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hot take can cis bi women in monogamous relationships with men maybe get some perspective and stop complaining quite so much about being mistaken for straight

i get that having your identity overlooked isn’t fun but you can talk about that without implying that visibly LGBT people have an easier time than you do… like maybe we get taken seriously in LGBT spaces more often but outside of those spaces we’re way more prone to harassment and violence bc we don’t pass as cishet but like! sure you really need to be writing 50 op-eds about the time a lesbian in a flannel said something mildly inconsiderate to you over coffee