how do you act

but have you ever met a man who didn’t want to tell you his thoughts on how women should be acting, dressing, thinking, what they should be grateful for, how they should act, what they should be doing? have you ever even seen one who didn’t feel they had the absolute right to be an authority over women? who didn’t feel entitled to dictate women’’s behaviour and priorities, even her feelings? 

Men can’t wait enough to tell you what you should be doing or thinking as if their thoughts on it are more important than yours, as if what they want you to be doing is more important than what you yourself want, as if you should be listening to them before you even listen to yourself! Men are not an authority over women, and it’s time for them to accept that.

I’m so sensitive about Kara Danvers, as soon as I see someone saying something bad about her I’m like

anonymous asked:

hi—i'm here for the 'even more 7x12 discussion' group meeting? let's pore over it some more! after hours of study, i think my (current) fave part is after rick talks about "the two of us, you and me reordering thangs together" (*sob*) and michonne says that soft "yeah" and he smiles this small, tender, and proud ghost of a smile and it breaks me into precisely 712 pieces because riiiick! you angel. you gruff, no-ass having, utterly in love, fool of an angel. i just really love him, ashley. god.

“you angel. you gruff, no-ass having, utterly in love, fool of an angel.” I want this tattooed on my neck.

Okay, but somehow, I missed this in my 8430 viewings of this episode, but bless you for bringing it to my attention. Even though it makes me wanna cry, because the way he stares at her for a beat before the smile even starts to tug at his lips is just a little bit too much. And when he does smile, you see it in his eyes more than anything, and I’m not sure how he manages to express in this millisecond just how thankful he is for this woman. And I just adore that he’s so genuinely happy with her, and soft with her in a way that reminds me of his scenes with Judith. So thanks, show, and more specifically, Andy Lincoln, for allowing this hardened soul to be so unabashedly affectionate. And for saving such tender moments for the love(s) of his life. 

They met up over winter break.

Kei’s trying his best to school a face of indifference but he can’t because Kuroo’s here and Kuroo’s standing right next to me and Kuroo’s taking a selfie with me and Kuroo and Kuroo and

I apologize for the delay! I started this about two weeks ago, but then I suddenly got really, really into needle knitting and neglected to work on it (I am currently donning my freshly knit teal garter-stitch scarf I named Orange. I am content and currently in the middle of a cream-coloured mistake-stitch scarf (◡‿◡✿)). 

I drew this in celebration of my city finally getting some epic snowfall. I’m so excited for the holidays!

I used FireAlpaca to make this! Thank you to the anon who recommended this software to me ( ˘ ³˘)♥, I quite like it.

Thank you reading and uh, looking at my drawing teehee

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Are they gonna cut the body open? Oh, my god! Would you just…stop talking? Just…shut your mouth. Please. What am I doing? How can you act like that. Am I supposed to be changing my clothes a lot? Is that the helpful thing to do? The way you behave– Nobody will tell me. Because it’s not okay for you to be asking these things!

hamilton song asks (1)

alexander hamilton: are you proud of where you come from?

aaron burr, sir: who do you look up to most?

my shot: what motivates you most?

the story of tonight: describe your friend group

the schuyler sisters: do you have siblings, and if so, what’s your relationship with them like?

farmer refuted: do you find it easy to stand up for what you believe in?

you’ll be back: is there anyone you miss right now?

right hand man: tell us about your best friend

a winter’s ball: tell us about your first kiss

helpless: how do you act when you have a crush on someone? do you play it cool or are you awkward with them?

satisfied: have you ever made a big sacrifice for someone else?

the story of tonight (reprise): do you have a group chat? what’s it called?

wait for it: what’s your motto?

stay alive: do you make plans or do you go with the flow?

ten duel commandments: do you follow the rules?

that would be enough: what is your idea of happiness?

guns and ships: can you rap?

history has its eyes on you: if you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would you pick?

yorktown: have there been any moments in which your life has changed completely?

what comes next: where do you see yourself in five years?

dear theodosia: do you want kids?

non-stop: are you a hard worker?

  • poor person: I HATE OBAMACARE. IT'S HURTING PEOPLE.
  • them: so how do you feel about the affordable care act
  • poor person: oh I love that it's finally given me the much needed medical treatment i've been seeking my whole life
  • them: INSTEAD OF TELLING YOU THERE'S NO DIFFERENCE I'M GOING TO LAUGH. HAHA IDIOT YOU'RE CLEARLY AT FAULT FOR THIS YOU FUCKING MORON I'M GLAD YOU'RE GOING TO DIE AT THE HANDS OF OUR GOVERNMENT BECAUSE YOU FELL VICTIM TO THEIR PROPAGANDA BECAUSE YOU'RE CLEARLY THE PERSON 100% AT FAULT HERE
  • me: so like ... the republicans intentionally mislead people to believe these lies but youre blaming poor people who don't know theres no difference because they've again intentionally been mislead and thought they were simply helping other poor people from suffering at the hands of something they have been, again, mislead to believe was horrible and harmful.
  • them: THEY DESERVE IT LOL.
  • me: k.
Me listening to Hamilton
  • Act 1: Man this is great! Alexander you're doing great!!
  • Act 2: *running around on fire* HOW DID YOU FUCK UP THAT FAST ALEXANDER?!?!
*PSA* BLOGS ARE ALLOWED TO SAY THEY DON’T WANT TO INTERACT WITH CERTAIN PEOPLE

If a mun wants to block or not interact with someone, all they should need to say is that they don’t want to deal with them. That’s it. They are not obligated to explain themselves beyond that, because it’s their choice. And if they do offer more explanation, you aren’t allowed to harass them about it. The Tumblr experience is defined by who each person follows, and who they talk to. 

PEOPLE ARE ALLOWED TO USE THE TOOLS AVAILABLE TO MAKE THEIR EXPERIENCE ENJOYABLE FOR THEM.

Continuing to pester someone for their reasons, or to dig up past issues is harassment, plain and simple.
Guilt-tripping someone because you don’t think their reasons are legitimate is also harassment, and obviously not OK.
If you disagree with either of those points, here’s something you might not realize: They also apply to you. Don’t like how someone is acting? Unfollow them.
Do they keep popping up on you dash? Block them.
And you’re not obligated to explain yourself, either.

This has been a PSA.

20 ideas for being kind

1. Be resolved to become a kind person. How do you do this? Think, speak, and act with kindness.

2. Love kindness. When you do what you love, you are happy. A master of kindness is a master of joy.

3. When encountering someone, let your first thoughts be, What kind words can I say to this person and what kind things can I do?

4. Keep asking people, What can I do for you?

5. Everyone needs encouragement. Ask yourself, What can I say that will be encouraging?

6. Wherever you are, you are there for a reason. Ask yourself, Since I am here now, what kindness can I do?

7. Every kind person is unique. You have unique talents, skills, knowledge, and resources. Utilize them to help others in your own unique way. Ask yourself, In what unique ways can I be kind?

8. Do a daily act of kindness without letting anyone know who did it.

9. Learn from every kind act you see or read about. Ask yourself, What can I learn from this to be kinder?

10. A valuable rule is, Even if you do not feel like a kind person, you can still act like one. Think of a kind act you can do that you do not feel like doing.

11. Think of a kindness telephone call that you can make today.

12. Think of a kindness note, letter, or email that you can write today.

13. View your own pain, distress, and suffering as tools for empathy and understanding. Ask yourself, How can this experience help me be a kinder person?

14. Keep asking yourself, If I were this person, what would I want others to do for me?

15. As soon as your recognize a need, volunteer to do something about it. Do not wait until you are asked.

16. Listen to those who need a listening ear. Listening to someone is a great act of kindness.

17. If you know that someone is looking for a job or needs to earn more money, ask yourself, What can I do to make it happen?

18. Be empathetic and compassionate. Be resolved not to cause distress, pain, or loss with your words and action.

19. Learn from everyone. Keep asking people, What kindnesses from others have you appreciated?

20. Pray for the welfare of others.

EXO Reactions ~ When You Get Leg Cramps From Trying New Sex Positions

Request: Just wondering, if you can do how EXO act and feel when you get leg cramps from trying new sex positions? Fluff please and thank you😁 if you can’t do it then it’s okay! I understand!
A/N: i did OT9 this time bc I’m doing a lot of work for the blog that I got plans for over the next few days. I’ll tell y’all bout it soon.

Sehun:

Originally posted by wooyoung

When Sehun notices your cramps and how awkwardly you were walking, he would try to stifle a laugh before carrying you to your shared bed and tucking you in nicely, making sure he didn’t hurt you. Next cuddling in next to you.

Don’t worry Jagi, my cuddles will make the pain go away,

Kai:

Originally posted by parkchny

As you lay on your couch whimpering from the current joint pain you were experiencing, Jongin pops out of nowhere with his beautiful aegyo and take away for two; scaring you half to death.

Doctor Jongin is here to take care after his beautiful princess! Relax and I’ll do all the work like I did last night*wINK WOnK*

Xiumin:

Originally posted by secrethideoutme

When Minseok saw you hold onto surfaces around your shared apartment to keep yourself standing up, he knew he fucked you up pretty bad the night before. Baby Baozi would insist on checking you over and not letting you move out of bed until you were all healed.

I knew I went down hard but damn, I didn’t know I rekt you…

Lay:

Originally posted by parkchny

As you kept rubbing your legs from the cramps you gained from the night before, you didn’t notice that Yixing noticed you constantly flinching in pain and was curious; when he begged you to kiss you better, you couldn’t deny.

I’m Lay the healing Unicorn, after all” 

D.O:

Originally posted by junyeol

Kyungsoo already knew the consequences of trying out new positions, so just before you woke up the next morning - BabeSoo had a nice warm bath prepared for you to relax your muscles and get rid of any cramps. 

Yes, yes ~ No need to thank best boyfriend ever *very cute fucking smile*

Suho:

Originally posted by qrishan

This little buttercup would sit and feed you ice cream and give you pain meds but secretly praise himself for living himself up to the rep of “SuDaddy” and trying to not show you that he was actually pleased with himself.

But be honest… I was really good though wasn’t I…?

Chen:

Originally posted by chenrrerorocher

Truly yes, Jongdae would comfort you through this very tough time of having bad leg cramps when he wrecked you (not going to mention how he had leg cramps of his own, why he wouldn’t get out of bed too.) but this little shit would troll and tease the fuck out of you about ituntil you LITERALLY kicked him out of bed.

Oh gosh, I’m hurting… Jagiya why would you…

Chanyeol:

Originally posted by porkdo-bi

When Park Chanyeol asked why you were whining about your legs so much, you told him that you think he must of fucked them up the night before because you have serious cramps in them. The poor boy would go all flustered just thinking about the events.

Oh shid, oh that… yeah oh… gosh…

Baekhyun:

Originally posted by yixingofficial

Baek was clueless as why you were walking around like a baby horse, when he asked what’s up; poor Baekhyun was scared for his life when you snapped at him telling him that it was his fault that you woke up destroyed because of sexual activities from the night before.

But- You weren’t complaining last night…”