Here's some advice for everyone out there
Don’t be afraid to say no. Honestly you just make yourself sad if you say yes to things you don’t wanna do, and YOU are the greatest investment for your life, so don’t do that to yourself. Oh yea, that person is gonna be sad alright but no-one’s gonna remember how many times you said “no” because they are too wrapped up in their own lives. Therefore there is no reason to keep worrying about what they think because you are that badass bitch and you ain’t gotta give a shit about anyone but yourself.