how can you say this man can't act

INTP Cognitive Functions (in a nutshell):
  • Ti: If you think about it though, there's really no way to deny the existence of the supernatural. I honestly don't think it's a science vs. faith thing. I'd say to either believe or deny the supernatural would require at least some amount of faith. In fact, the only way you could probably put a complete lack of faith into this would be if you were to say, "I don't know, and I don't care" and be totally indifferent about it. The human brain is extremely infantile compared to the universe and there's probably tons of stuff we'll never even know because our brains simply lack the ability to comprehend them.
  • Ne: Aw man, isn't it cool to think about the avenue of possibilities though? Like, what would a spiritual realm even look like anyway? And if some kind of higher deity created our world, why would he (or she) stop there? I mean, there has to be other intelligent life out there in the universe. And there's no way we can really prove that alternate universes don't exist either. What if everything in life is like a mix of predetermined destiny and freewill, and every time we make a decision, new alternate worlds are created to compensate for the decisions we DIDN'T make? Heck, what if human ideas all exist in some literal form somewhere? I know it's rather abstract, but literally anything within the scope of the unknown is possible.
  • Si: Hey, guys? Can we think about this later? I just stumbled across this old television series from our childhood and someone uploaded all the episodes to Youtube. I'm kind of in the mood tonight to just consume an unhealthy amount of caffeine and go on a huge nostalgia binge.
  • Fe: No. NO! We can't do that tonight. Remember that old friend who stopped being our friend a while ago? Well HE MESSAGED US AGAIN. He still thinks we hate him! Oh my god. OH MY GOD. He's right though. Sometimes we do act really aloof and keep to ourselves too much. Is that okay? Is it okay to seclude ourselves like this for too long? Oh man, no. NO. We're hurting everyone we care about. This is not okay! We have to let everyone know we still care about them! Quick, what do you say when you want to tell someone you care about them but you want to sound genuine? We can't mess this up again! WE CAN'T. I don't know what to say to console this person AND I'M KIND OF FREAKING OUT RIGHT NOW.

“So I’m standing there filling up like I’ve done a thousand times before, and I hear a chunk. You know, the pump’s nozzle. The– the metal thing. The thing you squeeze, right? I hear a chunk. So I suppose, in my naivete, I took to understand that gas is no longer coming out of the nozzle, so I pull out the hose to put it back and whoosh! You know, I am suddenly soaked in gasoline. I mean, on my arms and my legs and my– my groin. So now I am in a panic, and I race home, I run inside the house, and I’m stripping off my clothes as fast as I can. I jump in the shower. It’s not until after I get out of the shower that I realize my gas-covered clothes have been soaking in the living room rug this entire time. I mean, it’s– it’s– the whole thing is just so stupid. I could have rinsed off at the station. Halfway home, I’m starting to realize– wait a minute– there’s a water hose right there next to the air pump. You know, for tires. Anyway, so that was my day. How was yours?”

ultra-smoakinolicity  asked:

Did you see the new extended promo for 3x05? Spoiler: Felicity gets kidnapped. Is it wrong I wanted her to get kidnapped again. We saw how Oliver acted in 2x07 when it happened. Now this man has fallen in love with our fave IT girl and some idiot takes her again. They say, "Never mess with a man's woman." And felicity is his. Someone fan me down or hose me down. 3x05 can't get here sooner.

No. It’s not wrong. I’m with you 100%.  It’s not that I want Felicity to get hurt, but Oliver saving her is one of the few ways he can show his love for her.  Also….it’s fucking HOT every damn time.

If the gods are kind they will smile upon us and Oliver will have to save Felicity. Why is this so damn important to me? He’s never saved her KNOWING he was in love with her. Oliver was enraged when he was obtuse about his feelings. I wonder what his reaction will be when Felicity is in actual danger and he KNOWS he loves her.


anonymous asked:

You seem to be the voice of the fandom. new to the fandom and what I can't understand how people can claim to adore these stores them be so disrespectful. They don't have to live his wife but to start getting crazy with all the stemily GIFs and saying how tough it must be for ERB to be in love with a married man. Seriously people learn the difference between and acting and real life. Even if more what's happening how is making is life hell supportive

I would’t call me the voice of the fandom but it’s sweet of you to say so. Welcome to the fandom! Happy to have you.

For the most part I think the fandom is very respectful to Stephen and his wife. Who, by the way, I saw in person and she’s freaking STUNNING.  I mean…WOWZA.  It was very hard not to stare, which let’s be honest I totally stared. Their baby girl is one genetically blessed child.

I think for the most part when fans are making Stemily comments or gifs or vids are just enjoying the friendship between the two. From what I saw Stephen and Emily seem to have a close friendship and there’s nothing wrong with celebrating that or enjoying. In fact the entire cast seemed close and that’s just fun to watch. Completely harmless and even sweet for fans to be supportive of their friendship.

I do recall one gif set from the Flarrow screening that catches Stephen checking out Emily’s legs all the time. I didn’t get upset about it. I found it hysterical. It was pretty obvious. The person wasn’t saying they were in love, they were just making an observation. My personal attitude about something like that is just because Stephen is married doesn’t mean he’s dead. He’s a red blooded male. The day they stop looking my friend. If my husband didn’t pause at the Victoria Secret commercial I would worry there’s a brain tumor.  Emily is stunning and was wearing some smoking shorts that showed off her equally smoking legs. I was checking her out. And I’m straight. The fans that comment on that stuff are just having harmless fun. 

But you are right, there is another level to that. Fans that want Stephen & Emily together romantically. I am not one of those fans. Why? Because Stephen and Emily are not Oliver Felicity and that’s the couple I’m in love with. Sucks they are fictional but them’s the breaks.

In fact I stopped shipping real life couples since Brad & Jen broke up. My poor heart just can’t take it. That being said, there use to be rumors David Boreanaz and Sara Michelle Gellar were hooking up and I’ll admit back then I was thrilled by that. There’s something exciting about the idea of the two people who play your favorite couple being together in real life. And if Emily & Stephen were both single I wouldn’t have an issue with it.

But you are right Anon. Stephen is married. I am also married and believe it’s a relationship that should be respected. Marriage means something and disrespecting anyone’s marriage, famous or not, is wrong. If fans are being cruel towards Stephen’s wife or saying EBR is in love with him that’s wrong and highly inappropriate. 

But the inappropriate fans are rare, at least in my experience so I think it’s best just to ignore them. They aren’t a real threat to Stephen’s marriage. It’s sad that they are disrespectful but that says way more about them as a person than anything else.