how can it be that i didn't see this before

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Yeah, I’m sick of losing soulmates

Won’t be alone again

I can finally see, you’re as fucked up as me

So how do we win?

the moving goalposts.
  • trans woman: I'm a woman.
  • transmisogynist: No you're not, women dress femininely whereas men aren't pressured to wear makeup or maintain a feminine appearance.
  • trans woman: Well, I dress femininely, and I am pressured to wear makeup and maintain a feminine appearance as my failure to do so is punished with harassment and violence. So, do you consider me a woman now?
  • transmisogynist: No, you're not a woman, women experience misogynistic oppression, like catcalling and gendered wage gap.
  • trans woman: I experience both of those things, people see me as a woman and mistreat me accordingly. So, do you consider me a woman now?
  • transmisogynist: No, you're not a woman, woman is a biological class. You're a biological male.
  • trans woman: I'm on HRT, and my hormone levels are within the average range of cisgender women. I've undergone physical changes due to HRT that have made my physical body more similar to the average cis woman. So, do you consider me a woman now?
  • transmisogynist: No, women have vaginas.
  • trans woman: I've undergone vaginoplasty. I have a functioning vagina, labia majora, labia minora, and clitoris. This is very personal, but, i can, in fact, orgasm. Do you consider me a woman now?
  • transmisogynist: No, women have XX chromosomes. That's the REAL factor that determines our social role.
  • trans woman: So, are you seriously claiming that everyone goes around treating other people based on their chromosomes, a quality that can only be factually known by a medical test?
  • transmisogynist: Yes!
  • trans woman: But I've never gotten chromosomally tested. I don't ACTUALLY know what my chromosomes are. Have you ever gotten chromosomally tested?
  • transmisogynist: No, but–
  • trans woman: Then your argument is completely flawed. You know with certainty that you present as a woman, are seen as a woman, and are mistreated as a woman, but you believe that those things are totally disconnected? That, instead, your chromosomes are what people are really seeing when they look at you? That's completely preposterous.
  • transmisogynist: Well, what I really mean is, your birth assignment is what really counts, because that's when male socialization is initiated, which determines your entire mindset and outlook on the world, as well as how you treat other people.
  • trans woman: It is true that socialization influences how we view the world. But let me ask you a question, you are female-socialized, right?
  • transmisogynist: Damn right.
  • trans woman: And female socialization includes subservience to men, right?
  • transmisogynist: Yes, very much so. My parents were extremely traditionalist and imposed very strict gender roles on me as a child.
  • trans woman: But right now you're not subservient to men at all, right?
  • transmisogynist: Hell no. I'm a radical feminist, I'm a lesbian, I do not share the class interests of men and I work towards women's liberation from men as a class and, ultimately, the end of the restrictive system of gender.
  • trans woman: So, logically, this would be an example of how your gendered socialization DIDN'T control your outcome as a person. Sure, you had to actively resist that socialization, but you've moved past that.
  • transmisogynist: Yes, that's true, but the same can't be said about you, you're clearly male-socialized.
  • trans woman: Hell no. I'm a radical feminist, I'm a lesbian, I do not share the class interests of men and I work towards women's liberation from men as a class and, ultimately, the end of the restrictive system of gender.
  • transmisogynist: No, that's wrong! You can't be a lesbian, you're a male!
  • trans woman: Don't say that to my wife, she's gonna be pretty mad if you tell her she's not really a lesbian. She's been a lesbian for years, I seriously don't see how my gender is any different than the gender of her last girlfriend.
  • transmisogynist: You can't be a feminist, either! You're a male, there's no way you can understand the struggles of being a woman!
  • trans woman: Didn't you post one of my essays on gender on your facebook wall?
  • transmisogynist: Er, well, yes, but, that's before I knew that you were trans! See, this is more of your deceptive duplicitous behavior, concrete proof that you cannot overcome your male socialization or produce ideas that deserve consideration as contributions to feminism.
  • trans woman: But didn't you praise that shitty liberal Male Feminist guy's anti-transgender article?
  • transmisogynist: Yeah, but, at least he isn't calling himself a feminist, just a feminist Ally. So he's being honest and knowing his boundaries while helping feminism.
  • trans woman: And didn't you praise that conservative politician's proposed ban on transgender people being able to use the restroom? Why the hell would you ever side with a conservative? You realize that he's the same guy who has previously worked to defund women's healthcare services and repeal gay marriage? Supporting him in any capacity gives him political capital that he'll be able to leverage for future reactionary policies, because he is literally an anti-feminist politician.
  • transmisogynist: But he's one of the few politicians who's willing to stand up for a ban on transgender people in restrooms.
  • trans woman: Yeah, because he's an out-and-out bigot against LGBT people and women. He's literally creating legal contexts for male violence against transgender women, something that you've PREVIOUSLY stated you're opposed to, but now apparently you're for it.
  • transmisogynist: What male violence? It's just a legal protection for vulnerable women and girls in the sanctified space of the public bathroom.
  • trans woman: The male violence of police officers, prison guards, and prison inmates. That's the male violence that you're totally fine with exposing trans women to. If you really gave a shit about reduction of harm, you would support my right to use whatever PUBLIC RESTROOM I wanted, and support gender-neutral restrooms. After all, butch cis women have been harassed and gender-policed in restrooms in states where that law was in effect, and had security guards called on them. Isn't that a fucking travesty? I support butch women's right to use women's restrooms, and if you support trans bathroom bans, you DON'T. Cis and trans women share certain class interests, and often times if you work against trans women's' class interests, you're ultimately going to harm cis women's class interests as well. We suffer a wage gap too, which is why so many of us are FEMINISTS.
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Here, grab the handle. We can see how compatible we are. We made the heart glow! // …And it’s not working. Who cares? We don’t need some creepy old machine to tell us that we’re in love.

xxemoxxlizzardxx  asked:

Hello there! How are you? I hope that all is well for you. I was just wondering (and forgive me if it's been asked before), do you have an address that we can send you stuff? I looked around on YouTube, Twitter and your Tumblr F.A.Q section and didn't see this asked before (nor did I see a mailing address). Anyhow, hope you have a lovely evening.

I do not! But well done, for doing your research! ;P

I’ve been looking into getting a P.O. box though, just in case, but it’s $450 to get one so I haven’t really been able to afford one with the move and stuff as well. But if I do, I’ll be sure to let people know :)

ave-lauren  asked:

This isn't a question- but I would like to share a funny story of when I turned invisible before I even knew I was pan! I was walking around the playground in elementary school and nobody seemed to see me. I even walked right in front of two people and they didn't notice me. Has this ever happened to you? How do I keep my powers from doing that?

Yes! Occasionally, one’s Pan-Powers may begin to activate before one even realizes that they are pan. This can manifest itself in many forms, including suddenly becoming invisible, finding oneself spontaneously floating, and exhibiting the strange ability to communicate with pans. While these are a minor inconvenience, do not fear. As you begin to harness your Pan-Powers, you will be able to control and master abilities you never thought possible.

  • James: i should have NEVER accepted you in the quidditch team! if we don't win the cup, it's on you!!
  • Peter: what happened?
  • James: he didn't show to practice
  • Sirius: i went to the library
  • Peter: but i didn't see you there?
  • Sirius: *smirks* that's because i didn't go to study *winks*
  • Remus: *suddenly remembers he has sth very urgent that requires him to leave the room asap before someone can notice how oddly red he has become*

lalywonders  asked:

Okay, I got another one! How about, how would Todoroki, Kirishima, and Bakugou react if they had to go against his s/o in the competition? And the s/o didn't want him to go easy just because it was them. Does that make sense? I hope so. Anyways, THANK YOU!!!

YES I LOVE SHIT LIKE THIS

Todoroki:

  • Is very hesitant at first because f u c k did they not just see what I did to Sero??
  • Although assuming that this is before the Izuku fight then of course all out just means ice.
  • Unless the S/O can inspire my boi like Izuku does  (◕‿◕)
  • Still, he would start out the fight going easy because ya know this is someone he finally found that is really important to him and he wouldn’t be able to forgive himself if they got hurt-
  • But then the S/O just goes h e a v y and Todoroki sees how much effort they are putting in and knows it would offend them if he were to take it easy.

Kirishima:

  • Is worried of course, but glad that his S/O said that.
  • He wants to make sure they get to prove themselves!! Go as far as they can in a fair competition!!
  • Kiri makes triple sure that his S/O knows they can quit at any time if it gets too rough (pun intended)
  • Isn’t afraid to go hard from the beginning (lmao literally) because he knows how strong his S/O is and what they can handle.

Bakugou:

  • “FUCK YEAH LET’S GO!!”
  • Really though he would be so pumped that his S/O wants to have a serious match.
  • Would never admit it but he was constantly making sure his S/O had a way to avoid/block the attack.
  • As soon as the fights over he starts to sprint to the S/O
  • Realizes he’s in a very public place and is totally smooth in covering the hug as a handshake.
  • Fuckin smooth McGroove over here.
  • Barty: I thought of it first!
  • Bellatrix: No, you didn't!
  • Barty: Did so!
  • Bellatrix: I thought of it yesterday!
  • Barty: I thought of it two days ago!
  • Bellatrix: I thought of it before you were a Death Eater!
  • Regulus: Stop it, you two! Don't you see how crazy this is?
  • Bellatrix: Oh, you're right. We can both kill them. Together.
  • Barty: Cool.
Anonymous: I've been dating this guy for a while that I met on a Christian dating site. On his profile he said that he didn't want to date someone who was married before and I was married once. He wrote that he wanted "our first marriage to be our last marriage." I don't plan on ever telling until after he proposes to me, if that ever happens. How can I get him to see that being divorced shouldn't be something that would exclude me as a potential wife for him?

Anonymous: I’ve been dating this guy for a while that I met on a Christian dating site. On his profile he said that he didn’t want to date someone who was married before and I was married once. He wrote that he wanted “our first marriage to be our last marriage.” I don’t plan on ever telling until after he proposes to me, if that ever happens. How can I get him to see that being divorced shouldn’t be something that would exclude me as a potential wife for him?

Thank you for being open to share this. I hope you consider…

It’s deceitful to not tell him the important details about you esp. when you know he has concerns against some of them. It’s a lie to keep things hidden for your agenda of being engaged while he remains uninformed over something that you know matters to him. It’s manipulation to keep things in the dark while maintaining a “Christian relationship” and trying to change a person’s mind. Healthy relationships - whether Christian or not - do not operate on hidden details based on a one-sided agenda. It’s no longer Christ-centered and grace-surrendered when we do things our way for our benefit esp. when deceit is in the strategy. Sin gets in the way and sin doesn’t work for us. Sin is the very reason the LORD Jesus had to redeem us and enable us for what is best ♥

Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things. - Philippians 4:8 NASB

Dear sister, please seek the advice of the female mentors within your church so that you would be given more enlightenment on this. It will certainly help to have the advice of seasoned, married women under God’s grace :) Divorce is a serious concern not just for men and we cannot just say people have to embrace this. There is God’s work in marriage that people value.

I’ll be keeping you in prayers, dear sister. God bless you!

anonymous asked:

asdfdjfh i was watching your ig story and you draw so effortlessly it was so pleasing to watch! i'm such a slow drawer myself, i'm so jealous that someone can make an amazing sketch in like 5 seconds

agsjska i used to take 5 years to sketch but developing new habits definitely helped!! try not to lean in too close to your drawing and look at it as a WHOLE to have better perspective for proportioning.

when sketching, be daring with swiping and dynamic guidelines before you slowly mould your drawing into shape with heavier lineart! feel free to start wild!

lastly, hold your pencil higher so that your hands can draw more fluidly and your view of the canvas opens up!

Just saw Beauty & the Beast, & I can confirm:

Lefou is super fucking gay.

If you watch the film, watch his face when he looks at gaston: you’ll see it before the end. 

I’m not gonna spoil anything, but when asked “Why can’t you get any girls, Lefou?”, he has the face of “Jesus fucking christ I'm gay asshole”.

Sort how the Finn and Dameron interaction went, it’s subtle, so make sure you look for it.

Anyways, the film was great, animations were fucking fantastic, though I didn't really like Emma’s singing, it was very enjoyable (and gay).

If Cat was there instead...
  • Mxyzptlk: *appears*
  • Mxyzptlk: First let's set the mood.
  • Mxyzptlk: Candles. *Conjures candles*
  • Kara: Who are you?
  • Mxyzptlk: Then Music. *Conjures a band*
  • Kara: What the hell?
  • Mxyzptlk: Next, flowers. *Conjures flowers*
  • Mxyzptlk: And for the pièce de résistance, the ring. Kara, sweetest, it's like I said. I'm your one true love, your soulmate, your one true pairing as the kids say. My name is Mxyzptlk, and I love you Kara Zor-El.
  • Kara: I... uh...
  • Mxyzptlk: Tell me, will you marry me?
  • Kara: *gives a disbelieving laugh*
  • Mxyzptlk: *sings* I can show you the world-
  • Cat: Okay, Midichlorians, that's enough. This is not a Karaoke bar.
  • Mxyzptlk: Oh. Yes, the mentor. *strands* Forgive me, my lady. I-
  • Cat: You are wasting your time. Kara is mine, so you can just run along back to Camelot or Avalon, or the Shire, or where ever it is you came from.
  • Mxyzptlk: Madam, I am Mxyzptlk, a being from the fifth dimension.
  • Cat: Yes, yes, well, say hello to Buckaroo Banzai next time he passes through. Now shoo.
  • Mxyzptlk: I see. I've offended you. You have my most sincere apologies. I see that I should have secured your permission-
  • Cat: You are not listening. Kara is mine. She promised me her complete devotion, and I do not share what is mine. Now, go away.
  • Kara: Miss Grant, be-
  • Cat: Not now, Kara.
  • Mxyzptlk: She's given you her devotion as a student of course, but surely you can see that I'm here to seek her hand in marriage.
  • Cat: *rolling her eyes* I didn't say she was my student. I said she was mine.
  • Cat: *turns, and slips an arm around Kara's waist, pulling their bodies together, then lays a kiss on Kara's lips, bending forward and dipping Kara as if they're dancing while continuing to kiss her, drawing a long, deep moan of pleasure from Kara before standing them both up again.*
  • Kara: *whimpers*
  • Cat: See? Mine. Now, run along.
  • Mxyzptlk: I- see. My apologies. *vanishes*
  • Cat: *looks at Kara*
  • Cat: How do you get yourself into these situations.

damian, swatting away talia’s hands: mother! i know how to do this!!

talia, watching and waiting: alright, take ur time

damian, putting on his coat and zipping it up: see? i told u i could do it

talia: u sure told me, but aren’t u forgetting something?

damian, walking outside without pants: nice try mother, but i would remember if i forgot something

talia, picks him up before he can make it outside: pants, my son. u forgot ur pants. 

Togetherness (Jacob Frye X Fem!Reader)

Originally posted by mirindalawson

Hello Followers,
thank you for your patience once again. Here is another one and this time I took 41-year (well, he is 43/44 in this one) old Mr. Frye to the test. I mean, he needs love, too. And he is such a handsome man and had to go through a lot.

I hope you will enjoy this piece of Fiction. I do not have any knowledge about the bathing back in Victorian England. I googled but didn’t find enough or maybe I did not dig deep enough. (I actually just googled again to not look like a complete idiot in front of you and added a few things, heh)

A happy Fryeday to all of you. I hope my english followers are all okay + their families and friends after what had happened.

Title: Togetherness
Summary: Reader wants some time for herself but her dear husband thought otherwise
Characters: Reader, Jacob Frye
Relationships: Jacob Frye x Fem!Reader
Warnings: Very slightly NSFW at the end (but really, not much)
Words: 1.885

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In 1982 I invented butts
  • Geoff: Ryan thinks he knows everything.
  • Lindsay: He probably does. To his kids he does, hes a father so he can tell them lies.
  • Ryan: Oh yeah, no, you have to know everything for kids. If they see weakness you're fucked.
  • Geoff: Millie came to me one time when she was about seven and a half or eight and she goes "I was just thinkin' about something," and I was like yeah what is it and she goes, "you didn't really invent butts did you?" "Yes i did." She doesn't believe me anymore, but I had her going for about four years. I told her "1982 I invented butts and before that people didn't poop."
  • Lindsay: How did they go to the bathroom-
  • Michael: I can't believe shes onto you.
  • Lindsay: -what was your excuse for that?
  • Geoff: I told her that people just threw up.

anonymous asked:

My ex from three years ago recently hmu, it seemed super platonic and normal at first but it became more really fast. He started reminiscing about taking each other's virginity and how good I made him feel. A couple days later I see him in the store. He looks over at me and walks over. He whispers I want to have my way with the new you. He was so nice now. As soon as the door shut, he didn't hesitate to fuck me harder than before. He had me screaming and he only stopped to eat me and start again

anonymous asked:

How about reader from our world where tfp is a show, got sucked into a portal and somehow ended up in team prime base? The bots were doing their thing than a portal appear, dropping reader on the base ground, and left. How does each tfp bot react? All of them witness it. No one can say they didn't see it! I hope this is okay

(I respect your thought process, and I want to get mad, but that’s Heaven (sadly)!)

Optimus

  • He waits to see what falls before pulling any blasters, but everyone watches and waits as he walks up to you when the portal closes and asks if you’re alright?
  • *insert fan screaming in terror*

Ratchet

  • *high pitched squeal* “WHAT THE FRAGGG-!!!”
  • (You pretty much just both scream in unison.)
  • He screamed.
  • He wasn’t ready.
  • It was so out of nowhere.
  • He screamed like a little girl, but everyone was as freaked as he was so they couldn’t laugh.

Bumblebee

  • “eeEEEep!” he jumped.
  • He’ll admit he jumped.
  • He’s so comfortable at the base and it was out of nowhere.

Arcee

  • Eyes widen and she pulls a blaster, but other than that no outward reaction. 

Bulkhead

  • oH sHIT!
  • Blasters out and he’d ready to rumble if it’s the cons… somehow.
  • But then you fly out and wait. What? 

Wheeljack

  • Oh, slag …?
  • He has mixed feeling.
  • It was cool to see the portal open up (it wasn’t a ground bridge I take it???),b ut like a human? His human friend has earned her stripes, but still.
  • “Slag, kid, are you alright?”

Smokescreen

  • “Cool!” shuddup Smokey this is not ‘cool’.

Ultra Magnus

  • He’s frozen in confusion.
  • What.
  • The slag.
  • Was that?

anonymous asked:

Tbh I still love Sherlock. It's still the most important thing in my life. It's still the show that saved me when I didn't know how to cope. It helped me to understand my own sexuality and I can't really see myself letting it go.I'm still part of the TJLC fandom and I can think about season 4 and laugh about it. But I'm bitter. I feel like a fool, I don't understand why things are like this. Why is the writing so embarassing?They owe us some explanation but we'll never get it. I'll keep believin

Hi Nonny!

*HUGS* To be honest, Sherlock and its fandom saved me as well, and I love it to pieces. As I’ve stated before, like you it’s helped me discover myself, and I just will forever love this show because of it. And there are some aspects of S4 that I think are phenomenal, so it’s not a complete embarrassment. 

But the writing, what the hell happened? This show, in past seasons, was a critical darling in the media; they loved it, but even they are aware of the flaws of S4 and they only pay attention on the surface level of the story, so that says a lot about the fuckery of it. It’s okay to feel bitter about it, I can understand completely. Sadly I don’t think we will ever get an explanation for what we received, but that seems to be the norm for us as of late (that or bullshit excuses). But as I’ve said numerous times, Mofftiss can’t take the fandom from any of us; it’s still a wonderful place of amazing people who continue to make this show the story it should have been. I too will keep believing; for me that entails that one day the true story WILL be told about John and Sherlock, and someone will finally be the first to do it. I am sad that this series wasn’t that show, but I think it will happen in our lifetime.

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Met 3 talented friends ( @adziedoodle, @prettyprettypretties, @billacookie), saw 2 lovely dorks ( @danisnotonfire @amazingphil ), got 1 amazing book and 0 regret :’D