Don’t believe everything you’re told.
Being naive is a part of being a kid. Expecting the best from the people around you is of course expected when you’re young. But as you get older and view things from the other side, you begin to realize that.. No one deserves the benefit of the doubt. If your gut tells you something, listen to it. Allah has given you intuition for a reason. Use it, take advantage its only there to help you.
This year I was slapped with that realization, finally learning to trust my gut has helped me avoid a lot of situations but it took a lot of me ignoring my intuition and getting into trouble before I finally realized it.
A piece of advice i was given from someone close to me was, if you pray it out you’ll get results. I asked Allah to show me the flaws in the people around me and alhamdulilah he did. I love those around me flaws or no flaws, but I’ve learned how to deal with it.
So lesson of the day if i could sum it up would be, don’t give anyone the benifit of the doubt, trust your gut & always ask Allah(swt)
Until next time.