching his vapp and he said something like “i read some weird/mean comments in the chat but you shouldnt read those. dont mind them. do your thing”.
i think they love suho very much and because they’re so close they can obviously joke with him! i think they know how soft and emotional he is really! they adore him :(
If u ain't black,u Swedish and Ethiopian why u re blogging shit like u black???
first of all, SIS, u dont know me like that so stop tryna come for me when u dont know the FACTS
yes i am swedish and ethiopian and guess what!! ethiopians are B L A C K!! which still makes me black!! bc mixed kids who are mixed with black are still black!! :)
now if you’re specifically talking about black americans, im also first generation african descendant from my family to be born in america, which still makes me a black american :)
despite not having the same history as actual african-americans because my ancestors didnt suffer from white colonizers, I was still raised as a black child in america, am apart of the black community bc i am BLACK, have been influenced by black culture, and have educated myself on black issues that i have myself have experienced as well :)))))
SO, in conclusion, i dont identify as an african american but i do identify as black because I literally am BLACK.
so the “dirk and john kill each other” thing is like, stale and exhausted and you dont see it any more for a few good reasons. first off weve done it so many times its not funny anymore - most people who ship dirkjohn jumped on board for the jokes, and then we got too deep in and we like to think about them having, like, an actual relationship, without fighting. “dirk and john kill each other” isnt the dirkjohn brand any more, its “depressed aimless dudes working through compulsory heterosexuality together”. and i know a few people who have ALWAYS been uncomfortable with the violence premise. its a good thing to move away from.
i would also argue that the comparison is apples and oranges - one is “two people meet by getting into a fight, and then they get to know each other better and overcome their conflict, and then they start dating”. whereas the other is “two people have a messy breakup; one of them tries to move on with his life and see other people, and the other gets jealous and doesnt let him do that”. right? the resolution to the conflict is built into one but not the other. nobody writes physical violence into dirk and johns relationship AFTER they start dating. its a meet cute.
jealousy HAPPENS in relationships, its a normal human emotion, i think two people talking honestly about jealousy and feelings of insecurity is a great groundwork for a dirkjake fic. but the premise isnt “dirk and jake have a frank conversation about why jealousy is bad”, right? its “jake is jealous and thats a good thing”.
anyway! feel free to screencap this and pass it around your discord servers to talk about how im a buttmad shipper or whatever, as i know youve done before and will continue to do. its just kind of heartbreaking to see all the people who supported me when i said “hey dirkjake isnt abusive” turn around and talk about how romantic abusive dirkjake is. im not interested in calling anybody out or whatever, i know people internalize these fake ideals about relationships and it takes a lot of work to sort out whats healthy and whats not. its hard
I get the appeal of the no Kiss between yousef and sana but i also really liked what sana said in s2 about her Brother getting married "they wanna have Sex " just like other People their age, showing that its a normal Thing to want that and there is no difference between muslim/non Muslim in that , just in the way they go about it because of cultural differences and belives Also in s4e1 its a Topic with vildas Sex Talk and sana saying its her choice not to have sex
hhahahha yes if my photoshop trial wasn’t expired i would make a parallel between sana saying jamilla is marrying is bc she wants sex and sana searching up ‘why can’t muslims marry non-muslims’
also, i love how sana’s sexuality was at play like in ep1 bc it’s important for people to know that muslim girls aren’t obstaining from having sex bc they dont want to, but bc they choose to. and i’d actually like that talked a bit more about maybe
confession: ive had a lot of doubts about my faith lately; i still identify as a muslim becuase ultimately i think i believe in allah, but i feel so distant from religion. theres so much that i have doubts about and that i disagree/ think are negative contributions to the world within the way the religion has manifested (and this goes beyond just islam and other religions in general). and i just dont have that "trust" feeling that so many people describe
Trust me, I and many others have or currently feel that way too and it’s actually more normal than you think. We see all these perfect muslims online but, realistically, it’s not that easy for everyone to always 100% fully trust in their religion for everything. I know people are not going to like me for saying that, but it’s the truth with a lot of people, normal people. I recommend looking at this: http://partytilfajr.tumblr.com/post/100690664630/subhanallah-i-know-this-is-a-terrible-thing-but
Basically, this quote “My Islamic teacher was asked by someone if he believed everything in The Qur’an. He said “no.”We were all shocked, then the questioner asked him, “why?”He replied, “I don’t believe anything in The Qur’an, until I understand it, because if I don’t understand it, how can I believe it?” ”
So sometimes we disagree or don’t understand something, but it’s okay. Just keep in mind the things that you understand and that you do know that you want to live by, and i guess the rest just makes its way in? I think god is okay with you disagreeing with things or not understanding things, and just remember that your relationship with god is one on one, so it’s like you can forget all else in the world and god understands and knows exactly how you feel.
okay but imagine harry making a group chat for his friends from hogwarts just because and draco is there too but he literally never talks because he’s all like “that’s a muggle thing phew” but really he didn’t know how to use that
AND the first time that draco actually talks in the group chat is to send a video of harry who stubbed his toe on a table and is lying on the floor curled up into a ball screaming “I DIDN’T KILL VOLDEMORT FOR THIS”
and then the camera switches to draco’s bored face and with the most monotone voice ever he says “the boy who lived twice” and he’s holding a clock that shows 4:27am
even drew a drawing of his and isaks face “morphed together” and put it up on their wall,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,gross(which is originally drawn by pernille eleonora dieckmann!!!)
some other things that one can find on their wall: the “alt er love” quote, memes, drawings that were probably drawn while even was high and/or drunk, nas quotes, one of the pieces of papers that even gave to isak before they got together for real, a picture of a hamburger with a piercing(?????), the iconic pictures of a woman wearing a chador etcetc
there are clothes(and hats) everywhere meaning they’re both really messy(or they just felt like throwing their clothes off the second isak got home, whatever works)
they still have the duvets that isak would not change in season three, and i’m guessing he didn’t get better at changing them so
their wifi name is “yellow curtains”???? who even are they????
even does everything for isak bc isak is his baby, which has resulted in isak not knowing how to make tea(so when his friend asks for tea, he solves this with putting a tea bag in warm tap water,,,like,,,,)
they have a balcony, where they sit at night and have deep conversations and passionate make out sessions don’t even argue with me on this one
they have a big tv right by their bed, so even probably stays up a bit too late at night watching “friday” or some documentary about penguins or something weird while he holds isak close and slowly strokes his head
their curtains, drawers and chairs all match i-
they opened the door together like an old married couple and i dont even know what to say about that
they have fifa and there is not a single trace of doubt in my body that they’ve spent long hours playing that game, but since even somehow is a lot better than isak, isak always ends up getting mad and telling even how he wants to go to bed early(although this all changes when even cuddles him and tells him what a great fifa player he is)
even finally got himself a watch which he actually uses!!!!!
they’ve been together for a good few months but isak still gets all blushy as soon as even calls him
they have “the chair” and i have never related to skam more in my life
they sure have a lot of shoes for only being two people
even is so tall and i cannot cope like did you see his neck when he kissed isak wow im-
isak loves and trust even enough to be okay with the fact that there are some major things about even that he does not know and i think that’s is beautiful