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anonymous asked:

Why do people dont get it that harry and louis' situations are far too different since day1? Harry gets the benefits of being the most "popular, talented, and rich" in the band. Even if he had to stunt with 101 models. But louis, nope. He's painted as a jackass. The stunts do nothing for him. Omg sonja. Bless your soul for answering nicely.

that’s the thing - it’s such a disservice to the boys to pretend they all started from the same place when launching their solo careers because they didn’t. the context is so different and they all faced different hurdles (and harry’s womanizer image is like an ant hill compared to louis’ current image/team situation which is basically mt everest).

there’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that harry’s always had a certain level of privilege where his solo career is concerned that none of the other boys ever did and that he continues to benefit from that.

i want and expect harry to do well. that’s not even a factor in this discussion for me right now and i’m happy for the people who are able to compartmentalize and be excited and happy about what he’s doing but i’m just saying that i personally can’t get excited until i see some serious positive changes for louis too.

anonymous asked:

Does Alycia being a vet also add extra hurdles to the relationship? I planned on going to vet school all the way up until senior year of undergrad when I realized I didn't want more years of intense schooling, but I work in the lab animal medicine field and know how hard it is for me, so I can just imagine what it's like for the vets. Especially you being an emergency vet, does the added stress bleed into the relationship? I have so much respect and admiration for y'all!

It adds so much dynamic to our relationship. I can come home from a stressful day and unload all of my cases on Alycia. She’ll text me throughout the day with questions about her cases and even FaceTimed me once during surgery because she was unsure. When we have the rare opportunity to work together, it’s the most fun I’ve ever had at work. She makes me think and pushes me to be a better doctor. It only adds to our relationship.

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thank you to everyone who helped with with my script for coming out. i rehearsed a bunch of shit but i ended with winging it and crying a lot and my mom just said she kinda already knew and as long as my future girlfriend isnt a serial killer she’s happy. then we went to dinner. everythingwentbetterthanexpected.png

Matt, there has been a lack of FitzSimmons lately on Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.! Please tell me that the writers are planning for something for them.
I have to say, the forecast looks, ultimately, promising for the scientists-in-love. AIDA’s reveal as an LMD “will have some ripple effect, because he did that without her knowledge. So they’ll have to get over some hurdles,” co-showrunner Jed Whedon tells me. “But theirs is a forever love.” [x]