how can you go wrong with that

also ok i need to shut the fuck up but when they include a tjlc-insert of a little girl trapped on a crashing plane, crying because everybody else is asleep and doesn’t realize what’s so deeply wrong, and sherlock finds her and talks to her and tells her she’s so brilliant, she’s so smart, i will help you land the plane, i’m so sorry for what’s been done to you……i’m always talking about how all you need to believe tjlc is to look to the show itself and like, what am i supposed to do with that? writing us into the show like that (AGAIN!!!!) is the most tender and heartfelt apology i can think of

and obviously when this is all exposed they’re going to talk about us publicly and apologize again and say “here are their inserts that we wrote into the show” so everybody else knows too

anonymous asked:

Where do you get the courage to keep going when so many people and forces are surrounding you trying to shut you up. How do you push through?

It’s having good friends. Friends who know you and can assure you that you’re on the right track. Knowing God loves you no matter what and you’re allowed to be wrong and make mistakes and not have all the answers and you’re still loved.

okay guys, it’s a little baffling to me that people are reacting the way they have to @townstarfell’s posts, because a person of color has spoken out about the inequality pervasive in qr code designs and instead of listening and learning, people are whining about being attacked and how much time it takes to make different skin tones and threatening to take away their qr codes because people are asking for diversity??? honestly I’ve seen a number of ridiculous things said on this subject and I just want to say that if you think @townstarfell is in the wrong you can go ahead and unfollow me. I’ll be making new posts for all of my qr designs that reveal skin to include a full range of skin tones, and I apologize for not having done so in the past. I hope other qr code designers can recognize that the “inconvenience” of taking time to be inclusive is a pretty sad excuse for talking over poc and deciding that a little bit of your time is more important than helping to dismantle the assumption of light skin as the “default”

Namjoon:
I feel like he would be prepared for this precise situation. You spoke to him about this in the beginning of your relationship. He would be observant of your actions. Analyze and listen to you after the call from her father. He would then take you in his arms and hold you. He would agree that the verbal insults and the emotional damage your father had done in the past were wrong. “Baby, try giving him a chance, maybe he’s actually sorry? I’ll go with you”. He knew how much you have longed to have your father back into your life. “We’ll be careful about meeting him and if anything goes wrong we can leave.” You would definitely feel conflicted but family was a big thing to you and Namjoon.
He would support you no matter what but also try to push you into the right direction.

Hoseok:
You would be chatting away like always enjoying each other’s company until you got an unexpected call from your estranged father. He would beg and plead for your forgiveness for all those years of emotional abuse. The tears would fall from your cheeks and right away Hoseok would be at your side, hugging you and stroking your face lovingly. “Baby, it’s okay…but maybe he means it?” His embrace would be gentle and he’d whisper encouraging words to you. Although he didn’t know the pain you felt, it felt as if he was in pain too. He didn’t know your father besides the words you’ve spoke about him but he had hope that maybe you could reconcile. When you first told him about your father he felt anger, he was livid on the inside but he saw how much pain you were in and knew you still wanted your father. He would suggest taking the chance on him. “Let’s try, together okay?”

Yoongi:
It would be the middle of the day, you and Yoongi would be laying in bed enjoying one another’s company. He was tired and you knew that so you guys decided on a nap. Until your phone rang surprising the both of you, checking to see who it was your expression becomes grim. Yoongi could already feel your discomfort and sits up to look at your phone. “(Y/N) I know it’s been complicated for you and I know how much he hurt you” He would look at your with a serious but loving glance “But if you decide to let him back in I’ll be here for you”. He would understand your feelings and not push you. 

Jungkook: 
Upon hearing the news of your father wanting to meet with you and reconciling after all these years he wouldn’t be sure how he should react. He didn’t want to upset you but he also didn’t want you to just not try. “Do you want to see him?” he would ask you and take your hand in his. He would then look at you lovingly and try to search for the answer in your eyes. “Jagi, I know you wanted his love when you were younger and I know you still want his love now”. He would want you to fix what you felt was broken all these years. Then he would grasp onto your shoulders and give you loving words. Smiling his innocent smile. “We can do this Jagi”

Jimin:
You guys would be out shopping for groceries and things you needed until you got a call from your father. Upon seeing who it was he would immediately pull you into a secluded area and look you straight in the eyes. Biting his lip nervously, he knew it would be a matter of seconds before you broke down. “Baby, it’s okay, I know you want this.” You would look into his eyes and see nothing but his sincerity. The loss of your father at a young age affected you and having him come back out of nowhere shocked you and made you nervous. Jimin would see you internal struggle and would give you the tightest hug, “Baby I love you, I don’t think you should let this pass you”. 

Jin: 

In the midst of you and Jins binge watching marathon you would receive a call from your father. Begging and pleading you to come back and join the family once again. Telling you he was sorry for the way he treated you during his drunken days. The look of sadness and hurt would be obvious in your face that Jin wouldn’t even have to ask who it was. He would sigh slightly, this had happened before and you had denied your father and family once before due to the pain you felt. While your father spoke to you, you would feel Jins hand over yours, stroking it to let you know he was here. He would give you a knowing look, a look that said “please do this (Y/N) or you’ll regret it when it’s too late”… You would decide to give it a go because this was something important to you and because Jin would be there to support you. 

Taehyung:
Tae wouldn’t be aware of your running away from your parents. It takes a lot for you to fully trust someone to tell about it and you felt it was time to tell him. The moment you were about to do so your phone started to ring with the words “Father” blinking on it. Tae looked at you expecting you to answer your call until he realized you were going to. “Its your dad (Y/N), why aren’t you answering him?” the pained look in your eyes would make him hesitate and question. You would bite your lip in frustration and tell him then and there about the emotional abuse you dealt from your father and how you left home. He would listen, nodding his head every now and again to let you know he was listening and that he understood. “I’m glad you told me Jagi, take the time you need and then talk to him” he would reassuringly say and take you in his arms. “He’s still your father (Y/N) maybe this…can be fixed?” He would have hope for a better future and relationship between you and your father.

… It… Just occurred to me

Before Hawke told Anders they loved him, how long had it been since he’d heard those words, directed at him? Did Karl ever tell him, or had they desperately tried to avoid saying those words to each other, not wanting to jinx it? I feel like that might have been the case. They loved each other, but they never said it out loud.

So. How many years had it been since someone looked at Anders and said “I love you”? How many decades? Perhaps his mother told him, before he was dragged to the Circle. He was twelve. It’s been a good twenty years by the time he falls for Hawke. And all he’s heard in those twenty years is that he’s a mage, something wrong, something bad. Not someone who can be loved.

Help I’m. At work and I’m going to cry

nightmaremusic16  asked:

Sage.... You'll always be better than me.... No matter how hard I try you'll always be better....Take this as a complement....Bye....

Woah Woah Woah.

I’m going to say everything that’s wrong with this right here. No I’m not going to take this as a compliment. Not what so ever.

Lets chat!

Never NEVER compare yourself with another to the point where you’re putting yourself down. You can look at a person’s work and have that motivate you to do better but when it gets to the point where you’re shooting yourself down because of it, that’s where you need to stop.

I honestly dont know where this came from nor why, but honey, dont compare yourself to me in that manner. 

We all as artists, writers, content creators work at our different speeds and our own different ways. Some grow faster than others do. There’s nothing wrong with that. 

In the end, we are learning and growing. There may always be someone better than you, but you have to take that step to see that you need to work on to get going. That’s the honest and cold truth. 

I feel the same way when I compare myself to an artist that I look up to and that happens to be Jihi-chan. Her art is incredible and mine is nothing compared to her’s but instead of throwing myself down, I’m working harder to get to that the point where Jihi is art. She will always be at that higher level but it will fuel my flame to keep going.

I’m not saying I’m a fantastic artist in this message, no. I’m not implying that you arent trying hard enough. 

I’m saying, keep working! You are doing a fantastic job! Keep learning and growing! 

The only time when progress and growths stops is when you stop working. 

It kills me to see people say these things…. Really it does…

Just know I’m proud of you and so are many other people. 

Never give up or believe you’re going no where.

You’re progressing. You really are.

toastif  asked:

I don't think you should apologize for wanting to feel included, if acnl had a transparent option in qr making this wouldnt even be a problem though. I'm not an acnl blog but in the future when i do release qr clothes I'll be sure to add all the skin tones cause thats the decent thing to do and hardly takes any more effort. And not everyone feels comfortable enough to ask someone to go out of their way for them. Just openly including people without them having to ask would be nice.

thank you for this!! this is what i was trying to say in my first post about it but i think i worded things wrong, hence the backlash ://

and thank you so much for doing that for those, like myself, who have darker skin tone characters, i can’t explain enough how much i appreciate it ♡

also, you’re absolutely right about not everyone is comfortable with asking people that. i used to be too shy to ask for anything, in fear that i may be troubling the person and throwing their whole day off and i know there’s many people out there who still feel this way and that’s perfectly okay!

hopefully one day there’ll be more ppl like yourself and another person i’m currently speaking to who will make outfits for more than one skin tone without ppl having to reach out and ask ♡

I hope everyone has a great day. Except those that send Anon Hate and destroy the lives of others, I hope something comes along to destroy yours.

How many times do we have to say, don’t like, don’t follow, don’t read, walk away. Don’t decide to ruin someone else’s life just because they are getting attention you don’t think they deserve. Go make your own fun, don’t ruin other’s. Can’t make your own fun? Then maybe you are looking in the wrong place and need to go elsewhere.

You know, pronouns are kinda like names the more I think about it. I mean, you can look at a person and think to yourself Heeey they look like a Bob, or a Zara or a Steven. But 9 times outta 10 you’ll be completely off the mark, and you certainly wouldnt go up and address them by the name you attribute to them. You ask.

Sometimes it’ll take some time to get it right, to remember exactly wot their name is and how to pronounce it but if you care about them enough to get on a first term basis then you will keep trying till it becomes second nature

It just seems so simple (though I am but a mildly informed cis gal so please correct me if I’m wrong)

  • negan: you have one rule and that's don't cheat on me. i'm gonna fuck other people, but that's how this works. ok?
  • wife: ok.
  • wife: cheats.
  • negan: ok well you can leave or you can stay, and we count that as that guy pushed himself onto you. yeah?
  • wife: yeah.
  • negan: you sure? you could just go? you don't have to stay? this is your choice.
  • wife: nah he made me.
  • negan: ok well im gonna go deal with that then.
  • negan: *is still the bad guy*
  • negan: 〈(゜。゜)

anonymous asked:

Itaat ~ sometimes if I'm really happy I'll start flapping/twisting my hands really hard and I'm pretty sure that's stimming but I normally can't stop? Even if people are around me or I feel embarrassed. Is it normal to have trouble stopping a stim? :3

Yes. It’s very normal to have difficulty stopping a stim. Stims are our ways of regulating and expressing ourselves. Stimming is part of our natural body language. Trying to stop flapping when you’re really happy would be like telling a neurotypical to stop smiling when really happy. They’re going to have a really hard time or not be able to stop at all, just like we can have a very hard time stopping our stims. 

Rather than trying to stop your stimming, it might be more helpful to try to change your mindset regarding stims. Rather than being embarrassed, try to embrace that this is just a natural part of how you regulate and express yourself and that there is nothing wrong with it. Watch videos or gifs of people stimming to help yourself become more comfortable with seeing people stim. Try to accept this as a part of yourself. It may not be easy, but it will be worth it. 

-Sabrina

12 Steps For Self Care
  1. If it feels wrong, don’t do it
  2. Say exactly what you mean
  3. Don’t be a people pleaser
  4. Trust your instincts 
  5. Never speak bad about yourself
  6. Never give up on your dreams
  7. Don’t be afraid to say “no”
  8. Don’t be afraid to say “yes”
  9. Be KIND to yourself
  10. Let go of what you can’t control
  11. Stay away from drama & negativity
  12. LOVE
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@fgtmgt I have seen quite a few very sweet and very cute things for 100% Love, but for me personally my mind definitely is stuck on the idea that it would really be 100% Awkward instead so viola! I’ve drawn them around the ages I draw them for And Nearly Letting Go because I’ll be damned if this doesn’t take them years. I finally did a kiss hahaha

Mob doesn’t actually know how he managed to teleport, he’s going to have a long way home. In the meantime, Teruki will be having a complete meltdown because obviously the experience was so bad Mob felt the need to r u n a w a y

Bonus

*phone ringing*
Reigen: Mob? It’s rare for you to call me, what’s wrong?
Mob: I think I’m lost.
Reigen: What do you mean “lost”?
Mob: I don’t recognise where I am.
Reigen:… Okay. What can you see around you?
Mob: Cows.
Reigen: Cows?
Mob: Yes.
Reigen:What… Do you see anything else?
Mob:… Grass. And more cows.
Reigen: Mob, how pray tell did you get to be surrounded by cows in the middle of nowhere?
Mob:…
Reigne:Mob?
Mob: I… may have teleported here. But I don’t know how I did it. So I can’t get back.
Reigen: *wtfffffffffffff*

Happy early Valentine’s Day~ Kiss kiss

I’m so sensitive about Kara Danvers, as soon as I see someone saying something bad about her I’m like

How MM Characters React to Finding Out You're Pregnant

Jumin

  •  He already noticed slight changes to your mood and body before you did. 
  •  At first he thought it might be the flu, but that thought changes when you are too tired for your usual love fest in bed.
  • “I’m sorry, Jumin. I’m too tired tonight.”
  • Elizabeth 3rd also becomes extra clingy to you. 
  • Jumin makes you go to the doctor and they can’t find anything wrong. He insists to do further tests but you beg him not to.
  • “It’s probably stress, Jumin. I’ll be fine.”
  • Wrong answer. Jumin has cleared your schedule until he feels like you’re feeling better. 
  • A week later you realize your period hasn’t happened. 
  • Jumin knew this before you and scheduled another doctor’s appointment after asking Jaehee to research information on missed periods (poor Jaehee.)
  • He makes you go back to the doctor for blood work. Suddenly this all makes sense: The fatigue, your bras no longer fitting, and feeling sick. 
  •  The doctor walks in with the good news. “Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Han. You’re going to be parents.”
  • Jumin doesn’t say anything at first. His face loses color. The news is a surprise. 
  • “Sweetheart, are you okay?” You ask. You’ve never seen him this way before.
  • He nearly faints from processing all the emotions he is feeling on the way out of the doctor’s office.
  • Jaehee cancels all of Jumin’s meetings for the week citing “exhaustion” as the cause.  
  • Jumin holds you close to him later on that night, confessing he is both terrified and delighted at the news. He wonders if Elizabeth 3rd will feel jealous. omg really jumin. 
  • “I’m sure she’ll be happy too,” You whisper in his ear as you accidentally fall asleep on his chest. 
  • He admires the glow your face is beginning to show as you sleep peacefully. 

Zen

  • You’ve been much more emotional lately. 
  • Every time Zen had to leave on set you find yourself crying, but why?
  • You even beat yourself up about it. “Why am I acting so strange..?”
  • Zen invites you to come on set with him one day and you’re immediately say yes! 
  • You couldn’t help but keep refilling your plate with cakes from catering. Zen tries to crack a joke “You are what you eat, huh babe?” 
  • But it backfires.
  • It backfires BAD. 
  • You walk away sobbing. This is entirely out of character. 
  • “Wait! BABE! I’m so sorry!” He runs after you and pulls you in for a hug. 
  • You sob into his chest for a few minutes and then go silent.
  • He pushes you in front of him to see what’s wrong. “Babe…?” 
  • Your face turns white and you go limp in front of him. 
  • Zen FREAKS out and immediately yells for someone to help. 
  • He carries you himself to the ambulance and he demands you get rushed you to the hospital. 
  • The paparazzi outside of the set take photos of the incident. A video is uploaded to Youtube.
  • You regain consciousness when arriving to the hospital. “What’s…what’s going on?” 
  • Zen cries with joy seeing you’re awake and hugs you. “Shh. Just rest, my princess. We’ll find out. I love you.” 
  • He refuses to leave your side as the hospital runs a bunch of tests, but, you tell him he should get something to eat while they do an ultrasound. 
  • The doctor comes in a couple hours later and tells them it was a combination of exhaustion and dehydration.  “This is a common symptom in pregnancies. She’ll need to make sure she drinks more fluid and get rest.”
  • Wait. What? Both you and Zen look at the doctor with confusion.
  • The doctor informs the two of you that you’re already 13 weeks pregnant. He gives Zen a picture of the ultrasound showing a little baby bean! 
  • You start crying at news. It’s happy tears. Eventually Zen starts crying too. He’s just as happy. 

Yoosung

  • It’s not secret you and Yoosung wanted to have kids immediately.
  • You two tried every month for six months. 
  • You have a bulk stash of HCG strips in the bathroom, an ovulation 
    tracker on the your phone, and have read every article online on how to improve your chances at becoming pregnant.
  • Every month your period came, Yoosung started to doubt himself. 
  • “Is.. Is there something wrong with me?”
  • You’d hold him and reassure him. “Don’t say that. There’s nothing wrong with you! Sometimes it just takes time, I guess.” Deep inside, you wondered if there was actually something wrong with you instead.
  • After a year of trying, you both go to a fertility specialist to have tests done. 
  • The specialist tells the both of you there is a problem with your ovulation. They immediately start on you a treatment plan with fertility drugs. 
  • You act okay with the news, but in reality you are the opposite of okay. 
  • Yoosung finds you crying underneath the covers and panics. 
  • “Please don’t cry! It’s not your fault!”
  • Soon he’s crying too. 
  • By the third treatment cycle you start to notice changes in your body.
  • You start doubting your feelings. You try to remain calm. 
  • Every day you and Yoosung talk about all of your different things happening with your body.
  • When you take one of your test strips at home you notice a second faint line, causing your heart to skip a beat.
  • “Yoosung! LOOK!” 
  • Each test on each day has a darker, and darker second line. You two get hopeful. It’s been a hard two years, but it feels like you two are getting to the light at the end of the tunnel. 
  • You two are SO nervous at the fertility specialist. Yoosung can barely breathe.
  • The fertility specialist confirms what you two have been dreaming. You are pregnant!
  • Yoosung sobs tears of joy at the news.  You two are so happy to finally become parents. 
  • The fertility specialist interrupts the celebration with even more good news.
  • “There’s just one thing…”
  • He shows on the screen there are four baby beans. 
  • FOUR.

Saeyoung

  • Remember that one time he wanted to leave evidence he existed on you?
  • Well he wanted to do that again on your honeymoon. And then some. 
  • A couple months later you notice you are craving Honey Buddha Chips and Doctor Pepper more than normal.
  • At first Saeyoung thinks it’s really cute how much junk food you’re eating.
  • And then he realizes an entire giant box of Honey Buddha Chips are gone. 
  • He asks Saeran first if he knew what happened to them.
  • “Why would I eat all of your chips? I saw your wife with the box. Ask her.”
  • And then he wonders if maybe you’re emotionally eating.
  • What if she regrets our marriage? 
  • Later on in the day you visit Saeyoung in his computer room where he’s playing LOLOL. “Hey… Saeyoung.. we need to talk.”
  • Your voice makes him immediately spin around. He has tears in his eyes. “I.. I knew this day would come.” 
  • Your heart immediately sinks. “I’m.. I’m so sorry Saeyoung!”  You feel even more guilty at eating his precious Honey Buddha Chips as you add “I’ve been so hungry lately and they just taste so good. I’m so sorry for eating them I will never do it again!” 
  • Saeyoug looks at you confused. “Wait? You’re not leaving… me?”
  • “I WOULD NEVER LEAVE YOU.” omg you stupid idiot i love you. 
  • Suddenly you feel hot and sick. You run to the bathroom covering your mouth.
  • Saeyoung panics when he hears you vomit in the bathroom. It’s enough to get Saeran out of his room too. 
  • He’s never heard you this sick before and makes you go to bed. This goes on for a week. 
  • Soon he’s starting to search for answers online. He even goes to WebMD.
  • When you’re sleeping he calls Jaehee in a panic, worrying you might be dying and because you both are girls maybe she would know how women things work. 
  • Jaehee calmly explains to him that you’re not dead and dying. She suggests to him that you may be pregnant and should take a test. (I guarantee she facepalmed at the convo.)
  • A week later, you’re start having suspicions too. You look at the calendar and realize you haven’t had a period in two months.  “Could it be..?” 
  • You go to tell Saeyoung you think you’re pregnant and He confesses he already purchased a bunch of pregnant tests for you.
  • You think that’s the most romantic thing ever and hug him to pieces. 
  • He waits outside while you figure out how to use to use the test. How do girls pee on this thing omg. The test immediately comes back as positive. 
  • OH MY GOD SAEYOUNG WE’RE PREGNANT 
  • You rush out of the bathroom with the test in hand. You both are sobbing tears or joy together. 
  • You lean in to kiss him when you’re stomach starts to growl again. 
  • “Can.. Can I have more Honey Buddha Chips?” 
  • He’ll be glad to give you anything for you and the baby. 

Frodo: I can’t do this, Sam.
Sam: I know. It’s all wrong. By rights we shouldn’t even be here. But we are. It’s like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness and danger, they were. And sometimes you didn’t want to know the end. Because how could the end be happy? How could the world go back to the way it was when so much bad had happened? But in the end, it’s only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines it will shine out the clearer. Those were the stories that stayed with you. That meant something, even if you were too small to understand why. But I think, Mr. Frodo, I do understand. I know now. Folk in those stories had lots of chances of turning back, only they didn’t. They kept going. Because they were holding on to something.
Frodo: What are we holding onto, Sam?
Sam: That there’s some good in this world, Mr. Frodo… and it’s worth fighting for.

I’m scared.What if I’m never gonna get over you? What if five years from now, I’m still wishing for you to come back? What if every night whether its 2 or 3 AM, I’m still questioning myself; “Where did I go wrong this time?” Ever since you left, I see you in every little things. I remember how you love kids so much that every time I met one, they remind me of you. I remember you every time I saw your favourite TV shows, your favourite food, or things that you dislike the most. At first it made me smile. But then I remember that everything’s over. We’re over. I can no longer hear you talk about your day. I can no longer see the spark in your eyes every time you talk about the things that you’re passionate about. I can no longer hear your rants, your laughter, everything about you, I just don’t have it anymore. And it hits me. It hits me hard that I could feel the lump in my throat as well as the pain in my chest which would usually bring me to tears.  I’m weak, indeed. You see, it was never easy for me to let go.
—  Excerpt from a book I will never write #1179 // @bynoire on Instagram
I reach down into your throat in hopes of ripping
out my name but all I can grasp is hers. All I can feel
as my fingers tiptoe across your middle is how
swollen your core is; the beating she gave you left
blood pooling inside you in all the wrong places.
My jaw is not a promise waiting to be held by you, so
I’m sorry if I flinch when you try to. I’ve kissed more
knuckles than lips and I’ve learned that sometimes
they taste the same. Raspberry bruises you’d mistake
for love bites. There is no affection here.
I’m afraid I’m going to swallow her name in my sleep
and dream of the girl you’ll always want
more than me.
—  if it’s not her than it’s someone else // Haley Hendrick