I work with a girl who’s a bit older than me. Now I’m not going to diagnose her but I think she’s an alcoholic. Obviously, I’d never say that to her face.
She drinks 4/5 times a week and when we have a drink together she downs a pint in 10-15 minutes and has to always have two at a time. She invites me out all the time and I do with her too. We go out like twice a month.
So last week we went out and where so pissed drunk ! She had a male ring on her hand and I asked if it was her brothers and she said yes and I said aw thats lovely. Her brother committed suicide 3 years ago and the next day she sends me a message not to mention him again.
Today.. I was working on in theatre and she left the room. I left too and was about to go into a room when I overheard her laughing at ME ! Saying that I follow her around etc. And a girl in work who’s on her last chance not to get sacked was agreeing that Im like a dog ??? Anyway. Obviously mortified and upset and she can feic off but my Mum doesn’t want me to go to HR, obviously. Especially cause I’m moving soon too.
But what do I do ? Just do I just ignore and carry on ?