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Food for Thought: Coco Mistakes

PUT THE PITCHFORKS DOWN.
I REPEAT, PUT THE PITCHFORKS DOWN. 

I’m not talking about Cocomistakes; I’m talking about mistakes in Coco and  how the adult characters deal with them.  There will be talk of spoilers here, so be warned! For safety’s sake, they’re going under the ‘read more’.

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peacefulgun  asked:

it takes them a lot of time to get together cause todo doesnt know How To Feelings; that one time someone tried to intervene it went like: "soo..... youre really close with midoriya huh?" and here todo goes onto a monologoue how amazing he is and how charismatic and how perfect etc. and when someone points out that its closer attachment then normal besties, he goes "hmmmm...... must be because hes my 1st friend ever! so kind to deal with my social inabilities". meanwhile mido pines in the bg

Originally posted by idolshame

I CAN’T STOP LAUGHING AT  IZUKU THO 

like Izuku already knows he’s whipped af ™ and has accepted it, and is currently dying. I can just picture him slamming his face on the wall, because TODOROKI JUST CALLED HIM AMAZING AND HE’S DYING, AND HE’S SO HAPPY HE COULD DIE

While Todoroki is so obviously in love that it hurts to literally everyone. 

It would be specially funny, since Izuku is NOT aware that Todoroki doesn’t know. He’s like…just happy to be his side. And is always smiling at the slightiest thing Todoroki says about him in a positive light…And Todoroki is like ‘oh, yeah i could talk for hours about how cute Izuku is, and how he’s really strong…’

And everyone is like ‘someone please save them’. 

It comes to a point where it’s infurating to the point of madness because. ITS ALMOST AS IF THEY WERE A COUPLE ALREADY

they go on dates (friend dates). they stay up late all the time. they message each other. they think of gifts for the other. share earphones. have an enourmous amount of PDA

They get together in the weirdest of ways

It starts with a random person insulting Izuku like, “You’re just riding All Might’s  coattail”

and Todoroki is all like “Excuse you????” 

and the random guy, “ugh don’t even get me started with your boyfriend.” 

Todoroki, in all seriousness answers, “it’s childish to try an insult someone by calling them ‘boyfriends’.” 

And the stranger just. stops working 

“wait. you mean…you two aren’t ACTUALLY dating?” he looks at Izuku completely red on the face, and Todoroki unable to process wtf is happening, and goes. “okay youre both even more patetic than I thought.”

and fucks off. 

But this leaves both of them thinking of their relationship. 

Todoroki starts wondering a lot of things, and ends up thinking to himself if he would date Izuku. And he feels like it would be nice. really nice. 

he then tries to use the same scenario with other people and finds it’s not something he would like to try…

and eventually, in one last attempt to clear all the suspicions from his head, he tries to imagine izuku dating someone else. 

His blood boils, and his chest squeeze in pain. 

okay he hated that more than anything else. 

Izuku meanwhile is having a crisis because WHAT IF IM BEING TOO OBVIOUS WHAT IF HE FINDS ME GROSS WHAT IF-

while mina and ochako laugh at his suffering as they drink wine out of a single red cup.

This involves alot more pining that takes FOREVER to take action. Like, by the time they work up the courage to ask each other out, everyone has bets, Kirishima is dating tetsutetsu, Ochako and Mina went from friends to lovers, Hagakure went out with Ojiro, then they broke up, and now they’re dating tsuyu and shinso respectively. HELL shinso transfered classes and is already update with everything. 

So when they arrive at school holding hands, ready to have this huge conversation with everyone about ‘yeah, maybe it’s weird, and no one saw it coming, but i think-’ 

the class is already exchanging money, Ochako opens a champagne, and Tsuyu is prob the only to congratulate them, as the whole other side of the class is screamign FUCKING FINALLY

Underrated Films

(you should totally see)

  1. Never Let Me Go (2010) (Carey Mulligan, Andrew Garfield, Keira Knightley)
  2. The Perfect Score (2004) (Chris Evans, Scarlett Johansson, Bryan Greenberg, Erika Christensen)
  3. Just Friends (2005) (Ryan Reynolds, Anna Ferris) (Hysterical)
  4. Grind (2003) (Adam Brody, Jennifer Morrison, Mike Vogel)
  5. Sweet Home Alabama (2002) (Funny as hell and super sweet)
  6. Drive Me Crazy (1999)
  7. She’s the Man (2006)
  8. Chasing Liberty (2004) (Mandy Moore, Matthew Goode, and Europe)
  9. The Skulls (2000) (Joshua Jackson and Paul Walker)
  10. About Time (2013) (Rachel McAdam, Domhall Gleeson)
  11. Orange County (2002) (Jack Black and Colin Hanks)
  12. Alpha Dog (2006) (True Story, chilling, brutal)
  13. Wicker Park (2004) (great thriller)
  14. Stay Alive (2006) (Sophia Bush and a scary ass but good mystery horror)
  15. LOL (2012) (I know it’s Miley but the story is good)
  16. Naomi and Ely’s No Kiss List (2015)
  17. What A Girl Wants (2003) (Some of Amanda Bynes best and sweetest)
  18. How To Deal (2003) (Mandy Moore, deep, and real)
  19. In Your Eyes (2014) (romance, thriller, telepathy)
  20. Project X (2012) (one of the most epic movie parties ever)

anonymous asked:

Do you have any tips for writing enemies to lovers?

Hi, love!  Thanks for your question and your patience <3  I’m currently writing something similar to this, so I hope my experience can help you here!

Enemies-to-lovers is a popular trope, but it’s often treated carelessly by writers – especially TV/movie writers who rush through the transition to fit a single movie or episode arc.  There’s nothing worse you can do in this situation than to rush your arc.  Falling in love is already a time-consuming plotline – but transitioning from enemies, who are already shutting each other out, to lovers?  The quicker it happens, the less believable it becomes.

I have a lot of notes on how to write enemies to lovers, so bear with me as I list them out.


Writing Enemies to Lovers: The Basic Ingredients

1. Give them some similar traits.

No matter what, two people can’t fall in love if they don’t relate on some level.  The first step to creating possible love interests is to find where they’ll connect.  Are they a hero and a villain?  Evil and good?  Night and day?  I bet they both love animals.  Maybe they’re both way into politics.  Maybe they share a common enemy.  Maybe they’re both neat freaks or a bit sassy or super gay or love the same music.  It can be a few important things or a bunch of superficial things – just make sure they have something that can tie them together.

Originally posted by sonandheirofnothinginparticular


2. Put them on the same side of something.

When two people are mortal foes, it can be hard for them to see each other in any other light.  Bringing in a common enemy (an anti-hero, a natural disaster, a person in power), or a common interest (a mutual friend, a school play, a moral cause), can land foes on a team together.  This forces them to become aware of each other’s strengths, and to consider (and worry about) each other’s weaknesses.  This is perfect fodder for an eyebrows-raised, “Hey, they don’t suck at this particular thing,” moment.

Originally posted by ilostthatfeeling


3. Get them alone.

With other people watching (especially friends/coworkers/allies), little groundwork can be made for your two hate-lovers.  If you get your characters alone together, you’re given a bounty of opportunities to bond them, including but not limited to: actual conversations, accidental (or faux-accidental) physical contact, the sneaky moment of checking each other out, etc. etc. etc.  People are different when you get them away from their friends – less extreme, less rowdy, less unreachable.  If you have to trap your characters in an elevator the old-fashioned way, damn it, you’re the only one who can do it.

Originally posted by vicchan


4. Let them fight their feelings.

If these two are truly enemies, there isn’t going to be a moment of, “Oh, I like them.  Huh.  Neato.”  Oh, no.  There will be internal backlash – they will beat their emotions back with a broom, and deny them to anyone who asks.  There will be extra hateful glares, more middle fingers, and basically anything they can do to remind themselves that they don’t like this person.  If you show this internal conflict, it both (a) makes the feelings seem real, organic, and (b) creates a more realistic transition from hate to love.

Originally posted by 1980s-90sgifs


5. Love can sound like hate.

There’s a reason people say indifference is the true opposite of love.  When your two enemies start to feel things for each other, this will probably spark a lot of ranting, arguing, and door-slamming.  It creates a fixation – you sit there and you stew and you tell your friends, “Remember when they did that stupid thing?  Yeah.  Screw them.”  Your friends roll their eyes.  When will you stop talking about this person?  Just kiss them already.

Originally posted by newgirlonfox


6. Sexual tension is a powerful tool.

If your characters experience sexual attraction, this is a great way to accelerate their relationship against their will.  It’s the age-old, “My mind says no but my body says yes,” dilemma.  Your characters can’t stand each other, or the image they have of each other, but they’re attracted like magnets and can’t shake it.  This can make for some pretty hot – or pretty hilarious – scenes.

Originally posted by swmovies


7. Give them a moment of horrified realization.

Eventually, the feelings will grow strong enough that one or both of them will have to sit there, probably on the bathroom floor a little bit drunk with one sock on, and realize: “I love that f*cker.”  It’ll be a scary moment for them.  It’s not that they haven’t known it – they just have yet to accept that it’s something to deal with, until now.  This can be prompted by a dangerous situation, a shared activity, or a failed attempt at another romance – so when they really sit and think about it, they know.  Then it becomes a question of either “how do I get rid of this?” or “how do I pursue this?”.

Originally posted by crazyexedits


8. Try their hand at flirting.

Whether one or both characters have come to accept their feelings, someone’s gotta start flirting.  A glancing touch across the arm; a small comment that could kind of be construed as amicable; a lingering glance; that first peek at their enemy’s smile.  Something cute and quick and immediately followed by an existential crisis will do in a pinch.  Without this water-testing, readers won’t have any image of what this relationship will look like – and if it can succeed.

Originally posted by spidersprout


9. Craft the perfect kiss/hug/confession.

When the time is right, create an undeniable display of attraction to transition into a new phase of their relationship: the “welp-we-both-like-each-other” phase, which comes right before the “we-decided-to-(stay-platonic/start-romancin’)” phase.  The Big Kiss/Confession is the most iconic climactic love scene, in which the two characters take a chance and become vulnerable with each other – and kiss, or say, “I love you,” or do anything that can’t be construed in any other way.  Want to extend the drama?  Interrupt them, or have it be one-sided, or let it turn into a fight until they decide, “Forget it, this was stupid.”  Readers will swoon.

Originally posted by theparksfiles


10. Finish up with an awkward adjustment period.

If and when your characters do enter a relationship, make sure it’s a little tentative at the beginning, to keep it realistic.  Your characters have made a huge shift in their dynamic – there will be some lingering arguments and love-hate, and maybe a bit of discomfort going public with their romance.  Then come the usual growing pains of a new relationship getting serious – figuring out how to navigate each other’s flaws, learning to be open with their feelings, dealing with unresolved fights from before their relationship.  It won’t be perfect right away.  That’s the beauty of it.

Originally posted by flirtyaniston


I hope this helps you, love!  I adore love-hate relationships, and I hope you enjoy crafting your own enemies-to-lovers as much as we’ll all love reading them :)  Good luck!

– Mod Joanna ♥️


If you need advice on general writing or fanfiction, you should maybe ask us!

I love reading fanfiction. Why? It’s because I learned to be much more sensitive about other people. I address them by not judging their tastes, personalities, sexuality, gender, color or anything else. I can give them their privacies and learned how to step back if they feel uncomfortable. I can already hear statements that are just so wrong but seemed to be normal to the majority. I can tell a person’s emotion and how we should properly deal with them. I can now see if a person is toxic in a relationship. I can love people with genuinity and can give comfort to them without feeling insecure or unsure. I can give confidence to myself and encourage others to do the same. I can now say the right words (whenever I can).

I’m not perfect and I still do make mistakes, but I can definitely say that fanfiction made me into a better person.

Fanfiction writers (and writers in general), thank you.

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IT’S DONE. Two pages and it took for and ever. For two reasons: First, I wanted to see about having my comic things be a little less speed-over-quality so that maybe I can still use them to advance my skills over time. Mostly since I was disappointed by my 2017 in review thing. We’ll see how long this idea lasts @_@.  Second, Overwatch League was happening this week and I may have been working while distracted. >_> Anyway! I can’t take credit for Ana’s amazing line. This whole thing was inspired by a clip in one of those funny Overwatch moments videos. That Ana had the most perfect support main™ moment I had ever witnessed. The fact that she was dealing with the Shimada bros made it that much better.

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🌟💖 to jonghyun: my sun, my moon, my stars, someone who i'll love forever  💖🌟

i don’t know how to start this properly so i’ll do so by saying i’m coping the best i can be given the circumstances but it still feels like there’s this void in my chest. 

when i first started listening to k-pop i figured it’d just be a fun pasttime for me and, for the most part, it has been. i just didn’t think i’d get as attached as i did to an idol as i did jonghyun because i’d never been the type to get super attached to celebrities to begin with but i was really drawn to him from the get go. i remember the first time i saw him in the “lucifer” mv. i was like: ”wow, who is that dude“ so i started looking into him and grew to like him quickly. this was before he started to show more of himself to shawols / the world. after that point he made his twitter and began to interact more with fans by showing how clever, intelligent, fun loving and socially conscious he was. and his sense of humor was so strange - which was something that i could relate to. that’s probably when i knew he was going to be my ult for a long time.

i remember when he supported kang eun ha back in late 2013 and i was so relieved because i was just starting to really come to terms with the fact that i was queer and it was comforting to know that my ult would accept me for that. in the short time that followed we were able to see him grow and develop as a person. he started to bare his soul to the world through blue night, always more than he was obligated to, and he was always graceful and thoughtful in doing so.

i remember at shinee’s fifth anniversary party when he debuted “beautiful tonight” to shawols. i was so proud of him because i knew that it’d always been his dream to make his own music and that was the FIRST time that he was able to share something with us that was completely his. 

when it comes to shinee .. i haven’t been here since the beginning. i became a fan during the summer of 2011 but i’ve always felt like i was present during the timeline that was the most pertinent in his growing as a human being.

blue night was always so special to me because it opened us up to a side of him that he had been careful to share before then. people had these fixed stereotypes about him and, while some have lingered on, he was able to blow most out of the water through the show. without blue night we wouldn’t have been able to hear a large percentage of his beautiful solo work. looking back i can see that this was a burden to him and it makes me ache knowing something he loved became such a weight for him but i’ll always cherish the work that he gave to us.

he was always trying so hard. it doesn’t take what happened to know that. he never shied away from telling us when he felt lost or lonely or upset and he never made fans feel as if they were wrong to feel that way either. honestly he never made fans feel like they were in the wrong for anything. he’d support them through even their most ridiculous (and some of the funnier stories he got on blue night were proof of that) and the love he had for us was undeniable. you could see it in his eyes whenever he was given the chance to be face-to-face with us: at events with shinee, for blue night, for himself. it always looked like he was … ridiculously content just breathing the same air as his fans. this extended to international fans as well. he didn’t speak up on it often but it was obvious he knew about the disconnect / distance that we’ve always felt in being so far away from him and shinee. we got “selene 6.23” to show for that one.

it was also thanks to jonghyun and the rest of shinee that i was able to make most of the close friends that i have today. that, and they were also so charming that i was able to have my older friends become a fan of them as well. they also gave me a reason to be able to travel twice in the last year and a half: once to chicago and another time to los angeles. i’ll always be grateful that i was able to see them twice - that i was able to see him twice.

i’m starting to feel too introspective so i’m going to switch over and talk about a few of my favorite things about him:

1) he wasn’t perfect. he made mistakes but he always apologized and tried to make amends for them in the end. he was constantly trying to better himself and become education / sensitive to a variety of issues. i feel he excelled there, really.

2) his love for roo. i think it goes without saying that a good deal of the funnier content involving him was related back to roo. and remember the time she photobombed minho taking a picture of jjong with his music show trophies? yeah.

3) how much of his life he dedicated to making his mom and sodam feel loved and appreciated. i really don’t know what else to add here that isn’t obvious already.

4) he wasn’t afraid to show the world the side of himself that was what most would regard as being “childish” or in geeking out about things that made him happy like naruto or how much he had fallen in love with (and been touched by) kimi no na wa.

5) when he wanted to cry he cried and he made sure that others were aware that it was alright to cry too, to be weak sometimes because to be “weak” is to really be strong.

6) he was such a great and caring friend. he just … was. there’s no denying that. he was always nonjudgmental and willing to be there for his friends at the drop of a hat when they needed him (like when he drove two hours to pick up dongwoo when he needed a ride home from a random location).

7) jinki. he was always a pillar of strength for him and this worked both ways. he took the spotlight for him when he wasn’t able to do it himself and he was always the first to understand his strange jokes and puns and play off of them.

8) kibum. he was kibum’s first friend when they became trainees. we’ll never know what kind of connection they had in full but it was obvious it was something special that went beyond words.

9) minho. minho is probably his biggest fan. he could read him like an open book and he was always the first to be there when he needed him most and it’s obvious that hasn’t changed even now.

10) taemin. he was HIS biggest fan. we all know that. he wasn’t just his friend and brother but his baby and you could see how proud he was to see him develop as both an artist and person. i’m glad he got to see up to now even though it hurts me he won’t see all he is capable of achieving.

11) the relationship he had with his blue night family - listeners included. they helped him so much. they gave him stories to use that helped broaden his work as a singer-songwriter and he developed meaningful friendships with both regular guests and pds.

12) taeyeon, suho, yoona, krystal, heechul, donghae, jungmo. all the friends that he made within sm when they began training who he knew for just as long as the other members of shinee. and all of those who have left sm since that were close to and meant a lot to him at a point as well, like luhan, jessica and tao. plus those that he became and stayed close to after debut. yeri, lee jonghyun, hongki, crush, zion.t, jung joon young, younha, tablo, wheesung, minkyung, gray, zico. i know they’re all hurting too.

13) he wrote a beautiful book where he used all main characters as a template to show different sides of himself to readers. he was writing another book too and i’m glad he was at least able to share his idea for it with us.

14) he was able to release four amazing solo albums in such a short amount of time and i honestly feel like he helped to break some of the bias sm had toward allowing their artists to release their own work.

15) he wasn’t afraid to gush over other men that he found attractive. looking back on his fanboying over gong yoo is always going to make me laugh.

16) i really loved how much he loved the moon and stars and space and mythology and all that whimsical stuff because he could be pretty whimsical himself at times.

17) how much of a dork he was for poetry. remember when he sent that wreath to wheesung with that bertolt brecht poem? iconic.

18) he really admired and looked up to prince. you could see his influence in both the sound and styling of his solo work and that makes the stereotypical minnesotan in me happy.

19) more of a random anecdote but how excited he was when he was dying his hair pink for “she is” promotions. the story about how he’d kept on showing the other members a photo of the shade he was trying for excitedly will always be one of my faves.

20) he was the kazoo king.

21) random little physical traits of his like his blingspot and all his pretty moles and birthmarks, his bottom teeth, how his legs were bowed.

22) how he pretty much laughed with his entire body and how his nose scrunched up when doing so. how expressive he was. how you could pretty much see every emotion he was trying to convey in his eyes and they’d sometimes sparkle like there was an entire universe in them (i used to say that a lot).

i’ll move on from the facts from now but this is … a lot. emotionally.

(death tw, suicide tw) honestly i feel like i can’t say much else that hasn’t already been said and that i won’t be able to completely do justice to who he was as an artist, bandmate, brother, son, friend, colleagues, so on and so forth. but you can feel it at least. i guess words?? aren’t really needed always?? you can feel it in how many people have went to pay their respects to him in the last day. he was SO loved and he left such a mark on the industry, not just of his immense and unique talent but because of how kind, generous, soft and understanding he was.

i’ve said this a few times already to close friends of mine but as much as it kills me to know that he’s gone and that he was in as much pain as he was i’m also relieved that he isn’t feeling that pain anymore. what else can you really say in situations like these. he hurt more than anyone deserves to and maybe it’s cheesy to say but a part of me feels like he was too good for this world. i’ve never really been religious but i hope that if there is an afterlife that he feels content, warm, happy and comfortable for once. maybe now he’s a star, hanging around the moon, or maybe he’s a star pup. that’d be wild. he’d probably love that. or maybe he’s jamming out with his favorite musicians who’ve passed. who knows.

anyway. i think that’s all i’m gonna say for now. in the future i may revisit this post - maybe i’ll add on to it or maybe i’ll use it as a template to make a new one. who knows but the only other thing i can say before closing this off is that he’ll always have a special place in my heart and i’ll never forget him.

The signs as coffee

Taurus : an entire french press that was made at home that will last the owner approximately an hour before they make another one but you can bet your buttons it was locally sourced

Gemini : iced, black coffee, with 2 packets of splenda, every day at the exact same time, from the same Starbucks on the corner. The barista knows everything and nothing about them.

Cancer : a medium mocha, left to cool down on the window sill with latte art on top that you see on instagram but the photographer spilled it everywhere right after getting the perfect shot and now has to deal with sticky clothes and half the coffee they wanted

Leo : that one pot of coffee in the office that inexplicably makes better coffee so it’s always full except when you want to get a drink and you know all the machines are the same and all the packets of pre measured coffee are the same but stillllll

Virgo : an iced latte surrounded by empty iced latte cups you find surrounding a sleeping student in the library at 8 am how long have they been there the campus coffee shop closes at midnight and opens at 6 how do they have so many empty cups

Libra : a half empty cup of mystery coffee someone left on the bus because I guess they must have been in a hurry to get off why would you disrespect your coffee like this?

Scorpio : a cup of plain black coffee when the owner actually wanted a frappuccino but screwed up so now they’re overloading it with honey and cinnamon and now it’s undrinkable but they’ll choke it down anyway to save face even though no one cares

Sagittarius : a piping hot pumpkin spiced latte drunk with friends who all have the exact same thing, they pretend they’re drinking it ironically, only one person actually likes the taste but will pretend they don’t

Capricorn : a light roast dry cappuccino  from the local coffee house in a reusable coffee cup they got from a local artist with eight fucking shots of espresso in it where did they all go you will die if you aren’t careful man what are you doing man

Aquarius : it’s tea except when anyone’s looking

Pisces : it’s actually hot chocolate, can’t stand the taste of coffee except when they’re studying then it’s an americana with 9 packs of sugar and tears

Aries : who cares it’s all over the ground anyway

OKAY I AM WATCHING A VIDEO ABOUT FMA AND I AM SCREAMING

So you know how the main villains are all adapted of the 7 deadly sins right

And ironically it happens that all of them will follow the description of the punishments in Dante’s Inferno for each sins. (also friendly reminder Dante was the name of the villain in the first anime, I just can’t)

So, quoting the video (which is in French here) and spoiling to death :

Those who committed the sin of Pride are condemned to be constantly crushed under the weight of a rock. In FMA, Pride will end up crushed under rocks.

Those who committed the sin of Envy are condemned to have their eyes being sewed. In FMA, Envy will have his eyes being burned out multiple times.

Those who committed the sin of Wrath are condemned to have their limbs being pulled away. In FMA, Wrath lost both of his arms against Scar.

Those who committed the sin of Sloth are condemned to walk for ever without being able to stop. In FMA, Sloth spent all his life digging the tunnel.

Those who committed the sin of Greed are condemned to share the same body with people who would give everything away for others, the opposite of Greed. In FMA, Greed will then share his body with Ling, his total opposite.

Those who committed the sin of Gluttony are condemned to be bitten and eaten by Cerberus. In FMA, Gluttony will be eaten up by Pride. 

Those who committed the sin of Lust are condemned to be exposed to burning winds and to go through a wall of flame to clean themselves away from their sin. In FMA, Lust is being burnt to death by Roy

As for Father, in Alchemy it was specified that if one managed to create a Homunculus, this one would never be able to leave a little bottle, which is the case of Father. Moreover, the first man to claim having created a Homunculus was named Philippus Theophrastus Aureolus Bombastus Von Hohenheim.  

Moreover, the one who ordered to create Father was the king of Xerxes who wanted to access Immortality. But his plan will turn out against him and Father will provoke his death. In our reality, Xerces is dead killed by one of his captain which plan was to take over his empire to divide it between his Seven Sons. The parallelism between Father and the Homunculus is then obvious, but the story doesn’t stop there, as the story tells that the Seven Sons had been killed as well by the Son of the King, who had for Mother the Queen Amestris


Can you hear me scream on the other side of your screen on how clever this manga is

♏️ Scorpio in the houses

🏠1st house (= your ascendant)

  • you want to shock people with your appearance 
  • there’s a tendency to create a physical mask with your appearance that hides all your inner feelings 
  • may have give some seriously intense sex vibes 
  • you want to come off as mysterious, passionate and sexual, there’s a huge want to control people’s perception off you so that they don’t find out the real you
  • extreme self control, you are self aware that your own intensity can be overwhelming
  • controlling your emotional expression equals strength to you 
  • approaches new things with suspicion
  • can make people uncomfortable due to their intense presence
  • may have a bitter or resenting attitude 
  • it’s either all or nothing cause you’ll die trying 
  • projects powerful, magnetic and almost mysterious energies

🏠 2nd house

  • you have intense feelings about money, you either love it or hate it
  • very possessive about your earnings 
  • can treat people close to them as objects or possessions if they feel insecure and avoids bonding emotional with people close to them
  • might get jealous over others amount of money or possessions
  • doesn’t like talking about their money situation with people, very private about their money 
  • why should people get to know about the things you have or don’t have in life?? 
  • collects or buys things that others might think are strange or bizarre
  • you might use unconventional ways to earn money

🏠 3rd house

  • you prefer to hide your most private and inner thoughts
  • sarcastic!!
  • small talk wth you quickly turns into a deep conversation, like one minute it’s about the weather and then you hit them with the frightening reality of climate change
  • you can easily obsess over things in your head and become engulfed in new interests and passions, you need to investigate and get to the bottom of things
  • very frank and honest about things
  • everything that you think and say are beliefs and opinions that you strongly believe in
  • you have a very creative and different way of thinking 
  • may dominate conversations too much and be a bit too intense with how you communicate
  • you judge people very hard when they don’t do as you tell them to

🏠 4th house (IC)

  • wanting to be in control at home
  • might end up in extreme or unconventional home situations with family/the people you live with
  • you are comfortable with the extreme, possibly a person that’s very comfortable in their sexuality and dealing with strong emotions
  • when you go home you kind of like to hide away from the world, because of this you want to create the perfect home environment for yourself 
  • never mess with this person’s family!! they will hunt you down for it
  • private about family matters
  • may be the dominate or one of the dominate people in the family/household

🏠 5th house

  • you seek out intense experiences that makes you feel deep things
  • a freak in the sheets, aka you like to experiment and explore with sex
  • you are attracted to the emotional complex, these people intrigue you
  • emotional intensity!! you are super down for that
  • very sensual
  • you want to solve mysteries in life, might enjoy hobbies where you research a lot
  • might try to change your partner and be a bit too possessive and intense 
  • can have a hard time letting go of loved ones, especially if you have kids and they start to grow up and become independent

🏠 6th house

  • serious about work, aka obsessed with it
  • might be too intense for others to work with which is why you usually work best alone
  • coworkers might find you intimidating
  • maybe working with research, science or finance would be good for you?
  • everything in your daily life is about finding intense depth both emotionally and spiritually 
  • might be extremely focused on details, but this obsession you prefer to keep to yourself
  • you don’t like showing people the process in how you get shit done or achieve things you just like to showcase the final result so you don’t reveal anything in between or any possible struggles you’ve dealt with 
  • has a strong need to control your own life
  • you help people by snapping them out of self pity and bringing them back to reality, this may make you come of ass cold 

🏠 7th house (Descendant)

  • you are attracted to power and status
  • might get jealous and possessive with romantic partners
  • you want a partner that’s so strong that not even you can control them
  • can have a hard time treating your partner like an equal
  • having a successful relationship is something that you value and feel like you need in order to feel fulfilled in life
  • you fall hard for people and truly understand the depth of love but can become insecure when your jealous and possessive instincts become too much
  • you attract very dark and mysterious relationships that are full of emotional depth and intimacy

🏠 8th house

  • you have a hard time opening up about your feelings/opinions about other people
  • people might think you are stuck or in a serious low but you always manage to get back up no matter how many times you fail or fall
  • you don’t like sharing money and finances with your partner
  • you get power and control by making money, owning things/people and with sex
  • very intutive and can be very good in bed because you pick up fast on what your partner likes
  • but you can also use sex as a weapon in relationships and use it to control or manipulate people
  • you provide a super intimate, loyal and sensual intensity for your partners

🏠 9th house

  • unconventional beliefs and practices intrigue you
  • you love educating yourself on subjects that really interest you and showing people how to be in control
  • your emotions are very connected with your spiritual and philosophical beliefs
  • can have issues with being practical because you communicate in such a abstract and deep way
  • might manipulate people into doing bad things 
  • you look for people that are open to your beliefs and your intellect, which can make your views and beliefs quite narrow because you don’t surround yourself with new and different beliefs which can enrich/transform your own

🏠 10th house (Midheaven)

  • very ambitious and workaholic tendencies
  • success is very easy with your amazing focus and strong will, as long as your extreme emotions and destructive behaviors don’t get in your way
  • comes across as powerful and strong in the public eye
  • will do almost anything to achieve their goals and to make an impact
  • can easily become drained when they give too much energy into their work and don’t take time to relax
  • they can go through difficult or challenging situations and still be able to deal with them because they know that no matter what they will survive 
  • taking risks and changing in life can be a great way for these people to heal emotionally
  • thrives when they learn to balance intellect with their feelings!!
  • becomes easily frustrated when they aren’t allowed to indulge or get what they want in life

🏠 11th house

  • you want to/try to surround yourself with dynamic, powerful and energetic people
  • you want friends that share the same views as you
  • very picky about who you befriend, but once friends you are super loyal
  • obsessed with your dreams and will work hard to reach them
  • you prefer facing your problems with other people in a group setting than by yourself
  • you don’t like to focus too much on your own feelings, instead you want to experience hardships with others so that the feelings becomes more relatable and even generalized so they are easier to handle because then they don’t feel so personal anymore
  • however you don’t like the things that you share with your friends to reach people outside of your social circle, you are private and secretive with your group of friends
  • can have issues with their own identity and because of this they might have issues relating to other people when they can’t even relate to themselves
  • strays away from too deep and personal subjects, they like it easy and breezy
  • can be possessive of friends and too dominating and not letting them be or become who they truly are!! 

🏠 12th house

  • you can find strength in things that other people might look past or shy away from
  • are all your feelings on lock down?? cause I mean they are very much locked away, with like 3 or more locks. you might wanna unlock at least one or two just a friendly tip
  • somewhat of an underdog because people really don’t know how powerful you are and you might even miss it yourself
  • you have a mysterious aura
  • has issues separating your own feelings with other people’s feelings, they can easily get mixed up
  • very open to other people’s emotions and energies

“You know, I came out to my parents in a letter.”

“You…” Bitty blinked and took a moment to process that. He’d stopped crying a while ago but Jack was still rubbing soothing circles on his back, and it made it easy for him to not think about anything else. “Did you?”

Jack hummed in response, and Bitty felt it vibrate through where his head was pressed into Jack’s chest. “I’d let you read it, but I’ve seen you with French, so.”

The chirp surprised Bitty into laughing, and he felt Jack laugh too. Still, the moment passed quickly and Bitty sighed. “I just…”

“I know,” Jack said, low and quiet before he pressed a kiss to the top of Bitty’s head. “I know.”

“Could- did- how’d your parents take it?” Bitty asked, and Jack shifted a tiny bit, but the circles didn’t stop and he didn’t move.

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Reasons Why Wynonna Earp Is A Great Show -by tuntematonkorppi
  • the actors and the showrunner are great (let’s start with the obvious yeah?)
  • positive LGBTQIA+ representation
  • seriously there’s the cutest lesbian couple and the drama around them aren’t related to the fact that they’re a lesbian couple
  • also homophobic lines are always addressed and shut down
  • the only time it’s not it’s when it comes from a traumatized brainwashed cult victim (and the line isn’t openly homophobic)
  • there’s an openly gay brown man
  • but once again there’s no drama related to his sexuality
  • he has a massive crush on the guy coming straight from the 19th century and that guy doesn’t have a negative reaction to it (as one could expect from someone of that time i guess)
  • there is a love triangle but the two guys are super duper respectful of the woman and put her choices before anything else
  • also they respect and like each other very very much
  • seriously one gave a speech to save the other from an execution squad and the other installed a chemistry lab in his basement to make an illegal medicine to save the first one
  • the creepy stalkery white dude is treated as a fucking threat
  • sexism is addressed and shut down (at one point a guy in a position of authority says “boys will be boys” and the woman working for him answers “wtf did i hit my head and woke up in bullshit patriarcal land??”)
  • the characters aren’t perfect and never 100% good or 100% evil (the main character is a functioning alcoholic jessica jones style)(okay maybe some villains are 100% evil)
  • the soundtrack is awesome
  • one character proves their identity during a 100% gun skill p0rn scene
  • all the found family/family by choice feels
  • there’s a ton of times where they could have put the guy from the 19th century in a “how look how he’s not adapted to our time har har har” ridiculous scenes but they haven’t, the fact that he’s from 100 years ago is obviously addressed but not in an embarrassing way
  • the genius biochemist engineer is a latina woman and the fact that people underestimate her because she’s super pretty and have boobs is addressed
  • consent is a big deal in every relationship
  • people acknowledge when they’re fucking up and almost always try to fix it
  • also it’s a perfect balance of emotions and humor
  • tons of pop culture references (”it’s coming” “the winter? yeah we got the memo”)
  • the cinematography is beautiful
  • now look at those cuties:

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What the writers see: The Isle of the Lost, home of the most wicked villians and their children dressed in awesome clothes that mess around all day and cause mischief.

What the fandom sees: An Island ridden with poverty, disease, and famine which unfairly traps the innocent children of villians with their parents who are pretty much guaranteed to practice atrocities such as physical/emotional abuse, neglect, alcoholism, etc along with a bunch of other low lifes who deal with drugs, gang violence, rape, public humiliation, and an overbearing mentality that positive emotion = weakness.

What the writers see: Auradon, the perfect world of the good guys, where all is good and just.

What the fandom sees: A whole lot of privileged country club teens who never learned how to work for what they earn and who take for granted the royalty they are blessed with. They discriminate against villain kids and don’t even bother to think about what life could have been like for them.

Me: Disney, you have dug yourself into a hole you are resistant and unwilling to climb out of.

A. Claire’s Identity....REVEALED???

No. Well, probably not. But I think I have a pretty decent guess? 

My Jude post is going to take a little while longer, and once I put these pieces together it didn’t take much to make things fall into place, and turned out to be pretty quick to put together.

I don’t usually do outright speculation, I tend to dislike doing so. But this feels solid enough that I’m willing to at least mention it, and more than that its simply interesting to think about, so while we wait for Hiveswap: Act 2, I figure we may as well mull over this possibility.

So, humor me.

A. Claire is a pretty mysterious figure. She seems to come out of nowhere to shake up Homestuck’s core cast, and she seems to know more about the game than we ever confirmed for any other Guardian, barring Pa himself. 
Why does she seem so connected to the Cherub Key? How on earth did she paint a mural of the green sun??? What’s her deal! 

There’s no precedent for a character quite like the mysterious actress, and seemingly no background profile that would explain how she knows what she knows. Except, of course, for the obvious one. The one we’ve overlooked. 

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Part I , Part II , Part III , Part IV , Part V , Part VI , Part VII , Part VIII

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“Lovely Y/n, how nice to see you again”

Penny peabody smiled at you, a wicked grin on her face. He blonde hair was straightened to perfection, as her navy blazer was crisp. The woman looked at her with wild eyes.

“You know the deal. Join the serpents, pay off your debts, and your boyfriend-”

“He’s not my boyfriend.”

“Sorry” She sneered, “your friend, won’t get hurt”

You sighed;

“What do I have to do?”

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The Secret Book Club Part 3

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Pairing: Loki x Reader

Content/Warnings: If you squint, there’s sorta fluff? Though not with the god of mischief 😜 But more than anything there’s angst. You guys should have known that was gonna come sooner or later! Also minor spoiler for Ragnarok!

Words: 1864

Prompt: LOKI X READER WHO SHARE BOOKS AND READ TO EACHOTHER AND LOTS OF FLUFF HHH THAT WOULD BE SO CUTE PLEASE

Anon I promise we’ll get to your fluff soon, but it’s always so much fluffier when it’s built up, don’t you think? As always if you want to be added to the tag list, inbox me! 

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Apologise to kids

Everyone who spends any time at all around children is going to eventually do something that requires an apology. You might be snappish to a kid, or forget something important to them, or trip and bump into them. No one is perfect, and when these things do happen, it’s important that adults – parents, especially – be able, willing, and ready to apologise to children.

  1. It shows them that they are important to you, their feelings are important to you and that you care enough to try not to hurt them. (Everyone needs this knowledge in order to feel safe in a relationship.)
  2. It models healthy ways to deal with conflict - how to keep a relationship a happy and safe place even after something bad happens.
  3. It models for them how to take responsibility for actions you regret, instead of just pretending those things didn’t happen.
  4. It teaches them that even authority figures can be held accountable for harming less powerful people.
  5. It shows them that the thing you did that requires the apology is a wrong thing to do and that they should not mimic that behaviour.
  6. It teaches them to expect the people around them to be accountable for their own behaviour, and it teaches them not to internalize blame for how other people treat them.

When adults routinely fail to apologise to children, children notice. They learn that the function of an apology is to pacify an authority figure, because that’s the only example they get. They learn that they are not respected or heard and that their feelings won’t matter to others until they, too, have control over someone less powerful.

Children learn from your example even more than they learn from your words. Teach your kids how loving and respectful relationships feel, so they can take that knowledge with them into the rest of their life and make better choices because of what you taught them.