People who watch Supergirl but not the Flash should watch the Flash to see how a man should act. Young boys should look up to Barry Allen, young women should not expect anything less than how Barry Allen would treat them, Barry Allen is a sweetheart, not perfect, but an absolute sweetheart and doesn’t treat anyone with anything but respect unless they give him any other reason not to.
there's a post going around about how supergirl watchers should look at barry to see how a man should act, because man-hell is a bad example. but i feel...weird about that because JAMES is literally on supergirl and people who watch supergirl can just look at him to see what a great man looks like. james is kind, honest, respectful, a goddamned hero. like i love barry too but im so sick of james being treated like he doesn't exist.