I have a friend who thought she never would get pregnant and by accident did become pregnant. She’s 10 weeks behind me. However, it’s not with someone she’s with (in fact he wanted her to get rid of the baby and threatened her all that). He was also a coworker and so she quit her job because she couldn’t handle being around him anymore. I don’t blame her. Anyways, so she isn’t in the best situations but has a good home and all that.
What pisses me off is she will always non chalantly throw into conversation how lucky I am to have a job, husband, house, car that fits my needs etc. yes, I count my lucky stars every day but who are you to throw that in my face? I realize life happens, but it’s entirely unfair to compare our situations especially when I never ever bring up things that would differentiate our situations.
Also, I don’t feel bad that you don’t have a car that will fit your baby and large dog… you have a 2016 sports car… fucking trade it in. Oh and your 2017 Harley.. which I’m sorry you shouldn’t be riding while pregnant anyway. So no, you aren’t in this great state of despair either.
Anyways I needed to rant. I realize I’m in a good and planned position… but don’t rub it in my face like I’m all high and mighty.