What hurts me the most about Julian and Emma’s relationship right now is that, Emma has someone to talk to. She can pour her heart out about how much it hurts and Cristina wouldn’t judge her. She told Cristina about having sex with Julian. She can vent to quite a bit of people if she needs. Julian doesn’t have that. He doesn’t have anyone to talk to. First of all, because he only knows adults who would judge him or scold him for something like this. Second of all, his parabatai; the person you are closest with, is the woman he loves. He can’t vent to her. Third of all, he is the father of the house. He isn’t supposed to make rash decisions. If he does, he’s considered childish; a teenager, when he clearly is mentally not. Julian has n o o n e for him to trust and confide in. The only one he can trust is himself.