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if the new york times will publish jillian keenan’s modern love column about how she’s oppressed because she likes getting spanked do you think they’d publish my macdennis fanfiction

i think some communication difficulties, prompt responsiveness/dependence and executive function shit can be interrelated 

cuz they can all be related to like trouble remembering that making decisions/effecting what happens is a thing you can do, trouble figuring out how to make decisions, trouble remembering why you’d want to be making decisions anyway 

w/ communication the decisions one is making have to do w/ the decision to communicate info, the decision to not communicate info, decisions about which info to communicate

of course this is worsened b/c ppl like to make all disabled people’s decisions for them (or like “you can only make choices when i *give* you choices, tell you to choose”. dave hingsburger talks about how we talk about giving choices and not respecting choices… ppl need to be able to decide to decide), not give them time to make even small decisions about eg how to answer a question if they have a processing delay and need longer, deliberately take advantage of inertia/”behavioral momentum”, deliberately teach that trying to effect what happens is futile by “not giving in to/reinforcing behaviors” “we can’t let him win” giving false choices and setting things up so attempting to make choices the abled person doesn’t like is as futile as possible … it can really fuck you up 

The importance of subtext

(I’m not in the Teen Wolf fandom but I wanted to share my views on the recently canon ship Stydia)

Let’s discuss the infamous panic attack kiss from TW - episode 3x11.

On surface, text says that Stiles was NOT into the kiss (him having a panic attack and all) and Lydia was just helping out a friend (kinda like giving them CPR). On top of that, the dialogue that followed wasn’t very romantic either: 

Stiles: How’d you do that?
Lydia: I read once that… Holding your breath could stop a panic attack. So when I kissed you… You held your breath.
Stiles: I did?
Lydia: Yeah. You did.
Stiles: Thanks. Really smart.

The writers too insisted that the scene wasn’t intended to come across as romantic nor written with any shippers in mind:

BUT beneath the surface, subtext says that Lydia was developing feelings for Stiles. This was confirmed much later in episode 6x09 when Lydia finally admitted the truth - “When I kissed him, that’s when it all changed.”

Subtext was in the lighting.

Subtext was in the shared intense looks right after… 

Subtext was in the romantic music playing the second their lips connected. The song lyrics were as follows:

There’s a ghost upon the moor tonight
Now it’s in our house
When you walked into the room just then
It’s like the sun came out

I’m an atom in a sea of nothing
Looking for another to combine
Maybe we could be the start of something

- “Start of Time” by Gabrielle Aplin

So in the end, it didn’t matter that the writers denied the blatant subtext cuz 3 freakin seasons later, Stydia did become canon when they kissed for real.

Originally posted by flatsline

Originally posted by morgenroete

In conclusion, subtext should not be dismissed simply because PR doesn’t acknowledge it.

anonymous asked:

Okay, but in companion to the audio of Yura all loopy, how about his reaction when Beka tells him about it? Just an idea, since I can't afford a commission. I absolutely love you audios, I check your blog like everyday to check if you've added a new one. Hope you have a nice day, Hugs xx

I actually considered that! I just didn’t quite know how I’d do and I scrapped the idea. Thank you!

prettyprompto  asked:

This has been a recurring thought since like the second to last update Bro. How do you think Prom feels, not being the only photographer anymore? I mean, Noctis can almost, sorta, kinda ( Prompto: Dont you fucking say it Mun!) Get better pics rhan him, situation depending of course. With Prompto's need to feel wanted, useful and his ( headcanon variant) need for praise, how do you think he'd handle Noctis showing off HIS pics all the time? This is my first ever submission to anyone.

GASP! Did I get to pop your ask cherry?! I’m so honored!

Originally posted by cultfactory

This is actually a really interesting question! I hadn’t thought about it much until now, but I imagine Prompto must get a little miffed about the whole situation. I mean, Noct is a prince, which means he basically already gets everything handed to him anyway. But then he gets to go to the Chocobo-Moogle Carnival alone, and THEN comes back with a brand new, state-of-the-art camera that he won’t let Prompto even touch?! 

So not fair!

And yeah, Iggy and Gladio dote all over him and say his pictures are great, he is such a natural (God, Ignis, get your head out of his ass already!) but Prompto swears it’s only because he gets to spend so much time taking each shot. Seriously, Prompto is flashing his camera while they’re running through dungeons and beating up MTs and junk. Noct just…stands there. He will literally stop everyone in the middle of whatever they’re doing and stand around for hours just clicking away. Even a royal monkey could get a few good photos out of that! Gosh!

(Forgive Prompto, he’s still just salty about not getting to go to the Carnival)

Thanks for the ask, friend!!! Also I loove your icon! Prom cosplay? :3

anonymous asked:

i've been hanging out a lot with mr. fawkes lately, and we may or may not have gotten to a couple bases before, but i'd really like to go all the way with him, maybe even make something official. how do you think he'd respond..?

Hmm..Mr. Fawkes is a hard one to read, seeing how he’s usually all over the place (at least from what I’ve seen.) But, if he feels the same way that you feel about him and you’re past awkward moments his reactions might vary from excitement to confusion. When you do ask him/tell him be blunt about it, he usually doesn’t catch all the hints.

anonymous asked:

When do you think they will fix up Hel's mastery skins? I'm not sure of how popular she is or if she is anywhere on HiRez's radar so I thought I'd ask. How likely do you think it is that they remodel her design?

We’ll probably have to wait until she gets a new skin, it seems. I think she’s one of the gods that more desperately needs it, though, partly because she has so much weird metallic skin on display.

I don’t think they’ll remodel her visual design at all, maybe some texture updates if anything. But she looks pretty good.

pidge: keith i have a gay problem and need the help of a gay who is more experienced

keith: ok. what is it?

pidge: i like this girl but there’s no way she likes me back and i dunno what to do about it

keith: nothing. absolutely nothing. you do nothing, and then you do your best to ignore it but it’s just eating at you and it’s so hard to pretend it’s not there so then you watch ten thousand heteronormative hallmark movies but eventually you start getting daydreams about how great your life would be if you actually were dating and how much fun you’d have doing the cheesiest coupley stuff and you aren’t even paying attention to the hallmark movies anymore they’re just lights and sounds in the background of your daydreams but we’re in space so you don’t even have the hallmark movies so you just go straight to the daydreams and you get this idea in your head that if you two date you’ll finally be a happy functional person and you won’t have any more problems ever and you know that’s not true but you still wanna believe it anyway and now the crush is getting bigger and bigger and you’re even more of a mess and you talk to your friend about it since he says he’s always there if you need someone to listen so you think that’ll help a little bit but it turns out it doesn’t because your friend is an asshole and says “well why don’t you just tell him?” but if i could tell him then this wouldn’t. be a problem, shiro!

keith: (breathing heavily)



pidge: actually i think i’m gonna go to lance

keith: …good plan.